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The Becoming Whole After Betrayal Podcast

Katie Davis
Betrayal
Pornography
Emotional Healing
Self-Improvement
Betrayal Trauma
Personal Growth
Boundaries
Emotional Regulation
Pornography Use
Mental Health
Healing
Healing Process
Relationships
Marriage
Pornography Addiction
Self-Worth
Recovery
Support Systems
Resilience
Emotions

I'm Katie Davis, and my husband has struggled with pornography use throughout our marriage. Sound familiar? For 7 years, I've not only overcome the pain of betrayal but found peace, empowerment, and confidence despite his struggles. And I'm here to show you how you can too. I've helped thousands of women heal, and I want you to know upfront: your pain won't magically disappear, and you can't fix h... more

PublishesTwice monthlyEpisodes93Founded5 years ago
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Latest Episodes

If you've been trying to get your husband to take accountability, be more transparent, or just change — you're not wrong for wanting that. But if you're honest with yourself, it probably hasn't worked. And deep down, you already know why. There are r... more

If you've been waiting for your husband to say the right thing, heal fast enough, or finally do something that makes you feel like you're enough — Savannah Paul was right there with you. She married knowing about her husband's pornography struggle, s... more

If you've been wanting to heal from betrayal but a voice in your head keeps whispering, "if you open up those wounds, you'll just be sad all the time" or "if you feel those feelings, you're going to wallow" – this episode is for you.

Maybe you've co... more

You know that feeling when you're spiraling in anger, resentment, or blame after your husband's relapse — and it feels almost good? Like you're finally doing something, finally justified? That's not healing. That's what Katie calls "dirty pain," and ... more

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Recent Guests

Savannah Paul
Content creator focused on healing from betrayal related to pornography use
Garden and Grove / Savannah Paul (Instagram)
Episode: Ep. 92 - Savannah's Story
Unnamed Expert Coach
A coach who teaches about nervous system regulation.
Episode: Ep. 82: How You Can Solve Any Problem

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Katie Davis
Host of The Becoming Whole After Betrayal Podcast

Reviews

4.9 out of 5 stars from 69 ratings
  • life changing

    thank you!!!!!! this podcast is helping me so much ! i only wish i would’ve found it sooner

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    sweetz.hall
    United States3 months ago
  • Hard topic made easier

    What a difficult topic to try to help others with, and she does it masterfully. Hope many are healed with your words and experience Katie.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Mandy beat
    United States4 months ago
  • Love her advice!

    I don’t have with a husband with a porn addiction, but her advice has still been so helpful with dealing with other types of betrayal behaviors our spouses can cause. Love her tools and tips, has been so helpful and healing to listen and apply. I feel her approach is not just to vent, but to get to work using her tools. I bought her journal and have started to work on it, and also highly recommend it!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    verah17
    United Statesa year ago
  • Katie is a master coach

    Katie is a master coach. I have found so much help from her podcast, and I actually recently joined her program. I am at the best place I’ve ever been after only a few months working with her.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Alicegleddin
    United Statesa year ago
  • We need this!!

    So glad you’re doing episodes directly for the wives! I’ve already put a few of your tips into practice. I’ve also been relieved by some of the things you’ve explained are common and not a bad sign 💕. I’m not LDS, I’m a Christian but I’ve found we share similar values and just learning how people work is so important. Thank you!!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    A-Joy-W
    United Statesa year ago

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Listener feedback repeatedly highlights how the show normalizes painful experiences while providing practical tools.
Several reviews emphasize how the host's faith-informed perspective offers hope and actionable steps.
Listeners appreciate the candid, compassionate approach to betrayal and recovery.
Feedback often notes episodes help with both personal healing and healthier relationship dynamics.

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Ep. 41 Answering YOUR Questions
Q: What does an interaction look like when your husband tells you he looked at porn?
Interactions have become less painful over time, involving open communication and understanding the underlying struggles behind porn use.
Ep. 41 Answering YOUR Questions
Q: Hubby just bought porn for the first time ever. He's been struggling for years, but has never used money to access it. How do I set boundaries around using our money to feed his addiction?
Setting boundaries should be based on self-love and empowerment, focusing on what will make you feel safe, rather than trying to control your husband's actions.
Ep. 46 Matt Answers YOUR Questions + Shares His Story Part 1
Q: What were your feelings like when you finally told Katie you were looking at pornography?
That was a weight off my shoulders; it was a look in the mirror moment realizing I had no integrity or honesty.
Ep. 46 Matt Answers YOUR Questions + Shares His Story Part 1
Q: What did you struggle with after coming back from your mission?
I struggled with pornography again after a period of being clean, and I didn't know how to talk to Katie about it at that time. I didn't want to hurt her feelings and thought I'd get clean first before sharing.
Ep. 47 Matt Answers YOUR Questions + Shares His Story Part 2
Q: What do you want to say to the wife of someone who's struggling with porn, or affairs?
Matt suggests that such women should validate their feelings and understand that the struggle is not a reflection of their worth. He encourages them to focus on self-improvement while supporting their spouse.

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