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Masculinity
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Brooklyn
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Tahoe, Ms. DajahBelle and Dj Trauma talk relationships, friendships, life issues, finance, sex, and everything about men that annoys women.

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Eight years after her first appearance on So Shameless, Tahoe’s daughter Denae returns to the podcast — but this time she’s grown, college-educated, building her own brand, and ready to put her father in the HOT SEAT! 😂

What is it REALLY like being... more

Part Two of So Shameless is here, and we’re getting into some conversations that might have y’all looking at us sideways!

We kick things off with a newly single mother of EIGHT children who wants to know how she’s supposed to get back into the datin... more

This week on So Shameless, we welcome special guest News With B to the couch for an eye-opening conversation about New York City politics, Black political power, government surveillance, and the decisions being made that could change our communities ... more

In Part Two of So Shameless, we're diving into some uncomfortable conversations about race, relationships, class, and the expectations placed on Black men and women.

We kick things off discussing reports of the Trump administration's efforts to addr... more

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Recent Guests

Marcus McNeil
Author and relationship consultant
Episode: Can You Be Pro-Black And Date Outside Your Race?
Chrys Childs
Media personality and businesswoman
Episode: Can You Be Pro-Black And Date Outside Your Race?
Kelly G
Host of The Kelly G Show and a mother who has worked with children since 2006
The Kelly G Show
Episode: Do Women Get More Grace Than Men? Feat Kelly G and Lama
Reginald (Reg)
Guest introduced as a contributor with podcasting background
What You Thought podcast; Pillars; Milf Shake
Episode: Can A Man Lead Without Being Controlling?? Feat @Ltleng
Coach Bellamy
From The Hard or Soft Raw show
Hard or Soft Raw
Episode: Putting The Medicine In The Candy
Preme the Prez
Founder/curator, Rich Flex
Rich Flex
Episode: Did Macklemore Totally Wreck Ed Sheerans Tour? / Is Lil Durk Really Not Guilty??
Alexa Layton
Guest, TV/Podcast personality
Episode: Why Does The Black Community Still Glorify The Streets??? Lil Durk, Keefe D and Why Women Love Simps
Chef Cream
Chef, rapper, and entrepreneur
Chef Cream brand
Episode: Are All White People Racist? InvestFest Backlash and What it Means To Not Have A High Racial IQ
Dj Trauma
Guest on the episode, discussed as part of a panel
Episode: Why Do Black People Hold On To The Pain Of Racism So Tightly???

Hosts

Tahoe
Host of So Shameless
Ms. DajahBelle
Host of So Shameless
Dj Trauma
Host of So Shameless

Reviews

4.7 out of 5 stars from 1.7k ratings
  • Dart

    Why do yall have Dart commercials playing 2x after every break. Do better. Please tell them you don’t want his commercial especially on a episode talking about so much black

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Mefourwheel
    United States3 months ago
  • Omg these guests are just dumb

    It’s too much that they say theyre in mental health?! Oh that’s too scary.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    kingtina
    United States5 months ago
  • New women

    Y’all should get new female hosts. I don’t personally think that a lot of women would agree with them. They super disrespectful. I do love the pod though

    Apple Podcasts
    4
    julieg2005
    United States8 months ago
  • One of my favorite podcasts I have listened to

    One of the best podcasts I have listened to, I don’t always agree with what they say, but they are entertaining and always have interesting view points. It’s refreshing to hear dialogue from every day people of different back ground debate and break down topics, while also make you laugh. And Tahoe has to be the only person who can sit and have an entire podcast just conversing with himself and still keep the audience engaged. He is a hilarious character with his high pitch rants.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Annoyed&fed.up
    South Africa10 months ago
  • It’s coo

    I listen from time to tome but must take a break every now and then due to the childish mentality The “pause” thing is getting sooo old 🙄😒. Also let Yesterday have a perspective. The cast seems to dislike hearing that man speak.

    Apple Podcasts
    3
    49er415
    United Statesa year ago

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Why Successful Women Struggle To Find Love But Broke Chicks Win
Q: Why do women with less financial success sometimes end up with wealthy, successful men, while highly educated, financially independent women struggle to find lasting relationships?
The panel offers different explanations, including perceived humility and appreciation, differences in expectations and tolerance, compatibility with gender roles, and the influence of transactional dating culture.
Why Successful Women Struggle To Find Love But Broke Chicks Win
Q: Can a man who built his reputation as a professional side dude actually settle down and be faithful?
Marcus says he has had serious relationships and can choose to be a good partner, while emphasizing honesty about his past and the need to understand one's boundaries.
Can You Be Pro-Black And Date Outside Your Race?
Q: Is being friendly to other men disrespectful to your spouse, or is insecurity being presented as a relationship boundary?
The panel discusses expectations of respect and clear boundaries while distinguishing those from jealousy and controlling behavior. They also note that partners may have different standards and levels of comfort.
Can You Be Pro-Black And Date Outside Your Race?
Q: Can you be pro-Black if you date or marry outside your race?
The speakers disagree about whether pro-Black identity requires choosing a Black partner. They distinguish supporting Black people from promoting Black culture and community through family and relationships.
Do Women Get More Grace Than Men? Feat Kelly G and Lama
Q: Do you think that women should be able to wear whatever they want?
Kelly says women should have that freedom and objects to making them responsible for preventing assault. Others acknowledge the importance of practical safety while agreeing that men must control their behavior and that women are policed more often.

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