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The Hard Or Soft Show

The Hard Or Soft Show
Relationships
Sexuality
Intimacy
Sexual Health
Consent
BDSM
Kink
Sexual Dynamics
Communication In Relationships
Polyamory
Relationship Dynamics
Play Parties
Masculinity
Sexual Preferences
Sexual Exploration
Sex
Communication
Masturbation
Mental Health
Kinks

Tahoe and Loon speaks to people in the sex community about things men like and don't like about sex in an effort to learn, educate and broaden mens horizons around exploring themselves and their partners desires, wants, and needs.

PublishesWeeklyEpisodes331Founded6 years ago
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Latest Episodes

Nut Navy ROLLLLLLLL CAAAALLLLLLLL!!!!!!!

This week we welcome Zeema of the Honestly Tho podcast to talk her getting favors and offerings from white men, dating white men and why she thinks it is easier to date them than black men, being turned off b... more

Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLL!!!!

This week we sit with The Sweet Love Sanctuary's own Goddess Jessi to talk balancing your energy, where Goddess Jessi originally met Tahoe and Loon, the definition of the word "Goddess", defining the Sweet Love Sa... more

Nut Navy ROLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLLLL!!!

This week we welcome @NYCThickums to talk women loving boyfriend d*ck, trying to be with someone with a smaller member and the adjustments she tried to make to make it work, testing the bewtyhole to see if men were... more

Nut Navy ROLLLLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!!

This week we welcome Markel Logan Coleman (@TheRealMarkel) to talk not telling the truth in the bedroom, how the miltary shaped some of Markels personality traits, having an affair on his then boyfriend with... more

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Recent Guests

Goddess Jessi
Guest, Goddess Jessi and founder associated with The Sweet Love Sanctuary
Sweet Love Sanctuary
Episode: 343. Damn My P*ssy Grew Alot!! Feat Goddess Jessi
Angie NYC Thickums
Guest, NYC sex-positivity advocate
This Bronx Girl Writes
Episode: 342. You Can Fk Her But NO CUDDLING! Feat @NYCThickums
This Bronx Girl Writes
Guest, blogger/writer focused on Bronx culture and lifestyle
This Bronx Girl Writes
Episode: 342. You Can Fk Her But NO CUDDLING! Feat @NYCThickums
Markel Logan Coleman
Guest on The Hard Or Soft Show, entrepreneur and media figure
86TV / Chasing Reality network
Episode: 341. Is A Little Delulu Necessary? Feat @TheRealMarkel
Mr Dominus DC
Host of Freak Frequency/Freakin' Seas, kinky educator
Freak Frequency Podcast / Frequency Podcast
Episode: 340. Being Gay is Actually Mad Lit Feat Mr Dominus
Marley Moore
Adult performer, stage name Marley Moore, previously on the couch and referenced as guest on episode
Episode: 339. Why Cant More Women Be Like Daphne Joy Feat Marley Moore
Lamark Fresh
DJ and entertainer involved in Lamark After Dark and related projects
Lamark Fresh / Lamark After Dark
Episode: 338. Are We Identifying Ourselves or Are We Being Branded? Feat Lamark and Chelsea
Chelsea Nate
DJ and performer, with a focus on sex-positive content
Bedroom Kandi partner brand / own shows
Episode: 338. Are We Identifying Ourselves or Are We Being Branded? Feat Lamark and Chelsea
Madam Se
Guest introduced as participating in Temple of Euphoria discussions on protection and predators
Temple of Euphoria
Episode: 337. Is There A Part Of The Spectrum Called Being Dicktistic??

Hosts

Devin Neer
Host of The Hard Or Soft Show; part of the core hosting team with a focus on candid sex discussions.
Tahoe
Co-host known for driving conversations around male sexuality, relationships, and kink with humor and candor.
Loon
Co-host providing male perspectives on sex, relationships, and education while balancing humor and vulnerability.

Reviews

4.8 out of 5 stars from 1.4k ratings
  • Great funny and insightful

    Have been binge listening to this show from episode one from when it was just a podcast to now it being a show. Gets my through my entire work days every week.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Annoyed&fed.up
    South Africa5 months ago
  • Sensational šŸ˜ 10/10

    The content in this show has been amazing. 🤩 I’ve learned so much and I have been stuck from day one… Thanks for the realness… Stay hard ya’ll!! šŸ† šŸ’¦ šŸ‘…

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Disappointed A F
    United States6 months ago
  • Love the content

    Idk how i found this podcast but i been binging this entire week! Ya are hilarious and give a lot of good insight to things lol.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    lj8591
    United Statesa year ago
  • Little bit of everything

    This is my favorite they get straight to it. I’m for sure hook.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    bball4 me
    United Statesa year ago
  • Comedy and facts

    This show gives you a little bit of everything. I enjoy all the opinions from cast and i plan to use some of them. It has me interested in other sexual and nonsexual content.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Gem lover009988
    United Statesa year ago

Listeners Say

Key themes from listener reviews, highlighting what works and what could be improved about the show.

Hosts mix humor with insightful, boundary-pushing discussions.
Open, unfiltered conversations make topics around sex approachable and educational.
Guests bring a wide range of expertise from BDSM to adult industry, creating a rich, diverse dialogue.

Chart Rankings

How this podcast ranks in the Apple Podcasts, Spotify and YouTube charts.

Apple Podcasts
#215
United States/Education
Apple Podcasts
#250
New Zealand/Education

Talking Points

Recent interactions between the hosts and their guests.

340. Being Gay is Actually Mad Lit Feat Mr Dominus
Q: How do you approach the idea of hierarchies in polyamory when dating multiple people?
Hierarchical vs non‑hierarchical setups are discussed; the guest emphasizes clear boundaries and mutual respect, and suggests that arrangements should be agreed upon by all involved.
340. Being Gay is Actually Mad Lit Feat Mr Dominus
Q: What is the core challenge in polyamory that you see in practice?
The core challenge is time and communication; partners must negotiate schedules, boundaries, and expectations to ensure all relationships feel fulfilled without coercion.
330a. I Turned A Hotel Into A House Party Feat Milo The Misfit
Q: What is the appeal of a hotel takeover from beginning to setup?
The appeal lies in the immersive, all-in-one experience where the space becomes the show; you check in, there's multiple party floors, themed events, and the freedom to explore, which makes it attractive and memorable.
326. The Art Of Setting The Mood Feat @EmannyMusic
Q: What makes a relationship sustainable in the context of sex and sexuality?
The group highlights honesty, respect, ongoing communication, and intentionality—ensuring both partners feel seen and valued beyond physical acts.
326. The Art Of Setting The Mood Feat @EmannyMusic
Q: How do you balance wanting to please a partner with your own comfort level?
Contributors emphasize prioritizing mutual pleasure, communicating needs, and sometimes choosing modes of play that satisfy both people without compromising comfort, including negotiating limits and sharing feedback.

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This show centers on candid, sex-positive conversations about modern intimacy, consent, and relationship dynamics. Across episodes, hosts and rotating guests explore topics from kink and porn culture to non-monogamy, communication, and personal empowerment, always with humor and a willingness to challenge taboos. The format blends personal stories, practical tips, guest expertise, and live demonstrations, creating an energetic space for listeners who want real talk about sex, relationships, and self-discovery. Noteworthy is the venue it creates for diverse voices—from BDSM educators to sex-work perspectives—while maintaining an accessible, entertaining vibe that appeals to both curious newcomers and seasoned enthusiasts.

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Recent guests on The Hard Or Soft Show include:

1. Goddess Jessi
2. Angie NYC Thickums
3. This Bronx Girl Writes
4. Markel Logan Coleman
5. Mr Dominus DC
6. Marley Moore
7. Lamark Fresh
8. Chelsea Nate

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