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The Hard Or Soft Show

The Hard Or Soft Show
Intimacy
Sexual Health
Sexuality
Relationships
Consent
Fart Fetish
Masculinity
BDSM
Sexual Positions
Sexual Education
Communication In Relationships
Communication
Vulnerability In Relationships
Masturbation
Kink Negotiation
Kink Education
Sex Workers
Submissive and Dominant Dynamics
Body Image
Sexual Wellness

Tahoe and Loon speaks to people in the sex community about things men like and don't like about sex in an effort to learn, educate and broaden mens horizons around exploring themselves and their partners desires, wants, and needs.

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Latest Episodes

Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CALLLLLLLLLL!!!!

This week we welcome one of the most electrifying guests we have ever had on the couch @Esmy_V to talk why she started an onlyfans, her first one night stand and her stance on sharing men she's had relations with, ... more

Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!!!

Welcome Back to another episode of the freakiest show on earth as we welcome our superstar friend Hope Giselle to the stage to discuss kinks we would not want people to know about, would the guys get a d*... more

Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!

Welcome back guys! This week we welcome singer and podder Emanny of the JBP to the couch as Tahoe goes on a rant about big meat merchants not ruling the world, using what you have to actually please women i... more

Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!

This week @ShyThugg joins Tahoe, Loon and Yesssterday to talk breast appreciation, giving tit jobs, not liking to ride, getting appreciated for her performance, the pleasures of nipple play, Tahoe not eating p... more

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Recent Guests

Esmy underscore V
Influencer/creator featured on the episode
OnlyFans creator
Episode: 328. I Can Share You But You Cant Share Me Feat @Esmy_V
Hope Giselle
Guest and trans rights advocate, documentary subject
Promotes her documentary project on trans representation
Episode: 327. I Was Like This Before I Knew What "This" Was
Shy Thug
I am Shy Thug and I am a minister of society. Now, I have a show called The Yappy Hour Show.
The Yappy Hour Show
Episode: 325. Nuttin Was The Same Feat @ShyThugg
Sir Sugar
Service top in BDSM; host introducing BDSM education and safety
Independent BDSM educator and practitioner
Episode: 324. Stroking This Brown Sugar BBC
Madame Sé
The Kinky Oracle, content creator focusing on sexuality and kinks within the BIPOC community.
Episode: 313a. The Healing that made the Healer Feat Madame Sé (Part One)
Alexis Jade
Spiritual advisor and advocate for Hoodoo practices
Episode: 311a. The Hoodoo Baddie Part Two Feat Alexis Jade
King Noire
Content creator and performer in the adult entertainment industry
Royal Fetish
Episode: 305. Im an Oral A$$ N***a Feat King Noire
Kasha Vannessa Johnson
Sexologist and author
Episode: 304. Im Not Swallowing No Sad Come Feat Kasha Vannessa Johnson
Stassy Banks
A personality who discusses sexuality and relationships
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Episode: 294. Eat My A$$ Until I Collapse Feat @Stassy.Banks

Hosts

Tahoe
Host of the show, frequently drives conversations and brings guest experts.
Loon
Co-host known for energetic banter and male perspective.
Courtney
Co-host contributing to conversations with guests and topics.

Reviews

4.8 out of 5 stars from 1.4k ratings
  • Great funny and insightful

    Have been binge listening to this show from episode one from when it was just a podcast to now it being a show. Gets my through my entire work days every week.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Annoyed&fed.up
    South Africa2 months ago
  • Sensational 😍 10/10

    The content in this show has been amazing. 🤩 I’ve learned so much and I have been stuck from day one… Thanks for the realness… Stay hard ya’ll!! 🍆 💦 👅

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Disappointed A F
    United States3 months ago
  • Love the content

    Idk how i found this podcast but i been binging this entire week! Ya are hilarious and give a lot of good insight to things lol.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    lj8591
    United States10 months ago
  • Little bit of everything

    This is my favorite they get straight to it. I’m for sure hook.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    bball4 me
    United Statesa year ago
  • Comedy and facts

    This show gives you a little bit of everything. I enjoy all the opinions from cast and i plan to use some of them. It has me interested in other sexual and nonsexual content.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Gem lover009988
    United Statesa year ago

Listeners Say

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Listeners appreciate the humor and practical relationship insights, with some calls for tighter audio balance.
Open discussions on niche topics attract a loyal, engaged audience.
Guests and hosts create a candid, sex-positive vibe that educates while entertaining.

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Talking Points

Recent interactions between the hosts and their guests.

326. The Art Of Setting The Mood Feat @EmannyMusic
Q: What makes a relationship sustainable in the context of sex and sexuality?
The group highlights honesty, respect, ongoing communication, and intentionality—ensuring both partners feel seen and valued beyond physical acts.
326. The Art Of Setting The Mood Feat @EmannyMusic
Q: How do you balance wanting to please a partner with your own comfort level?
Contributors emphasize prioritizing mutual pleasure, communicating needs, and sometimes choosing modes of play that satisfy both people without compromising comfort, including negotiating limits and sharing feedback.
326. The Art Of Setting The Mood Feat @EmannyMusic
Q: What do you consider freaky, and where do you draw the line on kink?
The panel discusses personal boundaries, explaining that freaky limits vary by person and that open dialogue helps partners understand what each is willing to explore, while avoiding stuff that feels unsafe or off-putting.
322. The Last Dragon Feat Messiah
Q: What got your nipples perking this week?
Nothing, my nipples are always hard, I'm just always sensitive during my period.
322. The Last Dragon Feat Messiah
Q: What got you hard this week?
I had my balls orally secured last night and that was a really good treatment for me.

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A candid, sex-positive show that explores male desires, dating, intimacy, and relationships through open dialogue with a rotating lineup of guests and recurring co-hosts. Topics span sexuality, consent, communication, kink, and mental health, often framed with humor and practical advice for better understanding oneself and partners. Noteworthy is the show's willingness to tackle taboo subjects, feature experts and community voices, and create a welcoming space for discussing sexuality in everyday life.

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1. Esmy underscore V
2. Hope Giselle
3. Shy Thug
4. Sir Sugar
5. Madame Sé
6. Alexis Jade
7. King Noire
8. Kasha Vannessa Johnson

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