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The Hard Or Soft Show

The Hard Or Soft Show
Sexuality
Relationships
Intimacy
Sexual Health
Consent
BDSM
Kink
Sexual Dynamics
Communication In Relationships
Polyamory
Relationship Dynamics
Play Parties
Masculinity
Sexual Exploration
Sexual Preferences
Sex
Communication
Masturbation
Mental Health
Kinks

Tahoe and Loon speaks to people in the sex community about things men like and don't like about sex in an effort to learn, educate and broaden mens horizons around exploring themselves and their partners desires, wants, and needs.

PublishesWeeklyEpisodes340Founded7 years ago
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EducationHealth & FitnessSexuality

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Latest Episodes

Nut Navy ROLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLL!!!!!

This week on Hard or Soft, Tahoe, Courtney and Yesssterday are back — and somehow we go from Tahoe finding out his daughter is sexually active to wondering why MEN don’t have their own version of an OB/GYN. 😭

Fi... more

Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CAAALLLLLL!!!!!

This week on Hard or Soft, we’re joined by Toni (@fantasyfitnessmd) of Fantasy Fitness, and somehow we manage to turn relationship advice, sexual chemistry and riding lessons into one completely unhinged conversatio... more

Nut Navy ROLLLLL CAAALLLLL!!!!!!!

This week on Hard or Soft, we’re joined by Dre for a deep dive into BDSM, kink culture, play parties, relationships and the history behind a community that a lot of people participate in — but may not fully understa... more

Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CALLLLLL!!!!!!!!

This week on Hard or Soft, Courtney gets an unexpected business opportunity when a fan propositions her for feet pictures — and somehow that’s only the BEGINNING of where this episode goes.

We get into why Ameri... more

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Recent Guests

Joelle Bliss
Partner to Dre, organizer of kink events in DMV area
House of Bliss
Episode: BDSM, Kink & Open Relationships- The Rules Nobody Teaches You
Daddy Doyenne
Becomes the guest sharing their journey as a non-binary, transmasked kink educator, dom, and burlesque performer
The Hard Or Soft Show
Episode: Our Traumas Can Determine Our Kinks Feat Daddy Doyenne
Kelly Moonstone
Singer, songwriter, rapper, producer; guest on episode
Independent musician
Episode: Great Sex vs Sexual Chemistry: What's The Difference? I Cheating, Pleasure & Bedroom Confessions Feat Kelly Moonstone
Goddess Jessi
Guest, Goddess Jessi and founder associated with The Sweet Love Sanctuary
Sweet Love Sanctuary
Episode: 343. Damn My P*ssy Grew Alot!! Feat Goddess Jessi
Angie NYC Thickums
Guest, NYC sex-positivity advocate
This Bronx Girl Writes
Episode: 342. You Can Fk Her But NO CUDDLING! Feat @NYCThickums
This Bronx Girl Writes
Guest, blogger/writer focused on Bronx culture and lifestyle
This Bronx Girl Writes
Episode: 342. You Can Fk Her But NO CUDDLING! Feat @NYCThickums
Markel Logan Coleman
Guest on The Hard Or Soft Show, entrepreneur and media figure
86TV / Chasing Reality network
Episode: 341. Is A Little Delulu Necessary? Feat @TheRealMarkel
Mr Dominus DC
Host of Freak Frequency/Freakin' Seas, kinky educator
Freak Frequency Podcast / Frequency Podcast
Episode: 340. Being Gay is Actually Mad Lit Feat Mr Dominus
Marley Moore
Adult performer, stage name Marley Moore, previously on the couch and referenced as guest on episode
Episode: 339. Why Cant More Women Be Like Daphne Joy Feat Marley Moore

Hosts

Tahoe
Host who anchors discussions with humor and openness; frequent across segments and episodes.
Loon
Co‑host known for pairing with Tahoe to drive candid conversations about sex and relationships.

Reviews

4.8 out of 5 stars from 1.4k ratings
  • Gr8 SHOW

    This show is very informative, seductively sexy and silly without being embarrassing. I enjoy the chemistry and the banter between the cast.

    Apple Podcasts
    4
    JCruztheArtist732
    United Statesa month ago
  • Where is loone?

    Where is loone , Did he leave the show? Where is court ,The episode this week was not it. Lowkey the last couple episodes been a blah boring kinda all over the place and not in a good way

    Apple Podcasts
    3
    Sooooamazin
    United Statesa month ago
  • Great funny and insightful

    Have been binge listening to this show from episode one from when it was just a podcast to now it being a show. Gets my through my entire work days every week.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Annoyed&fed.up
    South Africa8 months ago
  • Sensational šŸ˜ 10/10

    The content in this show has been amazing. 🤩 I’ve learned so much and I have been stuck from day one… Thanks for the realness… Stay hard ya’ll!! šŸ† šŸ’¦ šŸ‘…

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Disappointed A F
    United States9 months ago
  • Love the content

    Idk how i found this podcast but i been binging this entire week! Ya are hilarious and give a lot of good insight to things lol.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    lj8591
    United Statesa year ago

Listeners Say

Key themes from listener reviews, highlighting what works and what could be improved about the show.

Listeners praise the show for honesty, humor, and practical sex education.
Audience notes some sound quality issues but overall view content as insightful and entertaining.
Episodes frequently described as eye‑opening and empowering, with engaging guest discussions.
Fans appreciate community involvement and real‑world relationship guidance.

Talking Points

Recent interactions between the hosts and their guests.

340. Being Gay is Actually Mad Lit Feat Mr Dominus
Q: How do you approach the idea of hierarchies in polyamory when dating multiple people?
Hierarchical vs non‑hierarchical setups are discussed; the guest emphasizes clear boundaries and mutual respect, and suggests that arrangements should be agreed upon by all involved.
340. Being Gay is Actually Mad Lit Feat Mr Dominus
Q: What is the core challenge in polyamory that you see in practice?
The core challenge is time and communication; partners must negotiate schedules, boundaries, and expectations to ensure all relationships feel fulfilled without coercion.
330a. I Turned A Hotel Into A House Party Feat Milo The Misfit
Q: What is the appeal of a hotel takeover from beginning to setup?
The appeal lies in the immersive, all-in-one experience where the space becomes the show; you check in, there's multiple party floors, themed events, and the freedom to explore, which makes it attractive and memorable.
326. The Art Of Setting The Mood Feat @EmannyMusic
Q: What makes a relationship sustainable in the context of sex and sexuality?
The group highlights honesty, respect, ongoing communication, and intentionality—ensuring both partners feel seen and valued beyond physical acts.
326. The Art Of Setting The Mood Feat @EmannyMusic
Q: How do you balance wanting to please a partner with your own comfort level?
Contributors emphasize prioritizing mutual pleasure, communicating needs, and sometimes choosing modes of play that satisfy both people without compromising comfort, including negotiating limits and sharing feedback.

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Frequently Asked Questions About The Hard Or Soft Show

What is The Hard Or Soft Show about and what kind of topics does it cover?

A candid, sex-positive conversation show that centers on how men and partners discuss sex, intimacy, and desire. Across topics, it explores open relationships, kink, communication, consent, and body image with real-life anecdotes, audience input, and live demonstrations or brand integrations. The tone blends humor with practical insights, often featuring guests from BDSM, tantra, sex education, and open‑relationship communities. It's likely to appeal to listeners who want a practical, unfiltered look at modern sexuality, relationship dynamics, and personal growth, with a strong emphasis on honesty and inclusivity. A standout aspect is the heavy listener/community engagement and willingness to address sensitive topics head‑on in an approacha... more

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Recent guests on The Hard Or Soft Show include:

1. Joelle Bliss
2. Daddy Doyenne
3. Kelly Moonstone
4. Goddess Jessi
5. Angie NYC Thickums
6. This Bronx Girl Writes
7. Markel Logan Coleman
8. Mr Dominus DC

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