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Romp

Murry
London
HIV/AIDS
LGBTQ History
Manchester
Manchester, United Kingdom
Tokyo, Japan
Bangkok, Thailand
Grimsby
Theatre
LGBTQ+ Community
Catholic Church
Cleethorpes, United Kingdom
Brighton
Japan

Before Grindr, before the internet, before any of it — older gay men found each other anyway. Romp is the podcast that captures how they did it. Host Murry talks to gay men about the lives they actually lived — the cruising grounds, the contact ads, the saunas, the bars, the loves and losses of decades when being gay meant making it up as you went along with no map and no one to ask. Every episode... more

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In the final part of my chat with Mark we start off in Lincolnshire, moving quite quickly to Melbourne, Oz where he settles in to dating and the gay scene and someone gets a warm hand on their entrance....

We also talk about his meaningful tune for ... more

The 2nd part of three with Mark. In this episode we've moved to Japan (Tokyo) and will eventually move on to Thailand (Bangkok) and we will hear tales of bicycle theft, being both Gaijin and Hentai and the perils of dating when you dont know another ... more

Mark grew up in Grimsby in the early 1980s with no language for what he was and no one to ask. He came out, got thrown out of his family home at sixteen, and made his way through London, Brighton, Leicester and Sheffield before a cheese and tomato sa... more

Stewart grew up in Lancashire with a strict Catholic upbringing and a faith he never wanted to lose. He talks about coming out against the backdrop of Section 28, Manchester's chief constable calling gay men a cesspool, and the long, careful work of ... more

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Maurice Greenham
Guest sharing life story, HIV survivor, theatre professional
Theatre in Stoke-on-Trent and surrounding regions
Episode: Maurice - Living with HIV Since 1984 — Cottaging Arrests, Theatre, and 40 Years a Survivor

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Murry
Host of Romp, guiding conversations about gay dating and life before smartphones; leads with humor, candor, and intimate inquiry.

Reviews

4.9 out of 5 stars from 15 ratings
  • Great listen

    Entertaining, insightful & much needed stories to be heard

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    NatT1501
    United Kingdom3 years ago
  • Catch up now!

    Warm, funny and moving - well worth a listen!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    PeakKate
    United Kingdom3 years ago
  • Romping with emotion

    These podcasts brim with humanity. Dealing with intimacy, love, privacy and life with such emotion. I have laughed, held my breath and wept with the stories told. The mundanity and extraordinary elements are given space to be amazing. The rapport between the interviewer and the story tellers is wonderfully rich. I cannot wait for the next episode to drop.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    rrrlaw
    United Kingdom3 years ago
  • Fun to learn

    As a gay American in my 30s it’s fun to learn about experiences of the older generation. We all know or can easily look up generally what it was like but I enjoy hearing personal perspectives of others. I hope we get more episodes soon

    Apple Podcasts
    4
    anubis316
    United States3 years ago
  • Brilliant

    Absolutely brilliant, I particularly loved episode 2 with Ron. What a fascinating insight into his life.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Lul@92
    United Kingdom3 years ago

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The show is viewed as a valuable archive of LGBTQ+ history and lived experience.
Listeners praise the candid, human-centered storytelling and the interviewer's rapport with guests.
Episodes are described as warm, funny, and moving, with strong personal reflections.

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Recent interactions between the hosts and their guests.

Colin - Gay Manchester in the 80s — Coming Out, the Moss Side Riots and 40 Years of Love
Q: So how did you do dating in it with that hanging over you?
Colin details navigating dating in a climate of stigma and risk, relying on word-of-mouth, small trusted networks, and eventual venues like saunas and conferences to form meaningful connections while managing safety and secrecy.
Colin - Gay Manchester in the 80s — Coming Out, the Moss Side Riots and 40 Years of Love
Q: But how did that translate into life?
He describes how the Manchester gay center, church associations, and community networks provided practical pathways for belonging, support, and building a life in the city, turning personal courage into ongoing community service and leadership.
Colin - Gay Manchester in the 80s — Coming Out, the Moss Side Riots and 40 Years of Love
Q: So could you tell your parents at this point, you've done the, you know, the curate, you've done that?
Colin explains that he and the group sought alignment with church-based support while gradually revealing their identities, experiencing both pride in living authentically and fear about family reactions, which ultimately led to a broader acceptance as his story unfolded on television.
Tim - From Canada to Sleeping Rough in London — One Gay Man's Journey Across Continents
Q: What brought you to Britain?
Tim initially moved due to a connection, but the real turning point was following a boyfriend to London and eventually seeking stability and a life independent from his adoptive family. His answer highlights the mix of personal choice and chance in migration.
Stewart - Faith, Section 28 and Finding Love — Being Gay with a Catholic Conscience in 1980s Manchester
Q: How did the conservative political environment affect his personal life and advocacy?
Despite being a conservative council member, he emphasizes the importance of being an ally, openly discussing LGBTQ+ issues, and supporting inclusive codes of conduct within public service.

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What is Romp about and what kind of topics does it cover?

A documentary-style show that centers long-form conversations with older gay men about lived experiences before the internet, highlighting cruising grounds, dating ads, saunas, and bars, along with personal stories of love, loss, community, and resilience. Episodes blend memoir-style storytelling with historical context, touching on coming out, AIDS, migration, faith, and life trajectories across decades and continents. A recurring segment adds personal diary-style dating recollections, offering a vivid, intimate chronicle of queer life in the pre-digital era. The format often pairs candid humor with poignant reflection, producing a distinctive, human-centered portrait of LGBTQ+ history and community-building.

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