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Real Talk with Lisa Sonni: Relationships Uncensored

Lisa Sonni
Domestic Violence
Emotional Abuse
Abuse
Mental Health
Patriarchy
Abusive Relationships
Coercive Control
Gaslighting
Narcissism
Psychology
Parenting
Misogyny
Trauma Bonds
Trauma Bonding
Abuse Recovery
Relationship Dynamics
Gender Roles
Therapy
Relationships
Sexual Coercion

This is the podcast your abuser doesn’t want you to hear.

Hosted by relationship coach and abuse recovery educator Lisa Sonni, Real Talk pulls back the curtain on toxic and abusive dynamics, romantic relationships, familial, and friendships. This is the raw truth no one else is saying out loud. No sugarcoating. No “just leave” advice.

Just real stories, real insight, and real talk—so you can f... more

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If you've ever been told your standards are too high, that you're trying to change him, or that real love means accepting everything he does - this episode is going to name something you've ... more

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You know what gaslighting is.

”You're too sensitive.” ”I was just joking.” ”That never happened.”

But there is a version of gaslighting that is much harder to name. It does not announce it... more

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If you have ever wondered whether you are the toxic one, the narcissist, the problem…that question is not a coincidence, it was put there on purpose.

Lisa sits down with Emma Davey, trauma-... more

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You knew it was coming. Maybe not the exact moment, but you felt it building.

The tension in the room. The stillness before it broke. Your nervous system clocked it before your brain caught... more

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Recent Guests

Emma Davey
Trauma-informed MBA, CP counsellor
Based in the UK
Episode: How Abusive Men Make You Think You're the Abuser | Emma Davey | S4E2
Bill Eddy
Attorney, therapist, mediator and expert on high-conflict personalities
High Conflict Institute
Episode: Why Narcissists Explode When You Set Boundaries | Bill Eddy on High Conflict Escalation | S4E1
Aishia Grevenberg
Therapist
Episode: “It’s Not Confusion” Why Abusive Behavior Feels Unclear (But Isn’t) | S3EP16
Danielle Kramer
Clinical psychologist discussed in conversations about consent and coercion
Independent clinical psychologist
Episode: If He Acts Like This About Sex, It's Abuse | Best Of Relationships Uncensored | S3E16
Kate Balestrieri
Sexual health expert discussed in conversations about consent and coercion
Relationship and sexual health professional
Episode: If He Acts Like This About Sex, It's Abuse | Best Of Relationships Uncensored | S3E16
Dr. Peter Salerno
Psychotherapist and author
Author of Cruelty by Nature
Episode: How Abusive Men Turn Strong Women Into Women Who Stay with Dr. Peter Salerno | S3EP15
Brent McLearie
Social media content educator
Ex-Patriarch (handle)
Episode: “These Are Not Facts”: The Lies That Keep Abuse Normalized | S3E14
Angela Van
CEO of Family Court Corner
Family Court Corner
Episode: Divorcing a Narcissistic or Toxic Partner: What You Need to Know | S3EP12
Dr. Marina Rosenthal
Psychologist, couples therapist, and sex therapist
Episode: Toxic vs Abusive Relationships: The Difference Most People Miss with Dr. Marina Rosenthal | S3EP11

Host

Lisa Sonni
Host of Real Talk with Lisa Sonni: Relationships Uncensored

Reviews

4.7 out of 5 stars from 36 ratings
  • Lisa is a Reliable Source ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

    Being a survivor herself, Lisa knows what it’s like to be in a relationship with an abuser. She goes above and beyond to do her research and is a very reliable source. I love how real she is. Thank you Lisa for all that you do! ❤️

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Love, Betty Guerra
    United States3 months ago
  • Most edifying content available

    I can feel Lisa’s passion for helping women recover from abuse. She’s angry and very direct because this is literally killing women.

    Her personal anecdotes hit me so hard and I thank her for sharing them. I had that experience of taking to myself in the mirror trying to leave a trauma bond when I was eight years old. The trauma bond was with my abusive mom. The normalisation of abuse primed me for abusive relationships as an adult. I didn’t even realise what abuse meant until a few months ago. ... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Cat Lilith Jones
    United Kingdom9 months ago
  • Excellent Take on Emotional Abuse

    I’m a licensed therapist, as well as a fellow survivor of emotional abuse. Lisa’s deep dives are both insightful and accurate in terms of the insidious nature of psychological abuse, exposing the men (and the culture) that promote abuse of women beneath the mask of love and intimacy; Excellent and important work.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Blair's Account
    United Statesa year ago
  • Great podcast!

    I love how real Lisa is. She gets where we have been (or still are). It’s so refreshing to hear the truth. But in a positive way with advice to move fwd. Because nobody wants to be a victim.. but it often feels like there’s no hope against these ppl. It is very easy to get discouraged. But DON’T ..

    Listen to this great platform , pray, and take your power back! You are not alone…

    Thank you Lisa. I am sharing this with everyone I think can benefit.

    Btw I first found her on YouTube... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Pilotswife94
    United Statesa year ago

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Audience notes the host's authenticity and passion for helping women reclaim power.
Listeners praise direct, no-nonsense guidance that validates survivor experiences.
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Men, Accountability, and the Myth That Women Are the Problem with Lex | S3E4
Q: What do you think is really driving this lack of accountability in men?
It's the fear of having to recognize that a change might need to be made, stemming from a fear of vulnerability.
Men, Accountability, and the Myth That Women Are the Problem with Lex | S3E4
Q: What do you see when you hear men leave comments that are like 100 women versus accountability, implying that we don't have it and that men do?
Men perceive it as an attack, failing to recognize that calling out a behavior is not a reflection on their character, but an opportunity for learning.
He Knows, He Just Doesn’t Care. The Truth About Abuse and “Communication” w Aishia Grevenberg | S3E2
Q: Can you kind of explain what you meant by [the issue being sociological]?
The idea that patriarchy gives men the authority and the permission to use their dominance to intimidate people and to be purposely infantile.
He Knew You Wouldn’t See It | How Abusers Exploit Your Brain w/ Dr. Jennifer Freyd | S2E14
Q: How do you think perpetrators of abuse facilitate betrayal blindness or weaponize it?
Perpetrators often groom victims, increasing their dependence and trust, making betrayal blindness a survival mechanism for victims in difficult situations.
He Knew You Wouldn’t See It | How Abusers Exploit Your Brain w/ Dr. Jennifer Freyd | S2E14
Q: Can you tell us a little bit about betrayal blindness? How does that show up?
Betrayal blindness is when a person does not even see the betrayal to protect the relationships they may be dependent on, often functioning outside of conscious awareness.

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This show centers on identifying and recovering from abusive and coercive relationship dynamics. Across episodes, the host and guests dissect tactics like gaslighting, manipulation, boundary violations, and coercive entitlement, pairing clinical insight with survivor perspectives. Listeners can expect practical guidance on documenting abuse, setting boundaries, exiting unhealthy situations, and navigating post-separation challenges, all framed around empowering survivors to reclaim autonomy. A notable strength is the blend of psychotherapy, legal/technique frameworks, and lived experience, which helps translate complex concepts into actionable steps for healing and safety.

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1. Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse
2. Perfect Prey: A Coercive Control Podcast
3. You Are Not Crazy
4. The Covert Narcissism Podcast
5. Love and Abuse

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1. Emma Davey
2. Bill Eddy
3. Aishia Grevenberg
4. Danielle Kramer
5. Kate Balestrieri
6. Dr. Peter Salerno
7. Brent McLearie
8. Angela Van

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