My Inner Torch
DSMy Inner Torch offers direct and personal insight with help for those of us in a relationship with someone who is undiagnosed/diagnosed with a Cluster B Personality Disorder. This is a safe place to come for words of inspiration that draw from my personal experiences and is produced to gain understanding and to find direction as we navigate through the often difficult relationships with those we l... more
| Publishes | Weekly | Episodes | 256 | Founded | 5 years ago |
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| Number of Listeners | Categories | EducationSelf-Improvement | |||
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• I understand that reactive abuse happens when I, as a survivor, respond to intense provocation from a Cluster B individual, which leads to my own regret and makes me appear abusive.
• I recognize that... more
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• I now recognize Cluster B relationships as “Ponzi schemes.” They start with intense love bombing, mirroring, and promises that feel tailor-made to me.
• I understand that early “returns” in these rela... more
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• I now understand that Cluster B relationships start with idealization, making me feel deeply understood, but it’s a false persona, not real love.
• I recognize that trauma bonding keeps me in the cycl... more
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• I’ve questioned my Clustered B partner’s love because of the deep pain I’ve experienced and my desperate desire to understand if their behaviors could coexist with genuine affection.
• What I once bel... more
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- Approach with caution
I have a loved one with BPD. Listening to this podcast made me feel hopeless about them, because at times the host explicitly encourages the listener not to hold out any hope of the person with BPD changing or their symptoms improving. While I appreciate that the host was just sharing his own experience, I often felt that he was extremely stigmatizing of people with BPD.
The point of this review isn’t to discourage you from listening. I think the host is sharing a valuable perspective on how fr... more
Apple Podcasts3VVill1249
United States3 months ago - Misleading and Stigmatizing
I agree with the other reviewer on here who stated how harmful this was for people with actual BPD. people with BPD do not lack empathy—-you’re talking about Narcissism and NPD, which are on the opposite side of this spectrum. I have friend who is diagnosed BPD, while I am on the spectrum, and I came here hoping to continue my healing and DBT skills. However, these episodes seem to really feed into the negative stigmatization of Borderlines and harmful for those who are doing their best to heal.... more
Apple Podcasts1nickimel22United States3 years ago - Ruined my night.
I was diagnosed with BPD 4 years ago and I struggle with it, however every day I try to be a better loving person for the few people I DEARLY love and care about. I came to this podcast to help better myself, and after listening to ‘You can’t Fix What you Didn’t break,’ I feel like I’m a horrible person that can’t change, because I “lack empathy.” From the sounds of the author, he should take a step back and look at WHY he stayed in this unhappy marriage for so long. If you have BPD you should c... more
Apple Podcasts1Sunshine81299United States4 years ago - Nails it! Succinctly perfect.
So grateful for this podcast - he’s so well versed and to the point and tugs at the heartstrings of those in a BPD relationship - it’s everything you need to hear to get the craziness of what you’re in. Can’t give enough accolades to my inner torch.
Apple Podcasts5LagunaPeachUnited States4 years ago
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Focusing on the challenges of navigating relationships with individuals who have Cluster B personality disorders, this series provides personal insights from the host's extensive experiences. Each episode explores themes like emotional abuse, manipulation, and the difficulty of finding true intimacy with partners affected by these disorders, including narcissism and borderline personality disorder. The conversations aim to support listeners who are survivors of challenging relationships, offering coping strategies and emphasizing the importance of self-worth and mental health. Unique in its emphasis on personal anecdotes and emotional healing, this series serves as a guide for anyone looking to understand or escape toxic dynamics while prom... more
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