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Modern Anarchy

Dr. Nicole Thompson
Relationship Anarchy
Non-Monogamy
Intimacy
Psychedelics
Pleasure
Mental Health
Polyamory
Consent
Relationships
Sexuality
Sexual Liberation
Community Support
BDSM
Community Healing
Purity Culture
Community Building
Jealousy
Sex Education
Trauma
Psychedelic Therapy

Modern Anarchy is your weekly invitation to reclaim pleasure, sex, and desire as radical acts of collective liberation. Hosted by Queer Sex and Relationship Psychotherapist and Researcher trained in Psychedelic-Assisted Psychotherapy, Dr. Nicole. She is the leading academic voice on non-monogamy and embodied pleasure. Modern Anarchy explores intimacy, erotic sovereignty, and healing through raw co... more

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On today’s episode, we have Elmo Painter (she/her) join us for a conversation about the evolution of the erotic. Together we talk about being in caterpillar soup, sex magic rituals, and embracing the question marks.

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On today’s episode we have Coco (she/her) join us for an conversation all about erotic authenticity. Together we talk about coming out later in life, finding belonging within ourselves, and doing the scary thing anyways because discomfort is part of ... more

On today’s episode, we have Cash (they/them) join us for a conversation about reprocessing trauma and savoring your pleasure. Together we talk about queering the field of psychology, the power of dance, and being devoted to nature.

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On today’s episode, we have Amber (she/they) join us for a conversation all about being a messy, real human on their pleasure journey. Together we talk about pleasure mapping, vulnerably cracking your heart open, and the breath of a good orgasm.

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Recent Guests

Cash Waller
Psychedelic life coach; non-binary advocate; focuses on trauma and queer communities
Episode: 272. Queering EMDR and Psychedelics – Cash Waller
Amber Mallery
Sexpert, educator, and host on the episode
Self-described sexpert
Episode: 271. Sexpert Swinger Cruises: F**king up more than you f**k - Amber Mallery
Karen Yates
Somatic sex educator and energy worker
Self-employed / Wild and Sublime podcast guest
Episode: 270. The Wild Ride of Following Your Pleasure - Karen Yates
Empress Wu
Dominatrix, cultural activist based in New York City
Self-employed / Domme
Episode: 269. F**king Your Friends is Mutual Aid - Dominatrix Empress Wu
August McLaughlin
Health and sexuality writer, host of Girl Boner Radio
Girl Boner Radio / AugustMcLaughlin.com
Episode: 268. Solo-Pleasure with the Lights Turned On – August McLaughin
Jess DeVries
Somatic sex coach and grief worker
Beloved Coaching
Episode: 266. Cry Hard. Cum Hard: the Connection Between Pleasure and Grief with Jess DeVries
Aaron Frazin
Sex and relationship coach focusing on couples, men's issues, and sexual performance
aaronfrazin.com
Episode: 265. The Tension of Erotic Energy: Premature Ejaculation of Vulnerability with Aaron Frazin
Justine Ang Fonte
Tired sex educator turning entrepreneur and author
Episode: 264. Burnt-Out Libido: When You Need a Polycule to Afford NYC with Justine Ang Fonte
Ewan McConchie
Guest on episode discussing relationship anarchy and related practices
Episode: 261. The Practice of Relationship Anarchy with Ewan McConchie

Host

Dr. Nicole
Host of the show, a sex and relationship psychotherapist, educator in pleasure-based narratives

Reviews

4.8 out of 5 stars from 1.1k ratings
  • I’m curious

    I been listening to this podcast series and am old in age my connection with my body is not itched at your age of what is explorative one I wonder if this was you exploring with older women 64 years and upwards what and how would you frame your world So your challenge is imagine your now older and your life changing experience have indeed changed you how would you begin

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    lovealways#
    United Kingdom3 months ago
  • Great Show!!

    Great show thats worth a listen for sure.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Robearskee
    United Statesa year ago
  • Wonderful combination of politics and relationships

    I feel seen as one whose purpose is radical social change and who has tried to apply my values to my relationships (with great difficulty but heartwarming success). Nicole is easy to listen to but plenty substantive. If you are looking for tools to revolutionize the way you interact with your loved ones, this is the podcast for you.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Occasional transit rider
    United Statesa year ago
  • So good

    We need these conversations more than ever - open, questioning, insightful inquiries into the nature of our conditioning, behavior and patterns. Highest recommendation.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Rahi Chun
    United States2 years ago
  • revolutionary thinkers

    thank you nicole. you’re digging up radical, revolutionary thinkers to help me normalize and accept the ever shifting thing that i call my self

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    ricygfretty
    United States2 years ago

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Guests are brilliant and the host brings depth and warmth to bold conversations.
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The show treats sexuality and politics with nuance, inviting thoughtful, practical takeaways.

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Talking Points

Recent interactions between the hosts and their guests.

271. Sexpert Swinger Cruises: F**king up more than you f**k - Amber Mallery
Q: And the first question that I love to ask every guest on the show is, how would you introduce yourself to the listeners?
Amber introduces herself as Amber Mallery, a sexpert and self-described 'sexpert bestie,' currently finishing her PhD and pursuing a Ted Talk-level presence in sexuality education.
272. Queering EMDR and Psychedelics – Cash Waller
Q: How do you see layering EMDR, parts work, and psychedelics in clinical practice, and what cautions do you advise?
Cash explains that layering modalities can enhance outcomes when conducted with trauma-informed care, grounding, and safety. They caution about the risks of improper use, emphasize the need for strong therapist-client rapport, consent, and ongoing assessment of safety, as well as the indigenous roots of many techniques and the importance of ethical practice.
272. Queering EMDR and Psychedelics – Cash Waller
Q: What does your pleasure liberation journey look like and how did you arrive at the work you do today?
Cash describes growing up in a witchy, open environment, identifying as transgender non-binary and lesbian, and choosing a non-traditional life path that centers personal pleasure, decolonization of gender/sexual scripts, and a non-monogamous lifestyle as part of their therapeutic and healing framework.
272. Queering EMDR and Psychedelics – Cash Waller
Q: So the first question that I love to ask each guest on the show is, how would you introduce yourself to the listeners?
Cash introduces themselves as a psychedelic life coach who works with queer clients and specializes in trauma, positioning themselves as a guide who combines healing modalities with lived experience and a commitment to decolonizing therapy spaces.
269. F**king Your Friends is Mutual Aid - Dominatrix Empress Wu
Q: How would you introduce yourself to the listeners?
Empress Wu introduces herself as a cultural activist and domme based in New York City, using all pronouns and describing her work as exploring conflict, psychosexual dynamics, and evolving kinship and intimacy.

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This show centers on redefining sexuality, relationships, and pleasure as tools for collective liberation. Topics often orbit non-monogamy, relationship anarchy, queer communities, sex education, and the politics of desire, with guests ranging from therapists and educators to organizers and researchers. Episodes frequently blend personal storytelling with clinical or scholarly perspectives, offering practical frameworks for safer, more ethical, and more joyful intimate life. A standout angle is its unapologetic, politically informed approach to sexuality, often weaving in psychedelic-informed therapy and community-based practices. Listeners who want bold conversations about sexuality, consent, and social change will likely find this appeali... more

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1. Cash Waller
2. Amber Mallery
3. Karen Yates
4. Empress Wu
5. August McLaughlin
6. Jess DeVries
7. Aaron Frazin
8. Justine Ang Fonte

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