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Listen, Learn & Love Hosted by Richard Ostler

Richard Ostler
Mental Health
Latter-Day Saints
Church Of Jesus Christ Of Latter-Day Saints
LDS Church
LGBTQ
LGBTQ Community
LGBTQ+ Issues
Suicide Prevention
LGBTQ+ Community
Community Support
LGBTQ Inclusion
Faith
Family Dynamics
Pornography
Parenting
Therapy
Faith and Religion
Faith and Spirituality
Depression
LGBTQ+ Rights

Welcome to our podcast! My name is Richard H. Ostler and I am a native of Salt Lake City, small business owner, married father of six with several grandchildren. I believe in and am deeply committed to the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and want it to work for a wider group. I am the author of three books: “Listen Learn and Love: Embracing LGBTQ Latter-day Saints” published in 2020 av... more

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Latest Episodes

My friend Jess Porter (oldest of six, Hong Kong RM, married husband in 2015) joins us to share his super unique and remarkable story including: New he was different as a child—but felt loved and supported by his family Didn’t fit in with the boys—had... more

My friend Heidi (straight) and Daniel (gay) join us to share their powerful story including: * Daniel came out to Heidi about 6 years ago, after 18 years of marriage * Their marriage today is more honest, healthier, and stronger than it has ever been... more

My friends Dr. Lance Peterson and Dr. Angela Baerwolf join us to talk about their new research called “Acceptance Journeys of LDS Families of their LGB Child: An Interpretative Phenomenological Analysis”. Their article is published in the “Families i... more

Dr. Jennifer Dobberfuhl Quinlan (PhD in Instructional Psychology and Technology from BYU, MTC Director managed the language curriculum development across more than 60 languages, mother of 3, early 50s,) joins us to share her story including: * Being ... more

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Recent Guests

Heidi Applegarth
Marriage and family therapist, licensed in Nebraska
Applegarth family/therapy practice
Episode: Episode 945: Heidi and Daniel Applegarth Sharing About Their Mixed-Orientation Marriage
Daniel Applegarth
Financial advisor, CFO of a financial advisory practice
Applegarth family/financial planning
Episode: Episode 945: Heidi and Daniel Applegarth Sharing About Their Mixed-Orientation Marriage
Lance Peterson
Dr. Lance Peterson, University of St. Thomas, St. Paul, Minnesota; research lead on the LGBTQ families study
University of St. Thomas
Episode: Episode 944: Dr. Lance Peterson and Dr. Angela Baerwolf, Insightful New LGB Research
Angela Baerwolf
Dr. Angela Baerwolf, University of Wisconsin–Green Bay; co-author of the study
University of Wisconsin–Green Bay
Episode: Episode 944: Dr. Lance Peterson and Dr. Angela Baerwolf, Insightful New LGB Research
Jennifer Dobberfuhl Quinlan
Dr. Dobberfuhl Quinlan, PhD in Instructional Psychology and Technology; educator and language testing professional
(mentioned) Brigham Young University
Episode: Episode 943: Jennifer Dobberfuhl Quinlan, Sexually Fluid, Super Brave and Unique Story
Joe Sharp
Identical twin, fitness coach, mental health advocate from Mesa, Arizona
Self-started coaching platform
Episode: Episode 941: Jake and Joe Sharp: Twin Brothers, Mental Health Advocates, Ending The Shame Cycle
Jake Sharp
Identical twin, fitness coach, mental health advocate from Mesa, Arizona
Self-started coaching platform
Episode: Episode 941: Jake and Joe Sharp: Twin Brothers, Mental Health Advocates, Ending The Shame Cycle
Pam Shepherd
George Mason University researcher; sixth-generation Mormon
George Mason University
Episode: Episode 940: Pam Shephard, Survey Request From Gen Z Utah LDS Women (Deadline of Oct 11th)
Parker Vassau
Business owner; pest control and marketing executive; host of The Committed Man podcast
Owns pest control and marketing businesses; partner in real estate
Episode: Episode 939: Parker Vassau, Age 33, Business Owner, Helping Men Find Confidence

Host

Richard Ostler
Host of Listen, Learn & Love

Reviews

4.7 out of 5 stars from 1k ratings
  • Christlike Podcast

    Richard- thank you for providing a safe place for our LGBTQ loved ones and family members to share their stories.

    You show such grace, such compassion, such understanding - to people who are different than most. It must be terribly tiring at times. You have made a difference in my life. You have made a difference in millions of lives. Please know the difference you’re making in this world. Someday, when you get to meet the savior, I have no doubt that he will give you a big hug and tell you how ... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Smarty__Marty
    United States3 months ago
  • Richard Ostler is a gem and I appreciate his honesty about his past beliefs and struggles and how he has changed his views over time. I love hearing from all the great guests with a huge array of backgrounds

    Podcast Addict
    5
    keiri128
    4 months ago
  • love love love!

    I recently discovered this podcast and I can’t stop listening to episodes! As a young adult who has been questioning her sexuality for a few years now this is a resource that feels incredibly comforting and is bringing me so much hope as I figure everything out. Thank you to everyone who has shared your story <3

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    loaf_ofbread3
    United States5 months ago
  • Highly Recommended Podcast!

    Richard was amazing to work with! He was kind, inviting, and is a really great listener. I could tell he was understanding my story by the way he took notes and summarized my main points. Great content on his podcast because he really creates a safe space to share.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Josh Otani
    United States6 months ago
  • Kindness embodied

    For anyone who has been wounded, this is a place of healing. Richard celebrates kindness and gentleness. He invites compassion. He facilitates understanding. His guests feel SEEN which is what we all desire. That ability to SEE people translates into the healing kind of Love that feels holy.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Rebecca Mullen Coaching
    United Statesa year ago

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Guests are consistently described as thoughtful and the host as a compassionate listener who fosters meaningful dialogue.
Critiques often center on traditional beliefs interplaying with LGBTQ topics, with some listeners feeling the approach is too permissive or deviates from church teachings.
Listeners praise the show for offering empathy, safety, and a space to understand LGBTQ+ experiences within faith communities.

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Talking Points

Recent interactions between the hosts and their guests.

Episode 945: Heidi and Daniel Applegarth Sharing About Their Mixed-Orientation Marriage
Q: What was it like for you, Heidi, when you heard about Daniel's attraction to men?
Heidi describes a mix of awe, relief, and a deep sense of responsibility to understand and support her husband while navigating their beliefs, ultimately choosing openness and continued love.
Episode 936: Dan Hamby, Forgiving the Man who Murdered His Father
Q: What was it like to forgive the man who killed your father?
Dan describes an overwhelming, swift shift after receiving the letter, where the act of forgiving felt like a release from a heavy, lifelong burden, enabled by the atonement and genuine empathy for the sender.
Episode 927: Kari Bates and Kimberly Bates New Podcast on Preserving Family Relationships
Q: What changed Kari's perspective as her daughter left the church?
Kari describes a long, painful learning process aided by insights from life coaching and exposure to others' stories, which helped her see beyond inflexible narratives and appreciate her daughter's autonomy.
Episode 927: Kari Bates and Kimberly Bates New Podcast on Preserving Family Relationships
Q: Do you want your mom to leave the church?
Kimberly explains that her departure was about aligning with her values, but she still respects her mother's faith and the relationship, emphasizing that they can love each other without enforcing church membership.
Episode 924: Tucker Boyle, Faith Transition, Founder of Harmony Road Retreats, Seminary & Institute Teacher
Q: What role does LGBTQ inclusion play in this work?
Safety and empathy extend to LGBTQ+ individuals; Tucker describes hosting LGBTQ-focused retreats and emphasizes learning from lived experiences as essential to belonging.

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The show centers on lived experiences at the intersection of faith, LGBTQ identities, and belonging within religious communities. Conversations often feature LGBTQ+ activists, faith leaders, authors, and artists who navigate topics like coming out, faith crises, reconciliation with church teachings, parenting, and building inclusive faith spaces. Episodes tend to emphasize empathy, non-judgment, and practical paths toward belonging, while exploring personal journeys, family dynamics, and systemic change within religious contexts. A notable strength is the host's focus on compassionate listening and actionable guidance for creating safer, more inclusive communities, making it especially helpful for listeners seeking understanding, or for gue... more

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Recent guests on this podcast include:

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3. Lance Peterson
4. Angela Baerwolf
5. Jennifer Dobberfuhl Quinlan
6. Joe Sharp
7. Jake Sharp
8. Pam Shepherd

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