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Listen, Learn & Love Hosted by Richard Ostler

Richard Ostler
Mental Health
Latter-Day Saints
Church Of Jesus Christ Of Latter-Day Saints
LGBTQ Community
LDS Church
Suicide Prevention
LGBTQ+ Community
LGBTQ+ Issues
Community Support
LGBTQ
Family Dynamics
LGBTQ Inclusion
Faith
LGBTQ Latter-Day Saints
Pornography
Parenting
Personal Revelation
Suicide
LGBTQ Issues
Missionary Work

Welcome to our podcast! My name is Richard H. Ostler and I am a native of Salt Lake City, small business owner, married father of six with several grandchildren. I believe in and am deeply committed to the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and want it to work for a wider group. I am the author of three books: “Listen Learn and Love: Embracing LGBTQ Latter-day Saints” published in 2020 av... more

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Latest Episodes

My friend Jerry Chong (active LDS, Temple worker, many leadership callings, lives in Calgary Canada, convert, powerful advocate for LGBTQ inclusion) joins us to share his story (was on Episode 41, 8 years ago): Advocacy work with Stake and Ward Leade... more

My friend Michael Young (active LDS, lives in Florida, Senior Service Missionary) joins us to share his outstanding story navigate being gay for 7+ decades: Part of the gay New York underworld in the 60s—including visiting Stonewall—but deeply closet... more

My friend Tucker Boyle (married father of five, PhD in Leadership Studies, went through a faith crisis/transition) joins us to share his story including: - How his doctoral research into church history led to a faith crisis - The pain of that road (e... more

My friend Carlos Toledo (age 28, communications strategist, accomplished businessman, community advocate, son of prominent Brazilian church leaders) joins us to share his remarkable story: Navigating being attracted to men—outed at age 14/15—unique s... more

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Recent Guests

Tucker Boyle
Founder of Harmony Road Retreats; former UVU seminary teacher; faith transition advocate
Harmony Road Retreats
Episode: Episode 924: Tucker Boyle, Faith Transition, Founder of Harmony Road Retreats, Seminary & Institute Teacher
Carlos Toledo
Brazilian LGBTQ+ activist and business leader; early life in Brazil and Salt Lake City involvement
Independent/Entrepreneurial activist and community builder
Episode: Episode 923: Carlos Toledo, LDS Raised, Brazilian, RM, Community Builder
Seth Bott
Professional musician and organist; LGBTQ advocate and LDS community member
Independent musician; educator
Episode: Episode 922: Seth Bott, Noted LDS Organist and Teacher, Gay, Same-Sex Relationship, Good Man
Sara Kerrigan
Co-hosted appearance; divorcee; co-parent
Kerrigans
Episode: Episode 921: Jeremy and Sara Kerrigan, Recently Divorced, Great Friends, Co-Parenting
Jeremy Kerrigan
Co-hosted appearance; gay man who came out during marriage
Kerrigans
Episode: Episode 921: Jeremy and Sara Kerrigan, Recently Divorced, Great Friends, Co-Parenting
Chris Bissett
Gay Latter-day Saint, mixed-orientation marriage survivor and advocate, nurse
Self/Wayfare Article author
Episode: Episode 920: Chris Bissett, Gay Latter-day Saint, Mixed Orientation Marriage, Super Insightful
Natalie Brown
Author of After Happiness: Living with Faith in a Time of Crisis
Author, Educator
Episode: Episode 919: Natalie Brown: New Book “After Happiness: Living with Faith in a Time of Crisis”
Rich Cope
Real estate agent for Keller Williams, LGBTQ advocate
Keller Williams
Episode: Episode 918: Rich Cope, Gay, Successful Career in Real Estate, Super Powerful Story
Michael Soto
President and CEO of Equality Arizona
Equality Arizona
Episode: Episode 917: Michael Soto, Transgender Man, President/CEO Equality Arizona, Great Soul

Host

Richard Ostler
Host of Listen, Learn & Love

Reviews

4.7 out of 5 stars from 1k ratings
  • Christlike Podcast

    Richard- thank you for providing a safe place for our LGBTQ loved ones and family members to share their stories.

    You show such grace, such compassion, such understanding - to people who are different than most. It must be terribly tiring at times. You have made a difference in my life. You have made a difference in millions of lives. Please know the difference you’re making in this world. Someday, when you get to meet the savior, I have no doubt that he will give you a big hug and tell you how ... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Smarty__Marty
    United Statesa month ago
  • Richard Ostler is a gem and I appreciate his honesty about his past beliefs and struggles and how he has changed his views over time. I love hearing from all the great guests with a huge array of backgrounds

    Podcast Addict
    5
    keiri128
    2 months ago
  • love love love!

    I recently discovered this podcast and I can’t stop listening to episodes! As a young adult who has been questioning her sexuality for a few years now this is a resource that feels incredibly comforting and is bringing me so much hope as I figure everything out. Thank you to everyone who has shared your story <3

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    loaf_ofbread3
    United States3 months ago
  • Highly Recommended Podcast!

    Richard was amazing to work with! He was kind, inviting, and is a really great listener. I could tell he was understanding my story by the way he took notes and summarized my main points. Great content on his podcast because he really creates a safe space to share.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Josh Otani
    United States4 months ago
  • Kindness embodied

    For anyone who has been wounded, this is a place of healing. Richard celebrates kindness and gentleness. He invites compassion. He facilitates understanding. His guests feel SEEN which is what we all desire. That ability to SEE people translates into the healing kind of Love that feels holy.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Rebecca Mullen Coaching
    United States9 months ago

Listeners Say

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Guests are consistently described as thoughtful and the host as a compassionate listener who fosters meaningful dialogue.
Critiques often center on traditional beliefs interplaying with LGBTQ topics, with some listeners feeling the approach is too permissive or deviates from church teachings.
Listeners praise the show for offering empathy, safety, and a space to understand LGBTQ+ experiences within faith communities.

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Talking Points

Recent interactions between the hosts and their guests.

Episode 924: Tucker Boyle, Faith Transition, Founder of Harmony Road Retreats, Seminary & Institute Teacher
Q: What role does LGBTQ inclusion play in this work?
Safety and empathy extend to LGBTQ+ individuals; Tucker describes hosting LGBTQ-focused retreats and emphasizes learning from lived experiences as essential to belonging.
Episode 924: Tucker Boyle, Faith Transition, Founder of Harmony Road Retreats, Seminary & Institute Teacher
Q: How can someone create a safe space for others in a faith community?
Listen closely, offer presence without preaching or fixing, acknowledge pain without judgment, and communicate that you're available to listen and support.
Episode 923: Carlos Toledo, LDS Raised, Brazilian, RM, Community Builder
Q: What would you tell your younger self about navigating identity within faith and community?
Take things a day at a time, give yourself grace, write your own story, and prioritize your well-being while continuing to be kind and consider how to support others on similar journeys.
Episode 923: Carlos Toledo, LDS Raised, Brazilian, RM, Community Builder
Q: How do you get through anger toward the church when you've devoted so much of your life to it?
Anger is a natural response, but the path forward is to acknowledge it, seek broader sources of meaning beyond the church, and build a life grounded in personal values and care for others.
Episode 923: Carlos Toledo, LDS Raised, Brazilian, RM, Community Builder
Q: Are you okay with some questions?
Yes, I'm open to discussion and sharing more about my experiences and the lessons I've learned along the way.

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The show centers on lived experiences at the intersection of faith, LGBTQ identities, and belonging within religious communities. Conversations often feature LGBTQ+ activists, faith leaders, authors, and artists who navigate topics like coming out, faith crises, reconciliation with church teachings, parenting, and building inclusive faith spaces. Episodes tend to emphasize empathy, non-judgment, and practical paths toward belonging, while exploring personal journeys, family dynamics, and systemic change within religious contexts. A notable strength is the host's focus on compassionate listening and actionable guidance for creating safer, more inclusive communities, making it especially helpful for listeners seeking understanding, or for gue... more

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