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Listen, Learn & Love Hosted by Richard Ostler

Richard Ostler
Mental Health
Latter-Day Saints
Church Of Jesus Christ Of Latter-Day Saints
LGBTQ Community
LDS Church
LGBTQ+ Community
LGBTQ+ Issues
Suicide Prevention
LGBTQ
Community Support
Family Dynamics
LGBTQ Inclusion
Faith
Parenting
Pornography
LGBTQ Latter-Day Saints
LGBTQ Issues
Same-Sex Marriage
Transgender Issues
Personal Revelation

Welcome to our podcast! My name is Richard H. Ostler and I am a native of Salt Lake City, small business owner, married father of six with several grandchildren. I believe in and am deeply committed to the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and want it to work for a wider group. I am the author of three books: “Listen Learn and Love: Embracing LGBTQ Latter-day Saints” published in 2020 av... more

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Latest Episodes

My friend Lucas Montoya (gay/queer, mid-20s, lives/works in Texas, RM, University of Chicago graduate) joins us to share his powerful story: Founding of “RELIC” by LDS connected students at the University of Chicago (community, support, and Journal) ... more

My friend Olivia Burnett (mid-20s, Utah State graduate, University of Utah MBA) joins us to share her some of her personal story and her groundbreaking and highly successful podcast called “Twenty Something with Olivia Burnett” (see show notes). * De... more

My friend Hannah Larson (age 30, lives in New York, RM, founder of Humans of BYU, former seminary teacher, single) joins us to share her story. Hannah talks about: Powerful testimony of God’s love for all of us—and deep desire for everyone to feel th... more

My friend John Bushman (30+ years teaching Institute/Seminary) joins us to talk about his new book “King Before Kingdom: Faithful Revival Within The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints”. In this episode and his book, John talks about specific... more

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Recent Guests

John Bushman
Author of King Before Kingdom, educator and speaker
Author, Speaker
Episode: Episode 929: John Bushman, New Book on Improving LDS Culture
Brooklyn Larsen
Early return missionary; co-host of Returning Stronger
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Episode: Episode 928: Jon Larsen and Brooklyn Larsen, New Podcast: Returned Stronger
Jon Larsen
Licensed marriage and family therapist; co-host of Returning Stronger
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Episode: Episode 928: Jon Larsen and Brooklyn Larsen, New Podcast: Returned Stronger
Kari Bates
Life coach for LDS moms with children who have left the church; co-host of Coffee and Cocoa
Coffee and Cocoa podcast, HR professional in New York City
Episode: Episode 927: Kari Bates and Kimberly Bates New Podcast on Preserving Family Relationships
Kimberly Bates
Daughter in the Bates family who left the church and pursued a career in HR in New York City
Coffee and Cocoa podcast
Episode: Episode 927: Kari Bates and Kimberly Bates New Podcast on Preserving Family Relationships
Jerry Chong
Gay Latter-day Saint advocate and temple worker based in Calgary, Canada
Advocate for LGBTQ+ inclusion in LDS communities
Episode: Episode 926: Jerry Chong, Gay Latter-day Saint, Advocacy Work
Michael Young
Gay Latter-day Saint, retired nurse, elder in the church
LDS Church / Healthcare
Episode: Episode 925: Michael Young, Gay Latter-day Saint, Early 80s, Convert, Powerful Story
Tucker Boyle
Founder of Harmony Road Retreats; former UVU seminary teacher; faith transition advocate
Harmony Road Retreats
Episode: Episode 924: Tucker Boyle, Faith Transition, Founder of Harmony Road Retreats, Seminary & Institute Teacher
Carlos Toledo
Brazilian LGBTQ+ activist and business leader; early life in Brazil and Salt Lake City involvement
Independent/Entrepreneurial activist and community builder
Episode: Episode 923: Carlos Toledo, LDS Raised, Brazilian, RM, Community Builder

Host

Richard Ostler
Host of Listen, Learn & Love

Reviews

4.7 out of 5 stars from 1k ratings
  • Christlike Podcast

    Richard- thank you for providing a safe place for our LGBTQ loved ones and family members to share their stories.

    You show such grace, such compassion, such understanding - to people who are different than most. It must be terribly tiring at times. You have made a difference in my life. You have made a difference in millions of lives. Please know the difference you’re making in this world. Someday, when you get to meet the savior, I have no doubt that he will give you a big hug and tell you how ... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Smarty__Marty
    United States2 months ago
  • Richard Ostler is a gem and I appreciate his honesty about his past beliefs and struggles and how he has changed his views over time. I love hearing from all the great guests with a huge array of backgrounds

    Podcast Addict
    5
    keiri128
    3 months ago
  • love love love!

    I recently discovered this podcast and I can’t stop listening to episodes! As a young adult who has been questioning her sexuality for a few years now this is a resource that feels incredibly comforting and is bringing me so much hope as I figure everything out. Thank you to everyone who has shared your story <3

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    loaf_ofbread3
    United States3 months ago
  • Highly Recommended Podcast!

    Richard was amazing to work with! He was kind, inviting, and is a really great listener. I could tell he was understanding my story by the way he took notes and summarized my main points. Great content on his podcast because he really creates a safe space to share.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Josh Otani
    United States5 months ago
  • Kindness embodied

    For anyone who has been wounded, this is a place of healing. Richard celebrates kindness and gentleness. He invites compassion. He facilitates understanding. His guests feel SEEN which is what we all desire. That ability to SEE people translates into the healing kind of Love that feels holy.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Rebecca Mullen Coaching
    United States10 months ago

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Guests are consistently described as thoughtful and the host as a compassionate listener who fosters meaningful dialogue.
Critiques often center on traditional beliefs interplaying with LGBTQ topics, with some listeners feeling the approach is too permissive or deviates from church teachings.
Listeners praise the show for offering empathy, safety, and a space to understand LGBTQ+ experiences within faith communities.

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Episode 927: Kari Bates and Kimberly Bates New Podcast on Preserving Family Relationships
Q: What changed Kari's perspective as her daughter left the church?
Kari describes a long, painful learning process aided by insights from life coaching and exposure to others' stories, which helped her see beyond inflexible narratives and appreciate her daughter's autonomy.
Episode 927: Kari Bates and Kimberly Bates New Podcast on Preserving Family Relationships
Q: Do you want your mom to leave the church?
Kimberly explains that her departure was about aligning with her values, but she still respects her mother's faith and the relationship, emphasizing that they can love each other without enforcing church membership.
Episode 924: Tucker Boyle, Faith Transition, Founder of Harmony Road Retreats, Seminary & Institute Teacher
Q: What role does LGBTQ inclusion play in this work?
Safety and empathy extend to LGBTQ+ individuals; Tucker describes hosting LGBTQ-focused retreats and emphasizes learning from lived experiences as essential to belonging.
Episode 924: Tucker Boyle, Faith Transition, Founder of Harmony Road Retreats, Seminary & Institute Teacher
Q: How can someone create a safe space for others in a faith community?
Listen closely, offer presence without preaching or fixing, acknowledge pain without judgment, and communicate that you're available to listen and support.
Episode 923: Carlos Toledo, LDS Raised, Brazilian, RM, Community Builder
Q: What would you tell your younger self about navigating identity within faith and community?
Take things a day at a time, give yourself grace, write your own story, and prioritize your well-being while continuing to be kind and consider how to support others on similar journeys.

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The show centers on lived experiences at the intersection of faith, LGBTQ identities, and belonging within religious communities. Conversations often feature LGBTQ+ activists, faith leaders, authors, and artists who navigate topics like coming out, faith crises, reconciliation with church teachings, parenting, and building inclusive faith spaces. Episodes tend to emphasize empathy, non-judgment, and practical paths toward belonging, while exploring personal journeys, family dynamics, and systemic change within religious contexts. A notable strength is the host's focus on compassionate listening and actionable guidance for creating safer, more inclusive communities, making it especially helpful for listeners seeking understanding, or for gue... more

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