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Listen, Learn & Love Hosted by Richard Ostler

Richard Ostler
Mental Health
Betrayal Trauma
Grief
Church Of Jesus Christ Of Latter-Day Saints
Jesus Christ
Pornography
LGBTQ Latter-Day Saints
Self-Agency
Latter-Day Saints
Spirituality
Intimacy
Marriage
Healthy Sexuality
Death and Dying
Empathy
Book Of Mormon
Religious Women
Suicide
Faith Transitions
LGBTQ Issues

Welcome to our podcast! My name is Richard H. Ostler and I am a native of Salt Lake City, small business owner, married father of six with several grandchildren. I believe in and am deeply committed to the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and want it to work for a wider group. I am the author of three books: “Listen Learn and Love: Embracing LGBTQ Latter-day Saints” published in 2020 av... more

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Latest Episodes

My friend Soren Neilsen (age 21, Sacramento California RM, from Michigan, University of Utah student) joins us to share his story: * Realizing he was different—not attracted to girls * Working through internalized homophobia and shame * Hurtful thing... more

My friends Kade Smith (age 38, lives in San Diego, married to husband Chris for 9 years) and Terri Smith (LDS married mother of 4 sons) join us to share their story. I’ve been friends with the Smith family as we lived together in the same Sandy neigh... more

My friend Laurie Reese (married mother of five, one grandchild, active LDS) joins us to share her story based on a recent talk she gave in her Ward: * Story of her son Landon and her daughter Hallee coming out as gay * Hallee’s marriage ended. Mother... more

My friend Candice Bithell (married mother of three, active LDS) joins us to share her story: Candice’s backstory Bones (her transgender son) coming out at age 13/14 Parable of the Lost Coin as her spiritual lens Powerful insights into the Lost Coin P... more

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Recent Guests

Kade Smith
Gay man sharing his journey through coming out, HIV, addiction, and recovery
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Episode: Episode 873: Kade Smith (gay, overcoming addictions) and Terri Smith (Kade’s mother)
Terri Smith
Mother of Kade, active LDS member navigating faith and family support
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Episode: Episode 873: Kade Smith (gay, overcoming addictions) and Terri Smith (Kade’s mother)
Laurie Reese
Married mother of five with two gay children; speaker sharing her family's journey
Utah County, Utah
Episode: Episode 872: Laurie Reese, LDS Mother of Two Gay Children
Candice Bithell
Married mother of three with three LGBTQ children; transgender son Bones; Wayfair Emerging Voices winner
Wayfair Emerging Voices; LGBTQ advocacy
Episode: Episode 871: Candice Bithell, LDS Mother of a Transgender Son
Douglas Williams
Guest sharing his journey with OCD and scrupulosity
BYU; Real OCD Club; MTC involvement
Episode: Episode 870: Douglas Williams, OCD and Scrupulosity
Gracee Purcell
Lesbian Latter-day Saint, former BYU student, Rainbow Collective leader
Rainbow Collective (provo, UT)
Episode: Episode 869: Gracee Purcell, Lesbian Latter-day Saint, Recent BYU Grad,
Bruce Butcher
Father who lost his son Taylor to suicide; shares his journey with faith and doubt
Community member, grocery store employee at Smith's
Episode: Episode 868: Bruce Butcher, Lost Son Taylor to Suicide, God’s Love/Hope For All of Us
Heather Sorensen
Author of Dandelion's Blessings, mother who lost a daughter Hannah
Episode: Episode 867: Heather Sorensen, Grief of Losing Her Daughter Hannah at Age 15, New Book
Mark White
Professor, licensed marriage and family therapist; author of Indigo's Baptism
National University
Episode: Episode 866: Dr. Mark White, Being an Ally, Book: Indigo’s Baptism

Host

Richard Ostler
Host focused on promoting empathy, understanding, and love across complex issues, especially those facing LGBTQ+ individuals within religious communities.

Reviews

4.7 out of 5 stars from 1k ratings
  • Kindness embodied

    For anyone who has been wounded, this is a place of healing. Richard celebrates kindness and gentleness. He invites compassion. He facilitates understanding. His guests feel SEEN which is what we all desire. That ability to SEE people translates into the healing kind of Love that feels holy.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Rebecca Mullen Coaching
    United States5 months ago
  • Personal and Inspiring

    This podcast values the powerful wisdom of lived experience and has helped me better understand people I love. I always leave feeling deeper compassion for our human experience and desire to love and create more belonging in my community.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    sageelizabeth24
    United States10 months ago
  • McKay Mayes episode

    I’m convinced that I was led by the spirit to listen to this episode with McKay. It was exactly what I needed to hear this week. He very articulately put into words the things that have been in my heart. So grateful for your courage and vulnerability in sharing your message. You’ve made a lasting impression in my life.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    marticita
    United Statesa year ago
  • I really love these guests

    Thank you Richard for taking the effort to do this. It’s been so helpful for me as I navigate LGBTQ and the Latter-day Saint faith for my family. Bless you.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    klinebch
    United Statesa year ago
  • Love

    This podcast is super helpful and understanding to all. Richard has on amazing guest with great stories. He has amazing empathy and listening skills. This podcast will continue to impact many lives!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    joesharppy
    United Statesa year ago

Listeners Say

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Some critiques mention disagreements with certain theological interpretations, reflecting diverse perspectives among the audience.
Listeners appreciate the impactful stories shared by guests and the host's empathetic approach.
Many find the discussions relatable and transformative, especially in the context of faith and LGBTQ+ experiences.
The podcast is a healing space that encourages compassion and understanding.

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Talking Points

Recent interactions between the hosts and their guests.

Episode 871: Candice Bithell, LDS Mother of a Transgender Son
Q: What changed your perspective most as you navigated Bones's realization of their gender identity?
A shift from fear to curiosity, guided by the parables and a commitment to unconditional love, helped me see Bones as a person first, which transformed how our family supported them.
Episode 866: Dr. Mark White, Being an Ally, Book: Indigo’s Baptism
Q: What motivated you to create Indigo's Baptism and Firefly Inkworks as a publishing platform?
My motivation came from watching marginalized voices be unheard or unseen, and recognizing that stories can heal, inform, and unite. Firefly Inkworks exists to publish and amplify those voices, especially the experiences of queer families within LDS communities.
Episode 863: David Archuleta, New Book: Devout
Q: What would you say to queer youth feeling suicidal?
David shares that it is essential to know that God loves them as they are and that there is hope for a happier future, despite the pain they may feel.
Episode 863: David Archuleta, New Book: Devout
Q: What advice do you have for parents of queer youth?
David encourages parents to be curious, to have open conversations, and to validate their children's experiences, emphasizing the importance of unconditional love.
Episode 863: David Archuleta, New Book: Devout
Q: What advice would you give to queer youth?
David emphasizes the importance of embracing one's identity and realizing that their struggles can work in harmony with faith, urging them to seek support and be true to themselves.

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Centered on fostering understanding and compassion, the podcast explores the intersection of faith, LGBTQ+ issues, and mental health within religious contexts, particularly focusing on the experiences of Latter-day Saints. Topics span personal narratives, advocacy for marginalized communities, and insights from mental health professionals, emphasizing the importance of empathy, connection, and personal transformation. The format often features discussions with guests who share their complex journeys, aiming to create a supportive environment that encourages listeners to appreciate diverse perspectives and build a sense of belonging within their faith communities. Notably, the podcast often tackles sensitive subjects like suicide, healing, a... more

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2. Terri Smith
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4. Candice Bithell
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6. Gracee Purcell
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