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Honest dating advice for single men from two women. Dating expert Gracie Pleschourt (@datingwithgracie on IG) and certified life coach Tracy Pleschourt break down real dating questions, real struggles, and what actually works in modern dating. Each week, they dive into listener-submitted questions about their toughest dating challenges and deliver unfiltered, constructive feedback. Submit yours he... more

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Struggling with dating even though you have your life together? This episode breaks down why being “a good guy” isn’t enough—and what actually makes you stand out.

If you’ve been putting yourself out there, using apps, staying active, and still gett... more

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Mixed signals in dating can leave you confused, frustrated, and questioning everything. In this episode of Just Ask Her, we break down why emotional intimacy doesn’t always mean romantic interest—and how to stop getting stuck in “almost relationships... more

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If you freeze up around women you’re attracted to, this episode of Just Ask Her breaks down why it happens and how to handle it. Gracie and Tracy share practical dating advice for men on nervous-system regulation, self-trust, first-date conversation,... more

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If she says she’s “not ready for a relationship,” what does that actually mean—and what should you do next? This episode breaks down one of the most confusing dating signals men face.

Gracie and Tracy unpack real listener submissions to explain why ... more

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Gracie Pleschourt
Dating expert and host who focuses on providing authentic and actionable dating advice tailored for men. Known for her empathetic approach and practical tips.
Tracy Pleschourt
Certified life coach and co-host, offering support and insights based on real-life experiences. Her approach combines coaching techniques with heartfelt advice.

Reviews

4.7 out of 5 stars from 203 ratings
  • On Our Side

    I’ve listened to every episode of the podcast and I love how passionate Gracie and Tracy are about helping men date well and find happy, lasting relationships! They have so much compassion for us and are also willing to tell us the uncomfortable truth when we need it. If you’re a man who is looking to improve your dating life, listen to this podcast each week!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    lit_dave_
    United States3 months ago
  • They’re Fabulous!!!

    Gracie and Tracy give such great advice. Period. I listen to everything they say. I’ve leveled up my dating life, and I’m now in the healthiest relationship I’ve ever had because of listening to them. I never miss their podcast. Thank you, Gracie and Tracy!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Garrett from SLC
    United States3 months ago
  • Amazing - Spot On

    Great dynamic duo of youth, experience, dating and life coaching. Great thoughts and advice. Great content and delivery. Immensely helpful.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    MarcF13
    United States3 months ago
  • Great Dating advice for men

    Love these girls! So real and very throughful in breaking down scenarios.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Serge Keko
    United States4 months ago
  • Great advise

    This is gold. They give the advice with a dose of support and appreciation.

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    5
    FF/MICP
    United States8 months ago

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The dynamic between Gracie and Tracy is frequently praised for being engaging and relatable, reflecting real-life experiences and struggles in dating.
Listeners express gratitude for the supportive atmosphere created by the hosts, making it easy for them to approach challenging dating topics.
Listeners appreciate the candid and practical advice provided by the hosts, which helps them navigate the complexities of dating.
Many reviews highlight how the podcast goes beyond just dating tips, incorporating personal growth and emotional intelligence, which listeners find valuable.

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Dating After Divorce, Trusting Someone With a Past & Approaching Women IRL (Ep. 68)
Q: How should a man gauge a partner's age in real life without coming off as a creep, and what conversational clues help?
Engage in genuine conversation, ask thoughtful questions to infer age through context (job, schooling, life stage), and if unsure, phrase the age check casually as a compliment or light comment after establishing rapport.
Dating After Divorce, Trusting Someone With a Past & Approaching Women IRL (Ep. 68)
Q: I'm entering a new relationship and am bothered by a partner's past; how do I handle insecurities without sabotaging something potentially good?
Acknowledge the honesty of the concern, differentiate between sabotaging thoughts and facts, recognize that past behavior is not a predictor of future actions if growth work is being done, and test your beliefs by staying open to change while protecting your own emotional boundaries.
Dating After Divorce, Trusting Someone With a Past & Approaching Women IRL (Ep. 68)
Q: Hi Gracie and Tracy, I'm separated with two kids and I'm navigating dating with an ex and new life; any advice on how to navigate this with realistic expectations and timing?
Ground yourself with intentional questions about your situation, be honest with yourself and the other person about your kids and timing, and avoid trying to solve for forever. Focus on alignment today and give yourself grace as you figure out what works.
What “Not Ready for a Relationship” Really Means (Ep. 69)
Q: At what point does patience turn into self-abandonment, and how should you handle age gaps and life-phase differences in readiness?
The hosts explain that patience becomes self-abandonment when you compromise your own commitment needs; age and life-phase matter less than alignment of goals and priorities, and differences should not trap you in a limbo.
What “Not Ready for a Relationship” Really Means (Ep. 69)
Q: How do you assess readiness when someone openly says they don't know if they're capable of being in a relationship?
Gracie and Tracy emphasize that if someone clearly states they're not ready, that is a strong signal to reassess and move forward, while balancing patience with self-respect and not abandoning your own needs.

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The content centers around candid, no-nonsense discussions that address the dating challenges faced by single men today. Each episode typically features listener-submitted questions covering a variety of topics, including dating anxiety, emotional resilience, rejection, and mixed signals. The hosts provide practical advice and support aimed at fostering healthy relationships and personal growth. A notable aspect of this series is the combination of professional insights from a dating expert and the relatable perspective of a life coach, making the information both educational and accessible to listeners who seek to improve their dating lives. Unique elements include a focus on the psychological aspects of dating and the dynamic between the ... more

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