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Honest dating advice for single men from two women. Dating expert Gracie Pleschourt (@datingwithgracie on IG) and certified life coach Tracy Pleschourt break down real dating questions, real struggles, and what actually works in modern dating. Each week, they dive into listener-submitted questions about their toughest dating challenges and deliver unfiltered, constructive feedback. Submit yours he... more

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Ever wonder whether you're reading the signs correctly—or holding onto a relationship that's no longer moving forward?

In this episode of Just Ask Her, Gracie and Tracy answer three real dating submissions from men navigating complicated relationshi... more

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Trust, honesty, and relationship values are at the center of this episode of Just Ask Her. We answer three real dating questions from listeners navigating betrayal, dating apps, and faith-based relationships.

First, we discuss whether trust can be r... more

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Dating with low self-esteem, autism traits, OCD, or years of rejection can feel impossible—but what if the problem isn't you?

In this episode of Just Ask Her, Gracie and Tracy respond to a powerful listener submission from a 26-year-old man who feel... more

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Feeling stuck in your dating life? Whether you're constantly getting friend-zoned, struggling with dating burnout, or trying to move on after a breakup, this episode breaks down the mindset shifts that can help you regain confidence and take control ... more

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Gracie Pleschourt
Host of Just Ask Her, dating advisor; focuses on dating questions with practical coaching
Tracy Pleschourt
Co-host; certified life coach offering guidance and feedback

Reviews

4.7 out of 5 stars from 237 ratings
  • Helpful & Entertaining

    This is a wonderful podcast. Gracie and Tracy have helped my clients think and act more skillfully when dating. They explore all of the strategies and pitfalls men need to understand. Their witty conversations exude warmth and wisdom.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    #1podcastlistener
    United States2 months ago
  • On Our Side

    I’ve listened to every episode of the podcast and I love how passionate Gracie and Tracy are about helping men date well and find happy, lasting relationships! They have so much compassion for us and are also willing to tell us the uncomfortable truth when we need it. If you’re a man who is looking to improve your dating life, listen to this podcast each week!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    lit_dave_
    United States5 months ago
  • They’re Fabulous!!!

    Gracie and Tracy give such great advice. Period. I listen to everything they say. I’ve leveled up my dating life, and I’m now in the healthiest relationship I’ve ever had because of listening to them. I never miss their podcast. Thank you, Gracie and Tracy!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Garrett from SLC
    United States6 months ago
  • Amazing - Spot On

    Great dynamic duo of youth, experience, dating and life coaching. Great thoughts and advice. Great content and delivery. Immensely helpful.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    MarcF13
    United States6 months ago
  • Great Dating advice for men

    Love these girls! So real and very throughful in breaking down scenarios.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Serge Keko
    United States7 months ago

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Fans appreciate the hosts' blunt honesty and supportive approach, though a few note occasional audio issues.
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Listeners praise compassionate, clear coaching that helps men date with confidence.

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How to Rebuild Trust After Emotional Betrayal in a Relationship (Ep. 82)
Q: What should Todd focus on first to begin rebuilding trust after the betrayal?
Todd should articulate his boundary clearly, require accountability from his fiancé, and approach the conversation from an honest place about how the betrayal affected him, while also allowing space for her to acknowledge and repair without defensiveness.
Dating Burnout, Breakups & Moving On: What Men Need to Hear (Ep. 80)
Q: Anonymous describes a 10-month relationship where the ex blocked him after she needed space. Is jumping back into dating too soon, and how should he approach moving on?
If you feel emotionally ready and aren't clinging to unresolved hope, exploring dating is reasonable. Focus on emotional regulation, create a clean break from the past, and gradually re-enter dating with clear boundaries and self-awareness; timing varies by person.
Dating Burnout, Breakups & Moving On: What Men Need to Hear (Ep. 80)
Q: Nick writes that he fell in love quickly with a woman who had recently come out of a long, ugly divorce and asked for space to heal. How should he handle this to protect himself while staying open to love?
He should acknowledge the healing process takes time and prioritize his own boundaries and needs. If she isn't ready for a relationship, it's healthier to reset and date other people rather than waiting in limbo, but stay open to possible genuine connection if it aligns in the future.
Dating Burnout, Breakups & Moving On: What Men Need to Hear (Ep. 80)
Q: Hi Gracie and Tracy, I'm a 35-year-old guy with a large, taken-in relationships friend group who feels like the spare wheel. I've been single for 10 years and get ghosted or told I'm just a friend after a few dates. Am I destined to be alone forever?
No. The pattern isn't inevitable. It's about identifying and changing the underlying dynamics—stop waiting for the 'great guy' script, broaden your dating approaches, and become the active chooser who asks clear questions to reveal true compatibility.
Why “Love Finds You” Is a Dating Myth (Ep. 78)
Q: Does love really find you when you stop looking for it?
No, this is a myth. The hosts argue that sustainable relationships come from ongoing, active dating, openness to conversation, and creating opportunities where you might meet someone compatible, not from waiting for fate.

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Two dating experts provide practical, no-nonsense coaching for single men navigating modern dating. Episodes center on listener questions about confidence, communication, boundaries, and authentic self-presentation, with real-life scenarios including divorce, long-distance dating, disability, and post-separation dynamics. The show often emphasizes taking agency, staying present, and using concrete scripts and journaling tools to improve dating outcomes. A notable strength is the blend of compassionate coaching with blunt honesty, plus recurring practical resources like dating journals and mindsets that encourage self-trust and clearer expectations.

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