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Honest dating advice for single men from two women. Dating expert Gracie Pleschourt (@datingwithgracie on IG) and certified life coach Tracy Pleschourt break down real dating questions, real struggles, and what actually works in modern dating. Each week, they dive into listener-submitted questions about their toughest dating challenges and deliver unfiltered, constructive feedback. Submit yours he... more

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Dating anxiety, mixed signals, second chances, and unclear romantic intentions — this episode of Just Ask Her dives into the patterns that keep men stuck in confusion and overthinking.

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Struggling with mixed signals, overthinking, or wondering how to make someone fall in love with you? This episode breaks down the truth about attraction, clarity, and why your mindset is shaping your dating results more than anything else.

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If you’ve ever wondered why she chose someone else over you, this episode breaks down the real reason—and how to fix it.

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Dating after a long-term relationship can feel overwhelming—but how do you actually know when you're ready to start again? In this episode of Just Ask Her, we break down dating after divorce, confidence, and how to rebuild your identity in relationsh... more

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Gracie Pleschourt
Host of Just Ask Her, dating advisor; focuses on dating questions with practical coaching
Tracy Pleschourt
Co-host; certified life coach offering guidance and feedback

Reviews

4.7 out of 5 stars from 226 ratings
  • Helpful & Entertaining

    This is a wonderful podcast. Gracie and Tracy have helped my clients think and act more skillfully when dating. They explore all of the strategies and pitfalls men need to understand. Their witty conversations exude warmth and wisdom.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    #1podcastlistener
    United States7 days ago
  • On Our Side

    I’ve listened to every episode of the podcast and I love how passionate Gracie and Tracy are about helping men date well and find happy, lasting relationships! They have so much compassion for us and are also willing to tell us the uncomfortable truth when we need it. If you’re a man who is looking to improve your dating life, listen to this podcast each week!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    lit_dave_
    United States4 months ago
  • They’re Fabulous!!!

    Gracie and Tracy give such great advice. Period. I listen to everything they say. I’ve leveled up my dating life, and I’m now in the healthiest relationship I’ve ever had because of listening to them. I never miss their podcast. Thank you, Gracie and Tracy!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Garrett from SLC
    United States4 months ago
  • Amazing - Spot On

    Great dynamic duo of youth, experience, dating and life coaching. Great thoughts and advice. Great content and delivery. Immensely helpful.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    MarcF13
    United States5 months ago
  • Great Dating advice for men

    Love these girls! So real and very throughful in breaking down scenarios.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Serge Keko
    United States5 months ago

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Fans appreciate the hosts' blunt honesty and supportive approach, though a few note occasional audio issues.
Episodes are practical and actionable, with real scenarios driving guidance.
Listeners praise compassionate, clear coaching that helps men date with confidence.

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Why You Can’t Make Someone Fall in Love (And What to Do Instead) (Ep. 76)
Q: How can someone put themselves in the best position to find a genuine connection rather than chasing a perfect method to make someone fall in love?
They advise focusing on who you are becoming, what you want in a partner, and dating from that perspective. The goal is not to 'land' someone with manipulative tactics but to attract people who align with your values through honest self-presentation and meaningful conversations.
Why You Can’t Make Someone Fall in Love (And What to Do Instead) (Ep. 76)
Q: Any advice after a long dating drought and a fading connection with a partner who is younger and passes family scrutiny?
The hosts emphasize having an honest, direct conversation about what the relationship actually is, and if the other person isn't willing to have that clarity, it's a sign to move on. They advocate building self-awareness, expanding social circles, and approaching dating with conviction and authenticity rather than trying to perform.
Dating After Divorce: Confidence, Self-Trust & Starting Over (Ep.74)
Q: How can he keep long-distance momentum without seeming needy?
Use depth over frequency, plan thoughtful interactions, and show genuine presence rather than repetitive messaging; small, meaningful gestures matter more than constant contact.
Dating After Divorce: Confidence, Self-Trust & Starting Over (Ep.74)
Q: What about dating someone with a disability—will anyone date him?
Disabilities are not a barrier; emphasize your strengths, broaden how you meet people beyond apps, and connect through shared interests; the right partner will appreciate your qualities.
Dating After Divorce: Confidence, Self-Trust & Starting Over (Ep.74)
Q: How should he talk about his past without involving his ex?
Frame it around growth, what he learned, and who he is becoming; avoid bashing the ex and focus on the lessons and the person he is now.

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Two dating experts provide practical, no-nonsense coaching for single men navigating modern dating. Episodes center on listener questions about confidence, communication, boundaries, and authentic self-presentation, with real-life scenarios including divorce, long-distance dating, disability, and post-separation dynamics. The show often emphasizes taking agency, staying present, and using concrete scripts and journaling tools to improve dating outcomes. A notable strength is the blend of compassionate coaching with blunt honesty, plus recurring practical resources like dating journals and mindsets that encourage self-trust and clearer expectations.

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