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Honest dating advice for single men from two women. Dating expert Gracie Pleschourt (@datingwithgracie on IG) and certified life coach Tracy Pleschourt break down real dating questions, real struggles, and what actually works in modern dating. Each week, they dive into listener-submitted questions about their toughest dating challenges and deliver unfiltered, constructive feedback. Submit yours he... more

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What if the thing you’re doing to protect yourself from rejection is actually keeping you alone?

This week on Just Ask Her, Gracie and Tracy tackle three very different dating dilemmas that all have one thing in common: fear. Fear of rejection, fear... more

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TRUTH or TRASH? 🗑️ Gracie and Tracy are diving into the comment section, and nobody is safe.

In this new Just Ask Her segment, Gracie and Tracy react to dating advice, hot takes, and questionable wisdom pulled straight from Gracie’s social media co... more

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What if uncertainty isn’t the problem with dating? What if learning how to handle it is the skill that changes everything?

In this episode of Just Ask Her, Gracie and Tracy tackle three dating dilemmas from men at very different stages of life, all ... more

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Dating with confidence isn’t about pretending you don’t care. It’s about knowing what you want, communicating honestly, and trusting yourself enough to handle the answer.

In this episode of Just Ask Her, Gracie and Tracy answer three dating submissi... more

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Recent Guests

Rick Hopper
56-year-old man who has never had a girlfriend or dated
Listener
Episode: The Fear of Rejection Is Keeping You Single (Ep.94)
Brandon (second submission)
Listener in dating phase asking about commitment vs. continued dating
Listener
Episode: You're Not Behind: The Truth About Dating, Breakups, & Commitment (Ep. 86)

Hosts

Gracie Pleschourt
Host of the show; dating coach; co-host; frequently appears with coaching and audience questions.
Tracy Pleschourt
Co-host; certified life coach; provides coaching and feedback.

Reviews

4.7 out of 5 stars from 261 ratings
  • Helpful & Entertaining

    This is a wonderful podcast. Gracie and Tracy have helped my clients think and act more skillfully when dating. They explore all of the strategies and pitfalls men need to understand. Their witty conversations exude warmth and wisdom.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    #1podcastlistener
    United States4 months ago
  • On Our Side

    I’ve listened to every episode of the podcast and I love how passionate Gracie and Tracy are about helping men date well and find happy, lasting relationships! They have so much compassion for us and are also willing to tell us the uncomfortable truth when we need it. If you’re a man who is looking to improve your dating life, listen to this podcast each week!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    lit_dave_
    United States8 months ago
  • They’re Fabulous!!!

    Gracie and Tracy give such great advice. Period. I listen to everything they say. I’ve leveled up my dating life, and I’m now in the healthiest relationship I’ve ever had because of listening to them. I never miss their podcast. Thank you, Gracie and Tracy!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Garrett from SLC
    United States8 months ago
  • Amazing - Spot On

    Great dynamic duo of youth, experience, dating and life coaching. Great thoughts and advice. Great content and delivery. Immensely helpful.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    MarcF13
    United States8 months ago
  • Great Dating advice for men

    Love these girls! So real and very throughful in breaking down scenarios.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Serge Keko
    United States9 months ago

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Listeners feel understood and guided, often noting personal improvements in dating confidence.
Fans appreciate guest-less episodes that focus on listener submissions and clear coaching steps.
The hosts are compassionate and blunt, offering real-world, actionable dating advice.
The dynamic between Gracie and Tracy is praised for its balance of warmth, humor, and practical coaching.

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Talking Points

Recent interactions between the hosts and their guests.

When Do You Stop Keeping Your Options Open? (Ep. 92)
Q: If you were coaching me, would you send it or would you wait?
The hosts advise evaluating the letter's purpose, ensuring you can handle any response, and if the aim is closure or learning, proceed with accountability and clarity rather than pressing for a rebound. If not prepared for all outcomes, reconsider sending.
How to Rebuild Trust After Emotional Betrayal in a Relationship (Ep. 82)
Q: What should Todd focus on first to begin rebuilding trust after the betrayal?
Todd should articulate his boundary clearly, require accountability from his fiancé, and approach the conversation from an honest place about how the betrayal affected him, while also allowing space for her to acknowledge and repair without defensiveness.
Dating Burnout, Breakups & Moving On: What Men Need to Hear (Ep. 80)
Q: Anonymous describes a 10-month relationship where the ex blocked him after she needed space. Is jumping back into dating too soon, and how should he approach moving on?
If you feel emotionally ready and aren't clinging to unresolved hope, exploring dating is reasonable. Focus on emotional regulation, create a clean break from the past, and gradually re-enter dating with clear boundaries and self-awareness; timing varies by person.
Dating Burnout, Breakups & Moving On: What Men Need to Hear (Ep. 80)
Q: Nick writes that he fell in love quickly with a woman who had recently come out of a long, ugly divorce and asked for space to heal. How should he handle this to protect himself while staying open to love?
He should acknowledge the healing process takes time and prioritize his own boundaries and needs. If she isn't ready for a relationship, it's healthier to reset and date other people rather than waiting in limbo, but stay open to possible genuine connection if it aligns in the future.
Dating Burnout, Breakups & Moving On: What Men Need to Hear (Ep. 80)
Q: Hi Gracie and Tracy, I'm a 35-year-old guy with a large, taken-in relationships friend group who feels like the spare wheel. I've been single for 10 years and get ghosted or told I'm just a friend after a few dates. Am I destined to be alone forever?
No. The pattern isn't inevitable. It's about identifying and changing the underlying dynamics—stop waiting for the 'great guy' script, broaden your dating approaches, and become the active chooser who asks clear questions to reveal true compatibility.

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What is Just Ask Her about and what kind of topics does it cover?

Two dating coaches (a couple) host candid conversations about dating for single men, answering listener-submitted dilemmas with practical, actionable coaching. Episodes frequently cover mindset, communication, taking ownership in dating, handling ghosts and commitment, and building confidence through small, repeatable actions. They often plug tools like a dating journal and coaching programs, and frequently discuss overcoming anxiety, neurodivergence considerations, and non-traditional relationship dynamics. The format blends real-life submissions, coaching frameworks, humor, and clear next steps, making it useful for listeners who want concrete strategies and accountability in modern dating. A notable standout is their emphasis on being th... more

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