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It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict People

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High Conflict Personalities
Personality Disorders
Domestic Violence
Conflict Resolution
Mediation
Child Custody
Marriage
Family Law
High Conflict Mediation
Conflict Communication
Legal Profession
BIFF Method
Coercive Control
Non-Court Dispute Resolution
Cluster B Personality Disorder
Holiday Conflict
Impulse Control
Factitious Disorder By Proxy
Conflict Management
Mediation Practices

Hosted by Bill Eddy, LCSW, Esq. and Megan Hunter, MBA, It’s All Your Fault! High Conflict People explores the five types of people who can ruin your life—people with high conflict personalities and how they weave themselves into our lives in romance, at work, next door, at school, places of worship, and just about everywhere, causing chaos, exhaustion, and dread for everyone else. They are the mos... more

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Latest Episodes

When High Conflict Personalities Interact

In this listener-driven episode, High Conflict Institute co-founders Megan Hunter and Bill Eddy tackle three complex scenarios from listeners, exploring relationship dynamics between different personality pa... more

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Mastering High-Stakes Legal Testimony: Confronting High Conflict Behavior in the Courtroom

Bill Eddy and Megan Hunter analyze a compelling murder trial where a defendant who demonstrated high conflict behavior attempted to control courtroom dynamics... more

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REBROADCAST

In this vital encore episode, Bill and Megan provide essential guidance for anyone facing false accusations or becoming a target of blame from high-conflict individuals. They explore practical strategies for protecting yourself while mai... more

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REBROADCAST

In this essential encore episode, Bill Eddy and Megan Hunter delve deep into understanding high conflict borderline personalities, often called the "Love You Hate You" types. They explore the complex world of these challenging relationsh... more

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Dr. Wendy Bourg
Clinical psychologist with expertise in family court cases involving high conflict divorce and allegations of child abuse
Private Practice in Portland, Oregon
Episode: Child Abuse Allegations: Finding Truth and Safety in Family Court with Dr. Wendy Bourg
Dr. Leslie Losting
Psychologist who has treated women involved in teacher-student sexual misconduct cases
Episode: Female Teacher Sexual Misconduct: Understanding Power Dynamics and Emotional Drivers
Rebecca Zung
Special guest discussing narcissistic personalities
Episode: Unmasking the Narcissist: The 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life (Part 5) • REBROADCAST
Shehrina Crespi
An advocate with lived experience of Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), recovering from an abusive relationship.
Episode: Borderline Personality Disorder: Courts, Recovery & Reform with Shehrina Rooney
Kara Rubenstein Deyerin
Founder of Right to Know and advocate for genetic identity rights.
Right to Know
Episode: DNA Surprises & Family Secrets: Managing Genetic Identity Discoveries with Kara Rubenstein Deyerin
Michèle Huff
Transactional lawyer and author of The Transformative Negotiator
University of California, Berkeley
Episode: Negotiation's Missing Peace: Finding Humanity in High Conflict with Michèle Huff
Judge Bruce Cohen
Retired judge and team member at High Conflict Institute
High Conflict Institute
Episode: Be Assertive, Not Aggressive: Winning in Family Court with Judge Bruce Cohen (ret.)
Judge Bruce R. Cohen
Former judge with extensive experience in family law and now a high conflict expert
High Conflict Institute
Episode: Meet Judge Bruce R. Cohen (ret.): Family Court Success from Both Sides of the Bench
Nick Hartbauer
Law enforcement officer with 16 years of experience, focusing on domestic violence crimes
Colorado Law Enforcement
Episode: Empowering Domestic Violence Victims: Law Enforcement Strategies for High Conflict Situations with Nick Hartbauer

Hosts

Bill Eddy
Co-host of the podcast and co-founder of the High Conflict Institute, Bill Eddy specializes in understanding and managing high conflict personalities across various contexts.
Megan Hunter
Co-host and co-founder of the High Conflict Institute, Megan Hunter provides expertise in addressing the challenges posed by high conflict individuals and relationships.

Reviews

4.7 out of 5 stars from 210 ratings
  • The Royals

    You are way off! You said yourself you are not in the know about the family’s history and the situation.

    One of your main points was privacy. Do you think they hadn’t talked about it already behind closed doors?

    Apple Podcasts
    1
    FreutEuchDesLebens
    Canada4 months ago
  • Nick Hartbauer

    Why would you have an episode with a person who has been listed as a suspect in numerous domestic violence reports, kicked out of his specialized unit for misappropriating resources to violate people’s rights, and then fired from his police department for assisting a domestic violence suspect continue to terrorize his victim?

    Apple Podcasts
    1
    Hartbauer
    United States10 months ago
  • Much wisdom

    This podcast offers so much wisdom! I am just discovering Bill Eddy via an interview and I’m glad I did. I love that actionable tactics are offered. It has helped me immensely.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    ChrPre
    Canadaa year ago
  • Bill and Megan are spot on! I divorced a HCP 10 years ago, yet we continue to end up back in court over and over again at his hand. Bill and Megan’s experience, shared though this series, is very validating if you have ever experienced splitting, gaslighting, and/or any of the many forms of abuse HCP’s deal out to their targets. These episodes are well worth the listen if you are dealing with a high conflict personality in your life!

    Audible
    5
    Cassie Bernhardt
    United Statesa year ago
  • Bill and Megan are spot on!

    Bill and Megan are spot on! I divorced a HCP 10 years ago, yet we continue to end up back in court over and over again at his hand. Bill and Megan’s experience, shared though this series, is very validating if you have ever experienced splitting, gaslighting, and/or any of the many forms of abuse HCP’s deal out to their targets. These episodes are well worth the listen if you are dealing with a high conflict personality in your life!

    Audible
    5
    Cassie Bernhardt
    United Statesa year ago

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There are mixed feelings about certain topics, especially regarding empathy for high conflict personalities, showing a divide in listener perspectives.
Many find the content life-changing and critical for understanding destructive relationship dynamics.
Listeners appreciate the valuable insights and actionable strategies for dealing with high conflict individuals in their lives.
Overall, the podcast is recognized for its practical approach and comprehensive discussions on navigating difficult interactions.

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The High-Conflict Borderline Personality: The 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life (Part 3) • REBROADCAST
Q: Does having a secure relationship with a therapist help those with borderline personality disorder?
Yes, it can significantly aid in learning skills and becoming more self-aware in managing their emotions and relationships.
The High-Conflict Borderline Personality: The 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life (Part 3) • REBROADCAST
Q: Why should professionals who might have someone with this in their caseload know about high conflict personalities?
To foster empathy for someone with this personality, which can help calm them down and facilitate better interactions.
Narcissistic Co-Parents, Borderline Spouses, and Intimidating Behaviors • REBROADCAST
Q: Can someone develop BPD traits from living with someone with BPD or traits of such?
You don't catch borderline personality disorder; however, one might imitate behaviors due to the influence of their partner's actions.
Narcissistic Co-Parents, Borderline Spouses, and Intimidating Behaviors • REBROADCAST
Q: What would your thoughts be on this, Bill?
The importance of focusing on parenting and teaching children skills like emotional management is crucial, especially when co-parenting with someone who has a high conflict personality.
“Why Don’t You Just Leave?”: Understanding Abuse & Finding Your Way Out
Q: If you think that someone you know is in a relationship like this and maybe being abused, neglected by someone who is that dominating intrusive personality type, and you go to the person and ask if they're okay, what do they say?
Often the victim may say, 'Yeah, I'm fine,' even if they are not, indicating the need for further inquiry into their situation.

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This podcast provides a comprehensive exploration of the five types of high conflict personalities (HCPs) that impact personal and professional relationships, including narcissistic, borderline, histrionic, antisocial, and paranoid individuals. The hosts share insights into the psychological underpinnings of these personalities, how they affect interactions in various settings—ranging from romantic relationships to workplace dynamics—and practical strategies to manage and respond effectively to them. With a focus on equipping listeners with knowledge, the discussions aim to empower individuals to navigate challenging interactions with confidence, reducing the chaos and emotional distress often caused by high conflict people.

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1. Dr. Wendy Bourg
2. Dr. Leslie Losting
3. Rebecca Zung
4. Shehrina Crespi
5. Kara Rubenstein Deyerin
6. Michèle Huff
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