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It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict People

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High Conflict Personalities
Personality Disorders
Domestic Violence
Conflict Resolution
Mediation
Child Custody
Marriage
Family Law
High Conflict Mediation
BIFF Method
Legal Profession
Conflict Communication
Coercive Control
Non-Court Dispute Resolution
Cluster B Personality Disorder
Holiday Conflict
Impulse Control
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Conflict Management
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Hosted by Bill Eddy, LCSW, Esq. and Megan Hunter, MBA, It’s All Your Fault! High Conflict People explores the five types of people who can ruin your life—people with high conflict personalities and how they weave themselves into our lives in romance, at work, next door, at school, places of worship, and just about everywhere, causing chaos, exhaustion, and dread for everyone else. They are the mos... more

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Bill Eddy and Megan Hunter explore one of the most challenging questions faced by people in relationships with partners who demonstrate high conflict behaviors: Is it possible to develop a genuinely mutual and healthy relationship through proper comm... more

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The Evolution of Family Estrangement: Understanding Adult Children Cutting Ties

Bill Eddy and Megan Hunter explore the growing phenomenon of adult children severing relationships with parents, examining research, societal shifts, and potential solut... more

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Setting Effective Limits: A Conversation About SLIC Solutions for Conflict

Bill Eddy and Megan Hunter welcome co-author Ekaterina Ricci to discuss their new book "SLIC Solutions for Conflict," exploring practical approaches to setting limits and con... more

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In this episode of It's All Your Fault, host Megan Hunter interviews Amanda Smith, LCSW, about her groundbreaking new book on self-compassion and Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) skills for people who have borderline personality disorder traits. Th... more

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Ekaterina Ricci
Conflict Resolution Expert, Legal Consultant, and Mediator
High Conflict Institute
Episode: SLIC Solutions for Limits: How to Set Boundaries That Actually Work (with Ekaterina Ricci)
Cherolyn Knapp
Conflict Resolution Consultant, Mediator Trainer, Workplace Investigator, and Lawyer
Knapp Resolutions
Episode: Worth Repeating: Skills Over Discipline to Transform Workplace Conflict with Cherolyn Knapp
Dr. David Wexler
Clinical psychologist specializing in relationship conflict and author of 'Choose Him Wisely'
Relationship Training Institute
Episode: Choosing Safe Partners: Understanding Red Flags in Dating with Dr. David Wexler
Dr. Wendy Bourg
Clinical psychologist with expertise in family court cases involving high conflict divorce and allegations of child abuse
Private Practice in Portland, Oregon
Episode: Child Abuse Allegations: Finding Truth and Safety in Family Court with Dr. Wendy Bourg
Dr. Leslie Losting
Psychologist who has treated women involved in teacher-student sexual misconduct cases
Episode: Female Teacher Sexual Misconduct: Understanding Power Dynamics and Emotional Drivers
Rebecca Zung
Special guest discussing narcissistic personalities
Episode: Unmasking the Narcissist: The 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life (Part 5) • REBROADCAST
Shehrina Crespi
An advocate with lived experience of Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), recovering from an abusive relationship.
Episode: Borderline Personality Disorder: Courts, Recovery & Reform with Shehrina Rooney
Kara Rubenstein Deyerin
Founder of Right to Know and advocate for genetic identity rights.
Right to Know
Episode: DNA Surprises & Family Secrets: Managing Genetic Identity Discoveries with Kara Rubenstein Deyerin
Michèle Huff
Transactional lawyer and author of The Transformative Negotiator
University of California, Berkeley
Episode: Negotiation's Missing Peace: Finding Humanity in High Conflict with Michèle Huff

Hosts

Megan Hunter
Co-host and co-founder of the High Conflict Institute, focusing on strategies to manage high conflict personalities and their impact on relationships.
Bill Eddy
Co-host and co-founder of the High Conflict Institute, specializing in conflict resolution for high conflict personalities with extensive experience as a lawyer and social worker.

Reviews

4.7 out of 5 stars from 225 ratings
  • Good but Be Cautious if Currently Being Narcissistically Abused

    There is some excellent information here, for which I’m truly grateful. However, if you are in the middle of being abused, this can be a tough listen at times. The female host, Megan, has a tic of slightly laughing often during these conversations. While at best this is only slightly irritating, at worst it can be truly jarring and upsetting to hear someone laughing as they discuss extreme mistreatment by narcissistic people. In addition, the far-reaching and devastating impact of abuse on those... more

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    3
    Fool’s Errand
    United States2 months ago
  • Wisdom!!

    The best podcast I have found on how to reasonably deal with high conflict personalities. I especially appreciate how some episodes are devoted to listeners’ questions.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Cabek62
    Canada4 months ago
  • The Royals

    You are way off! You said yourself you are not in the know about the family’s history and the situation.

    One of your main points was privacy. Do you think they hadn’t talked about it already behind closed doors?

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    1
    FreutEuchDesLebens
    Canada9 months ago
  • Nick Hartbauer

    Why would you have an episode with a person who has been listed as a suspect in numerous domestic violence reports, kicked out of his specialized unit for misappropriating resources to violate people’s rights, and then fired from his police department for assisting a domestic violence suspect continue to terrorize his victim?

    Apple Podcasts
    1
    Hartbauer
    United Statesa year ago
  • Much wisdom

    This podcast offers so much wisdom! I am just discovering Bill Eddy via an interview and I’m glad I did. I love that actionable tactics are offered. It has helped me immensely.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    ChrPre
    Canadaa year ago

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Listeners appreciate practical tools for dealing with difficult relationships and find the psychology insights illuminating.
The podcast offers valuable advice that resonates with those experiencing high conflict situations personally or professionally.
Comments suggest a mix of positive experiences along with some critical views on the handling of sensitive topics.

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SLIC Solutions for Limits: How to Set Boundaries That Actually Work (with Ekaterina Ricci)
Q: Why did you write a book on SLIC Solutions for Conflict?
The book was written to help people who found that just setting limits didn't work for them.
Self-Compassion and DBT: How New Treatment Approaches Transform BPD Recovery with Amanda Smith
Q: What can parents do if their adolescent can't get into treatment?
Parents can educate themselves using resources like DBT books and practice the skills alongside their loved ones, making the process more inviting and supportive.
Self-Compassion and DBT: How New Treatment Approaches Transform BPD Recovery with Amanda Smith
Q: How have you seen the transition and progression regarding the stigma of BPD over the last 20 years?
There has been a huge shift in understanding BPD, and treatments like DBT are now recognized as effective, allowing individuals to potentially no longer meet diagnostic criteria after treatment.
Self-Compassion and DBT: How New Treatment Approaches Transform BPD Recovery with Amanda Smith
Q: Why is it that a person with a diagnosis of BPD needs to create this? Shouldn't we all want to create a life worth living?
Yes, creating a life worth living is a worthy goal for all, but it can be much harder for people with traits of BPD due to self-sabotaging behaviors.
Worth Repeating: Setting Limits Without Public Exposure to Manage Difficult Behavior
Q: If you're confronting a situation where someone is lying about you and inflicting a lot of reputational damage, what is a good strategy then to set a limit on that?
You should really think through what's the most effective strategy and what consequences do you have for the person.

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What is This Podcast about and what kind of topics does it cover?

The content focuses on understanding and managing interactions with high conflict personalities (HCPs) — individuals who create chaos across various realms of life, such as work, family, and social settings. Key topics include identifying different types of HCPs, such as narcissists and borderlines, and offering practical strategies for coping with their challenging behaviors. The discussions often emphasize communication techniques to mitigate conflict, establish boundaries, and promote psychological well-being. This educational approach aims to empower listeners with actionable advice for their personal and professional lives, fostering a supportive community for those encountering difficult situations involving high conflict individuals.... more

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1. Ekaterina Ricci
2. Cherolyn Knapp
3. Dr. David Wexler
4. Dr. Wendy Bourg
5. Dr. Leslie Losting
6. Rebecca Zung
7. Shehrina Crespi
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