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If I Speak

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Ash Sarkar and Moya Lothian-McLean sort the personal from the political, tackle listener dilemmas and air their opinions on the frustrations of modern life.

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Culture writer Lanre Bakare joins Ash and Moya in Manchester to talk about the precarious state of arts and nightlife around the UK, Black cultural identity outside of London, and the rise of ‘cultural deserts’ – as well as the unofficial launch of t... more

Ash and Moya are joined by Rizzle Kicks star and author Jordan Stephens to talk about changing attitudes to gender and relationships. Are we regressing into essentialist ideas of gender? Is having a boyfriend embarrassing now?

Plus: advice for a dis... more

Join us at Crossed Wires festival in Sheffield on 4th July 2026 – tickets are available now from crossedwires.live/ now!

Ash and Moya debate the pros and cons of feeling shame after Ash reveals that her own moral universe is governed by guil... more

NEW LIVE SHOW! Join us at Crossed Wires festival in Sheffield on 4th July 2026. Presale tickets available at 11AM on 10th December – go to crossedwires.live and use the code CW26EARLY.

After watching the Wicked sequel, Moya wonders if politeness is ... more

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Recent Guests

Jordan Stephens
Musician, broadcaster, and author of Avoidance Drugs, Heartbreak and Dogs
Episode: 94: Resentment, hostility, scarcity… is this modern dating? w/ Jordan Stephens
Dr. Annabel Sowemimo
Doctor, activist, and writer; sexual and reproductive health registrar in the NHS.
NHS
Episode: 90: Are rightwing politics affecting my sex life? w/ Dr Annabel Sowemimo
Lanre Bakare
Author of 'We Were There: How Black Culture, Resistance and Community Shaped Modern Britain'
Episode: 86: Why do we lap up other people’s horror stories?
Kemi Alemoru
Culture journalist, editor, presenter, and the new editorial director of Glamour UK.
Glamour UK
Episode: 85: Has pop culture turned to slop? w/ Kemi Alemoru
Sophie Gilbert
Author of Girl on Girl, a dissection of the pop culture of the 2000s.
Episode: 76: How porn went mainstream and changed everything w/ Sophie Gilbert
Jeremy Atherton Lin
Author of Deep House, The Gayest Love Story Ever Told
Published by Alan Lane
Episode: 69: Is marriage a hard border? w/ Jeremy Atherton Lin
Monica Heisey
Author of Really Good Actually and TV screenwriter
Writer and screenwriter
Episode: 64: What is the female gaze?
Natasha Brown
Brilliant author known for her novel "Universality".
Faber
Episode: 61: Can friendships cross class lines? w/ Natasha Brown
Yomi Adegoke
Journalist, author of Slay In Your Lane, and co-host of The List
The Guardian, Elle
Episode: 47: Is the era of public shaming over? w/ Yomi Adegoke at London Podcast Festival

Hosts

Ash Sarkar
Co-host, known for insight into personal and political issues, engaging in reflective discussions on societal challenges.
Moya Lothian-McLean
Co-host, recognized for blending humor with serious societal critiques, encouraging a vibrant dialogue on modern life.

Reviews

4.8 out of 5 stars from 1.3k ratings
  • Solid listen

    Ash and Moya are charismatic and have a lot of interesting insights. The best part of the podcast is the advice section which is always really strong. The opening part can be hit or miss depending on what’s discussed that week.

    Apple Podcasts
    3
    shells114
    United Kingdom2 months ago
  • 1 star for the awful toxic dating advice (ep 84)

    Shocked at the advice that if you’re not feeling a date to go to the bathroom with your bag, come back and without sitting down make an excuse and just walk out. Complete lack of empathy towards the guy, imagine being that guy and the entire bar/wherever sees this play out. He’d be traumatised and probably will give him a very negative view towards women. Very humiliating and disrespectful, and truly this advice would only be said by someone who knows this will never happen to them and who is a ... more

    Apple Podcasts
    1
    22ebihl
    United Kingdom2 months ago
  • Love this podcast!

    This is one of my favorite podcasts!

    Is there a reason it’s not on YouTube?

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    puqo2020
    United States2 months ago
  • D

    I just adore this podcast. I am not young by any standards (mid 50s) but your conversations have helped me understand how to verbalise and put into context my experiences as a woman. And now as a mum of a 30 year old girl/ woman your incisive reading into culture feels like it has completed the circle. Thank you for this. Love you both

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    MumofG
    United Kingdom4 months ago
  • Love these two

    I’ve needed this podcast, thank you both .

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    rockandorrollz
    United Kingdom5 months ago

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93: I’m addicted to guilt. What’s wrong with me?
Q: What actually governs your moral system?
Moya discusses the complexities of morality and recognizes the tension between societal expectations and personal well-being.
91: If there’s no ‘ethical consumption’, can just I buy what I want?
Q: How do I approach this?
You might consider whether your expectations are realistic given that no one is perfect, and open a dialogue based on vulnerability and mutual respect.
89: Am I doomed to get more conservative as I get older?
Q: Is it inevitable that I will get more conservative as I get older?
The inevitability of becoming conservative with age isn't strictly established; rather, it seems to relate to personal growth and changing perspectives on political engagement.
85: Has pop culture turned to slop? w/ Kemi Alemoru
Q: What is the vision for Glamour?
Kemi aims to create a magazine that challenges, discovers, and fosters community among women, maintaining relevance by evolving with the modern British woman.
83: Is jealousy the spice of life?
Q: Can jealousy ever be a good thing?
It can bring excitement or spice into a relationship but too much is unhealthy.

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2. Dr. Annabel Sowemimo
3. Lanre Bakare
4. Kemi Alemoru
5. Sophie Gilbert
6. Jeremy Atherton Lin
7. Monica Heisey
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