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If I Speak

Novara Media
Relationships
Mental Health
Social Media
Friendship
Feminism
Pornography
Trans Rights
Grief
Consumerism
Modern Dating
Andrew Tate
Conservatism
Identity Politics
Public Shaming
Climate Activism
Communication
Financial Support
Gender Roles
Romantic Relationships
Radical Politics

Ash Sarkar and Moya Lothian-McLean sort the personal from the political, tackle listener dilemmas and air their opinions on the frustrations of modern life.

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Moya tunes into the background hum of money worries. Does our upbringing predict our attitude to finances? And does more money always equal more freedom? Plus:... more

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Ash talks to Moya about falling birth rates and the ‘crisis of association’ that’s stopping people from connecting with each other. It’s a big theory that touc... more

The girl boss is back – and this time she’s working class, mixed race and fully therapised. Moya asks Ash how we should make sense of Skims entrepreneur Emma Grede and the success of her book, Start With Yourself. Plus: which fantasy archetype are yo... more

Moya and Ash answer a mystery question about why so many people are going ‘no contact’ with their parents. How do our elders understand this epidemic of estrangement? Plus: How to deal with a jealous ex-boyfriend who lives down the road.

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Recent Guests

Emma Grede
Entrepreneur; co-founder/owner of brands like Good American and associated with Skims collaborations
Emma Grede (entrepreneur)
Episode: 114: Why we can’t let go of the girl boss
Matt Shea
Journalist and author
Vice (former), co-author of Clown World
Episode: 110: How Andrew Tate poisoned a generation of young men w/ Jamie Tahsin and Matt Shea
Jamie Tahsin
Journalist and author
Vice (former), co-author of Clown World
Episode: 110: How Andrew Tate poisoned a generation of young men w/ Jamie Tahsin and Matt Shea
Shon Faye
Best-selling author, broadcaster and former agony aunt
Self-employed/Author
Episode: 109: How can I tell my parents I’m a stripper? Your dilemmas solved w/ Shon Faye
William Rayfet Hunter
Author and former doctor
Author, Merky Books Sunstruck
Episode: 108: Is it time to quit your job? w/ William Rayfet Hunter
Jordan Stephens
Musician, broadcaster, and author of Avoidance Drugs, Heartbreak and Dogs
Episode: 94: Resentment, hostility, scarcity… is this modern dating? w/ Jordan Stephens
Dr. Annabel Sowemimo
Doctor, activist, and writer; sexual and reproductive health registrar in the NHS.
NHS
Episode: 90: Are rightwing politics affecting my sex life? w/ Dr Annabel Sowemimo
Lanre Bakare
Author of 'We Were There: How Black Culture, Resistance and Community Shaped Modern Britain'
Episode: 86: Why do we lap up other people’s horror stories?
Kemi Alemoru
Culture journalist, editor, presenter, and the new editorial director of Glamour UK.
Glamour UK
Episode: 85: Has pop culture turned to slop? w/ Kemi Alemoru

Hosts

Ash Sarkar
Host of If I Speak; discusses culture, politics, and personal experiences with wit and candor
Moya Lothian-McLean
Co-host of If I Speak; contributes as editor, writer, and commentator on culture and politics

Reviews

4.9 out of 5 stars from 1.6k ratings
  • Always look forward to this

    Such a good podcast! Not many people can switch so seamlessly between ‘high’ and ‘low’ culture with so much humour and knowledge. My favourite so far has been the switch from ‘what’s your favourite sandwich filler’ to ‘when did you have your journalistic awakening’

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    CTC12
    United Kingdoma month ago
  • Love

    For so many things, but one is as an autistic woman hearing two friends talk through sensitive subjects with respect and love, even when feelings or opinions differ, I learn so much. Grateful and highly recommend. Gave me perspective and understanding. So generous and two highly intelligent and hilarious women.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Nellbu
    United Kingdom2 months ago
  • One of my favourite podcasts

    I’ve recommended this podcast to my friendship circles. I feel like I’m learning so much about society and culture. I just feel smarter listening to smart women talking about very relevant but sometimes random things.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    UmashaU
    United Kingdom2 months ago
  • the best podcast

    Have now been listening to If I speak for coming up to two years, it’s the only podcast I have listened to every single episode of. Has genuinely made me a better person. Thank you ladies!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Pip🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋
    United Kingdom2 months ago
  • Brilliant!!!!!!

    Such beautiful people. I’ve learnt so much about myself and others. Absolutely essential listening.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    CMS2000
    United Kingdom2 months ago

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Smart, sharp, and funny—hosts make complex topics accessible.
Consistency and humor keep topics engaging and relatable.
Thoughtful, nuanced conversations with strong perspectives.
Respectful yet provocative dialogue, great for listeners who like depth without pretension.
A few critiques note pacing or balance between hosts at times.

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112: Should you chase a holiday romance?
Q: What should the listener do about the intense holiday romance with the age-gap partner who lives in different cities?
The hosts advise not to make big life decisions based on initial infatuation; acknowledge the intensity, enjoy the experience, keep plans flexible, and focus on long-term, tangible goals rather than crafting a future around a short-term romance.
109: How can I tell my parents I’m a stripper? Your dilemmas solved w/ Shon Faye
Q: How do you balance advocating for change with your personal life and mental health?
A mix of acknowledging limits, prioritizing mental health, and using personal experiences to inform activism without sacrificing one's well-being.
102: I’m not ready for a relationship – but I don’t want him to see other people
Q: How do I deal with wanting the best of both worlds?
You need to be honest with yourself about your desires and not try to mirror his wants if they conflict with yours.
100: We’re 100 episodes old – ask us anything!
Q: Are there any topics you've discussed that you've changed your mind about?
Yes, I've changed my opinion about linen trousers and political analysis.
100: We’re 100 episodes old – ask us anything!
Q: What do you think is your greatest skill?
Organizational skills.

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This show blends sharp cultural critique with practical life and relationship advice, anchored by two hosts who unpack politics, gender, and modern society through personal stories, listener dilemmas, and candid conversations. Episodes routinely thread together feminism, media, and everyday behavior, often featuring guests from journalism, activism, and entrepreneurship to illuminate how culture shapes power, work, and intimacy. A standout pattern is honest, witty dialogue that pairs sociopolitical analysis with relatable real-life scenarios, making complex ideas accessible and entertaining for a broad, engaged audience.

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If I Speak launched 2 years ago and published 120 episodes to date. You can find more information about this podcast including rankings, audience demographics and engagement in our podcast database.

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Recent guests on If I Speak include:

1. Emma Grede
2. Matt Shea
3. Jamie Tahsin
4. Shon Faye
5. William Rayfet Hunter
6. Jordan Stephens
7. Dr. Annabel Sowemimo
8. Lanre Bakare

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