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If I Speak

Novara Media
Relationships
Mental Health
Social Media
Friendship
Feminism
Pornography
Trans Rights
Consumerism
Grief
Modern Dating
Andrew Tate
Conservatism
Identity Politics
Gender Roles
Public Shaming
Anxiety
Climate Activism
Communication
Financial Support
Romantic Relationships

Ash Sarkar and Moya Lothian-McLean sort the personal from the political, tackle listener dilemmas and air their opinions on the frustrations of modern life.

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Latest Episodes

Ash has had life-changing experience for only £38. Has she found the key to escaping her fight-or-flight response? And what’s the best way to process anxiety? Plus: how to respond when your partner’s porn habit makes you feel weird.

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Have we finally had enough of hyper-consumerism? Moya and Ash confront the political crises that are changing our attitudes to spending, and what that’s got to do with the World Cup and cerulean sweaters. Plus: what to do when you’ve lost all motivat... more

Trapped in the attention economy, Moya wonders if our reading habits are affecting our sense of self, and Ash offers a feminist analysis of ‘main character’ versus ‘NPC’. Plus: what to do when your politics drift away from your friends’.

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Ash dreams up a whole new category – Disasterclass – in order to talk about inevitable pain of rejection. Whether it’s jobs, romance, friends or success, how much damage can rejection ultimately cause? Plus: early reviews of the Andy Burnham era.

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Recent Guests

Annie Lord
Author of The Project
Episode: 122: Can you change who you’re attracted to? w/ Annie Lord
Emma Grede
Entrepreneur; co-founder/owner of brands like Good American and associated with Skims collaborations
Emma Grede (entrepreneur)
Episode: 114: Why we can’t let go of the girl boss
Matt Shea
Journalist and author
Vice (former), co-author of Clown World
Episode: 110: How Andrew Tate poisoned a generation of young men w/ Jamie Tahsin and Matt Shea
Jamie Tahsin
Journalist and author
Vice (former), co-author of Clown World
Episode: 110: How Andrew Tate poisoned a generation of young men w/ Jamie Tahsin and Matt Shea
Shon Faye
Best-selling author, broadcaster and former agony aunt
Self-employed/Author
Episode: 109: How can I tell my parents I’m a stripper? Your dilemmas solved w/ Shon Faye
William Rayfet Hunter
Author and former doctor
Author, Merky Books Sunstruck
Episode: 108: Is it time to quit your job? w/ William Rayfet Hunter
Lanre Bakare
Author of 'We Were There' and arts and culture correspondent for The Guardian
The Guardian
Episode: 95: Does British culture need saving? w/ Lanre Bakare
Jordan Stephens
Musician, broadcaster, and author of Avoidance Drugs, Heartbreak and Dogs
Episode: 94: Resentment, hostility, scarcity… is this modern dating? w/ Jordan Stephens
Dr. Annabel Sowemimo
Doctor, activist, and writer; sexual and reproductive health registrar in the NHS.
NHS
Episode: 90: Are rightwing politics affecting my sex life? w/ Dr Annabel Sowemimo

Hosts

Ash Sarkar
Host of If I Speak with extensive experience in political commentary and media.
Moya Lothian-McLean
Co-host with sharp cultural critique and relatable, candid discussion style.

Reviews

4.9 out of 5 stars from 1.7k ratings
  • Always look forward to this

    Such a good podcast! Not many people can switch so seamlessly between ‘high’ and ‘low’ culture with so much humour and knowledge. My favourite so far has been the switch from ‘what’s your favourite sandwich filler’ to ‘when did you have your journalistic awakening’

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    CTC12
    United Kingdom4 months ago
  • Love

    For so many things, but one is as an autistic woman hearing two friends talk through sensitive subjects with respect and love, even when feelings or opinions differ, I learn so much. Grateful and highly recommend. Gave me perspective and understanding. So generous and two highly intelligent and hilarious women.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Nellbu
    United Kingdom4 months ago
  • One of my favourite podcasts

    I’ve recommended this podcast to my friendship circles. I feel like I’m learning so much about society and culture. I just feel smarter listening to smart women talking about very relevant but sometimes random things.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    UmashaU
    United Kingdom5 months ago
  • the best podcast

    Have now been listening to If I speak for coming up to two years, it’s the only podcast I have listened to every single episode of. Has genuinely made me a better person. Thank you ladies!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Pip🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋
    United Kingdom5 months ago
  • Brilliant!!!!!!

    Such beautiful people. I’ve learnt so much about myself and others. Absolutely essential listening.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    CMS2000
    United Kingdom5 months ago

Listeners Say

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Thoughtful, funny, and smart; the hosts balance warmth with sharp analysis.
Engaging and relatable, though some episodes skew long and reflective.
Consistently insightful on culture and politics with practical relationship advice.
No adverts; the conversation feels intimate and authentic.
Guest diversity not required; strong dialogue between hosts keeps it engaging.

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122: Can you change who you’re attracted to? w/ Annie Lord
Q: What do you think about the idea that you can change who you're attracted to over time?
The guest and hosts discuss how attraction evolves with personal growth, therapy, and changing life circumstances, emphasizing that being open to change can lead to healthier, more compatible relationships rather than sticking rigidly to a preconceived 'type'.
115: Help! My partner has been hiding huge debts from me
Q: Should the listener stay with someone who has hidden a large amount of debt and is later dealing with addiction, or is this a betrayal that warrants ending the relationship?
The hosts treat it as a complex breach that combines betrayal with addiction. They recommend couples therapy to address emotions and trust, separation of finances to protect the listener, and establishing firm boundaries to prevent enabling destructive behavior, while acknowledging that recovery and relationship viability depend on the partner seeking and sustaining help.
112: Should you chase a holiday romance?
Q: What should the listener do about the intense holiday romance with the age-gap partner who lives in different cities?
The hosts advise not to make big life decisions based on initial infatuation; acknowledge the intensity, enjoy the experience, keep plans flexible, and focus on long-term, tangible goals rather than crafting a future around a short-term romance.
109: How can I tell my parents I’m a stripper? Your dilemmas solved w/ Shon Faye
Q: How do you balance advocating for change with your personal life and mental health?
A mix of acknowledging limits, prioritizing mental health, and using personal experiences to inform activism without sacrificing one's well-being.
102: I’m not ready for a relationship – but I don’t want him to see other people
Q: How do I deal with wanting the best of both worlds?
You need to be honest with yourself about your desires and not try to mirror his wants if they conflict with yours.

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Two hosts mix personal life with sharp cultural and political critique, tackling listener dilemmas and offering practical relationship, identity, and life-advice content. Recent episodes skim themes like anxiety, burnout, consumer culture, dating, and gender dynamics, often pairing candid banter with policy- or culture-forward insights. Noteworthy is the balance between warmth and honesty, plus a willingness to tackle thorny topics with nuance and humor, making it appealing to listeners who enjoy thoughtful conversation with a relatable duo.

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If I Speak launched 3 years ago and published 130 episodes to date. You can find more information about this podcast including rankings, audience demographics and engagement in our podcast database.

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1. Annie Lord
2. Emma Grede
3. Matt Shea
4. Jamie Tahsin
5. Shon Faye
6. William Rayfet Hunter
7. Lanre Bakare
8. Jordan Stephens

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