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Join the duo, Andrey Korikov, and Adam Lane Smith The Attachment Specialist, as they cut through the noise with bold, unfiltered discussions on love, connection, and relationships. From questions about love, psychology, and relationships to discussing the latest shifts in the culture and media, they’ll cover it all. If you’re ready for a podcast that’s as insightful and real as it gets—buckle up a... more

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What happens when attachment makes love something you have to earn? Adam and Annie uncover how childhood trauma and disorganized attachment make people perform for love instead of feeling safe being real.

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What happens when toxic attachment feels like love? Maggie opens up about an 11-year relationship marked by addiction and emotional chaos, uncovering how her father’s betrayal shaped her patterns and need to rescue others.

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What happens when Quiet Disorganized Attachment makes love feel unsafe but loneliness unbearable? Adam reveals how this hidden attachment style forms, why it’s so misunderstood, and how healing begins.

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What happens when an avoidant man is confronted with the emotional truths his partner has been holding back?

In this episode, Adam invites a couple to face nine brutally honest relationship challenges. The conversation dives into emotional shutdowns... more

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Amy Jo Moore
A beginner YouTuber focused on personal growth
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Episode: What Disorganized Attachment Really Feels Like
Max Trombly
Coach and expert in men's emotional health and relationships
Independent
Episode: Can MEN Really Find FREEDOM from Emotional Numbness and Disconnection
Dawn Dubelbeis
A trauma-informed coach who is working on her attachment style.
Overcoming Your Trauma
Episode: Modern Dating Is Exhausting For Women - Learn How To Finally Feel Loved
Kelly Chase
Reality TV star from Netflix's Love Is Blind and host of the podcast Chase Life with Kelly
Chase Life with Kelly
Episode: Kelly Chase & Adam Lane Smith: Why I Said No at the Altar
Brandon Doerkse
Personal development speaker and marriage recovery advocate
Episode: He Broke Her Heart But Won Her Back | Brandon Doerkse
Julia Mazur
Dating expert and host of Pretty Much Done podcast
Episode: Why Women Settle (and How to Finally Put Yourself First)
Aurora Culpo
A brilliant and articulate woman discussing her experiences with dating and relationships.
Episode: Aurora Culpo: ‘I Only Date Avoidant Men…’ Here’s Why
Jamie Date
Dating coach specializing in helping men navigate the modern dating landscape.
Episode: #1 Advice From Men’s Dating Coach: Modern Women Want THIS
Sathiya Sam
Addiction recovery expert and author
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Episode: Sathiya Sam UNVEILS The ONLY Way To End An Addiction

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Adam Lane Smith
Co-host and Attachment Specialist, focusing on emotional connections and relationship dynamics, guiding discussions with personal anecdotes and professional insights.

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4.7 out of 5 stars from 127 ratings
  • Liberal views

    Tried to listen to it but when women in Texas are talking about not being allowed to kill their babies, it is not a podcast for me.

    Apple Podcasts
    1
    Toddboy79
    United States8 months ago
  • Amazing advice for relationships

    I love the calm and focused discussions about male and female nature. Always very good points to learn and think about.

    I highly recommend this podcast!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Lukas0015
    Germany2 years ago
  • Meaty and substantive

    I find myself listening to the very end of almost every episode. Love the depth of knowledge and topics around male-female relations. Keep up the good work!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    golfgirleen
    United States2 years ago
  • Not a good human

    Do not work with Adam one on one. He just wants money.

    Apple Podcasts
    1
    growup10
    United States2 years ago
  • Values first

    Leading people through modern relationships with the right first principles and deep practical experience. Glad to have run across this podcast.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    neight428
    United States2 years ago

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She Felt Invisible for 23 Years — This Is What He Didn’t See
Q: What was your childhood like growing up with your parents? What was the connection like?
There was no love, no hugs, and no vacations. My parents just provided basic needs, and I thought that was what love was.
63 Days to Rewire Your Brain & Relationships (Dr. Caroline Leaf)
Q: When we have positive experiences, does that also change our brain?
Absolutely, change happens all the time, and we can direct that change.
Modern Dating Is Exhausting For Women - Learn How To Finally Feel Loved
Q: When should I bring up conversations about needs in a relationship?
Adam suggests bringing this up by the third date to establish expectations and boundaries early on.
Modern Dating Is Exhausting For Women - Learn How To Finally Feel Loved
Q: Why do I choose emotionally unavailable men?
Dawn reflects on the lack of emotional safety she felt growing up, leading to unrecognized patterns in her relationships.
What Makes an Avoidant Man Feel Safe Enough to Stay
Q: What is the hardest thing about marriage?
Kimmi is curious about the challenges of marriage, especially with continuous personal changes.

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