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Join the duo, Andrey Korikov, and Adam Lane Smith The Attachment Specialist, as they cut through the noise with bold, unfiltered discussions on love, connection, and relationships. From questions about love, psychology, and relationships to discussing the latest shifts in the culture and media, they’ll cover it all. If you’re ready for a podcast that’s as insightful and real as it gets—buckle up a... more

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Adam Lane Smith celebrates three years of the I Wish You Knew podcast by reading your wildest comments, answering your most pressing questions, and sharing what he has learned from three years of conversations with guests from every walk of life.

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Jeff St. James
Psychology expert, licensed professional clinical counselor
Ask a Brotha podcast
Episode: What Couples Therapy Gets Wrong About Men | Jeff St. James & Adam Lane Smith
Dr. Sue Carter
world-leading expert on oxytocin and vasopressin bonding
Kinsey Institute, Indiana University
Episode: The Science of Why You Cannot Feel Loved | Dr. Sue Carter & Adam Lane Smith
Aaron Kheriaty
Physician, psychiatrist, and ethicist; author of Making the Cut and public commentator.
University/Medical Ethics context mentioned in discussion
Episode: What Psychiatry Gets Wrong About Attachment and Mental Health | Dr. Aaron Kheriaty & Adam Lane Smith
Brandon Wade
Founder of seekingarrangement.com
Seeking Arrangement
Episode: What It Takes to Win an Avoidant Man's Heart | Brandon & Dana Wade
Dana Wade
Co-founder of the platform with Brandon, partner in life and business
Seeking Arrangement
Episode: What It Takes to Win an Avoidant Man's Heart | Brandon & Dana Wade
Amy Morin
Author and clinical social worker specializing in mental strength
Author of The 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do
Episode: 13 Habits That Build Emotional Resilience | Amy Morin and Adam Lane Smith
Ralph Brewer
Founder of Help For Men, author, speaker on attachment and recovery after divorce
Help For Men
Episode: What Divorce Does to a Man’s Psychology | Adam Lane Smith & Ralph Brewer
Rachel Cruze
Author and speaker focused on money and relationships; daughter of Dave Ramsey
Ramsey Network
Episode: Why 83% of Relationship Money Fights Are About Attachment | Rachel Cruze and Adam Lane Smith
Freya India
Author and speaker focused on secure attachment and the impact of social media on girls and women
Author, Girls Generation Z and the Commodification of Everything
Episode: Why Gen Z Women Are Lonelier Than Ever (& How To Fix It) | Freya India

Hosts

Adam Lane Smith
Host of I Wish You Knew and The Attachment Specialist; discusses psychology, relationships, and culture; co-host and discussion guide.
Andrey Korikov
Co-host of I Wish You Knew; contributes to discussions on love, culture, and relationship dynamics.

Reviews

4.6 out of 5 stars from 167 ratings
  • Get to the point

    I listened to one episode with January, and if you’re going to make statements about how women don’t know how to be women anymore, you’d best get to the point of what you mean… and she doesn’t. So I’m out on this podcast show. Better hosting is needed.

    Apple Podcasts
    4
    lcamadio
    Canada2 months ago
  • Liberal views

    Tried to listen to it but when women in Texas are talking about not being allowed to kill their babies, it is not a podcast for me.

    Apple Podcasts
    1
    Toddboy79
    United States2 years ago
  • Amazing advice for relationships

    I love the calm and focused discussions about male and female nature. Always very good points to learn and think about.

    I highly recommend this podcast!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Lukas0015
    Germany2 years ago
  • Meaty and substantive

    I find myself listening to the very end of almost every episode. Love the depth of knowledge and topics around male-female relations. Keep up the good work!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    golfgirleen
    United States3 years ago
  • Not a good human

    Do not work with Adam one on one. He just wants money.

    Apple Podcasts
    1
    growup10
    United States3 years ago

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High-quality guests and deep, actionable insights for couples and individuals.
Thoughtful, bold takes on relationship dynamics that are both practical and provocative.
Audience values depth and practical strategies, with some strong opinions about gender and culture.
Listeners praise the host's ability to blend science, spirituality, and everyday life in relationships.
Noted for comprehensive discussion and real-world frameworks, though some episodes spark controversy.

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What Couples Therapy Gets Wrong About Men | Jeff St. James & Adam Lane Smith
Q: How should couples approach paternity testing and prenups?
The speakers argue for proactive, open conversations about paternity and prenups, emphasizing mutual safety and fairness, with the belief that clear expectations reduce conflict and build stronger foundations.
What Couples Therapy Gets Wrong About Men | Jeff St. James & Adam Lane Smith
Q: What does safe masculinity look like in a monogamous, loving relationship?
Safe masculinity is defined as a man who is sovereign over himself, responsibly protects and supports those he loves, and engages in daily practices that build trust, safety, and emotional stability without suppressing his authentic self.
What It Takes to Win an Avoidant Man's Heart | Brandon & Dana Wade
Q: What role did transparency and honesty play in transforming your relationship?
Radical honesty allowed both to grow, change perspectives, and commit on their own terms, turning a non-marital start into a durable partnership.
What It Takes to Win an Avoidant Man's Heart | Brandon & Dana Wade
Q: What does a daily marriage practice look like for you two?
They prioritize nightly check-ins, separate work and relationship time, and use open communication to navigate life challenges together, reinforcing trust and collaboration.
What It Takes to Win an Avoidant Man's Heart | Brandon & Dana Wade
Q: How did Dana attract you from a place where you were against marriage?
Dana's genuine curiosity, willingness to ask deep questions on a first date, and radical honesty showed that beyond appearances there was a strong, values-aligned connection.

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