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F*ck Buddies: A Sex and Dating Advice Podcast

Dain Miller & Niall Spain
Relationships
Dating
Communication In Relationships
Consent
Dating Advice
Body Image
Communication
Sexual Communication
Toxic Masculinity
Sex Education
Relationship Dynamics
Insecurities
Sexual Health
Dating Apps
Pride
My Fault
Intimacy Issues
Sexual Intimacy
Intimacy
Kink

Welcome to F*ck Buddies (@Fck_Buddies), the dating and sex advice podcast setting out to smash toxic masculinity and rape culture. We’re here to answer all of your sticky, sexy questions! With hosts Dain Miller (@TheDainiac) and Niall Spain (@NiallSpain). Submit your questions by e-mailing fbuddiespodcast@gmail.com!

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Tim Lagman
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Trevor Campbell
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Trevill Campbell
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Hosts

Dain Miller
Host of Fck Buddies: A Sex and Dating Advice Podcast
Niall Spain
Co-host of Fck Buddies: A Sex and Dating Advice Podcast

Reviews

4.7 out of 5 stars from 139 ratings
  • Dream team!

    Just being in the orbit of Niall and Dain’s friendship is worth the price of admission ($0) but these guys are both weird and wise — the two qualities I prize in a podcast. Highly recommended!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Teedee76
    Canadaa year ago
  • Love these guys

    So funny and smart! They are the best - just saw their live show last night at Black Sheep and they filled the whole place - awesome podcast

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    maninthebigyellowhat
    Canada3 years ago
  • Yay! Men holding men accountable!

    I found this show through the Canadian Podcast Awards at FanExpo. I love the perspective of the hosts and their mission to make sex and relationships more fun for everyone!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    refinnejennifer
    Canada4 years ago
  • It is my sincere belief that we need to normalize talking about sex. Not in a grody or harassment sort of way. Just… acknowledging it exists. That will demystify it and make people comfortable seeking help and advice. It goes without saying that I very much appreciate this podcast for doing just that. Hosts Niall and Dain speak very casually about all things sex and relationships. They cover a wide range of topics from contraception, to foreplay, to dating, and more. There were also listener que... more

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    5
    Potato Lady Bex Goos
    4 years ago
  • So honest

    I love how open and honest this show is. They discuss topics that need to be addressed more and they do it such an open way it’s amazing! Love the variety of topics covered and how honest it is. I would recommend everyone have a listen!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Ab2793
    United States5 years ago

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Open, honest conversations about consent and boundaries are frequently cited as a strength.
Listeners appreciate the hosts' accountability and respectful, sex-positive framing of topics.
Hosts mix blunt humor with practical relationship advice and a clear stance against toxic dating culture.

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Q: Is it reasonable for someone to want their partner to commit in a non-traditional way like a 'blood pact' instead of engagement?
The hosts strongly advise against extreme symbolic measures as substitutes for commitment, emphasizing that such acts can be unsafe or off-putting and often signal deeper compatibility issues; if either partner is uncomfortable, they should not proceed and reassess the relationship.
Bung Ho
Q: What should I do if my partner's medical notes say something worrying like 'currently sexually active with two male partners'?
Have a calm, in-person conversation to clarify what the note means, consider timing and context, and avoid jumping to conclusions or invading privacy; honesty and direct communication are preferred to accusations or paranoia.
Bung Ho
Q: Is the rule of thumb you should ask a girl out twice still valid?
The hosts explain that no single rule fits every situation; if someone says no, trust that boundary, and if they engage later due to changing circumstances, reassess without pressuring. The emphasis is on consent, context, and avoiding coercion, while recognizing that people may reconnect later if both feel comfortable and respected.
Looking for Guts
Q: Is there a recommended 'end point' for a relationship if communication continues to fail?
The hosts highlight that if removing a partner leads to a significantly better life, ending the relationship may be the healthier option, and encourage honest evaluation rather than staying due to inertia.
Looking for Guts
Q: What's the best approach if you're worried you're drifting apart after many years together?
They recommend a direct, non-accusatory discussion, possibly starting with a letter or note but delivered at a calm moment, and to avoid pressuring the partner by timing the talk around busy or stressful moments; they also propose writing out thoughts first to organize points.

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Two hosts deliver frank, boundary-driven conversations about modern dating, sex, and relationships. Blending blunt humor with practical advice, they tackle topics from consent and healthy masculinity to dating apps, kink, and navigating tricky social dynamics. Episodes frequently blend pop culture analogies, personal anecdotes, and listener questions to offer direct guidance on communication, boundaries, and respectful behavior in dating. A standout trait is the duo's mission to challenge toxic norms while keeping the discussion welcoming to a broad audience, including discussions on consent, respect, and evolving relationship norms. This show is likely to appeal to listeners seeking candid, no-nonsense relationship advice with a humorous e... more

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