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Fake Love and Flying Monkeys

Nova Gibson
Narcissistic Abuse
Toxic Relationships
Trauma Bonding
Narcissism
Emotional Abuse
Coercive Control
Domestic Violence
Empathy
Hoover Maneuver
Flying Monkeys
Mental Health
Boundaries
Self-Care
Covert Narcissism
Reactive Abuse
Post-Separation Abuse
Devaluation Stage
Love Bombing
Adult Child Of a Narcissist
Smear Campaign

A Toxic relationship and Fake love looks real—until it destroys you.Welcome to Fake Love and Flying Monkeys, the podcast that exposes the hidden dynamics of toxic relationships, narcissistic abuse, and emotional manipulation. Hosted by Nova Gibson, leading trauma-informed counsellor and Director of Brighter Outlook Narcissistic Abuse Counselling, this podcast is your guide to breaking free from th... more

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Trigger warning: Abuse doesn’t always start with obvious violence — it often begins with intimidation, manipulation, and control. The slammed fist into the wall beside your head, a plate hurled that just misses, your car blocked in so you can’t leave... more

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For a narcissist, the most terrifying moment isn’t when you argue, fight, or even walk out the door. Their real breaking point comes when they finally realise you are never coming back.

(For 1 on 1 online counselling in your own toxic relationship/n... more

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Ever wondered why some friendships leave you feeling drained, anxious, or doubting yourself? It might not be you — it could be a covert narcissist hiding in plain sight. In this episode, we dive into the subtle but serious dangers of having a covert ... more

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Ever find yourself constantly second-guessing your reality, apologising for things you didn’t do, or walking on eggshells to avoid someone’s anger? These are not just “relationship problems” — they may be signs you’re caught in the cycle of narcissis... more

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Bruce Bieber
Father of Deputy Abigail Bieber, advocate for victims of domestic violence
Episode: When the Officer Is the Abuser: Bruce Bieber on the Murder of His Daughter, Deputy Abigail Bieber
Dr. Sam Vaknin
Israeli writer and professor of psychology, author of 'Malignant Self-Love, Narcissism Revisited'
IMF and World Bank Affairs Consultant
Episode: Inside the Covert Narcissist’s Idealise, Devalue, Discard Cycle with Dr Sam Vaknin. Part 1
AJ Gajjar
Parenting and trauma specialist who advocates for children in high-conflict divorces.
Episode: How Domestic Violence and High-Conflict Divorce Harm Children: w/ AJ Gajjar
Azadeh Atzberger
Victim and survivor of narcissistic abuse, transformational life coach, and bestselling author.
Founder of Finally Free Life
Episode: Navigating Domestic Abuse and Addiction Recovery with Azadeh Atzberger
Ali Kessler
Writer, marketing professional, and founder of Greyson's Choice
Greyson's Choice
Episode: The Ultimate Price of Narcissistic Abuse: A Mother’s Tragic Story & Advocacy for Change (Trigger Warning)
Tracy Rector
Award-winning producer, speaker, author, and survivor of domestic violence
Episode: Narcissistic Abuse is "No Ordinary Love" - With Tracy Rector
Amanda Stern
An advocate for journaling who emphasizes self-love and self-discovery through writing.
Episode: Healing From Narcissistic Abuse - The Benefits of Journaling with Amanda Stern
Sybil Cummins
Licensed professional counsellor specializing in victims and survivors of narcissistic abuse and domestic violence.
Rising Beyond Power and Control
Episode: How do You Survive Post Separation Abuse? - with Sybil Cummin
Courtney Barton
Family lawyer and Director of Barton Family Lawyers
Barton Family Lawyers
Episode: Beating Narcissists in Court- The Golden Rules! with Courtney Barton

Host

Nova Gibson
Host of Fake Love and Flying Monkeys, providing insights on narcissistic abuse and emotional manipulation, together with practical strategies for recovery.

Reviews

4.7 out of 5 stars from 79 ratings
  • On point!

    Nova really knows her stuff and has a straightforward no nonsense approach that hits it right on the mark! I've had the pleasure also of reading her book and consulting with her, and it's with gratitude that I say she is the go-to person for understanding how to understand and free yourself from the narcissist's clutches.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    baghdadbaby
    United States7 months ago
  • Highly Recommend!

    This podcast has helped me realize occurrences when I was being abused that I had no idea were actually abuse. Listening has been so eye-opening and so validating. I appreciate the frequency of how often you post new episodes too. For anyone who is struggling to overcome narcissistic abuse, please check out this podcast.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Anonymous44544
    United Statesa year ago
  • Thank you

    Extremely helpful to process and recognize what I’ve been through. Thank you 🙏

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    PremierNP
    United Statesa year ago
  • Thank you

    I look forward to each new episode to help me understand better my life experience with a Narcissistic Mum and Sister. Nova’s book Fake Love made me realise my situation and I’ve felt free ever since. It was a light bulb moment. I was so thankful I emailed Nova right away. This podcast is a highlight of my week. My Air Pods in and a beach walk has me nodding along as I agree and understand what I’m hearing. Looking forward to more learnings as an Adult Daughter of an NM. Thanks so much.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Awesomeboden4
    Australiaa year ago
  • Excellent!

    Excellent podcast that explains narcissistic abuse and abusers in an easily understood approach

    Thanks Nova!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Mothrae
    Australiaa year ago

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Many express gratitude for the frequency of new episodes, indicating a desire for ongoing support in their healing journeys.
The practical strategies offered resonate deeply, empowering listeners to set boundaries and reclaim their lives from emotional manipulation.
Listeners appreciate the straightforward approach and clarity provided by the host, often stating that the content is validating and helpful in recognizing past abuses.

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Talking Points

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Inside the Covert Narcissist’s Idealise, Devalue, Discard Cycle with Dr Sam Vaknin. Part 1
Q: What are some techniques and strategies that narcissists use during devaluation?
Narcissists use techniques such as gaslighting, intermittent reinforcement, and projection to control and manipulate their victims.
Inside the Covert Narcissist’s Idealise, Devalue, Discard Cycle with Dr Sam Vaknin. Part 1
Q: What traits or vulnerabilities do narcissists typically target when selecting victims?
Narcissists view potential victims not for their qualities but as instruments for personal gain, and victims falsely believe they've been uniquely chosen.
How Domestic Violence and High-Conflict Divorce Harm Children: w/ AJ Gajjar
Q: What should victims of narcissistic abuse look for when choosing a counselor for their children?
They should inquire about the therapist's experience with trauma, particularly attachment trauma and domestic abuse.
How Domestic Violence and High-Conflict Divorce Harm Children: w/ AJ Gajjar
Q: How do you counsel children who don’t want to see the other parent in a high-conflict divorce?
I validate their feelings and encourage them to look forward to something positive after the visit, helping to shift their focus away from dread.
Navigating Domestic Abuse and Addiction Recovery with Azadeh Atzberger
Q: Azadeh, can you just tell us a little bit about the trauma bond when you were trying to stay away from him?
The narcissist was the drug dealer and would hook me with drugs, making it hard to escape.

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Frequently Asked Questions About Fake Love and Flying Monkeys

What is Fake Love and Flying Monkeys about and what kind of topics does it cover?

This podcast explores the hidden dynamics of toxic relationships, particularly focusing on narcissistic abuse and emotional manipulation. Hosted by a leading trauma-informed counselor, episodes feature practical strategies and clear explanations about common narcissistic behavior patterns, such as gaslighting, triangulation, and the silent treatment. The content is designed to empower listeners by helping them recognize abusive behaviors in various relationships, from romantic partners to family members, and offering tools to reclaim their autonomy and self-worth. The approach combines validation of the listeners' experiences with actionable steps toward healing, making it a crucial resource for anyone affected by narcissistic relationships... more

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2. Dr. Sam Vaknin
3. AJ Gajjar
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5. Ali Kessler
6. Tracy Rector
7. Amanda Stern
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