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Dimming The Gaslight: Our Healing Journey From Narcissistic Abuse

Dimming The Gaslight
Narcissistic Abuse
Mental Health
Co-Parenting
Emotional Abuse
Relationships
Divorce
Parenting
Family Court System
Narcissism
Trauma Bonds
Support For Survivors
Mental Health Recovery
Emotional Manipulation
Gaslighting
Healing Journey
Boundaries
Financial Abuse
Trust Issues
Emotional Health
Challenges Of Single Parenting

Welcome to the "Dimming The Gaslight" podcast. I'm Mac - a male survivor of Narcissistic Abuse. Week by week, I share my journey of divorcing a female narcissist, fighting for my young children, and navigating the complexity of the U.S. family court system. But it's not just my story – I want to hear from you too! If you want to be a guest on the show, please email me at DimmingTheGaslight@gmail.c... more

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Eddie is back from last week with part 2 of his story! From how he met his NEx, to the torment from her family, to realizing he was in a toxic relationship, Eddie’s story will continue to have you on the edge of your seat!

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Eddie is here with an insane story! With what starts with a road trip with his NEx that turns into a compete meltdown, Eddie takes us down memory lane with stories that will make the hair on your arms stand up!

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Matilda joins us all the way from Ireland to tell us about her story of parental alienation! After a shocking turn from her NEx at the birth of her first child, he began systematically trying to alienate her from her children. Now, Matilda is in the ... more

Ethan is a new friend of mine, and his story is WILD. From his ex constantly accusing him of cheating… to attacking him in his sleep… to even trying to stop him from learning about narcissism—Ethan’s journey will have you gasping from start to finish... more

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Recent Guests

Sandra Fava
Award-winning family law attorney and certified mediator in New Jersey, passionate about cases involving coercive control.
Fava Law
Episode: Episode 162: A Lawyer Discusses Coercive Control Laws (Interview with Sandra Fava ESQ)
David Littman
Retired detective specializing in domestic violence cases and former instructor at Morris County Police Academy.
Episode: Episode 161: A Retired Detective Talks About How He Responds to DV Calls (Interview With Detective David Littman)
Christopher Anderson
Family law attorney and advocate for clients dealing with narcissistic abuse
New Leaf Family Law
Episode: Episode 160: A Lawyer Discusses Narcissism In The Court Room (Interview with Christopher Anderson from New Leaf Family Law)
Kelly Sutliff
Star of HBO Max's "Toxic" series and survivor of narcissistic abuse
Episode: Episode 158: Kelly Sutliff From HBO Max's "Toxic" series Part I
Doug Buggle
Author and survivor of narcissistic abuse
Episode: Episode 157: Doug Buggle is Back with a HUGE Announcement!
Robbie Schwartz
Screenwriter and collaborator with Doug Buggle
Episode: Episode 157: Doug Buggle is Back with a HUGE Announcement!
Carla Litto
Licensed marriage and family therapist and author
Author of Outsmarting Egomaniacs
Episode: Episode 149: Outsmarting Egomaniacs with Psychotherapist Carla Litto
Dr. Joshua Smith
Psychologist and mental health expert
Episode: Episode 148: How to Grey Rock Your Anxiety with Psychologist Dr. Joshua Smith
Dr. Anthony Mazella
Expert on narcissism and host of The Narcissism Decoder podcast
The Narcissism Decoder
Episode: Episode 146: Dr. Anthony Mazella Talks Vulnerable Narcissism

Hosts

Mac
Host and male survivor of Narcissistic Abuse, sharing his journey of healing from abusive relationships and navigating the family court system.
Phil
Co-host, providing support and engaging discussions on the topics of narcissistic abuse and healing.

Reviews

4.4 out of 5 stars from 180 ratings
  • Comforting, Real, and Relatable

    Being on Dimming the Gaslight was a great experience. Mac and Phil made it feel like a genuine conversation between people who truly understood each other. It was easy to connect with them, and we had such meaningful dialogue about things most people don’t talk about enough. They create a safe, supportive space that makes it comfortable to open up, and I left the episode feeling heard and validated. I’m grateful for their work and the space they’ve created for survivors.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Kaylyn Hakanson the Author
    United States14 days ago
  • Mac and Phil are the real deal!

    Mac and Phil are the real deal.

    Being on Dimming the Gaslight was more than just an interview—it was a powerful, validating experience. Mac and Phil create a space where survivors can feel seen, heard, and understood. They ask thoughtful questions, they listen deeply, and they truly get what it means to survive narcissistic abuse. Mac’s willingness to share his own story brought a level of connection and empathy that’s rare. These two aren’t just podcast hosts—they’re advocates, allies, and fell... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Real Talk With Kelly
    United States3 months ago
  • Survivor

    I hate being referred to as a victim of narcissistic abuse. I will say I survived it and I continue to survive it everyday because overcoming narcissistic abuse is daily. There is no simple fix. It’s full of constant triggers. It’s a slow process of healing a little bit more and more as time goes on. I was married to someone for 12 years who abused me in every way possible… and so many of these episodes are spot on and validating. Which is why I love them. My ex was so good at “crazy making” and... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Camerin4
    United States5 months ago
  • Companion during troubles

    I started listening to this podcast during the beginning phases of my own divorce from a malignant narcissist. I would look forward to it every week. It was a big help in my time of need— just knowing that Mac and Phil’s nex-es—and my own— were so similar. It’s like they all ran the same operating system: Bully, Scheme, Delay, Accuse. Proved I was not going crazy.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Assertmnh
    United States6 months ago
  • An amazing podcast

    If you have ever been affected by Narciscisstic abuse, you know how hard recovery can be. Mac is so strong and brave for sharing his story from the beginning! Phil is a great addition to the show and I am so glad he’s here now too! This podcast has helped me so much with all I have endured. Such great people with a truly great and helpful podcast!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    K Delight
    United States6 months ago

Listeners Say

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Overall, the emotional resonance of the stories shared is frequently highlighted, with many stating the podcast has played a significant role in their healing journey.
Many appreciate the insightful discussions on narcissistic abuse, emphasizing their relatability and practical advice for recovery.
There's a strong sentiment that the podcast creates a supportive community for survivors, fostering connection and understanding among them.
Negative feedback suggests some listeners feel the hosts could improve on providing evidence-based insights rather than solely personal narratives.
Listeners express gratitude for the authentic stories shared, noting that they find solace and validation in the experiences of the hosts and guests.

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Recent interactions between the hosts and their guests.

Episode 164: A Woman Talks Parental Alienation (Interview With Matilda)
Q: What is your advice for someone going through a situation like yours?
Put them in a tricky situation to see their true colors, as I didn't do that.
Episode 162: A Lawyer Discusses Coercive Control Laws (Interview with Sandra Fava ESQ)
Q: How does coercive control influence custody determinations?
Judges rely heavily on experts and evidence surrounding coercive control; having the right lawyer and being organized with evidence is crucial in presenting your case.
Episode 162: A Lawyer Discusses Coercive Control Laws (Interview with Sandra Fava ESQ)
Q: What is your best advice for somebody who may be listening to this, who may be in a coercively abusive relationship?
The best advice is to come up with a plan, tell someone you trust about what is happening, gather evidence of abuse, and consider seeking professional help.
Episode 163: Ethan's Newly Out of His Narc Relationship
Q: What are you going to do to keep you from getting Hoovered back?
I'm trying to prepare myself for that.
Episode 160: A Lawyer Discusses Narcissism In The Court Room (Interview with Christopher Anderson from New Leaf Family Law)
Q: What would be the best way for survivors to gather and document evidence without escalating abuse?
Each situation requires specialized advice because documentation can be dangerous depending on the circumstances. It's important to consult a professional to determine the safest and most effective methods of gathering evidence relevant to their case.

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Content largely revolves around personal narratives and professional insights related to narcissistic abuse, emotional manipulation, and the experiences of survivors navigating the complexities of relationships marred by toxic dynamics. The podcast features a blend of survivor stories, expert interviews, and discussions about legal and mental health aspects affecting those in abusive situations. Noteworthy is its emphasis on community support and the healing journey following narcissistic abuse. It offers a platform for individuals to share their stories, contributing to collective understanding and empowerment among listeners who may have faced similar adversities.

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1. Sandra Fava
2. David Littman
3. Christopher Anderson
4. Kelly Sutliff
5. Doug Buggle
6. Robbie Schwartz
7. Carla Litto
8. Dr. Joshua Smith

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