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Dates & Mates with Damona Hoffman

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Dating Apps
Compatibility
F the Fairy Tale
Relationships
Astrology
Love
New Year's Resolutions
Relationship Goals
Breakups
Dating
Boundaries
Valentine's Day
Gen Z
Non-Monogamy
Decluttering
Dating Dynamics
Dating Mistakes
Online Dating
Emotional Maturity
Dating Strategies

From navigating dating apps to overcoming the friendzone to seeking a soulmate, this ain’t your momma’s love advice! Hosted by the Official Love Expert of The Drew Barrymore Show and LA Times advice columnist, Damona Hoffman, Dates & Mates is jam-packed with interviews from your favorites celebs, authors, and experts. Dates & Mates is the 2022 Winner of The Best Podcast of the Year at The Black Po... more

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Do you believe that Love Wins? Dates & Mates is a finalist for our first-ever Signal Award, and we need every single listener to make their voice heard. We are the ONLY relationship-focused and independently produced podcast nominated in the How To &... more

What happens if you get to the third date and it still feels awkward? Grin and bear it? Or keep waiting for chemistry? And how can you trust that your gut is telling you the right thing?

This week, a listener shares: "I met a man who checks every bo... more

This week, Damona is joined by her longtime friend, TV and TikTok superstarMatchmaker Maria, a fourth-generation matchmaker with no time for fairy tale fluff.

They get real about why dating feels so lonely now,, the truth about relationship timeline... more

We often talk about romance, but this week, we’re taking a closer look at the quiet epidemic affecting millions: the erosion of deep friendships and emotional openness, especially among men.

What happens when someone says “I miss you”... and it feel... more

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Dr. Drew Pinsky
Doctor of Internal Medicine and addiction specialist, known for his work on Loveline and other mental health and relationship shows.
Ask Dr. Drew
Episode: Dr. Drew & Loveline Legacy: Rewind
Dr. Orna Guralnik
Clinical psychologist and psychoanalyst, host of the hit Showtime television series Couples Therapy.
Couples Therapy
Episode: Couples Therapy & Dr. Orna Guralnik: Rewind
Jay Shetty
Life coach and number one New York Times bestselling author
On Purpose
Episode: Jay Shetty on Pursuing What You Love, from IMO
Amanda Pendleton
Zillow's Home Trends Expert and Emmy Award-winning storyteller
Zillow
Episode: The Singles Tax & New LDR
Bea Victoria Albina
Family nurse practitioner, somatic experience practitioner, master-certified somatic life coach, and breathwork meditation guide
Episode: Dysregulated Dating & Beginning Again
Johnny Fernandez
Love and life coach with a unique perspective on dating and relationships.
Episode: Is Dating Harder Today & Coming On Strong
Lyndsey Jill Roth
Award-winning television producer and author
Producer for NBC, BET, ESPN, and more.
Episode: Romances & Practicalities
Devyn Simone
Tinder's resident relationship expert, renowned matchmaker, and dating expert
Tinder
Episode: Tinder Trivia & Getting Ghosted
Julie Krafchick
Author and Podcaster
Host of the Dateable Podcast
Episode: How To Be Dateable & Rarely Into Anyone

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Damona Hoffman
Host of Dates & Mates and Official Love Expert of The Drew Barrymore Show, providing insights and advice on modern relationships and dating.

Reviews

4.7 out of 5 stars from 452 ratings
  • Great podcast!

    I absolutely adore this podcast. It’s fun and informational. If you’re navigating the modern world of dating, this is definitely worth a listen :)

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Lucy M.P
    United States7 months ago
  • Transformative and Empowering

    Damona’s podcast is a masterclass is navigating modern relationships with clarity and intention. Her blend of wispy and actionable advice inspires real growth and meaningful connections.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Dana Nygaard, LPC
    United States9 months ago
  • F the Fairy Tale

    What a refreshing book. I feel like it had this sense of practicality and just so much wisdom. I feel like Damona has such an open, loving, sensible approach to dating with a goal of finding real relationships that really resonates with me.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Gurlhowdy
    United Statesa year ago
  • Dating Reality Check

    Read the book and can’t stop listening to the podcast! Love Damona’s perspective on dating. She tells it like it is and gives actionable tools you can use dating in the world today!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    abitocd
    United States2 years ago
  • Relationship Expert

    Great advice, fun podcast. Thanks Damona!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    PRGirl47
    United States2 years ago

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There are critiques regarding inclusiveness, with some feeling the content predominantly appeals to certain demographics, particularly younger women.
Many find the advice practical and actionable, highlighting its relevance to their daily dating lives.
Overall, the podcast is recognized for addressing modern dating challenges in a supportive manner.
Listeners appreciate the engaging and informative nature of the content, often describing it as fun and relatable.

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Good on Paper & Sixth Sense of Humor
Q: Dear Damona, I'm starting to wonder if there's something wrong with me. I've done the work you've suggested... I'm worried that I'm letting decent men slip by just because they're not funny. I don't know how to override this though.
You deserve to find someone who meets your emotional needs and seeking a partner that makes you laugh is valid.
The 12 Date Rule & Matchmaker Maria
Q: Maria, can you explain what the 12 Date Rule is?
The 12 Date Rule is a method where individuals go on 12 dates before becoming intimate, allowing them to build intentional connections.
I Miss You Taboo & The Bro Barrier
Q: What do you think about the ability of men to express emotions to each other?
Both genders have valid perspectives, with men often feeling societal pressures against expressing vulnerability.
The Friendship Drift & Support Squads
Q: Is this just what happens when people grow up and grow apart, or is there a way to reconnect without it feeling forced or awkward?
Yes, relationships can evolve, and it's important to address changes by fostering deeper conversations and understanding each other's emotional states.
Feminine Energy Fatigue & The Myth of Being Chosen
Q: How do I learn the skills to become a powerful strong woman?
You become a powerful, strong woman for yourself, not for someone else.

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Focused on modern dating and relationships, this podcast offers practical advice and relatable insights for singles navigating the complexities of dating in today's world. The discussions range from matchmaking principles and emotional intimacy to the societal dynamics influencing romantic connections, encouraging listeners to embrace authenticity and vulnerability in their relationships. With a blend of expert interviews, personal anecdotes, and listener dilemmas, the host aims to equip individuals with tools to foster meaningful connections while addressing contemporary challenges such as technology's impact and evolving gender norms. The lively format and relatable content make this an appealing choice for anyone looking to improve their... more

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1. Dr. Drew Pinsky
2. Dr. Orna Guralnik
3. Jay Shetty
4. Amanda Pendleton
5. Bea Victoria Albina
6. Johnny Fernandez
7. Lyndsey Jill Roth
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