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boy meets therapy

Dustin Oliver
Religious Trauma
Minority Stress
Therapy
Attachment Theory
LGBTQ+ Relationships
New York City
LGBTQ
Second Adolescence
Self-Determination Theory
LGBTQ+ Community
Gay Men
Social Media
Parallel Life
Grindr
Friendship
Mental Health
Code Switching
Deconstruction
Eating Disorders
Sleep

Hosted by therapist Dustin Oliver, MHC-LP, boy meets therapy blends clinical research with real conversations about vulnerability, relationships, friendship, identity, and culture with an emphasis on the LGBTQ+ community. Episodes feature solo insights and in-depth interviews with licensed professionals who share both their expertise and their humanity. Perfect for queer listeners, allies, and men... more

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Latest Episodes

NYC therapist and host of boy meets therapy podcast Dustin answers questions from viewers submitted via Instagram.

This week, we talk about crushes on our straight friends and accepting that you may not be a match with someone after dating for two w... more

Why do some gay men “sound gay”? And can people actually tell someone’s sexuality just by hearing their voice?

In this episode, we look at the psychology and science of the “gay voice,” from auditory gaydar and the vocal characteristics researchers ... more

NYC therapist and host of boy meets therapy podcast Dustin answers questions from viewers submitted via Instagram.

This week, we look at the romanticization of someone who doesn't feel the same way and what happens when we want to say "I love you" a... more

Hookup culture is one of the most visible, debated, and misunderstood parts of gay male culture, but what does psychology actually tell us about it?

In this episode, we explore the psychology of gay hookup culture, including how it developed, why ga... more

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Recent Guests

Sean Hershey
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Episode: Chronic Pain and Mind-Body Connection with Sean Hershey
Nicole Gress
Speech-language pathologist and founder of Undead Voice
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Episode: Transgender Voice Training: Finding Vocal Euphoria with Nicole Gress of Undead Voice
Jordan Schatz
Therapist in New York City who specializes in ADHD and works with LGBTQ+ clients
Private practice (NYC)
Episode: ADHD, Time Blindness, and a Little Bit of Gay Chaos with Jordan Schatz
Eric Batchelder
Therapist and social worker based in Nashville, Tennessee
Nashville-based clinic
Episode: Intimate Partner Violence in LGBTQ+ Relationships: Power, Shame, and Vulnerability
John Gillespie
Therapist based in the UK who works with kink and BDSM communities
Episode: Kink: Notes From Clinical and Personal Experiences
Tyler Mafi
Therapist in private practice
Brooklyn, New York
Episode: Queer Search for Meaning: Dating, Identity, and Defining Purpose
A. Jordan Wright
Clinical psychologist; NYU professor and leader in assessment and queer-inclusive practice.
New York University
Episode: Queering Mental Health: Microaggressions, Diagnosis, and Culture with Dr. A. Jordan Wright
Luke Wilson
Guest survivor and researcher sharing experiences with conversion therapy
Academic and survivor advocate
Episode: Overcoming Conversion Therapy: Dr. Luke Wilson on Shame, Faith, and Finding Self-Acceptance
Liz Rhea
Queer-identified therapist focusing on religious trauma and deconstruction
Independent practitioner (Georgia)
Episode: Healing Religious Trauma: Queer Identity, Deconstruction, and Inner Child Work with Liz Rhea

Host

Dustin Oliver
Host of Boy Meets Therapy; NYC-based clinician and therapist

Reviews

4.9 out of 5 stars from 165 ratings
  • Thoughtful and needed

    I’ve looked for podcasts that handle topics about gay mens’ mental health with this much care and haven’t found anything as considered. I thought the Fantasy Relationships episode was well-researched and felt like a conversation rather than a lecture or designed for engagement. I identified a lot with the dynamics highlighted.

    Also, it’s great to have the video episode on Apple Podcasts without ads or scrolling pulling you somewhere else.

    Keep going!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    eeeteepee
    United Kingdom2 months ago
  • ok

    Could be better

    Apple Podcasts
    1
    comeeedey
    United Kingdom3 months ago
  • Great Pod for Gays

    Dustin knows his stuff and is informative, empathetic, and fun. It really does feel like he’s speaking directly to me as a gay person. Highly recommend!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    defensemaaaaan3
    United States3 months ago
  • A Must-Listen for Queer Self-Discovery & Healing

    I don’t say this lightly when I say this podcast genuinely feels like a safe space. Dustin has an outstanding ability to blend clinical insight with raw humanity in a way that feels incredibly validating, especially for a queer listener.

    What truly sets Dustin apart from other hosts is his authenticity in conversations. It feels like you’re sitting down with someone who genuinely understands and empathizes. The topics discussed are affirming and incredibly healing to hear out loud.

    If you iden... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Kaleb Ammons
    United States3 months ago
  • Outstanding

    Dustin, it’s like you’re speaking directly to me and my experiences. The religious trauma series is incredibly insightful and valuable. I’ve already listened multiple times and will continue to do so.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    AVLLee
    United States4 months ago

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Guests compliment Dustin's interviewing style as curious, engaging, and thoughtful.
Listeners praise the religious trauma series for being insightful and practical.
Audience notes Dustin as an authentic, empathetic host who blends clinical insight with relatable storytelling.
The show is repeatedly recommended by therapists and LGBTQ+ professionals for credibility and approachable therapy concepts.

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Gay Friends are Superficial and Only Want to Hookup? | Therapist Q&Gay
Q: What can I do to stop connections from feeling superficial or sex-driven and build real friendships?
Focus on environments geared toward platonic interactions and invest in repeated contact with people who share interests, while reducing pressure on every initial interaction to become a friendship. Create opportunities for low-stakes, regular interaction and reflect on what you define as 'putting yourself out there' to ensure it supports genuine connection.
Do We Ever Overcome Internalized Homophobia? | Therapist Q&Gay
Q: What should you do when friends don't make plans for you but do for others?
He recommends evaluating how much a person is prioritized by their friends, highlighting reciprocation as a key indicator of healthy relationships. If someone consistently responds slowly or excludes you from plans, it may reflect on their level of regard for you, and it's important to reassess those connections while seeking relationships where mutual involvement and support are present.
Do We Ever Overcome Internalized Homophobia? | Therapist Q&Gay
Q: What should someone do if they've never been in a relationship by age 25 and feel stuck?
The host advises examining one's friendship network and social circles to understand what is shaping dating outcomes, looking at patterns in dating experiences, and considering whether a lack of close support or belonging might be contributing to relationship challenges. He cautions against generic answers and encourages analyzing dating history, exploring what has worked or not worked in past attempts, and ensuring that friendships and community support are strong before pursuing romance.
Do We Ever Overcome Internalized Homophobia? | Therapist Q&Gay
Q: In your experience, how do gay people overcome internalized homophobia or fear of intimacy?
The host explains that internalized homophobia is nuanced and often manifests as social discomfort, pressures to conform to masculine norms, and the need to explain one's identity, rather than pure self-hatred. He suggests first recognizing it when it occurs, separating genuine preferences from protective reactions to femininity or other expressions, and gradually building an identity that feels authentic and safe. He also emphasizes evaluating one's social networks and support systems to create a foundation for healthier intimacy and dating.
Am I Attractive Enough for a Boyfriend? | Therapist Q&Gay
Q: What can help when you've lost a close gay friend group but still miss the sense of belonging it provided?
Acknowledge that you are grieving multiple things at once—specific friendships and the version of gay community they represented—while also recognizing that meaningful connections can form gradually over time, one relationship at a time, often with different configurations than before.

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A clinically informed, LGBTQ+-focused show blending expert interviews with practical discussions about relationships, identity, and mental health. Across episodes, topics orbit around queer psychology, minority stress, religious trauma, gender and voice, and navigating family dynamics, all guided by a NYC-based clinician host. Standout elements include deep dives into nuanced topics (e.g., code-switching, trans voice training, religious trauma) and a steady emphasis on authentic, evidence-informed conversations that balance research with lived experience. Listeners likely gain accessible therapy insights, coping strategies, and community-oriented perspectives, making it appealing to queer individuals, allies, and mental health professionals... more

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Recent guests on boy meets therapy include:

1. Sean Hershey
2. Nicole Gress
3. Jordan Schatz
4. Eric Batchelder
5. John Gillespie
6. Tyler Mafi
7. A. Jordan Wright
8. Luke Wilson

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