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boy meets therapy

Dustin Oliver
Religious Trauma
Therapy
Minority Stress
Attachment Theory
LGBTQ+ Relationships
Second Adolescence
Self-Determination Theory
LGBTQ
Gay Men
New York City
Social Media
Parallel Life
Grindr
Mental Health
Code Switching
Sleep
Deconstruction
LGBTQ+ Community
Eating Disorders
Romantic Relationships

Hosted by therapist Dustin Oliver, MHC-LP, boy meets therapy blends clinical research with real conversations about vulnerability, relationships, friendship, identity, and culture with an emphasis on the LGBTQ+ community. Episodes feature solo insights and in-depth interviews with licensed professionals who share both their expertise and their humanity. Perfect for queer listeners, allies, and men... more

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NYC therapist and host of boy meets therapy podcast Dustin answers questions from viewers submitted via Instagram.

This week, we answer questions about overcoming internalized homophobia and fear of intimacy, looking for a relationship when you've n... more

Have you ever felt like different parts of your life are separate from each other? Like how you are with your friends is wildly different from how you are with others?

In this episode, we explore the psychology of compartmentalization through the le... more

Nyc therapist and host of boy meets therapy podcast Dustin answers questions from viewers submitted via Instagram.

This week, we answer questions about feeling attractive or prepared enough for a relationship and losing an important friend group.

S... more

Many gay men have experienced this question at some point: Do I actually like him, or do I just feel close to him?

In this episode, we explore why it can be surprisingly difficult to distinguish friendship from romance, and why this confusion may be... more

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Recent Guests

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Jordan Schatz
Therapist in New York City who specializes in ADHD and works with LGBTQ+ clients
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Episode: ADHD, Time Blindness, and a Little Bit of Gay Chaos with Jordan Schatz
Eric Batchelder
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Nashville-based clinic
Episode: Intimate Partner Violence in LGBTQ+ Relationships: Power, Shame, and Vulnerability
John Gillespie
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Episode: Kink: Notes From Clinical and Personal Experiences
Tyler Mafi
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Episode: Queer Search for Meaning: Dating, Identity, and Defining Purpose
A. Jordan Wright
Clinical psychologist; NYU professor and leader in assessment and queer-inclusive practice.
New York University
Episode: Queering Mental Health: Microaggressions, Diagnosis, and Culture with Dr. A. Jordan Wright
Luke Wilson
Guest survivor and researcher sharing experiences with conversion therapy
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Episode: Overcoming Conversion Therapy: Dr. Luke Wilson on Shame, Faith, and Finding Self-Acceptance
Liz Rhea
Queer-identified therapist focusing on religious trauma and deconstruction
Independent practitioner (Georgia)
Episode: Healing Religious Trauma: Queer Identity, Deconstruction, and Inner Child Work with Liz Rhea

Host

Dustin Oliver
Host of Boy Meets Therapy; NYC-based clinician and therapist

Reviews

4.9 out of 5 stars from 61 ratings
  • Thoughtful and needed

    I’ve looked for podcasts that handle topics about gay mens’ mental health with this much care and haven’t found anything as considered. I thought the Fantasy Relationships episode was well-researched and felt like a conversation rather than a lecture or designed for engagement. I identified a lot with the dynamics highlighted.

    Also, it’s great to have the video episode on Apple Podcasts without ads or scrolling pulling you somewhere else.

    Keep going!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    eeeteepee
    United Kingdom2 months ago
  • ok

    Could be better

    Apple Podcasts
    1
    comeeedey
    United Kingdom2 months ago
  • Great Pod for Gays

    Dustin knows his stuff and is informative, empathetic, and fun. It really does feel like he’s speaking directly to me as a gay person. Highly recommend!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    defensemaaaaan3
    United States2 months ago
  • A Must-Listen for Queer Self-Discovery & Healing

    I don’t say this lightly when I say this podcast genuinely feels like a safe space. Dustin has an outstanding ability to blend clinical insight with raw humanity in a way that feels incredibly validating, especially for a queer listener.

    What truly sets Dustin apart from other hosts is his authenticity in conversations. It feels like you’re sitting down with someone who genuinely understands and empathizes. The topics discussed are affirming and incredibly healing to hear out loud.

    If you iden... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Kaleb Ammons
    United States2 months ago
  • Outstanding

    Dustin, it’s like you’re speaking directly to me and my experiences. The religious trauma series is incredibly insightful and valuable. I’ve already listened multiple times and will continue to do so.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    AVLLee
    United States3 months ago

Listeners Say

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Guests compliment Dustin's interviewing style as curious, engaging, and thoughtful.
Listeners praise the religious trauma series for being insightful and practical.
Audience notes Dustin as an authentic, empathetic host who blends clinical insight with relatable storytelling.
The show is repeatedly recommended by therapists and LGBTQ+ professionals for credibility and approachable therapy concepts.

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Am I Attractive Enough for a Boyfriend? | Therapist Q&Gay
Q: What can help when you've lost a close gay friend group but still miss the sense of belonging it provided?
Acknowledge that you are grieving multiple things at once—specific friendships and the version of gay community they represented—while also recognizing that meaningful connections can form gradually over time, one relationship at a time, often with different configurations than before.
Am I Attractive Enough for a Boyfriend? | Therapist Q&Gay
Q: How do I not let the desire for a boyfriend take over my life when I don't feel attractive or emotionally ready?
Recognize that wanting a connection is natural, and your happiness isn't predicated on a relationship. Focus on building a meaningful life that feels complete with or without a partner, and work on reframing longing so it doesn't become the center of your emotional world.
Adverse Childhood Experiences, Trauma, and the Power of Somatic Therapy in Healing with Natalie Reina
Q: Who do you typically work with?
Clients who have experienced some form of violence in the home, including emotional, physical, or sexual abuse, and related family dysfunction; many also present with issues tied to safety, trust, and intergenerational trauma.
Fix Your Sleep: Therapist Tony Ho on Insomnia, Apnea, and What Really Works
Q: What is the role of sleep regularity versus total sleep hours?
Regularity in wake times and bedtimes is emphasized as a better predictor of well-being than chasing a fixed number of hours; the brain benefits from a stable rhythm.
Fix Your Sleep: Therapist Tony Ho on Insomnia, Apnea, and What Really Works
Q: How do you begin working with a client who struggles to fall asleep?
He outlines starting with medical checks, ruling out sleep apnea or illness, then using CBT-I tools like sleep diaries and sleep scheduling to rebuild a predictable sleep pattern.

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Frequently Asked Questions About boy meets therapy

What is boy meets therapy about and what kind of topics does it cover?

A clinically informed, LGBTQ+-focused show blending expert interviews with practical discussions about relationships, identity, and mental health. Across episodes, topics orbit around queer psychology, minority stress, religious trauma, gender and voice, and navigating family dynamics, all guided by a NYC-based clinician host. Standout elements include deep dives into nuanced topics (e.g., code-switching, trans voice training, religious trauma) and a steady emphasis on authentic, evidence-informed conversations that balance research with lived experience. Listeners likely gain accessible therapy insights, coping strategies, and community-oriented perspectives, making it appealing to queer individuals, allies, and mental health professionals... more

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1. Sean Hershey
2. Nicole Gress
3. Jordan Schatz
4. Eric Batchelder
5. John Gillespie
6. Tyler Mafi
7. A. Jordan Wright
8. Luke Wilson

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