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boy meets therapy

Dustin Oliver
Religious Trauma
Minority Stress
Therapy
Attachment Theory
LGBTQ+ Relationships
LGBTQ
Second Adolescence
Self-Determination Theory
New York City
Social Media
Mental Health
Code Switching
Deconstruction
Eating Disorders
Sleep
Trauma
Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder
Overthinking
Mean Gays
LGBTQ+

Hosted by therapist Dustin Oliver, MHC-LP, boy meets therapy blends clinical research with real conversations about vulnerability, relationships, friendship, identity, and culture with an emphasis on the LGBTQ+ community. Episodes feature solo insights and in-depth interviews with licensed professionals who share both their expertise and their humanity. Perfect for queer listeners, allies, and men... more

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Latest Episodes

Have you ever been devastated by someone you barely dated? Found yourself unable to stop thinking about a situationship, an emotionally unavailable partner, or a relationship that never fully became real? In this episode of boy meets therapy, we expl... more

What does aging mean in a community that often feels organized around youth, desirability, and reinvention?

In this episode, Dustin explores the psychology of aging in the gay community and why it can feel different for many gay men. From “twink dea... more

It's PRIDE month!

If you've ever wondered about the origins of Pride month in June, I'm gonna give you the shortest, most followable explanation. After, we're jumping right into coming out!

For many Gay and Queer people, coming out is sold to us as... more

What is code-switching, and how does it affect your mental health?

In this solo episode, host Dustin explores the psychology of code-switching, the process of adjusting your behavior, personality, or identity depending on your environment. Using res... more

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Recent Guests

Sean Hershey
Therapist focusing on mind-body medicine for chronic pain
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Episode: Chronic Pain and Mind-Body Connection with Sean Hershey
Nicole Gress
Speech-language pathologist and founder of Undead Voice
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Jordan Schatz
Therapist in New York City who specializes in ADHD and works with LGBTQ+ clients
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Episode: ADHD, Time Blindness, and a Little Bit of Gay Chaos with Jordan Schatz
Eric Batchelder
Therapist and social worker based in Nashville, Tennessee
Nashville-based clinic
Episode: Intimate Partner Violence in LGBTQ+ Relationships: Power, Shame, and Vulnerability
John Gillespie
Therapist based in the UK who works with kink and BDSM communities
Episode: Kink: Notes From Clinical and Personal Experiences
Tyler Mafi
Therapist in private practice
Brooklyn, New York
Episode: Queer Search for Meaning: Dating, Identity, and Defining Purpose
A. Jordan Wright
Clinical psychologist; NYU professor and leader in assessment and queer-inclusive practice.
New York University
Episode: Queering Mental Health: Microaggressions, Diagnosis, and Culture with Dr. A. Jordan Wright
Luke Wilson
Guest survivor and researcher sharing experiences with conversion therapy
Academic and survivor advocate
Episode: Overcoming Conversion Therapy: Dr. Luke Wilson on Shame, Faith, and Finding Self-Acceptance
Liz Rhea
Queer-identified therapist focusing on religious trauma and deconstruction
Independent practitioner (Georgia)
Episode: Healing Religious Trauma: Queer Identity, Deconstruction, and Inner Child Work with Liz Rhea

Host

Dustin Oliver
Host of Boy Meets Therapy; NYC-based clinician and therapist

Reviews

4.9 out of 5 stars from 55 ratings
  • A Must-Listen for Queer Self-Discovery & Healing

    I don’t say this lightly when I say this podcast genuinely feels like a safe space. Dustin has an outstanding ability to blend clinical insight with raw humanity in a way that feels incredibly validating, especially for a queer listener.

    What truly sets Dustin apart from other hosts is his authenticity in conversations. It feels like you’re sitting down with someone who genuinely understands and empathizes. The topics discussed are affirming and incredibly healing to hear out loud.

    If you iden... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Kaleb Ammons
    United Statesa month ago
  • Outstanding

    Dustin, it’s like you’re speaking directly to me and my experiences. The religious trauma series is incredibly insightful and valuable. I’ve already listened multiple times and will continue to do so.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    AVLLee
    United States2 months ago
  • Excellent mental health podcast!

    I’m a gay therapist myself and, I must say, Dustin puts out some truly excellent content for the lgbtqia+ community. He’s informative, empathetic, warm, and just downright fun. I highly recommend.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Ssseann
    United States4 months ago
  • From a podcast guest - Dr. Elfar

    Such a fun and engaging interviewer. I had the absolute most fun working with Dustin. He is curious, charismatic, engaging and very kind. Not only will he make an excellent therapist, but this guy was born to talk to people.

    Thank you Dustin, it was a great time!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Joseph Elfar
    United Statesa year ago
  • What’s coming up for me is….

    I love this podcast! So engaging. Dustin is an AMAZING interviewer… as a counseling grad student I NEED these perceptives to help keep me sane!!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Sydd_6
    United Statesa year ago

Listeners Say

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Guests compliment Dustin's interviewing style as curious, engaging, and thoughtful.
Listeners praise the religious trauma series for being insightful and practical.
Audience notes Dustin as an authentic, empathetic host who blends clinical insight with relatable storytelling.
The show is repeatedly recommended by therapists and LGBTQ+ professionals for credibility and approachable therapy concepts.

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Talking Points

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Adverse Childhood Experiences, Trauma, and the Power of Somatic Therapy in Healing with Natalie Reina
Q: Who do you typically work with?
Clients who have experienced some form of violence in the home, including emotional, physical, or sexual abuse, and related family dysfunction; many also present with issues tied to safety, trust, and intergenerational trauma.
Fix Your Sleep: Therapist Tony Ho on Insomnia, Apnea, and What Really Works
Q: What is the role of sleep regularity versus total sleep hours?
Regularity in wake times and bedtimes is emphasized as a better predictor of well-being than chasing a fixed number of hours; the brain benefits from a stable rhythm.
Fix Your Sleep: Therapist Tony Ho on Insomnia, Apnea, and What Really Works
Q: How do you begin working with a client who struggles to fall asleep?
He outlines starting with medical checks, ruling out sleep apnea or illness, then using CBT-I tools like sleep diaries and sleep scheduling to rebuild a predictable sleep pattern.
Fix Your Sleep: Therapist Tony Ho on Insomnia, Apnea, and What Really Works
Q: What led you into the world of sleep therapy?
Tony explains his long-standing interest in sleep due to early experiences in youth work and mental health, and how insomnia personally influenced his shift toward CBT-I and helping others sleep better.
Queering Mental Health: Microaggressions, Diagnosis, and Culture with Dr. A. Jordan Wright
Q: How do you train clinicians to recognize biases and avoid microaggressions?
He outlines explicit anti-oppressive training in NYU's program, emphasizes introspection about personal biases, and promotes using tools like the Wcsci to help trainees understand their cultural baggage and privilege.

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Frequently Asked Questions About boy meets therapy

What is boy meets therapy about and what kind of topics does it cover?

A clinically informed, LGBTQ+-focused show blending expert interviews with practical discussions about relationships, identity, and mental health. Across episodes, topics orbit around queer psychology, minority stress, religious trauma, gender and voice, and navigating family dynamics, all guided by a NYC-based clinician host. Standout elements include deep dives into nuanced topics (e.g., code-switching, trans voice training, religious trauma) and a steady emphasis on authentic, evidence-informed conversations that balance research with lived experience. Listeners likely gain accessible therapy insights, coping strategies, and community-oriented perspectives, making it appealing to queer individuals, allies, and mental health professionals... more

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2. Nicole Gress
3. Jordan Schatz
4. Eric Batchelder
5. John Gillespie
6. Tyler Mafi
7. A. Jordan Wright
8. Luke Wilson

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