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Gay Men Going Deeper is a podcast about gay relationships, identity, sexuality, and personal growth for gay men navigating modern life. Hosted by Matt Landsiedel and Michael DiIorio, the show dives into topics like dating, shame, masculinity, confidence, emotional intimacy, and the pressures of modern gay culture. Expect raw conversations, psychological insight, and the kind of honest discussions ... more

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What does it actually mean to identify as gay?

For many of us, claiming the word “gay” was liberating. It gave us language, belonging, community, and pride. It helped us make sense of our experiences and find people who understood us. But is there a... more

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In a world of swipes, situationships, and high-intensity connections, romance can start to feel obsolete — replaced by sexual energy, emotional guardedness, or the safety of detachment.

And yet many of us still long for thoughtfulness, depth, being ... more

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Being sexually open isn’t the same as being sexually honest. In a culture that celebrates sex, many gay men still struggle to feel aligned with what they truly want, without shame or pressure.

In this off-the-cuff conversation, we explore what it re... more

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In gay culture, “body count” refers to how many people you’ve slept with. And whether it’s high or low, it often feels like a no-win situation. Have a low body count and you risk being seen as repressed, inexperienced, or undesirable. Have a high one... more

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Recent Guests

Reno Johnston
Episode: What’s Really Sexy (and Nobody Talks About It)
Nigel Pedlingham
Coach, ceremony leader, and experienced trauma-informed psychedelic facilitator, change maker, and social justice advocate.
MAGWAY
Episode: Nesting: Creating Platonic Spaces for Healing and Authentic Connection in the Gay Community
Scott Stabile
A passionate love advocate, breathwork guide, and author.
Episode: How to Soften the Inner Critic
Tim McCaskell
Author and long-time activist
Episode: Are LGBTQ Rights Under Attack?
Matt Landsiedel
Co-host and member of the Gay Men's Brotherhood.
Gay Men's Brotherhood
Episode: Has Pride Lost Its Meaning?
Merle Yost
Full-time psychotherapist, writer, speaker, and consultant specializing in sexual trauma.
Episode: Eroticizing Shame - Turning Pain Into Pleasure
Patrick Marano
Award-winning adult entertainer, podcast host, and YouTube content creator
Various online platforms
Episode: DIY Sex Education for Gay Men
Shay Doran
Specializes in helping men overcome sexual performance anxiety and erection problems.
Episode: Why Can’t I Stay Hard? Diving into the Psychology of Erectile Dysfunction
Tom Bruett
Therapist, trainer, consultant, and author who works extensively with the queer community.
Founder of the Queer Relationship Institute
Episode: Why Gay Men Struggle in Romantic Relationships

Hosts

Matt Landsiedel
Co-host and voice of real-world experience in LGBTQ+ self-improvement discussions.
Michael DiIorio
Host and co-host with focus on sexuality, psychology, and community discussions.

Reviews

4.6 out of 5 stars from 1.3k ratings
  • Rating

    I really actually enjoy this show and look forward to new episodes upcoming. I feel seen I feel heard. I know I’m not alone. Keep up the good work.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    JahKingGod
    United States4 months ago
  • A wonderful resource

    Me and partner regularly listen to your archive of episodes as conversation starters for us to prompt chats about hard topics and get us to understand each other and what we want from the relationship better. We’ve had many wonderful, very tender conversations on the back of discussing things that came from your podcast and I would love to thank you for sharing this for free

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    CarlSouthEast
    United Kingdom4 months ago
  • Love this podcast!

    Such important conversations. Thank you!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Toguy
    Canada5 months ago
  • Thank you

    The content here has been tremendous and I’m grateful to be a listener. Additionally, I really like Reno. He brings a really relatable and ethereal voice to the show. Great job guys!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Holatez
    United States6 months ago
  • More helpful and hopeful than I expected

    Every person and all of their pets seem to have a podcast these days and I often find that I manage one or two before losing interest but not this one. I’m a relative newcomer to it (a few months) and will admit that I tend to pick and choose which past episodes I listen to (there are so many) but I’m yet to find one that I’ve not got something out of. It’s no substitute for counselling or therapy and it’s not intended that way but for me it’s an accessible way of diving deeper into topics th... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Find me a nickname not taken
    United Kingdom7 months ago

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Reviews highlight the show's compassionate tone and helpful guidance for real-life dating and boundaries.
Overall, listeners praise depth, empathy, and practical insights into gay men's relationships and mental health.
Audience notes strong community feel and value of vulnerable, authentic conversations.

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The Slow Build in Romantic Relationships
Q: What advice would you give to slow things down?
It comes down to setting boundaries and being honest about your needs.
Why Gay Men Are Talking About Heated Rivalry
Q: What captivates you about the show after continuing to watch it?
Encountering deeper emotional stories and character development beyond the initial superficiality drew Michael in.
Why Gay Men Are Talking About Heated Rivalry
Q: Why didn't 'Heated Rivalry' captivate you?
Matt expressed mixed feelings about the show, finding the first episode overly superficial and not emotionally engaging enough.
Single and Ready to Mingle
Q: What would you like to experience this time around when it comes to dating or finding the right person?
I'm looking for co-creation in a relationship—building something real together while being able to share our individual lives too.
Single and Ready to Mingle
Q: How do you know when you're ready to mingle after a period of being single?
It's about whether my motivation is coming from a clean place. If I'm genuinely excited to meet people, that's how I know I'm ready.

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A weekly, candid dialogue focused on personal development, mental health, sexuality, and authentic living through the lens of gay men. Hosts discuss intimate topics with guests, blending practical relationship tips, self-reflection, and community-oriented conversations, often challenging stigma while promoting vulnerability, boundaries, and compassionate communication. Noteworthy is the consistent emphasis on emotional growth, healthy masculinity, and inclusive LGBTQ+ perspectives, delivered with a supportive but provocative tone that appeals to listeners seeking depth without sacrificing approachability.

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Recent guests on Gay Men Going Deeper include:

1. Reno Johnston
2. Nigel Pedlingham
3. Scott Stabile
4. Tim McCaskell
5. Matt Landsiedel
6. Merle Yost
7. Patrick Marano
8. Shay Doran

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