
Gay Men Going Deeper is a podcast about gay relationships, identity, sexuality, and personal growth for gay men navigating modern life. Hosted by Matt Landsiedel and Michael DiIorio, the show dives into topics like dating, shame, masculinity, confidence, emotional intimacy, and the pressures of modern gay culture. Expect raw conversations, psychological insight, and the kind of honest discussions ... more
| Publishes | Twice monthly | Episodes | 303 | Founded | 6 years ago |
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| Number of Listeners | Categories | RelationshipsHealth & FitnessSexualitySociety & Culture | |||

Intimacy sounds like something we all want, but being truly seen can feel terrifying.
In this episode, we talk about why fantasy often feels safer than reality, why vulnerability can feel exposing, and how the fear of rejection keeps many gay men hi... more
Seeking validation isn’t just about chasing likes. It’s the part of us that needs approval, wants to belong, and feel accepted. But does it come at a cost?
In this episode, we unpack the subtle ways validation-seeking still shows up in our everyday ... more
Feeling bad is not a flaw in the human experience. It’s an essential life skill for anyone who wants a life of love, growth, satisfaction, and intimacy— all of it requires the capacity to feel discomfort without running from it.
In this episode, Mic... more
A lot of gay men pride themselves on being “nice”— easygoing, agreeable, low-drama. But what if that’s exactly why you’re not getting what you want?
In this episode, we break down the difference between being kind and being “nice,” and how approval-... more
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I have longed for connection with other gay men and on this podcast I have found it, together with answers, advice and so much more.
I’m grateful for having found this podcast. Your topics are always on point. You’re all so relatable which makes listening so enjoyable.
As a recently widowed gay man navigating grief and my next chapter I’m extremely grateful for these discussions. 🙏
I really actually enjoy this show and look forward to new episodes upcoming. I feel seen I feel heard. I know I’m not alone. Keep up the good work.
Me and partner regularly listen to your archive of episodes as conversation starters for us to prompt chats about hard topics and get us to understand each other and what we want from the relationship better. We’ve had many wonderful, very tender conversations on the back of discussing things that came from your podcast and I would love to thank you for sharing this for free
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Gay Men Going Deeper explores gay relationships, identity, sexuality, and personal growth through candid, psychology-informed conversations led by two core hosts. Episodes span topics like intimacy, self-trust, emotional regulation, vulnerability, and modern dating culture, with practical guidance and a focus on authentic connection within the gay community. Notable strengths include a consistent, compassionate tone, use of real-world coaching insights, and a willingness to tackle tough topics (attachment, burnout, masculinity) with nuance. The show also emphasizes community resources, mentorship, and ongoing self-improvement for listeners navigating relationships and self-acceptance in today's gay life.
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Gay Men Going Deeper launched 6 years ago and published 303 episodes to date. You can find more information about this podcast including rankings, audience demographics and engagement in our podcast database.
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Recent guests on Gay Men Going Deeper include:
1. Reno Johnston
2. Nigel Pedlingham
3. Scott Stabile
4. Tim McCaskell
5. Matt Landsiedel
6. Tom Bruett
7. Merle Yost
8. Patrick Marano
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