
Gay Men Going Deeper is a podcast about gay relationships, identity, sexuality, and personal growth for gay men navigating modern life. Hosted by Matt Landsiedel and Michael DiIorio, the show dives into topics like dating, shame, masculinity, confidence, emotional intimacy, and the pressures of modern gay culture. Expect raw conversations, psychological insight, and the kind of honest discussions ... more
| Publishes | Weekly | Episodes | 290 | Founded | 5 years ago |
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| Number of Listeners | Categories | SexualitySociety & CultureRelationshipsHealth & Fitness | |||

At what point did life stop being fun?
As kids, play came naturally. We were curious, spontaneous, and fully present. But for many adults, especially gay men who grew up navigating shame and self-consciousness, play slowly disappears.
Responsibilit... more
When a gay man says he’s attracted to masculine men, is that simply preference… or could internalized homophobia be part of the story?
In this episode, we unpack one of the most volatile conversations in the gay community. We explore what people act... more
The guy who constantly cancels plans, keeps things vague, or disappears when something better comes along — that’s flakiness: a pattern of not following through.
In a culture of endless options and shifting feelings, has unreliability quietly become... more
What does it actually mean to identify as gay?
For many of us, claiming the word “gay” was liberating. It gave us language, belonging, community, and pride. It helped us make sense of our experiences and find people who understood us. But is there a... more
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As a recently widowed gay man navigating grief and my next chapter I’m extremely grateful for these discussions. 🙏
I really actually enjoy this show and look forward to new episodes upcoming. I feel seen I feel heard. I know I’m not alone. Keep up the good work.
Me and partner regularly listen to your archive of episodes as conversation starters for us to prompt chats about hard topics and get us to understand each other and what we want from the relationship better. We’ve had many wonderful, very tender conversations on the back of discussing things that came from your podcast and I would love to thank you for sharing this for free
Such important conversations. Thank you!
The content here has been tremendous and I’m grateful to be a listener. Additionally, I really like Reno. He brings a really relatable and ethereal voice to the show. Great job guys!
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A weekly, candid dialogue focused on personal development, mental health, sexuality, and authentic living through the lens of gay men. Hosts discuss intimate topics with guests, blending practical relationship tips, self-reflection, and community-oriented conversations, often challenging stigma while promoting vulnerability, boundaries, and compassionate communication. Noteworthy is the consistent emphasis on emotional growth, healthy masculinity, and inclusive LGBTQ+ perspectives, delivered with a supportive but provocative tone that appeals to listeners seeking depth without sacrificing approachability.
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Gay Men Going Deeper launched 5 years ago and published 290 episodes to date. You can find more information about this podcast including rankings, audience demographics and engagement in our podcast database.
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Recent guests on Gay Men Going Deeper include:
1. Reno Johnston
2. Nigel Pedlingham
3. Scott Stabile
4. Tim McCaskell
5. Matt Landsiedel
6. Merle Yost
7. Patrick Marano
8. Shay Doran
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