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Gay Men Going Deeper is a podcast about gay relationships, identity, sexuality, and personal growth for gay men navigating modern life. Hosted by Matt Landsiedel and Michael DiIorio, the show dives into topics like dating, shame, masculinity, confidence, emotional intimacy, and the pressures of modern gay culture. Expect raw conversations, psychological insight, and the kind of honest discussions ... more

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Apps are a huge part of modern gay life. We delete them, reinstall them, swear them off, go back on, and keep trying to figure out whether they’re helping us connect or quietly getting in the way.

In this episode, we’re talking about app seasonality... more

Why do the guys who are a little distant, a little edgy, and a little hard to get feel so magnetic? Is it actually attraction…or is a deeper pattern being activated?

In this episode, we unpack what’s going on underneath the pull toward “bad boys” an... more

Intimacy sounds like something we all want, but being truly seen can feel terrifying.

In this episode, we talk about why fantasy often feels safer than reality, why vulnerability can feel exposing, and how the fear of rejection keeps many gay men hi... more

Seeking validation isn’t just about chasing likes. It’s the part of us that needs approval, wants to belong, and feel accepted. But does it come at a cost?

In this episode, we unpack the subtle ways validation-seeking still shows up in our everyday ... more

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MAGWAY
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Scott Stabile
A passionate love advocate, breathwork guide, and author.
Episode: How to Soften the Inner Critic
Tim McCaskell
Author and long-time activist
Episode: Are LGBTQ Rights Under Attack?
Matt Landsiedel
Co-host and member of the Gay Men's Brotherhood.
Gay Men's Brotherhood
Episode: Has Pride Lost Its Meaning?
Reno Johnston
Co-host and a member of the Gay Men's Brotherhood.
Gay Men's Brotherhood
Episode: Has Pride Lost Its Meaning?
Merle Yost
Full-time psychotherapist, writer, speaker, and consultant specializing in sexual trauma.
Episode: Eroticizing Shame - Turning Pain Into Pleasure
Patrick Marano
Award-winning adult entertainer, podcast host, and YouTube content creator
Various online platforms
Episode: DIY Sex Education for Gay Men
Shay Doran
Specializes in helping men overcome sexual performance anxiety and erection problems.
Episode: Why Can’t I Stay Hard? Diving into the Psychology of Erectile Dysfunction
Tom Bruett
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Episode: Why Gay Men Struggle in Romantic Relationships

Reviews

4.6 out of 5 stars from 1.4k ratings
  • Great content, sparse episodes. Longer ones please!

    I’ve received a lot of great content from this podcast, and the folks that posted are very knowledgeable and common to listen to. That said, 30 minutes every two weeks is a little bit light on actual content.

    Apple Podcasts
    4
    RAD07
    United States14 days ago
  • So grateful

    I have longed for connection with other gay men and on this podcast I have found it, together with answers, advice and so much more.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Ivy7645
    United States3 months ago
  • Thank You

    I’m grateful for having found this podcast. Your topics are always on point. You’re all so relatable which makes listening so enjoyable.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Wolf_Castle
    United States5 months ago
  • Exceptional

    As a recently widowed gay man navigating grief and my next chapter I’m extremely grateful for these discussions. 🙏

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    jfkrueufkcjdufmcvm
    United States7 months ago
  • Rating

    I really actually enjoy this show and look forward to new episodes upcoming. I feel seen I feel heard. I know I’m not alone. Keep up the good work.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    JahKingGod
    United States10 months ago

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The Slow Build in Romantic Relationships
Q: What advice would you give to slow things down?
It comes down to setting boundaries and being honest about your needs.
Why Gay Men Are Talking About Heated Rivalry
Q: What captivates you about the show after continuing to watch it?
Encountering deeper emotional stories and character development beyond the initial superficiality drew Michael in.
Why Gay Men Are Talking About Heated Rivalry
Q: Why didn't 'Heated Rivalry' captivate you?
Matt expressed mixed feelings about the show, finding the first episode overly superficial and not emotionally engaging enough.
Single and Ready to Mingle
Q: What would you like to experience this time around when it comes to dating or finding the right person?
I'm looking for co-creation in a relationship—building something real together while being able to share our individual lives too.
Single and Ready to Mingle
Q: How do you know when you're ready to mingle after a period of being single?
It's about whether my motivation is coming from a clean place. If I'm genuinely excited to meet people, that's how I know I'm ready.

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Gay Men Going Deeper explores gay relationships, identity, sexuality, and personal growth through candid, psychology-informed conversations led by two core hosts. Episodes span topics like intimacy, self-trust, emotional regulation, vulnerability, and modern dating culture, with practical guidance and a focus on authentic connection within the gay community. Notable strengths include a consistent, compassionate tone, use of real-world coaching insights, and a willingness to tackle tough topics (attachment, burnout, masculinity) with nuance. The show also emphasizes community resources, mentorship, and ongoing self-improvement for listeners navigating relationships and self-acceptance in today's gay life.

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