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Gay Men Going Deeper

Gay Men's Brotherhood
Gay Community
Mental Health
Loneliness
Personal Development
LGBTQ+ Community
Chosen Family
Attraction To Straight Men
Family Dynamics
Addiction
Body Shaming
Platonic Intimacy
Money Mindset
Masculinity
Breakups
Self-Discovery
Emotional Support
Social Media
Authenticity
Attraction
Narcissism

Gay Men Going Deeper is a weekly podcast that showcases raw and real conversations about personal development, mental health, and sexuality - from an unapologetically gay perspective. Hosted by Matt Landsiedel and Michael DiIorio, and featuring a wide range of special guests, you can expect to be inspired, entertained, and even a little triggered from time to time. This provocative podcast is for ... more

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In this episode, we’re breaking down one of the biggest dating myths gay men love to repeat: “My standards are too high.” But sometimes the problem isn’t what you want, it’s what you allow.

We get into the real difference between standards and bound... more

In this episode, Michael and Matt get personal about what we love about being single, how we knew we were ready to start dating again, and what we want to experience differently this time around. We talk about flirting on apps, dating in 2026, and al... more

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Why does attraction fade- and what can we do about it?  In this episode, we get real about attraction in long-term relationships. The spark doesn’t always burn forever, and losing sexual interest doesn’t mean the relationship is doomed. We talk about... more

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After unpacking our culture’s obsession with “perfect” bodies, this week we’re flipping the script. In this episode, we’re celebrating what’s actually hot: the things that don’t get enough love in the gay world. We’re talking dad bods, wrinkles, kind... more

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Recent Guests

Nigel Pedlingham
Coach, ceremony leader, and experienced trauma-informed psychedelic facilitator, change maker, and social justice advocate.
MAGWAY
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Scott Stabile
A passionate love advocate, breathwork guide, and author.
Episode: How to Soften the Inner Critic
Tim McCaskell
Author and long-time activist
Episode: Are LGBTQ Rights Under Attack?
Matt Landsiedel
Co-host and member of the Gay Men's Brotherhood.
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Episode: Has Pride Lost Its Meaning?
Reno Johnston
Co-host and a member of the Gay Men's Brotherhood.
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Merle Yost
Full-time psychotherapist, writer, speaker, and consultant specializing in sexual trauma.
Episode: Eroticizing Shame - Turning Pain Into Pleasure
Patrick Marano
Award-winning adult entertainer, podcast host, and YouTube content creator
Various online platforms
Episode: DIY Sex Education for Gay Men
Shay Doran
Specializes in helping men overcome sexual performance anxiety and erection problems.
Episode: Why Can’t I Stay Hard? Diving into the Psychology of Erectile Dysfunction
Tom Bruett
Therapist, trainer, consultant, and author who works extensively with the queer community.
Founder of the Queer Relationship Institute
Episode: Why Gay Men Struggle in Romantic Relationships

Hosts

Matt Landsiedel
Host known for his candid discussions and personal anecdotes, engaging listeners with insights on body image, mental health, and personal growth.
Michael DiIorio
Co-host with a focus on personal transformation and mental health, bringing a relatable and reflective style to the conversations.

Reviews

4.6 out of 5 stars from 1.3k ratings
  • Rating

    I really actually enjoy this show and look forward to new episodes upcoming. I feel seen I feel heard. I know I’m not alone. Keep up the good work.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    JahKingGod
    United States2 months ago
  • A wonderful resource

    Me and partner regularly listen to your archive of episodes as conversation starters for us to prompt chats about hard topics and get us to understand each other and what we want from the relationship better. We’ve had many wonderful, very tender conversations on the back of discussing things that came from your podcast and I would love to thank you for sharing this for free

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    CarlSouthEast
    United Kingdom2 months ago
  • Love this podcast!

    Such important conversations. Thank you!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Toguy
    Canada3 months ago
  • Thank you

    The content here has been tremendous and I’m grateful to be a listener. Additionally, I really like Reno. He brings a really relatable and ethereal voice to the show. Great job guys!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Holatez
    United States4 months ago
  • More helpful and hopeful than I expected

    Every person and all of their pets seem to have a podcast these days and I often find that I manage one or two before losing interest but not this one. I’m a relative newcomer to it (a few months) and will admit that I tend to pick and choose which past episodes I listen to (there are so many) but I’m yet to find one that I’ve not got something out of. It’s no substitute for counselling or therapy and it’s not intended that way but for me it’s an accessible way of diving deeper into topics th... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Find me a nickname not taken
    United Kingdom5 months ago

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Some criticism exists regarding the delivery of certain episodes, with suggestions for clarity and focus in discussions.
The discussions often touch on mental health and personal development, which resonate deeply with the audience.
Listeners appreciate the raw and authentic conversations that tackle important issues within the gay community.
Feedback highlights the vulnerability and relatability of the hosts, creating a safe space for exploration of sensitive topics.

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Single and Ready to Mingle
Q: What would you like to experience this time around when it comes to dating or finding the right person?
I'm looking for co-creation in a relationship—building something real together while being able to share our individual lives too.
Single and Ready to Mingle
Q: How do you know when you're ready to mingle after a period of being single?
It's about whether my motivation is coming from a clean place. If I'm genuinely excited to meet people, that's how I know I'm ready.
When Attraction Fades
Q: What if you know, like was there a moment where the attraction just kind of evaporated? Did something happen or was it a slow fade, slow burn over time?
The attraction faded over time, but there was a specific moment related to hygiene issues that compounded the loss of attraction.
Nesting: Creating Platonic Spaces for Healing and Authentic Connection in the Gay Community
Q: What are the key elements that make you feel like you belong?
I feel a sense of belonging when I am recognized and treated with curiosity, experiencing authentic connections rather than superficial ones.
Nesting: Creating Platonic Spaces for Healing and Authentic Connection in the Gay Community
Q: How do you nurture people into a nest so they feel safe?
It's about going at the pace that everyone is comfortable with and providing various entry points based on individuals' readiness.

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Recent guests on Gay Men Going Deeper include:

1. Nigel Pedlingham
2. Scott Stabile
3. Tim McCaskell
4. Matt Landsiedel
5. Reno Johnston
6. Merle Yost
7. Patrick Marano
8. Shay Doran

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