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Can't Host: Gay, Bisexual, and Queer Men’s Sex and Relationships

George Lizos
Healing
Mental Health
Self-Acceptance
LGBTQIA+ Community
Consent
Shame
Sexuality
BDSM
Queer Relationships
Spirituality
Bisexuality
Relationships
Queer Spirituality
Bullying
Pride
LGBTQ Allyship
Homophobia
Sexual Trauma
Sexual Experiences
Trauma Therapy

Can't Host is a gay and queer men’s sex and relationships podcast aiming to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, and explore the complex dynamics of gay relationships, with the aim of creating opportunities for healing and growth. We'll discuss whether size matters, question the top/bottom binary, talk about healing sexual trauma, how to overcome dick- and body-shame, falling out of love with someone,... more

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Recent Guests

Amos Wolff
Marriage and family therapist, adoptee and parent
KingfisherMFT
Episode: Ep.91: The Gay Man’s Guide to Adoption with Amos Wolff
Emma Mumford
Author and manifestation advocate
Episode: NYC Meet-up details! 🗽
Amy Lemer-Cree
Author and manifestation advocate
Episode: NYC Meet-up details! 🗽
Alessandro Rōz
Facilitator, founder of Brotherhood of Lovers, queer medicine man
Brotherhood of Lovers; Sacred Sons
Episode: Ep.89: Queerness, Brotherhood, and the Power of Male Connection with Alessandro Rōz
Jeremy Atherton Lin
Writer, author of Deep House
Author, Deep House
Episode: Ep.87: Queer Love, Borders, and Long Distance Relationships with Jeremy Atherton Lin
Nick Wolny
Author of Money Proud
Money Proud (Book)
Episode: Ep.86: Queer Money Wounds, Investing, and Building Wealth with Nick Wolny
Brian Nový
Dentist, public health advocate, podcast guest
Dentistry (practicing dentist in Massachusetts)
Episode: Ep.85: Dentist Tips for Oral Health, Bad Breath, and Better Blowjobs with Dr Brian Novy
Tony Demetriou
High school friend and guest on episode; discussed openly about sex and relationships
Episode: Ep.81: A Straight Guy and a Gay Guy Compare Sex Notes with Tony Demetriou
Dr. Rich Savin
Author and educator focusing on male sexual fluidity and societal norms
Cornell University
Episode: Ep.79: Mostly Straight Men, Masculinity, and the Future of Sexual Fluidity with Dr. Ritch Savin-Williams

Host

George Lizos
Host of the show and interviewer, frequently guiding conversations and facilitating guest discussions.

Reviews

4.6 out of 5 stars from 76 ratings
  • Helpful Podcast for men

    Thank you George for this podcast! It has helped me gain knowledge as a gay man about shame, sex, and health. I am looking forward to hearing more episodes and keep going 😊.

    Apple Podcasts
    4
    Youdontownme671
    United States2 months ago
  • I like blow jobs

    Hahahaha

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    the dandyest dog
    United States2 years ago
  • Interesting insights

    I don’t agree with everything or all the guests, and some of it is a little graphic for my tastes, but some of the episodes really spoke to me and found very interesting and useful. He’s got a great point - we fancied people growing up who weren’t genetically programmed to like us back and rather than dwell on downsides time to build a great life.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    ChrisTheMan10
    United Kingdom3 years ago
  • First time

    Just discovered this podcast. Instant impact. I am relating so much and it’s just perfect for someone who needs guidance within gay life. Thank you George!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    BriJBriJBriJ
    Canada3 years ago
  • Much needed healthy honest discussion 👍

    Refreshing content for young gay men looking to explore their relationship with themselves and others within the context of wider spirituality.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Che75
    United Kingdom4 years ago

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Content can be graphic or challenging but remains insightful for listeners seeking honest conversations
Thoughtful exploration of gay life and health with candid storytelling
Guests bring credible expertise and real-world experiences

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Talking Points

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Ep.89: Queerness, Brotherhood, and the Power of Male Connection with Alessandro Rōz
Q: What practical exercises can listeners start with to connect with their erotic aliveness in a mindful way?
The guests walk through a sensory-awareness practice: begin with breathing, release tension, and then systematically engage touch, hearing, smell, taste, and sight to cultivate present-moked arousal that emphasizes awareness over goal-oriented sexual acts.
Ep.89: Queerness, Brotherhood, and the Power of Male Connection with Alessandro Rōz
Q: Can you share how your background led you to doing men's work and how that informs your approach to queer brothers?
Alessandro describes moving from acting and industry pressures to Sacred Sons, eventually recognizing the lack of space for queer men to feel and connect; he built a path through masculine work that centers love, vulnerability, and inclusive leadership, which now informs his Brotherhood of Lovers work with queer men.
Ep.84: Opening Up Your Marriage: The Truth About Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM) with Wayne Scott
Q: How should couples approach starting conversations about CNM and what communication skills help?
Approach it with curiosity, reframe jealousy as something to discuss rather than a fixed flaw, and use conversations to understand underlying needs and to co-create safety strategies.
Ep.84: Opening Up Your Marriage: The Truth About Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM) with Wayne Scott
Q: What are the reasons couples would consider opening up their relationship?
People open up for deeper needs beyond sexual novelty, such as freeing themselves from religious or cultural constraints, accommodating changing bodies and desires, and pursuing autonomy and healing through non-monogamy.
Ep.79: Mostly Straight Men, Masculinity, and the Future of Sexual Fluidity with Dr. Ritch Savin-Williams
Q: How do you see sexual fluidity evolving in the next decade?
Savin hopes for a normalization of fluidity where young people are open about their identities without stigma or categorization.

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This show centers on gay and queer men's sex, relationships, and healing, with a candid, boundary-pushing style that often blends personal storytelling, expert insight, and practical guidance. Across episodes, topics span sexuality fluidity, CNM and relationship dynamics, LGBTQ+ mental health, sexual education, and the social politics within queer communities, interwoven with mindfulness, healing from trauma, and real-world advice for building healthier intimate lives. A standout throughline is challenging rigid norms while offering actionable perspectives, resources, and community feel—often through personal anecdotes, guest expertise, and hands-on practices. This mix makes it a compelling listen for listeners seeking authentic conversatio... more

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