Dads And Daddies

Brian Rubin-Sowers and Judson Morrow

Open Relationships

Parenting

Sexuality

Mental Health

Relationships

Sex Parties

Intimacy

Parenthood

LGBTQ+ Community

Friendship

New York City

Grief

Family Dynamics

Hookups

Open Marriage

Sexual Identity

LGBTQ Community

Fire Island

Coming Out

LGBTQ+ Identity

Dads and Daddies features frank, unrehearsed conversations between one Gen X Dad of two and one Millennial self-identified ‘Daddy,’ with a focus on their personal stories of sex, love and marriage, plus topics spanning parenthood, Daddyhood, family, friendship, identity, money, addiction & recovery, and so many more that reveal the deeply intimate details of what it means to live life as adult gay... more

737 ratings

Publishes	Weekly	Episodes	116	Founded	2 years ago
Number of Listeners		Categories	RelationshipsHealth & FitnessSexualitySociety & Culture

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Latest Episodes

Brian and Judson hookup with Eliot Glazer and talk giving voice to disastrous gays, laughing at sex parties, queer sports league trauma and learning Gen Z vocab by dating an Insta hottie

Judson approaches his work anniversary feeling great as an office Daddy. Brian tests out Grindr’s new AI features. The Hookup of the Week finds our listener helping a straight-curious-identifying partner through what turns out to be some therapeutic ... more

11 Aug 2026 • 1 hr 41 min • Most popular

DR. DADDY IS BACK! Brian and Judson hookup with Dr. Demetre Daskalakis again and talk protecting LGBTQ+ people from syndemics; the present and future of PrEP; the dire need in the U.S, for universal healthcare, and queer self-care as rebellion

Judson learns how to sleep in with coaching from his husband. Brian starts to feel a more distinct separation between himself and his straight friends. The two discover a kinship with the late Joel Schumacher, director of films including The Lost Boy... more

4 Aug 2026 • 1 hr 47 min

Brian and Judson hookup with ‘Owning Manhattan’ star and Queerity app founder Jordan Hurt and talk the road from gutter to high-rise, being sober on the apps, sharing his rock bottom moment on TV, and confronting friends struggling with addiction

Judson attends his third annual trip to Austin Naked Yoga where he facilitates a “Dial Into Daddy” workshop.The Hookup of the Week comes from a listener who shares a hot session with his boyfriend who wants to try out techniques from classes he’s tak... more

28 Jul 2026 • 1 hr 16 min

Brian and Judson hookup with Daddyhunt founder and CEO Carl Sandler and talk treating each other right on and off the apps, what it takes to be a good son, keeping Daddies alive and the importance of gay friendships

Judson learns he’s a fashion inspiration for one of Brian’s daughters. Brian is witness to a past hookup of his flirting heavily with his husband, Toby. Judson seeks out and finds some much needed inspiration at work. A different sort of Hookup of th... more

21 Jul 2026 • 1 hr 28 min

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Recent Guests

Eliot Glazer

Comedian, actor, writer; author of The Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Gay

Brooklyn-based comedian/writer

Episode: Brian and Judson hookup with Eliot Glazer and talk giving voice to disastrous gays, laughing at sex parties, queer sports league trauma and learning Gen Z vocab by dating an Insta hottie

Demetre Daskalakis

Dr Daddy, Chief Medical Officer at Callen-Lorde

Callen-Lorde Community Health Center

Episode: DR. DADDY IS BACK! Brian and Judson hookup with Dr. Demetre Daskalakis again and talk protecting LGBTQ+ people from syndemics; the present and future of PrEP; the dire need in the U.S, for universal healthcare, and queer self-care as rebellion

Jordan Hurt

Queer entrepreneur, trusted real estate advisor, investor, reality TV personality

Queerity / Owning Manhattan

Episode: Brian and Judson hookup with ‘Owning Manhattan’ star and Queerity app founder Jordan Hurt and talk the road from gutter to high-rise, being sober on the apps, sharing his rock bottom moment on TV, and confronting friends struggling with addiction

Carl Sandler

Founder and CEO of Daddyhunt

Daddyhunt

Episode: Brian and Judson hookup with Daddyhunt founder and CEO Carl Sandler and talk treating each other right on and off the apps, what it takes to be a good son, keeping Daddies alive and the importance of gay friendships

Jess Rothschild

Creator and executive producer of Finding Fire Island

Finding Fire Island, Hot Takes and Deep Dives

Episode: Brian and Judson hookup with Finding Fire Island creator Jess Rothschild and talk queer history, lesbian divorce, being a gay woman who prefers the company of men, and whether honesty is always the best policy when dating

Bryan Safi

Emmy Award-winning actor, writer and comedian; co-creator/co-host of Attitudes

Attitudes/Are You Mad At Me? (Are You Mad At Me?)

Episode: Brian and Judson hookup with Bryan Safi and talk people pleasing, finding love on the apps, gay divorce, needing reassurance as an adult, healing family wounds, and both Jason Alexanders

Justin Elizabeth Sayre

Writer and performer; author of From Gay to Z and YA novels

Episode: Brian and Judson hookup with Justin Elizabeth Sayre and talk aging as a queer person without role models, fleeing the US to find safety as a non-binary person, misrepresentation on the apps, and communication in open relationships

David Lauterstein

Founder and CEO of Nasty Pig

Nasty Pig

Episode: Brian and Judson have a repeat hookup with Nasty Pig founder and CEO David Lauterstein and talk queer visibility, aging Daddy bottoms, the power of touch, bringing friends into the marital bed, and more

Elliot Tuttle

New York-based filmmaker and writer, debut film Blue Film

Filmmaker, Obscured Releasing

Episode: Brian and Judson hookup with ‘Blue Film’ writer and director Elliot Tuttle and talk adolescent sexuality, slippery morality, what overindexing on queer joy does to taste levels, and Daddying vs fathering

Reviews

4.8 out of 5 stars from 737 ratings

I’ve never felt more seen
I absolutely love Dads and Daddies! As a gay dad to an 11-year-old, happily married and in an open relationship, it’s so refreshing to hear from people whose lives and relationships look a little like ours.
My husband and I are incredibly happy in our marriage, and we’re living our best lives together. I love hearing honest conversations about what works, what doesn’t, how different couples navigate their relationships, and especially hearing people celebrate sexual freedom without shame while ... more
Apple Podcasts
5
Josh P ATL
United States5 days ago
Surprise
Thank you Dads and Daddies. As a man of a certain age, I absolutely love that your podcast has opened a whole new world for me!
Apple Podcasts
5
Joe & Dave
United States5 days ago
Makes My Tuesday
Thank you for always making my day! Every Tuesday I wake up, see the notification from Dad and Daddy, and it brings a smile to my face. 😁
Apple Podcasts
5
Greg_O’Connor
United States6 days ago
This is my title attempt
I am not good with reviews, but I enjoy hearing y'all's perspectives and the variety of guests. Thanks guys:)
Apple Podcasts
5
jh2014
United Statesa month ago
Truly a safe gay space
This is a fantastic podcast as the have different segments that are sexy, different topics in gay culture, and then then bringing a guest to discuss issues or a particular topic; both Brian and Judson are great with interviewing guests and the banter is amazing! Love the hookup of the week and daddy issue segments!
Apple Podcasts
5
B..ryan
United Statesa month ago

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Key themes from listener reviews, highlighting what works and what could be improved about the show.

The show is valued for its community-building and non-judgmental tone.

Guests and hosts are described as insightful, relatable, and thoughtful about complex topics.

Episodes are seen as empowering for couples exploring openness and communication.

Listeners praise the show for its honesty, humor, and sex-positive approach.

Fans appreciate the open conversations that destigmatize discussions about sex and relationships.

Some listeners note the format is explicitly mature and best for adults comfortable with frank discussions.

Chart Rankings

How this podcast ranks in the Apple Podcasts, Spotify and YouTube charts.

Apple Podcasts	#75	United States/Society & Culture/Relationships
Apple Podcasts	#122	Canada/Society & Culture/Relationships
Apple Podcasts	#215	United Kingdom/Society & Culture/Relationships
Apple Podcasts	#99	France/Society & Culture/Relationships
Apple Podcasts	#109	Italy/Society & Culture/Relationships
Apple Podcasts	#20	Mexico/Society & Culture/Relationships

Talking Points

Recent interactions between the hosts and their guests.

Brian and Judson hookup with ‘Owning Manhattan’ star and Queerity app founder Jordan Hurt and talk the road from gutter to high-rise, being sober on the apps, sharing his rock bottom moment on TV, and confronting friends struggling with addiction

Q: Jordan, what's your daddy issue?

Jordan shares that his daddy issues stem from early relationships and family dynamics, including meeting his father late and the broader impact on his sense of self and relationships.

Brian and Judson hookup with Daddyhunt founder and CEO Carl Sandler and talk treating each other right on and off the apps, what it takes to be a good son, keeping Daddies alive and the importance of gay friendships

Q: How has the community evolved with age and new health information?

The culture has matured with greater visibility for older daddies, wider acceptance of PrEP and HIV education, and a shift toward intergenerational friendships that support healthy relationships.

Q: How should people handle rejection or redirection in online dating or apps?

Respond with honesty and kindness, offer a genuine compliment when declining, and use redirection to guide someone toward a different connection, ensuring boundaries are respected.

Q: What should someone keep in mind to be a good boy, sub, or son for a daddy during intimacy?

Be clear about what you want, speak up for your turn-ons, and have a pre-negotiation process beforehand; there isn't a single script, and the dynamic depends on the specific daddy and the scene.

Brian and Judson hookup with Bryan Safi and talk people pleasing, finding love on the apps, gay divorce, needing reassurance as an adult, healing family wounds, and both Jason Alexanders

Q: What is Bryan Safi's origin story for his career and how did it lead to his current projects?

Bryan describes starting in standup, doing open mics, then shaping his material around anxiety and the through line of his performances, which evolved into a show that he developed in Edinburgh and later took to New York and LA, culminating in a successful TV and podcast career.

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What is Dads And Daddies about and what kind of topics does it cover?

A candid, sex-positive conversation between two gay fathers—one Gen X, one Millennial—covering love, marriage, parenting, and mature sexuality. Episodes repeatedly explore open relationships, identity, money, recovery, and community within queer life, often featuring guests who bring theater, drag, music, or media perspectives. The show stands out for its unapologetic openness, humor, and willingness to tackle sensitive topics without moralizing, making it a compelling listen for listeners who want real-talk about modern gay life, relationships, and parenting.

Noteworthy traits include long-running hosts with a strong chemistry, a steady cadence of provocative “Hookup of the Week” segments, and guest diversity spanning Broadway, drag, and ... more

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1. Eliot Glazer
2. Demetre Daskalakis
3. Jordan Hurt
4. Carl Sandler
5. Jess Rothschild
6. Bryan Safi
7. Justin Elizabeth Sayre
8. David Lauterstein

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