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Butt Honestly with Doctor Carlton and Dangilo

MSW Media
LGBTQ+ Community
Sexual Health
Mental Health
Fisting
Butt Stuff
Relationships
San Diego
HIV
San Diego Pride
HPV
Sexuality
STI Testing
Socializing
Dallas
Hemorrhoids
Doxypep
Intimacy
Health
Consent
Masculinity

Doctor Carlton, The internet's favorite gay, Mayo Clinic trained board certified gastroenterologist and mouthy yet sensitive gay guy, Dangilo Brian Bonilla tackle the messy life challenges that Sex, Socializing, Love and Butt Stuff present in the lives of LGBTQ+ men and their friends.

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Hello, Booty Gang! Welcome back to BUTT HONESTLY!

This week, one Booty Gangster wants more than one prick at a time (ambition looks good on you), another is navigating the not-so-sexy realities of ulcerative colitis, and a third prefers his hookups ... more

This week, things are popping out, red flags are waving, and one college guy has seen something he simply cannot unsee. One Booty Gangster has an unexpected post-pegging surprise, another can’t stop chasing an ex who screams DO NOT ENTER, and a colle... more

Hello, Booty Gang! Welcome back to another episode of BUTT HONESTLY!

This week, love hurts, holes have limits, and apparently umbrellas don’t always mean you need a raincoat.

One Booty Gangster is learning that sometimes love really does hurt when ... more

Something wicked this way comes…And that wicked is Ryan Murphy & Brad Falchek and this week they gave us 24 minute episodes, contracts with the devil, zoom meetings with pig men with hooks for hands, trauma hookups, demonic tramp stamps, hugs from gi... more

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Recent Guests

Lady Bunny
Drag performer, comedian, DJ, recording artist, actress, writer and political provocateur
Episode: It's Bunny Season with Lady Bunny- 120
Paris Sukomi Max
Drag entertainer, designer, nightlife personality, and community leader in San Diego
Lips San Diego, Rich's, San Diego Pride board member
Episode: Hey Royalty! with PARIS SUKOMI MAX-119
Sherry Vine
Performer, producer and creator known for Golden Girls parodies and drag performances
Sherry Vine (individual)
Episode: She's Living with Sherry Vine-118
Jax Phoenix
Adult performer and content creator with work at Icon Male, Raging Stallion, and platforms like OnlyFans and JustForFans
Icon Male, Raging Stallion, OnlyFans, JustForFans
Episode: Getting Honest withJAX PHOENIX- 116
Todd Masterson
Comedian, writer, and creator known for Gay Fat Friend brand
Independent/Brand creator
Episode: Gay Fat Friend-Todd Masterson-115
Glitz Glam
Drag icon, HIV activist, Urban MO's San Diego organizer
GLITZ GLAM brand, Urban MO's San Diego
Episode: GENTLEMAN’s HANDSHAKE with GLITZ GLAM! -114
Darby Lynn Cartwright
Drag performer and IMHO co-host
IMHO, The Show
Episode: Around the Butt Clock with IMHO’s Darby & Alexis-113
Alexis P. Bevels
Trans woman and IMHO guest
IMHO, The Show
Episode: Around the Butt Clock with IMHO’s Darby & Alexis-113
Eric Williams
Comedian, podcaster, host of That's a Gay Ass Podcast
That's a Gay Ass Podcast
Episode: That’s a Gay Ass Confession Hole with Eric Williams-112

Hosts

Dr. Carlton
Mayo Clinic-trained gastroenterologist; medical expert and host; often introduces clinical context and medical guidance.
Dangilo Bonilla
Co-host and LGBTQ+ advocate; brings community perspectives, humor, and relationship insights.

Reviews

4.8 out of 5 stars from 353 ratings
  • I wish I had this growing up

    No one should have to learn about sexuality only by trial and error. Hearing this podcast is such a beautiful affirmation, thank you deeply

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Donotdreamitbeit
    United States2 months ago
  • Entertaining and helpful

    As a later in life gay guy who also has ulcerative colitis (in remission and doing great, thankfully), this show feels made for me. The great thing, though, is realizing that so many of the sensitive issues Dr. Carlton and Dangilo discuss aren’t actually so specific to me. It’s been really helpful to understand how many issues we all face together. It’s just that without shows like this, often we dwell on these questions in silence. To hear these conversations in such a fun, engaging manner is o... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Massachusetts Guy
    United States2 months ago
  • Honest Discussions about Butts!

    I recently discovered this podcast, and have been enjoying it immensely. It’s rare to find such frank, honest discussions about gay men and sex. Dr. Carlton always brings real world expertise and panache — and his humorous foil is his cohost D’Angelo. The one distraction as I have been listening to the podcast has been D’Angelos use of “like”, but that seems to have tapered down the last couple of episodes. Congrats on 2 years guys, and thanks for making my day brighter when I listen! 👌😊

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Sega166
    United States3 months ago
  • Mixed messages

    I listen for the actual promised content from Carlton (good), and either skip over or tolerate the Dangilo “sweetener” filler. Yes, I’m in the MD’s age, education and sexual tastes range, and yes, gay bar event promoters/influencers probably sweeten the material for a wider range of listeners. Still…🙄

    Apple Podcasts
    3
    MissionManSF
    United States4 months ago
  • Amazing Pod

    So informational and entertaining. This podcast would be a 5 star for me but it’s hard to get through listening to Dangilo’s contributions with the repetitive “you know” and overuse of “like.” Doctor Carlton is succinct even when sharing personal anecdotes. More of that from everyone would help the podcast be more enjoyable.

    Apple Podcasts
    4
    DioC81
    United States6 months ago

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Fans appreciate practical safety guidance and relatable host banter.
Engaging mix of medical insight and humor makes complex topics approachable.
Strong community-building and resources for LGBTQ+ health and education.
Listeners praise candid discussions on sexual health and community culture.
Some feedback notes pacing and content balance; few callers want more clinical depth.

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It's Bunny Season with Lady Bunny- 120
Q: How do you let go of someone who treated you badly when the relationship also had real chemistry and good memories?
The hosts advise recognizing that affection and good memories do not require resuming the relationship. They point to the ex-partner's repeated dishonesty and lack of reciprocity as reasons to protect oneself and move on.
It's Bunny Season with Lady Bunny- 120
Q: Can anal sex or pegging cause an inguinal hernia, and can someone have anal sex before or after hernia surgery?
Doctor Carlton says anal sex is unlikely to cause a hernia in a normal abdominal wall, but the pressure and straining can make an existing weakness protrude. He explains that hernias are commonly repaired surgically and advises limiting straining and relaxing during sex. The listener should discuss their own recovery and timing with their medical team.
Getting Honest withJAX PHOENIX- 116
Q: Does being a content creator make you sick of sex or do you still seek sex off-camera?
I still seek sex off-camera; the balance comes from maintaining a healthy relationship with sex, staying sober, and setting boundaries in personal life.
Getting Honest withJAX PHOENIX- 116
Q: Is there a scene type or POV that fans react to especially well?
Fans respond to a mix of POV and traditional angles, but the strongest response comes from authentic chemistry, confidence, and engaging presentation rather than any single camera setup.
Getting Honest withJAX PHOENIX- 116
Q: So Doctor Carlton, do you want to give them the first one here?
The studio scenes are stop-and-go with many takes and awkward positions; performers need to stay focused and adapt, but it's possible to create strong content even when things aren't perfect.

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What is Butt Honestly about and what kind of topics does it cover?

Two hosts deliver a candid, sex-positive blend of medical expertise and personal storytelling focused on LGBTQ+ health, relationships, and sex. Central threads across episodes include practical medical guidance for sexual wellness, safe sex, and erectile health; open conversations about monogamy, non-monogamy, and relationship dynamics; plus humor and community-building within gay culture. A notable strength is the combination of clinical knowledge from a Mayo Clinic-trained gastroenterologist and the hosts' playful banter, which helps topics like PrEP, STI prevention, and anal health feel accessible. The show often integrates listener questions, audience engagement, and occasional Patreon or live-event notes, signaling a robust, participat... more

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2. Paris Sukomi Max
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