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How To GET THE GIRL - An Ask Women Podcast

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Dating
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Relationships
Attraction
Flirting
Dating Advice
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Self-Confidence
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Dating Profiles
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Masculinity
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Style
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Mental Health
Relationship Coaching
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How to Get the Girl (formerly Ask Women) is the podcast where men finally learn what actually works with women. Hosted by Your Wing Girl, Marni Kinrys, and banter coach Kristen Carney, this weekly show breaks down attraction, dating, confidence, and communication — without the guesswork, games, or outdated advice. Every week, we bring you real talk from regular women, celebrities, relationship exp... more

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Latest Episodes

Want approach anxiety GONE?

Want the fear of rejection GONE?

This is a rerun episode but the advice in this one is timeless.

This week, one of my Wing Girls, Traci Bermingham, is here to talk about the two powerful mindset tools that help you stop... more

A lot of men can get the first date…

But then they have absolutely no idea what to do next.

This is a rerun episode but the advice in this one is timeless.

Because what happens after the first date is usually where men either build attraction… or ... more

Some men resist leveling up their style.

But here is the truth.

You are hurting your chances with women if you ignore how you show up.

This is a rerun episode and it is one you should not skip.

Because style is not about being flashy or fake.

It... more

Shawn Haywood from ReimagineLove.com is here to share what it really means to be masculine.

This is a rerun episode but it is one you need to hear.

Because being masculine is not something you just turn on once and you are done.

It is something yo... more

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Jim Wolf
Author of The Attract and Keep Her System
The Wing Girl Method / author of dating system
Episode: Ep. 566 Guide To Getting A Girlfriend (What To Do After The 1st Date)
Carol Danis
Stylist for Wing Girl Method
Wing Girl Method
Episode: Ep. 565 HOOK HER With Your Style
Shawn Haywood
PhD and master coach of Reimagine Love
Reimagine Love
Episode: Ep. 564 How to be Masculine
Kit Barrus
Creator known for OnlyFans presence, mathematics and psychology background
OnlyFans creator; data-driven creator with a background in math and psychology
Episode: (Video) What the top 1% of men do differently that attracts all women (and it's not looks or money)
Dr. Lori Watson
Co-host of Brave Love Great Sex
Episode: (Video) Here’s Why Flirting FAILS on 90% of Women
George Fallon
Co-host of Brave Love Great Sex
Episode: (Video) Here’s Why Flirting FAILS on 90% of Women
Jonathan Christian Hudson
Dating coach and entrepreneur
Social Man
Episode: Ep. 561 How to Escape the Friend Zone
Dr. Jennifer Berman
New York Times bestselling author and internationally renowned urologist
The Doctors
Episode: Ep. 560 What Really Turns Women On
Matt Reynolds
Owner and Founder of Barbell Logic, powerlifter, and strength coach
Barbell Logic
Episode: Ep. 559 How To Build Real Self-Esteem

Hosts

Kristen Carney
Co-host with a banter-forward coaching style; long-running host with background in dating advice and media appearances.
Marni Kinrys
Lead host focusing on dating strategies, interviews, and practical guidance for men seeking relationships.

Reviews

4.3 out of 5 stars from 1.7k ratings
  • New in town

    Epic episode David Wygant is a great guest

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Radiocat37
    United States4 months ago
  • Just a quick tip you could feature

    Once you start dating a girl she is no longer your friend, she is your girlfriend. That means it shouldn't be a secret it also mean you shouldn't treat her like a friend, I don't mean kiss in public aload I jusg mean like maybe 'accidentally' touch her hand but don't pull away, see if she likes it.

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    3
    🖤BLACKPINK🩷
    United Kingdom5 months ago
  • Good

    But I think you need some school episodes for my son who has a crush on a girl in his class

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    THEOOFNOOB
    Australia7 months ago
  • Look at the ratings first

    I’m 5478 days years old and I confidence is every thing of you look,act,feel confident.then you can get more talking time with the girls. If you look and seem interested in your conversation then they will to. And remember RELATE to them if you don’t they won’t be interested.

    Apple Podcasts
    3
    Sunshine 2343
    United States7 months ago
  • lob

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    5
    goshe
    8 months ago

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Some critique audio interruptions and guest dynamics, but overall value is high.
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Guests from diverse expertise are appreciated and considered credible.
A segment of listeners warn about aggressive marketing or over-promotion by hosts.
Listeners praise practical, woman-led insights and actionable dating tactics.

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Ep. 566 Guide To Getting A Girlfriend (What To Do After The 1st Date)
Q: What are the best indicators a woman is genuinely interested at the start?
Look for consistent interest, a positive attitude, and actions showing she wants to spend time with you, not just initial attraction. Also assess how she handles plans and whether she engages in meaningful conversations.
(Video) Here’s Why Flirting FAILS on 90% of Women
Q: What are some stories of men using this chart successfully?
Success stories include men feeling empowered to approach women and engage effectively, leading to increased connections and dating success.
(Video) Here’s Why Flirting FAILS on 90% of Women
Q: How can men use the chart to approach women?
Men can categorize women into the DISC types to tailor their approach based on her type, which helps to increase confidence and clarity in interactions.
Ep. 559 How To Build Real Self-Esteem
Q: What are three things that guys can do right now to get started and kind of pull themselves out of this hole that they dug themselves into?
Number one is radical self-honesty; know your strengths and weaknesses. Number two is don't wait to start; you can do workout routines at home. Number three is eat enough protein to support muscle growth.
Ep. 555 Throwback: How To Be a Pick Up Artist with Vince Kelvin
Q: Why do guys have so many issues with approaching?
Because they are over-invested, wanting to jump from nothing to the perfect approach, missing the grounding in the interaction.

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This show focuses on dating, attraction, confidence, and communication from a female-host perspective aimed at helping men understand what works with women. Episodes feature expert guests, personal success stories, and practical tactics for dating, relationships, and self-improvement, often including style, masculine dynamics, and boundary-setting. Notable strengths include actionable frameworks, guest diversity across psychology, health, fitness, and relationship coaching, plus promotional reads that tie into broader self-improvement offerings. The format tends to blend interview guidance with real-world examples, making it a practical resource for listeners who want straightforward dating advice and ways to boost attraction while maintain... more

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