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ask a sub

Lina Dune
BDSM
Kink
Kink Community
Polyamory
Neurodiversity
Disability Advocacy
Grief
Mental Health
Community Support
Sexuality
Accessibility
Miscarriage
Soft Limits
Degradation Kink
Humiliation Kink
Jealousy
Bipolar Disorder
Bisexuality
Negotiation
Cannibalism

Ask a Sub is an advice podcast for the kink-curious to take themselves from dreaming to doing. Our host Lina Dune is bringing wellness kink to the masses, and equipping every would-be kinkster with the tools to become their own BDSM BFF.

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Latest Episodes

A caller wants to know how to repair their relationship with their mind and body after a breakup. Lina’s take? Don’t let your drive to be considerate and ethical override your humanity. Feel it, be messy, take your space. The filth will be there to h... more

Craving a broad introduction to fear play? I bet you are you sick freak!! In this lesson, I mean episode, Lina talks about the classics of fear play: knives, cages, trampling, and even really really sick and perverted edge play like tickling and, god... more

Sex therapist and author Yana Tallon-Hicks dropped by to share some practical sex advice, thoughts on neurodivergence and kink, and lay down some beautiful reflections on consent-forward parenting.

To get the full version of this episode Join Patre... more

Introducing my campaign slogan — let’s get a fire under every would-be Dom’s butt! You can’t light the fire, but you can toss some kindling on the sucker and warm yourself by its flame. Maybe roast a marshmallow. Is this becoming gross?

Sadly, the ... more

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Recent Guests

Erica Smith
Expert helping purity culture dropouts rebuild a sexual ethic after trauma
Episode: 108. Porn Addiction Is Not Real with Erica Smith
Sophie Lewis
Author of 'Abolish The Family'
Episode: 100. Abolish The Family with Sophie Lewis & An Erotica Surprise
Tina Horn
Writer, educatrix, media maker, Lambda Literary Fellow, winner of two Feminist Porn Awards, AVN nominated director, MFA holder, graphic novel author.
Episode: 85. Safety is Hardcore with Tina Horn
Casey Tanner
Author and certified sex therapist specializing in Millennial and Gen Z sexuality
Queer Sex Therapy
Episode: 79. Making it Weird While Keeping it Secure with Casey Tanner aka @queersextherapy
Andrew Gurza
Disability advocate and host of Disability After Dark podcast
Disability After Dark
Episode: 62. Accessible Glory Holes with Andrew Gurza
Empress Wu
Expert on kink practices including blood play and cannibalism
Episode: 54. Bloodlust & SW Labor Rights with Empress Wu
Gab Alexa
Creator known for her content on bisexuality and polyamory
Episode: 52. Hot Bisexual Takes with Gab Alexa

Host

Lina Dune
Host of the show, focusing on emotional safety and well-being in kink relationships, while sharing personal experiences and encouraging community engagement.

Reviews

4.9 out of 5 stars from 678 ratings
  • Love

    Favorite podcast ever. She is literally like your cool kinky older sis guiding you through life

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Samfan29
    United States3 months ago
  • Feel bad to feel better

    The Leigh Cowart and Lola Jean episodes changed my life!

    Apple Podcasts
    2
    axegrinder666
    Canadaa year ago
  • Thank you!!!

    Lena and Mr. Dune,

    This podcast is so nourishing to every part of my being that I didn’t quite know how to voice.

    Thank you for all you do in the name of liberated pleasure

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    thespaceydaisy
    United States2 years ago
  • What would we do without you?!

    Thank you Lena. This has been perfect and amazing and EXACTLY what I needed!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    scootiemoon0
    United States2 years ago
  • More please!

    I am so grateful for this pod and waiting patiently for its return. Such important info and education from one of the most trusted sources out there in our community. We love you!!!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    miss cgh
    United States2 years ago

Listeners Say

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Many reviews highlight the podcast as a supportive space for exploring kink, particularly for those who may feel marginalized or uncertain about their desires.
The discussions are noted for being insightful and informative, with clear emphasis on consent and emotional safety.
Listeners appreciate the warmth and accessibility of the host, often describing her as a trusted friend or mentor in navigating kink.

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112. Scaring Your Partner’s Pants Off
Q: How to negotiate Fear Play while retaining an element of surprise?
It's important to establish trust and solicit general consent for a pool of approved activities before introducing surprise elements in fear play.
110. A Fire Under Every Butt!
Q: I'm wondering if you have a list of specific resources that I could ask potential partners to read and have a think through before we start developing a relationship?
Lina suggests that resources should be tailored to what you want a partner to know, and recommends engaging with books, articles, and workshops relevant to BDSM practices.
106. Calling All Beleaguered Subs
Q: How can I study under someone, or learn under someone, under a real, no, under a real, what are they called? If you're not submissive, you are a dom, I don't know.
The caller expresses frustration with the terminology and process of finding a dom to learn from, suggesting a struggle with identity and dating in the context of kink.
109. Communicating With Your Butt aka The Hanky Code
Q: Can we talk about the hanky code?
The hanky code is a visual signaling method used in kink culture to indicate specific kinks and preferences for BDSM play, with colors and placement signifying roles.
107. Trust Your Sub Swoons
Q: How do I separate the swoons that I'm feeling in Sub Space from real life?
It's a process of inquiring and working with your feelings rather than shutting them down, trusting both your emotional and rational responses.

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What is ask a sub about and what kind of topics does it cover?

The content explored throughout recent episodes centers on various aspects of BDSM and kink culture, with a distinct emphasis on personal experiences, insights, and community building. Themes often include emotional safety in relationships, the importance of consent, and navigating the complex dynamics of BDSM interactions. Topics range from fear play and the intricacies of anal play, to the practice of self-love and wellness in kink. The host fosters a welcoming atmosphere for listeners who are curious or hesitant to explore kink, encouraging open dialogue, education, and self-discovery. Additionally, thoughtful discussions on communication techniques, personal growth, and the significance of boundaries are woven throughout the episodes, m... more

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