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Lina Dune
BDSM
Kink
Kink Community
Polyamory
Neurodiversity
Disability Advocacy
Grief
Sexuality
Community Support
Accessibility
Miscarriage
Mental Health
Soft Limits
Degradation Kink
Humiliation Kink
Jealousy
Bipolar Disorder
Bisexuality
Negotiation
Cannibalism

Ask a Sub is an advice podcast for the kink-curious to take themselves from dreaming to doing. Our host Lina Dune is bringing wellness kink to the masses, and equipping every would-be kinkster with the tools to become their own BDSM BFF.

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Latest Episodes

Ahhh vanilla dating…. Well, it mainly sucks. Jk! Maybe not! Either way, it's not something you have to do before you get to be kinky. It's good to know what you want and go after it, and treat each experience as information to be collected along the ... more

What happens in a long-term 24/7 dynamic when you, as a sub, get so fuckin pissed that you just need a MINUTE to collect yourself before resuming your tasks?!?! Lina gets into the communication tools that can hold us and our dynamic in moments of con... more

A caller wants to know how to feel confident as a sub in your local scene after a friendship breakup with a Dom who seems to be the golden boy of said scene. We talk about how to claim space that's rightly yours, not give Doms too much power after a ... more

On this month's Deep Dive, we're joined by Anastasiia Fedorova, author of Second Skin: Inside The Worlds of Fetish, Kink, and Deviant Desire. We talked about how capitalism and commodity culture influence fetishism, how to become archivists of our ex... more

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Recent Guests

Anastasiia Fedorova
Author of Second Skin, a writer exploring fetish and deviant desire in London
Author, Second Skin
Episode: 159. Exploring Our Darker, Stranger Drives with Anastasiia Fedorova
Alexis O'Kneel
Professional submissive
Episode: 152. Pro-Submission with Alexis O'Kneel
Natalie Robehmed
Journalist and host of Allison After NXIVM
Allison After NXIVM
Episode: 146. This Sex Cult Stole Our Sh*t! With Natalie Robehmed of Allison After NXIVM
Molly Lambert
Journalist and host of Jenna World podcast, interested in the history of the porn industry, especially Jenna Jameson's impact.
Jenna World
Episode: 145. JennaWorld & Why We're So Weird About Porn with Molly Lambert
Noelle Perdue
Writer of the Porn World Substack with years of experience in the pornography industry.
Episode: 144. Noelle Perdue Is A Pervert (Not Derogatory)
Vera Blossom
Author and creator of the blog How to Fuck Like a Girl
How to Fuck Like a Girl
Episode: 139. How To F*ck Like A Girl with Vera Blossom
Margeaux Feldman
Writer, educator, artist, and community builder dedicated to helping individuals living with trauma.
Softcore Trauma
Episode: 131. Ugly Sex with Margeaux Feldman AKA Softcore Trauma
Dan Savage
Noted sex advice columnist and podcaster
Savage Lovecast
Episode: 122. With Pride this June We Take it Up the Butt 🫡
Sydney Baloue
Activist, performer, and historian
Episode: 118. Sydney Baloue Is A Daddy Enthusiast

Host

Lina Dune
Host of Ask a Sub; wellness kink educator and educator/advocate within the kink community.

Reviews

4.9 out of 5 stars from 714 ratings
  • A great company for chores and drives.

    Podcast Addict
    5
    claudiaalmeida
    5 months ago
  • Love

    Favorite podcast ever. She is literally like your cool kinky older sis guiding you through life

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Samfan29
    United Statesa year ago
  • Feel bad to feel better

    The Leigh Cowart and Lola Jean episodes changed my life!

    Apple Podcasts
    2
    axegrinder666
    Canada2 years ago
  • Thank you!!!

    Lena and Mr. Dune,

    This podcast is so nourishing to every part of my being that I didn’t quite know how to voice.

    Thank you for all you do in the name of liberated pleasure

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    thespaceydaisy
    United States3 years ago
  • What would we do without you?!

    Thank you Lena. This has been perfect and amazing and EXACTLY what I needed!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    scootiemoon0
    United States3 years ago

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Host is seen as a trusted, beginner-friendly resource in the kink community
Audience notes the show's inclusivity and practical, real-life examples
Clear, warm guidance on kink education and consent

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160. When You Break Up With A Dom Who Looms Large
Q: Hi, Lina. Love the podcast and thank you for your work. So I was calling to ask about friendship breakups on the kink scene.
The host validates the question, then explains that after a breakup with a dominant who looms large, it's important to reclaim your own space, avoid policing the entire scene, and build a supportive network. She urges not to escalate into public shaming, to stay mindful of not overreacting, and to re-enter events with confidence, while aligning with fellow subs and maintaining healthy boundaries. She also emphasizes that you are an equal in the scene and should not defer to the past dynamic, recommending clear, classy communication when sharing experiences, but avoiding gossip.
159. Exploring Our Darker, Stranger Drives with Anastasiia Fedorova
Q: Tell us about a recent sexual experience, good, silly, embarrassing, surprising, whatever. What's happened to you recently?
The host teases a story from a recent experience at a kink event, leading listeners to join Patreon to hear the full archive and the deeper, more explicit details.
157. Responsible Mess Management
Q: What are your thoughts on kink and healing, expanding a sense of self, particularly in regard to trauma and organizing life around other people?
The approach is to engage kink responsibly within an evolving sense of self by communicating openly, seeking support from trusted partners and community, and understanding that healing is interdependent rather than solitary; this helps manage expectations and safety as you explore new kink paths.
155. Quick Hits: British ≠ English, Grief = Horny
Q: Grief equals horniness? Is it okay to be intimate while grieving and how should you navigate it?
Acknowledge that grief can heighten sexual urges for many people and that being intimate isn't inherently wrong; the key is to stay in touch with your emotions, communicate clearly, and ensure that any sexual activity is respectful and aligned with your current capabilities and boundaries.
156. My Dudes! My Guys! My Bros!
Q: Piggybacking a recent question from the pod, I've had a lot of trouble navigating how to communicate what I want to someone and when.
Communication is essential: establish a process where no and yes are stated clearly, with a concrete list of needs before play, and understand that trust is built when both partners feel heard and respected; avoid impulsive improv without prior discussion.

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A wellness-focused kink education show that educates listeners about BDSM, communication, consent, and authentic dynamics within power-exchange relationships. Episodes mix practical guidance, listener questions, personal experience, and thoughtful discussions on topics like boundaries, consent culture, and movement through stigma. Noteworthy is the host's emphasis on beginner-friendly, inclusive approaches and her background across Instagram, Patreon, and conversational formats that translate complex kink concepts into approachable advice. This mix makes it likely to appeal to curious adults seeking respectful, experience-based guidance on kink, relationships, and self-exploration.

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