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Lina Dune
BDSM
Kink
Kink Community
Polyamory
Neurodiversity
Disability Advocacy
Grief
Mental Health
Community Support
Sexuality
Accessibility
Miscarriage
Soft Limits
Degradation Kink
Humiliation Kink
Jealousy
Bipolar Disorder
Bisexuality
Negotiation
Cannibalism

Ask a Sub is an advice podcast for the kink-curious to take themselves from dreaming to doing. Our host Lina Dune is bringing wellness kink to the masses, and equipping every would-be kinkster with the tools to become their own BDSM BFF.

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Latest Episodes

Ok so if kink isn’t role play for you but you want to inject some role play in your kink… what the heck do you do? This Hellraiser-style puzzle box has summoned Lina from beyond the grave to ponder the ins and outs of living truthfully in imaginary c... more

A listener wants to enter THE THUD ZONE *guitar solo* *flames* *monster truck* and Lina activates her Special Interest mode to outline what makes a toy thuddy, why masochists love them, what to buy, and how to use them safely. 

Lina & Mr. Dune’s Th... more

When are we being too picky with our play partners? Listen, nothing is perfect, but if your ick is “doesn’t respect my boundaries” or “is unsafe” … time to yeet.

Become a Patreon member to gain access to all the Ask A Sub benefits including our dis... more

Margeaux Feldman joined me for a deep dive into their work around trauma, sexuality, chronic illness, and queerness. Get Margeaux’s upcoming book ‘Touch Me I’m Sick’ at your local indie bookstore or wherever books are sold. 

Follow Margeaux: Substa... more

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Margeaux Feldman
Writer, educator, artist, and community builder dedicated to helping individuals living with trauma.
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Episode: 131. Ugly Sex with Margeaux Feldman AKA Softcore Trauma
Dan Savage
Noted sex advice columnist and podcaster
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Episode: 122. With Pride this June We Take it Up the Butt 🫡
Sydney Baloue
Activist, performer, and historian
Episode: 118. Sydney Baloue Is A Daddy Enthusiast
Yana Tallon-Hicks
Sex educator, sex therapist, and author of the book Hot and Unbothered
Episode: 111. Hot and Unbothered with Yana Tallon-Hicks
Erica Smith
Expert helping purity culture dropouts rebuild a sexual ethic after trauma
Episode: 108. Porn Addiction Is Not Real with Erica Smith
Sophie Lewis
Author of 'Abolish The Family'
Episode: 100. Abolish The Family with Sophie Lewis & An Erotica Surprise
Tina Horn
Writer, educatrix, media maker, Lambda Literary Fellow, winner of two Feminist Porn Awards, AVN nominated director, MFA holder, graphic novel author.
Episode: 85. Safety is Hardcore with Tina Horn
Casey Tanner
Author and certified sex therapist specializing in Millennial and Gen Z sexuality
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Episode: 79. Making it Weird While Keeping it Secure with Casey Tanner aka @queersextherapy
Andrew Gurza
Disability advocate and host of Disability After Dark podcast
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Episode: 62. Accessible Glory Holes with Andrew Gurza

Host

Lina Dune
Host and producer of Ask a Sub, providing insights into kink and BDSM from a wellness perspective and equipping listeners with advice and tools for personal exploration in the kink community.

Reviews

4.9 out of 5 stars from 701 ratings
  • Love

    Favorite podcast ever. She is literally like your cool kinky older sis guiding you through life

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Samfan29
    United States8 months ago
  • Feel bad to feel better

    The Leigh Cowart and Lola Jean episodes changed my life!

    Apple Podcasts
    2
    axegrinder666
    Canada2 years ago
  • Thank you!!!

    Lena and Mr. Dune,

    This podcast is so nourishing to every part of my being that I didn’t quite know how to voice.

    Thank you for all you do in the name of liberated pleasure

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    thespaceydaisy
    United States2 years ago
  • What would we do without you?!

    Thank you Lena. This has been perfect and amazing and EXACTLY what I needed!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    scootiemoon0
    United States3 years ago
  • More please!

    I am so grateful for this pod and waiting patiently for its return. Such important info and education from one of the most trusted sources out there in our community. We love you!!!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    miss cgh
    United States3 years ago

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The podcast is praised for its focus on community support and wellness, providing a safe space for discussions around kink and alternative relationships.
Listeners appreciate the accessible approach to complex topics in the kink community, highlighting the host's ability to empower them through personal anecdotes and expert advice.
Many find the content validating and relevant, especially for those exploring their sexuality in non-traditional contexts.

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134. Living Truthfully on an Imaginary First Date
Q: Do you have any pointers for how to show up to a scenario that we both know to not be true?
Lina suggests negotiating the imaginative framework of the scene while remaining true to yourselves, and using new elements to enhance the experience.
132. In Praise Of Pickiness
Q: Should I hold off on finding out more about these pick up play partners, and just keep it simple?
Your pickiness is your intuition speaking to you about how to be safe in a high-stakes situation, and you should listen to it.
128. Is Everybody Frickin’ Poly Or What??
Q: What are your thoughts on dating individuals that are already in couples and do you have any advice?
Many people are frustrated with the dating pool being filled with individuals in relationships, as it often creates scheduling challenges and leads to feelings of being a third wheel. It's important to assess each situation individually and communicate clearly about expectations.
124. Do You Have To Bring Your 35-Year-Old Boyfriend To The Olive Garden?
Q: What resources are available for navigating social dynamics between romantic and platonic relationships?
Lina discusses the complexity of blending relationships and emphasizes the need for clear communication and maintaining individual friendships.
126. Quick Hits: Objectification, Romance Fiction, and The Skeezy Little Black Book
Q: How do you play with objectification?
Understanding the appeal of objectification and establishing a safe dynamic are key.

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An advice podcast aimed at individuals interested in kink and BDSM, providing accessible insights and support for those who are kink-curious. The host, a knowledgeable figure in the community, focuses on empowering listeners by offering practical tips, personal anecdotes, and expert advice for navigating the complex world of kink. Topics covered include non-monogamy, consent, sexual exploration, and community engagement. The tone is likely to be informal and friendly, making the content relatable and approachable. Unique to this podcast is its emphasis on wellness within the kink community, promoting self-exploration and emotional intelligence around sexual dynamics.

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