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ask a sub

Lina Dune
BDSM
Kink
Kink Community
Neurodiversity
Disability Advocacy
Grief
Mental Health
Polyamory
Community Support
Sexuality
Accessibility
Miscarriage
Soft Limits
Humiliation Kink
Degradation Kink
Jealousy
Bipolar Disorder
Bisexuality
Negotiation
Cannibalism

Ask a Sub is an advice podcast for the kink-curious to take themselves from dreaming to doing. Our host Lina Dune is bringing wellness kink to the masses, and equipping every would-be kinkster with the tools to become their own BDSM BFF.

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Latest Episodes

A listener wants to know how to tell if someone is kinky without having to ask. You guessed it, you do still have to ask, but there are subtle ways of sussing out the bedroom habits of your hot, competent coworker without immediately entering lawsuit... more

Some thoughts on the implications of the words we use to signal safety, pontifications on whether 'Pleasure Doms' are inadvertent pick-mes, and another battle cry on how you deserve pleasure, respect, and softness even if your kink is hard and scary.... more

Pro-sub Alexis O'Kneel joins us to discuss a little-known facet of the Oldest Profession, and how pro-subs can be a resource to all members of the kink community. Even people who have been slighted by waitresses and want to alchemize their experience... more

We're inventing idioms on the Ask A Sub podcast once again, and this time we're talking about how to balance a desire for a long-term relationship with sorting out kink compatibility. We also talk about how easy 'easy' is supposed to be, prioritizing... more

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Recent Guests

Alexis O'Kneel
Professional submissive
Episode: 152. Pro-Submission with Alexis O'Kneel
Natalie Robehmed
Journalist and host of Allison After NXIVM
Allison After NXIVM
Episode: 146. This Sex Cult Stole Our Sh*t! With Natalie Robehmed of Allison After NXIVM
Molly Lambert
Journalist and host of Jenna World podcast, interested in the history of the porn industry, especially Jenna Jameson's impact.
Jenna World
Episode: 145. JennaWorld & Why We're So Weird About Porn with Molly Lambert
Noelle Perdue
Writer of the Porn World Substack with years of experience in the pornography industry.
Episode: 144. Noelle Perdue Is A Pervert (Not Derogatory)
Vera Blossom
Author and creator of the blog How to Fuck Like a Girl
How to Fuck Like a Girl
Episode: 139. How To F*ck Like A Girl with Vera Blossom
Margeaux Feldman
Writer, educator, artist, and community builder dedicated to helping individuals living with trauma.
Softcore Trauma
Episode: 131. Ugly Sex with Margeaux Feldman AKA Softcore Trauma
Dan Savage
Noted sex advice columnist and podcaster
Savage Lovecast
Episode: 122. With Pride this June We Take it Up the Butt 🫡
Sydney Baloue
Activist, performer, and historian
Episode: 118. Sydney Baloue Is A Daddy Enthusiast
Yana Tallon-Hicks
Sex educator, sex therapist, and author of the book Hot and Unbothered
Episode: 111. Hot and Unbothered with Yana Tallon-Hicks

Host

Lina Dune
Host of the podcast, Lina Dune provides insightful advice and guidance related to BDSM and kink, fostering a supportive environment for listeners exploring their interests in these areas.

Reviews

4.9 out of 5 stars from 710 ratings
  • A great company for chores and drives.

    Podcast Addict
    5
    claudiaalmeida
    3 months ago
  • Love

    Favorite podcast ever. She is literally like your cool kinky older sis guiding you through life

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Samfan29
    United Statesa year ago
  • Feel bad to feel better

    The Leigh Cowart and Lola Jean episodes changed my life!

    Apple Podcasts
    2
    axegrinder666
    Canada2 years ago
  • Thank you!!!

    Lena and Mr. Dune,

    This podcast is so nourishing to every part of my being that I didn’t quite know how to voice.

    Thank you for all you do in the name of liberated pleasure

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    thespaceydaisy
    United States2 years ago
  • What would we do without you?!

    Thank you Lena. This has been perfect and amazing and EXACTLY what I needed!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    scootiemoon0
    United States3 years ago

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There are strong sentiments of personal growth and empowerment stemming from the discussions, particularly in relation to consent and emotional wellness.
Many reviews indicate a desire for more content and topics, reflecting a loyal and engaged audience.
Listeners appreciate the supportive and approachable tone of the advice given, conveying a sense of safety in exploration of kink.

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Talking Points

Recent interactions between the hosts and their guests.

152. Pro-Submission with Alexis O'Kneel
Q: What are some memorable scenes that you can share from your time as a pro sub?
She shares experiences including a fun role-play scenario involving a 'bitchy waitress' and a long five-hour solo session with detailed narratives.
152. Pro-Submission with Alexis O'Kneel
Q: How did you find your style as a pro sub?
It was a matter of observing how I naturally acted in scenes, which is usually sweet and obedient with occasional sass.
153. Does A 'Pleasure Dom' Imply The Existence Of A… Not-Pleasure Dom?
Q: Curious your thoughts on this term and how to articulate this difference when vetting or playing with new doms.
The term 'pleasure dom' is often used by people who want to signal their good intentions and desire for their partner's pleasure, but it may confuse others who think all doms should be concerned with their partner's pleasure.
151. If You Want The Juice, You Gotta Show 'Em The Whole Fruit
Q: I was wondering if you had any advice for checking for compatibility with potential Kink partners?
It's important to be really honest with yourself about what is supportive in a kink relationship and to communicate those needs early in the dating process.
150. Zen and the Art of Not Trauma Dumping
Q: How can I process the emotions and trauma stuff that comes up in a kink setting in a cathartic way without over sharing or trauma dumping on the people around me?
Focus on communicating according to informed consent and being mindful of your partner's experience, sharing aspects of your feelings that invite collaboration rather than overwhelming them.

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Focused on providing guidance and support to those interested in exploring BDSM, the content offers a blend of practical advice, personal anecdotes, and thought-provoking discussions about the kink community. Key themes include understanding consent, communication within kink relationships, the emotional aspects of BDSM practices, and the importance of ethical considerations in sexual dynamics. A notable aspect of the show is the emphasis on making kink accessible, inclusive, and supportive, catering to both newcomers and seasoned participants alike.

Listeners can expect educational segments that tackle complex topics such as the intersection of kink with social justice, navigating emotional challenges post-scene, and engaging with various... more

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5. Vera Blossom
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