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Lina Dune
BDSM
Kink
Kink Community
Polyamory
Neurodiversity
Disability Advocacy
Grief
Mental Health
Sexuality
Community Support
Accessibility
Miscarriage
Soft Limits
Humiliation Kink
Degradation Kink
Jealousy
Bipolar Disorder
Bisexuality
Negotiation
Cannibalism

Ask a Sub is an advice podcast for the kink-curious to take themselves from dreaming to doing. Our host Lina Dune is bringing wellness kink to the masses, and equipping every would-be kinkster with the tools to become their own BDSM BFF.

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Latest Episodes

Noelle Perdue, writer of the PORN WORLD substack and noted Thinker of Thoughts joins us on the pod this week to break down the porn industry, the power of performance, and unexpected uses for the hobby horse you left in your parents' attic.

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A listener wants to know how to curate a conscious breakup, and Lina speaks to the unusual amount of D/s ghosts she's heard about lately.

THE ASK A SUB GIFT GUIDE - Get your person a gift subscription or package of office hours! Or an online cours... more

This week Lina puts on her etiquette hat to solve the age-old issue of who cleans up after a scene! Also included are Mr. Dune reading assignments, a happy switching story, and bizarre kinks.

Read the substack article here.

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What happens when you have to take a pause but centuries of social conditioning tell you you're not allowed to stop until your partner comes?? Follow Lina into the McDonald's drive-through and out of the endless reassurance spiral as we swirl togethe... more

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Recent Guests

Noelle Perdue
Writer of the Porn World Substack with years of experience in the pornography industry.
Episode: 144. Noelle Perdue Is A Pervert (Not Derogatory)
Vera Blossom
Author and creator of the blog How to Fuck Like a Girl
How to Fuck Like a Girl
Episode: 139. How To F*ck Like A Girl with Vera Blossom
Margeaux Feldman
Writer, educator, artist, and community builder dedicated to helping individuals living with trauma.
Softcore Trauma
Episode: 131. Ugly Sex with Margeaux Feldman AKA Softcore Trauma
Dan Savage
Noted sex advice columnist and podcaster
Savage Lovecast
Episode: 122. With Pride this June We Take it Up the Butt 🫡
Sydney Baloue
Activist, performer, and historian
Episode: 118. Sydney Baloue Is A Daddy Enthusiast
Yana Tallon-Hicks
Sex educator, sex therapist, and author of the book Hot and Unbothered
Episode: 111. Hot and Unbothered with Yana Tallon-Hicks
Erica Smith
Expert helping purity culture dropouts rebuild a sexual ethic after trauma
Episode: 108. Porn Addiction Is Not Real with Erica Smith
Sophie Lewis
Author of "Abolish the Family, a Manifesto for Care and Liberation"
Episode: 98. Queer Pill Your Holidays
Tina Horn
Writer, educatrix, media maker, Lambda Literary Fellow, winner of two Feminist Porn Awards, AVN nominated director, MFA holder, graphic novel author.
Episode: 85. Safety is Hardcore with Tina Horn

Host

Lina Dune
Host of Ask a Sub, focusing on providing wellness kink advice and guidance for individuals exploring BDSM.

Reviews

4.9 out of 5 stars from 704 ratings
  • A great company for chores and drives.

    Podcast Addict
    5
    claudiaalmeida
    7 days ago
  • Love

    Favorite podcast ever. She is literally like your cool kinky older sis guiding you through life

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Samfan29
    United States10 months ago
  • Feel bad to feel better

    The Leigh Cowart and Lola Jean episodes changed my life!

    Apple Podcasts
    2
    axegrinder666
    Canada2 years ago
  • Thank you!!!

    Lena and Mr. Dune,

    This podcast is so nourishing to every part of my being that I didn’t quite know how to voice.

    Thank you for all you do in the name of liberated pleasure

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    thespaceydaisy
    United States2 years ago
  • What would we do without you?!

    Thank you Lena. This has been perfect and amazing and EXACTLY what I needed!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    scootiemoon0
    United States3 years ago

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Many find the content relatable and valuable for both novices and experienced kinksters.
Listeners appreciate the host's insightful and empathetic approach to kink and relationships.
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Some listeners note a desire for more variety in topics, though overall feedback is overwhelmingly positive.
Reviews highlight the host's ability to create a welcoming environment for discussing difficult subjects.

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143. Consciously Un-Subbing
Q: What ideas do you have for rituals that my Dom and I could perform as we prepare to lovingly uncouple?
Dune emphasizes the importance of having a thoughtful and creative approach to breakups in kink dynamics, suggesting that rituals can help acknowledge and honor the relationship.
142. Quick Hits: Emily Tied-To-A-Post (And Whipped!)
Q: What do you think should go into your kinky survivor bag?
Essential items include lube, condoms, a variety of toys, leather cuffs, and whatever might be necessary given the situation.
142. Quick Hits: Emily Tied-To-A-Post (And Whipped!)
Q: Was the task of reading a specific book assigned to you specifically because you're a voracious reader?
Mr. Dune assigned it because he values deep connections and wanted to share something important with me.
142. Quick Hits: Emily Tied-To-A-Post (And Whipped!)
Q: Who cleans up after a scene?
It depends on the negotiated agreement between partners, but generally, each person is responsible for cleaning their own items.
141. Your Partner Is Not A McDonald's Soft Serve Machine
Q: I'm looking for a bit of help with feeling anxious or bad after stopping a scene.
The feelings of anxiety and guilt are often socialized responses. It's essential to recognize that boundaries are valid and everyone deserves reassurance after stopping a scene.

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This podcast provides a unique space for individuals exploring the realms of kink, BDSM, and non-monogamous relationships. Through engaging discussions, the host navigates a variety of topics—from practical advice on safe kink practices to deeper emotional explorations related to relationships and personal identities. The approach is inclusive and empowering, often presenting perspectives that center on accountability, consent, and communication.

Episodes explore themes such as historical contexts of kink communities, role-playing, public play dynamics, and emotional complexity within BDSM relationships. The discourse is enriched with personal anecdotes and listener inquiries, offering valuable insights for novices and seasoned practitione... more

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