
Welcome to the Dom Sub Living Podcast, your go-to kinky resource, so you can get out of the vanilla rut, become the best Dominant or submissive you can be, and make BDSM a lifestyle. Explore the many facets of the Dom/sub lifestyle and gain practical insights and tips to enhance your journey.
Your host, Alesandra Madison, is a renowned BDSM educator, empowering individuals and couples to embrace ... more
| Publishes | Weekly | Episodes | 132 | Founded | 2 years ago |
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| Number of Listeners | Categories | RelationshipsHealth & FitnessSociety & CultureSexuality | |||

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#131 Are you slowly killing your D/s dynamic without realizing it? In this episode, we break down hidden patterns that weaken connection, trust, and power exchange over time – and why they feel normal while you’re in them. Listen now and take an hone... more
#130 BDSM is not abuse. Consensual non-consent is not rape, and ageplay is not incest. In this powerful episode, we break down consent, red flags, and when power exchange crosses the line. Featuring RAINN. Listen now and share with someone who needs ... more
#129 Too many protocols? Not enough? Here's the fix.
If your D/s protocols keep failing – or you don't have any – this episode is for you. We break down 50 creative protocol ideas for every dynamic: bedroom-only, long-distance, CG/l, high protocol, ... more
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I’ve now listened to the vast majority of 2025 and 2026 episodes and I think the podcast is absolutely fantastic. As a dom who is relatively new this is a great resource for building confidence and learning new things as well as safe practices. Highly recommended listen. The YouTube and website are great too
Me and my partner are already in Dom Sub Living’s program but this podcast is such an amazing addition! Love the behind the scenes content, and I’m picking up so many juicy tips along the way. Thank you!
Podcast is okay, DomSub Living itself is awful. I signed up and paid- found the content to be unprofessional and discriminatory. When I brought this up with Alessandra she ghosted me. Refused to refund. A childish way to navigate conflict and deal with customer dissatisfaction. Don’t pay for any of their services.
Just got to the episode where the host asserts that you don’t need to be Christian Gray to be a Dom… then immediately goes on to talk about a guy who turned out to be a “fake dom” because he had lost his job and had to couch surf.
Kink by its definition is alternative, so it would have been nice to imagine that a community of outsiders wouldn’t be so heteronormative. Alas that doesn’t seem to be the case, and it does make me wonder how fundamentally different a D/s dynamic ~really~ is from say... more
This is fantastic, from the positive yet honest tone with facts. It’s very encouraging for a shy novice that’s curious and had as experiences in the past. She has been so helpful with reminding me about integrity and trust in this wonderful lifestyle that encourages openness and freedom. Thank you Ma Lady.
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The show centers on BDSM education, relationship dynamics, and practical how-tos for dominants and submissives alike. Across episodes, topics include building trust, consent, daily rituals, and 24/7 power exchange, with careful emphasis on communication, safety, and real-life coaching experiences. Listeners often engage with nuanced discussions about finding partners, training, and balancing kink with everyday life, along with candid behind-the-scenes content and community resources. A notable strength is the host's earnest, empathetic approach and its grounding in actionable frameworks, making complex kink concepts accessible while fostering an inclusive community.
What stands out is the emphasis on mindset and daily practice—journaling, ... more
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