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Welcome to The Kink Consultant podcast, where we’re turning up the heat on all things kink in dating, relationships, and pop culture! Join Amanda each week as she dishes out the juiciest stories, expert advice, and shares a sneak peek behind the bedroom door—with some amazing guests along for the ride. Whether you're just a little kink-curious, ready to spice things up, or a seasoned pro, there's ... more

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Book A Consult Call with Amanda⁠ ⁠https://www.amandadames.com/book-a-consult⁠Larah Sky is back for another unfiltered conversation covering social media frustrations, kink cruise experiences, and chastity culture.

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Kinky relationships and vanilla relationships might have more in common than you think.

This week on The Kink Consultant Podcast, Amanda speaks with Simone Milasas, global facilitator, author, and creator of Access Consciousness, to talk about how t... more

Why does the word "masculinity" feel so loaded? I went looking for answers, and found the perfect person to break it down.

In this episode, I sit down with Matt Salis, a behavioral health writer and researcher with a master's degree in sexual health... more

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Finding your perfect match is already hard enough. Now try finding one who also matches you in the kink department.

In this episode, I sit down with Shea Primus, CEO and founder of Upper Echelon Matchmaking, for a conversation about what kinky datin... more

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Recent Guests

Simone Milasas
Relationship facilitator who travels the world
Access Consciousness (via work in relationships)
Episode: Relationship Advice for Kinky Couples with Simone Milasas
Matt Salis
Behavioral health writer and researcher; co-host of Untoxicated Podcast
Untoxicated Podcast
Episode: Emotional Masculinity: Breaking Down Toxic Masculinity, the Manosphere, and Real Intimacy with Matt Salis
Shea Primus
Founder and CEO of Upper Echelon Matchmaking
Upper Echelon Matchmaking
Episode: Finding Your Kinky Match: A Conversation with Kink Matchmaker Shea Primus
Athena Gale
Intimacy and kink expert
Instagram educator and founder focus on kink education
Episode: How to Be Kinky as a Parent: Raising A Child Without Losing Your Dynamic with Athena Gale
Amanda Dames
Certified sex and relationship coach, sexologist, former professional dominatrix
The Kink Consultant
Episode: A Beginner’s Guide to Kink, Fetishes, and BDSM: An Interview with Dr. Bruce Chalmer and Judy Alexander
Connell Barrett
Dating coach for men
Dating Transformation
Episode: Dating Advice for Men & Women: Flirting, Confidence and Attraction with Connell Barrett
Gabrielle Cassel
Queer sex and wellness journalist
Freelance journalist and student (sex therapy program)
Episode: The Life And Loves Of A Sex Writer with Gabrielle Cassel
Larah Sky
Frequent guest, kink coach and educator
Independent
Episode: Larah Sky’s Dating Preferences: Complicated, Specific, and Slightly Unhinged
Mistress Tash Mia
Professional dom with seven years of experience and educator in kink
Mistress Tash Mia branding / education
Episode: Dominatrix 101: Negotiation, Limits, and Creating a Safe BDSM Scene with Mistress Tash Mia

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Amanda Dames
Host of The Kink Consultant podcast; long‑running, education-forward host guiding interviews and conversations on kink, relationships, and consent.

Reviews

3.9 out of 5 stars from 245 ratings
  • Good content but a fire hose

    Please take a pause, breathe. It’s so rapid it’s exhausting to listen to. No breaks.

    Apple Podcasts
    4
    bharha
    United States23 days ago
  • Must Listen Show if interested in Kink

    Amanda does an amazing job exploring and explaining all things kink and relationships!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Dan13386
    United States9 months ago
  • This is so helpful

    I follow you on IG and episode 26 really helped me figure things out. It inspired me to continue researching my Abdl little side. Thankyou for this so much

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Abdl&confused
    United Statesa year ago
  • Phenomenal!

    As someone who is a professional dom of sorts and lives a kinky lifestyle, this podcast is phenomenal! I highly encourage others to listen to it for sure. I will be recommending this podcast to friends, clients, and others in between. I always consider myself some sort of kink consultant or therapist of sorts, glad that you feel the same way as it is so accurate. Keep up the good work, can’t wait to see where the podcast takes me! 😈

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Ryan Centofanti
    United States2 years ago
  • A fan

    Very informative. Great insights. Learning stuff that I wouldn’t know other wise.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Thom The Bi Dwarf
    Canada2 years ago

Listeners Say

Key themes from listener reviews, highlighting what works and what could be improved about the show.

Listeners appreciate candid storytelling and expert guests that make complex topics accessible.
High-quality discussions that translate kink theory into real-world dating and relationship tips.
The host's storytelling and guest selection are consistently engaging and informative.
Insightful, practical guidance on kink and relationships that balances education with humor.

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Dating Advice for Men & Women: Flirting, Confidence and Attraction with Connell Barrett
Q: How do you address rejection and keep people motivated to keep trying?
rejection isn't final; you should not take it personally, and use a three-message follow-up window to gauge interest. If there's no response after that, move on with the understanding that it's about timing and fit rather than personal value.
Dating Advice for Men & Women: Flirting, Confidence and Attraction with Connell Barrett
Q: What do you consider the most attractive behavior on a first date or in initial dating interactions?
Being present, confident, and playful; showing what you love about your life and your work, and letting chemistry develop naturally without forcing an outcome. Planning and leading the date while staying attuned to her comfort is crucial.
Dating Advice for Men & Women: Flirting, Confidence and Attraction with Connell Barrett
Q: Can you describe a little bit about how you work and your approach to being a dating coach?
I focus on radical authenticity, helping men present their true selves and vulnerabilities. I coach them to lead with genuine interest, ask thoughtful questions, and flirt from a place of warmth rather than pre-scripted lines, which makes dating more natural and effective.
Larah Sky’s Dating Preferences: Complicated, Specific, and Slightly Unhinged
Q: What role does communication play in her ideal relationship setup?
She stresses ongoing, explicit communication as essential to negotiating boundaries, desires, and consent, and describes teaching couples how to check in with themselves and discuss needs openly.
Larah Sky’s Dating Preferences: Complicated, Specific, and Slightly Unhinged
Q: How does she view vanilla partners within her fantasy world?
She expresses interest in dating a very vanilla man who is not aligned with kink, but as a fantasy that she would not pursue in real life, illustrating the distinction between fantasy and actual dating preferences.

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The show centers on kink, intimacy, and relationship dynamics, blending expert insights with personal storytelling. It frequently covers how to discuss sexual desires, navigate power exchanges, and maintain healthy boundaries in monogamous and non‑monogamous relationships, often tying in practical tactics, safety, consent, and communication. A standout is its mix of professional kink education with candid, humorous hosting and guest conversations spanning coaches, educators, performers, and clinicians, which can help listeners feel both informed and entertained. This format likely attracts curious beginners through seasoned practitioners who want actionable guidance and real-world perspectives on kink culture, dating, and relationship dynam... more

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2. Matt Salis
3. Shea Primus
4. Athena Gale
5. Amanda Dames
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7. Gabrielle Cassel
8. Larah Sky

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