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Welcome to The Kink Consultant podcast, where we’re turning up the heat on all things kink in dating, relationships, and pop culture! Join Amanda each week as she dishes out the juiciest stories, expert advice, and shares a sneak peek behind the bedroom door—with some amazing guests along for the ride. Whether you're just a little kink-curious, ready to spice things up, or a seasoned pro, there's ... more

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Licensed clinician and author Caroline Hood joins the podcast to discuss the truth about female desire, the impact of mental load, and how to navigate mismatched libido in relationships.

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Cate Osborn aka Catieosaurus returns to discuss ADHD, kink, neurodivergent relationships, and how to build sustainable dynamics that work with your brain.

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Melancholy Ghost, Missouri title holder and boundaries educator, joins the podcast to discuss how to set, communicate, and protect boundaries in kink.

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Recent Guests

Caroline Hood
Licensed clinician, writer about sex and relationships, author-to-be of Sex Begets Sex Reclaiming Desire as an Act of Female Empowerment
Independent clinician/writer
Episode: on Female Desire, Mental Load, and Mismatched Libido with Caroline Hood
Cate Osborn
Content creator known as Cateasaurus, educator on ADHD and kink
Cate Osborn / Cateasaurus
Episode: ADHD, Kink, and Neurodivergent Relationships with Catieosaurus
Melancholy Ghost
Missouri Leather title holder; educator on boundaries in kink; identifies as asexual/demisexual; from Missouri; teaches across leather and kink communities
Missouri title holder; Show Me Leather Miss Missouri Leather (current title)
Episode: A Guide to Setting Boundaries in Kink with Melancholy Ghost
Kristen Aut
Coach, founder of New Badass You
New Badass You
Episode: Hot Girl Energy: How to Date Without Losing Yourself with Kristen Aut
Miz Darling
A noted Dominant and educator in the kink community
Independent kink educator / dom
Episode: How to Tell Your Partner About Your Fetish with Miz Darling
Simone Milasas
Relationship facilitator who travels the world
Access Consciousness (via work in relationships)
Episode: Relationship Advice for Kinky Couples with Simone Milasas
Matt Salis
Behavioral health writer and researcher; co-host of Untoxicated Podcast
Untoxicated Podcast
Episode: Emotional Masculinity: Breaking Down Toxic Masculinity, the Manosphere, and Real Intimacy with Matt Salis
Shea Primus
Founder and CEO of Upper Echelon Matchmaking
Upper Echelon Matchmaking
Episode: Finding Your Kinky Match: A Conversation with Kink Matchmaker Shea Primus
Athena Gale
Intimacy and kink expert
Instagram educator and founder focus on kink education
Episode: How to Be Kinky as a Parent: Raising A Child Without Losing Your Dynamic with Athena Gale

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Amanda Dames
Host of The Kink Consultant podcast; long‑running, education-forward host guiding interviews and conversations on kink, relationships, and consent.

Reviews

3.9 out of 5 stars from 254 ratings
  • Good content but a fire hose

    Please take a pause, breathe. It’s so rapid it’s exhausting to listen to. No breaks.

    Apple Podcasts
    4
    bharha
    United States2 months ago
  • Must Listen Show if interested in Kink

    Amanda does an amazing job exploring and explaining all things kink and relationships!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Dan13386
    United Statesa year ago
  • This is so helpful

    I follow you on IG and episode 26 really helped me figure things out. It inspired me to continue researching my Abdl little side. Thankyou for this so much

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Abdl&confused
    United Statesa year ago
  • Phenomenal!

    As someone who is a professional dom of sorts and lives a kinky lifestyle, this podcast is phenomenal! I highly encourage others to listen to it for sure. I will be recommending this podcast to friends, clients, and others in between. I always consider myself some sort of kink consultant or therapist of sorts, glad that you feel the same way as it is so accurate. Keep up the good work, can’t wait to see where the podcast takes me! 😈

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Ryan Centofanti
    United States2 years ago
  • A fan

    Very informative. Great insights. Learning stuff that I wouldn’t know other wise.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Thom The Bi Dwarf
    Canada2 years ago

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Listeners appreciate candid storytelling and expert guests that make complex topics accessible.
High-quality discussions that translate kink theory into real-world dating and relationship tips.
The host's storytelling and guest selection are consistently engaging and informative.
Insightful, practical guidance on kink and relationships that balances education with humor.

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How to Navigate a 24/7 Dynamic: A Conversation on Boundaries and Communication with My Dom
Q: How do you handle mid-scene pushback or a sudden shift in headspace?
Pause, regroup, and refer back to pre-negotiated boundaries; if needed, slow down or take a break and reassess before continuing.
How to Navigate a 24/7 Dynamic: A Conversation on Boundaries and Communication with My Dom
Q: How does fear play a role in your dynamic, and can it be a positive motivator?
Fear is a motivator when framed as a concern for meeting your partner's needs and staying aligned, and it can push both people to improve and stay engaged.
How to Navigate a 24/7 Dynamic: A Conversation on Boundaries and Communication with My Dom
Q: What do you think about boundaries when you say the word in your relationship?
Boundaries are about day-to-day wellbeing and alignment, not just hard limits; they guide what we are okay with in daily life and in play.
Dating Advice for Men & Women: Flirting, Confidence and Attraction with Connell Barrett
Q: How do you address rejection and keep people motivated to keep trying?
rejection isn't final; you should not take it personally, and use a three-message follow-up window to gauge interest. If there's no response after that, move on with the understanding that it's about timing and fit rather than personal value.
Dating Advice for Men & Women: Flirting, Confidence and Attraction with Connell Barrett
Q: What do you consider the most attractive behavior on a first date or in initial dating interactions?
Being present, confident, and playful; showing what you love about your life and your work, and letting chemistry develop naturally without forcing an outcome. Planning and leading the date while staying attuned to her comfort is crucial.

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The show centers on kink, intimacy, and relationship dynamics, blending expert insights with personal storytelling. It frequently covers how to discuss sexual desires, navigate power exchanges, and maintain healthy boundaries in monogamous and non‑monogamous relationships, often tying in practical tactics, safety, consent, and communication. A standout is its mix of professional kink education with candid, humorous hosting and guest conversations spanning coaches, educators, performers, and clinicians, which can help listeners feel both informed and entertained. This format likely attracts curious beginners through seasoned practitioners who want actionable guidance and real-world perspectives on kink culture, dating, and relationship dynam... more

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3. Melancholy Ghost
4. Kristen Aut
5. Miz Darling
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7. Matt Salis
8. Shea Primus

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