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Welcome to The Kink Consultant podcast, where we’re turning up the heat on all things kink in dating, relationships, and pop culture! Join Amanda each week as she dishes out the juiciest stories, expert advice, and shares a sneak peek behind the bedroom door—with some amazing guests along for the ride. Whether you're just a little kink-curious, ready to spice things up, or a seasoned pro, there's ... more

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Auntie Carmen, the desire midwife, joins the podcast to discuss becoming shame proof, claiming your kinks, and having the kind of sex you actually want.

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In the final installment of this special three-part solo series, I am breaking down what to do if your partner says no or freaks out when you share your kink.

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In part two of this special three-part solo series, I am breaking down exactly how to have the conversation with your partner about your kink.

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In the first episode of a special three-part solo series, I am breaking down everything you need to know before you tell your partner you are kinky.

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Melanie Ruth Rose
Designer of sex rooms, author, and featured on Netflix show How to Build a Sex Room
Melanie Ruth Rose Design/All About Her
Episode: How to Build a Sex Room That Works For You with Melanie Rose
Master Saffer
Dominant sadist, co-creator of The Kinky Cocktail Hour
Independent / The Kinky Cocktail Hour
Episode: How to Evolve Your Dynamic Without Losing Each Other: A 24/7 D/S Dynamic Story with Saffer Master and Lady Petra
Lady Petra
Submissive turned dominant partner, partner of Master Saffer
Independent / The Kinky Cocktail Hour
Episode: How to Evolve Your Dynamic Without Losing Each Other: A 24/7 D/S Dynamic Story with Saffer Master and Lady Petra
Carmilla Vess
Fitress, OnlyFans model, personal trainer, dominating type
Self-employed / Fitness & kink coaching
Episode: What Working Out, Binge-Eating, and Kink Have In Common with Fitrix Carmilla Vess
Gracie Liu
Couple client who re-aligned sexual interests through coaching
Client
Episode: Life-Changing Kink Stories: What Happens When You Finally Listen to Your Kink?
Dr. Stacy Friedman
Clinical sexologist and intimacy coach
Dr. Stacy Friedman (drstacyfriedman.com)
Episode: How to Talk to Your Partner About Your Deepest Fantasies with Dr. Stacy Friedman
Allana Pratt
Emotional intimacy coach
Episode: Psychedelics, Kink, and Coming Home to Your Body with Allana Pratt
Samia Mounts
Voice actor and guest
Self / Samia Mounts
Episode: Why Dismantling the Patriarchy Will Give You Better Sex with Samia Mounts
Caroline Hood
Licensed clinician, writer about sex and relationships, author-to-be of Sex Begets Sex Reclaiming Desire as an Act of Female Empowerment
Independent clinician/writer
Episode: on Female Desire, Mental Load, and Mismatched Libido with Caroline Hood

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Amanda Dames
Certified sex and relationship coach, sexologist, former professional dominatrix; host of The Kink Consultant

Reviews

3.9 out of 5 stars from 260 ratings
  • Good content but a fire hose

    Please take a pause, breathe. It’s so rapid it’s exhausting to listen to. No breaks.

    Apple Podcasts
    4
    bharha
    United States5 months ago
  • Must Listen Show if interested in Kink

    Amanda does an amazing job exploring and explaining all things kink and relationships!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Dan13386
    United Statesa year ago
  • This is so helpful

    I follow you on IG and episode 26 really helped me figure things out. It inspired me to continue researching my Abdl little side. Thankyou for this so much

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Abdl&confused
    United States2 years ago
  • Phenomenal!

    As someone who is a professional dom of sorts and lives a kinky lifestyle, this podcast is phenomenal! I highly encourage others to listen to it for sure. I will be recommending this podcast to friends, clients, and others in between. I always consider myself some sort of kink consultant or therapist of sorts, glad that you feel the same way as it is so accurate. Keep up the good work, can’t wait to see where the podcast takes me! 😈

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Ryan Centofanti
    United States2 years ago
  • A fan

    Very informative. Great insights. Learning stuff that I wouldn’t know other wise.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Thom The Bi Dwarf
    Canada2 years ago

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Some say the format is fast-paced and packed with actionable tips, with a strong emphasis on consent and safety.
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How to Build a Sex Room That Works For You with Melanie Rose
Q: How do you approach the design to balance aesthetics and function?
There is no fixed vision before meeting clients; the designer visualizes details as they listen, weaving client likes, dislikes, and fantasies into color choices and spatial planning.
How to Build a Sex Room That Works For You with Melanie Rose
Q: What is the usual process for a couple who wants a sex room?
Clients submit photos, room layouts, and questions before the call; the designer uses this to focus the 55-minute consultation on each couple's needs, ensuring both partners are engaged.
What Working Out, Binge-Eating, and Kink Have In Common with Fitrix Carmilla Vess
Q: What role does boundary-setting play in your work with clients?
Boundaries are essential; we discuss and document what's acceptable, who handles what, and when; this reduces friction and creates a safer, more honest environment for growth.
What Working Out, Binge-Eating, and Kink Have In Common with Fitrix Carmilla Vess
Q: How do you handle binge eating in clients who also seek fitness results?
We identify the next best thing to do when a binge starts, such as hydrating or doing a short, attainable workout, and work on integrating the trigger foods into a controlled plan so the desire loses its “forbidden” power.
What Working Out, Binge-Eating, and Kink Have In Common with Fitrix Carmilla Vess
Q: What does your approach look like when integrating kink into fitness coaching?
I tailor training plans to each client, focusing on clear goals, injuries, and how they like to be talked to, while ensuring safety and aftercare. It's about making the dynamic supportive and sustainable, not coercive or unsafe.

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What is The Kink Consultant about and what kind of topics does it cover?

A compact, bold discussion space focused on kink, sexuality, and relationship dynamics, featuring expert guests and coaches who translate complex topics into practical guidance. Episodes frequently explore boundaries, consent, intimacy, and communication within BDSM, dating, and family life, often pairing personal experiences with actionable frameworks. A standout aspect is the blend of education and frank storytelling from contributors who span kink education, matchmaking, parenting in kink-friendly contexts, and relationship coaching, making it a resource for beginners and seasoned practitioners alike. Listeners are likely drawn to candid conversations, empirical insights, and strategies to navigate desire, power dynamics, and safety in i... more

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