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Welcome to The Kink Consultant podcast, where we’re turning up the heat on all things kink in dating, relationships, and pop culture! Join Amanda each week as she dishes out the juiciest stories, expert advice, and shares a sneak peek behind the bedroom door—with some amazing guests along for the ride. Whether you're just a little kink-curious, ready to spice things up, or a seasoned pro, there's ... more

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Four real people, four very different kink journeys, and a whole lot of proof that listening to your kink can actually change your life.

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Clinical sexologist Dr. Stacy Friedman joins the podcast to discuss how to talk to your partner about your deepest fantasies, navigate midlife desire, and advocate for your sexual health.

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Emotional intimacy coach Allana Pratt joins the podcast to discuss psychedelics, kink, and coming home to your body through healing trauma and somatic integration work.

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Samia Mounts returns for a deep conversation on dismantling the patriarchy, polyamory, and how we can all break free from the systems that hold us back.

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Allana Pratt
Emotional intimacy coach
Episode: Psychedelics, Kink, and Coming Home to Your Body with Allana Pratt
Caroline Hood
Licensed clinician, writer about sex and relationships, author-to-be of Sex Begets Sex Reclaiming Desire as an Act of Female Empowerment
Independent clinician/writer
Episode: on Female Desire, Mental Load, and Mismatched Libido with Caroline Hood
Cate Osborn
Content creator known as Cateasaurus, educator on ADHD and kink
Cate Osborn / Cateasaurus
Episode: ADHD, Kink, and Neurodivergent Relationships with Catieosaurus
Melancholy Ghost
Missouri Leather title holder; educator on boundaries in kink; identifies as asexual/demisexual; from Missouri; teaches across leather and kink communities
Missouri title holder; Show Me Leather Miss Missouri Leather (current title)
Episode: A Guide to Setting Boundaries in Kink with Melancholy Ghost
Kristen Aut
Coach, founder of New Badass You
New Badass You
Episode: Hot Girl Energy: How to Date Without Losing Yourself with Kristen Aut
Miz Darling
A noted Dominant and educator in the kink community
Independent kink educator / dom
Episode: How to Tell Your Partner About Your Fetish with Miz Darling
Larah Sky
Kink educator and creator introduced as a guest on the episode
Larah Sky / Independent creator
Episode: Kinky Cruises, Chastity Cages, and Social Media Bans with Larah Sky
Simone Milasas
Relationship facilitator who travels the world
Access Consciousness (via work in relationships)
Episode: Relationship Advice for Kinky Couples with Simone Milasas
Matt Salis
Behavioral health writer and researcher; co-host of Untoxicated Podcast
Untoxicated Podcast
Episode: Emotional Masculinity: Breaking Down Toxic Masculinity, the Manosphere, and Real Intimacy with Matt Salis

Host

Amanda Dames
Certified sex and relationship coach, sexologist, former professional dominatrix; host of The Kink Consultant

Reviews

3.9 out of 5 stars from 259 ratings
  • Good content but a fire hose

    Please take a pause, breathe. It’s so rapid it’s exhausting to listen to. No breaks.

    Apple Podcasts
    4
    bharha
    United States3 months ago
  • Must Listen Show if interested in Kink

    Amanda does an amazing job exploring and explaining all things kink and relationships!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Dan13386
    United Statesa year ago
  • This is so helpful

    I follow you on IG and episode 26 really helped me figure things out. It inspired me to continue researching my Abdl little side. Thankyou for this so much

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Abdl&confused
    United Statesa year ago
  • Phenomenal!

    As someone who is a professional dom of sorts and lives a kinky lifestyle, this podcast is phenomenal! I highly encourage others to listen to it for sure. I will be recommending this podcast to friends, clients, and others in between. I always consider myself some sort of kink consultant or therapist of sorts, glad that you feel the same way as it is so accurate. Keep up the good work, can’t wait to see where the podcast takes me! 😈

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Ryan Centofanti
    United States2 years ago
  • A fan

    Very informative. Great insights. Learning stuff that I wouldn’t know other wise.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Thom The Bi Dwarf
    Canada2 years ago

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Many appreciate deep dives into kink education and practical relationship strategies.
Some say the format is fast-paced and packed with actionable tips, with a strong emphasis on consent and safety.
Listeners praise candid, informative discussions and relatable storytelling from the host and guests.

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Why Dismantling the Patriarchy Will Give You Better Sex with Samia Mounts
Q: Is monogamy really the default, or just a cultural script that can be challenged?
It's a cultural script that has been reinforced over time, but the conversation suggests that people should have freedom to choose what works for them without shaming those who choose differently.
Why Dismantling the Patriarchy Will Give You Better Sex with Samia Mounts
Q: What does dismantling the patriarchy look like in intimate relationships?
It means expanding acceptable relationship models, supporting sexual autonomy for women, and allowing people to choose polyamory or monogamy without social coercion, while valuing emotional honesty and consent.
Psychedelics, Kink, and Coming Home to Your Body with Allana Pratt
Q: What stage of life are your clients typically in when they find you and start this work?
Clients range from late 20s to early 80s; however, those who actually go through the psychedelic somatic integration journeys tend to be late 30s to mid-60s, often dealing with longstanding relationship patterns and a readiness to reparent themselves for healthier intimacy.
How to Navigate a 24/7 Dynamic: A Conversation on Boundaries and Communication with My Dom
Q: How do you handle mid-scene pushback or a sudden shift in headspace?
Pause, regroup, and refer back to pre-negotiated boundaries; if needed, slow down or take a break and reassess before continuing.
How to Navigate a 24/7 Dynamic: A Conversation on Boundaries and Communication with My Dom
Q: How does fear play a role in your dynamic, and can it be a positive motivator?
Fear is a motivator when framed as a concern for meeting your partner's needs and staying aligned, and it can push both people to improve and stay engaged.

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What is The Kink Consultant about and what kind of topics does it cover?

A compact, bold discussion space focused on kink, sexuality, and relationship dynamics, featuring expert guests and coaches who translate complex topics into practical guidance. Episodes frequently explore boundaries, consent, intimacy, and communication within BDSM, dating, and family life, often pairing personal experiences with actionable frameworks. A standout aspect is the blend of education and frank storytelling from contributors who span kink education, matchmaking, parenting in kink-friendly contexts, and relationship coaching, making it a resource for beginners and seasoned practitioners alike. Listeners are likely drawn to candid conversations, empirical insights, and strategies to navigate desire, power dynamics, and safety in i... more

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