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Were You Raised By Wolves?

Nick Leighton & Leah Bonnema
Etiquette
Dining Etiquette
Social Interactions
Social Etiquette
Wedding Etiquette
Weddings
Dinner Party Etiquette
Airplane Etiquette
Friendship
Espresso
Tipping Etiquette
Boundaries
Holiday Cards
Air Travel
Family Dynamics
New York City
Bed and Breakfast Etiquette
Party Etiquette
Dinner Parties
Thank You Notes

Editors’ Notes: “I want to give everybody the tools to solve their own etiquette problems,” says Nick Leighton, cohost and producer of Were You Raised by Wolves?, a weekly podcast in which he and cohost Leah Bonnema look into the many sticky social situations we all face. “With each of the questions that we get, from the bonkers to the ordinary, I always try to take a step back and ask, ‘What are ... more

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Etiquette, manners, and beyond! This week, Nick and Leah are enjoying a well-deserved break, but they'll be back next week with an all-new episode. In the meantime, here's one of their favorite episodes from the archives in which they answer listener... more

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Etiquette, manners, and beyond! This week, Nick and Leah are enjoying a well-deserved break, but they'll be back soon with an all-new episode. In the meantime, here's one of their favorite episodes from the archives in which they tackle eating waterm... more

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Etiquette, manners, and beyond! In this episode, Nick and Leah tackle using knife rests, spamming everyone you know, pocketing hotel slippers, and much more. Please follow us! (We'd send you a handwritten thank-you note if we could.)

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Etiquette, manners, and beyond! In this episode, Nick and Leah answer listener questions about lending fancy waffle makers, witnessing coffee shop meltdowns, demanding raisins from coworkers, and much more. Please follow us! (We'd send you a handwrit... more

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Sara Jane Ho
Harvard Business School graduate, Netflix star, manners expert, and founder of an etiquette institute.
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William Hanson
One of Britain's most trusted authorities on etiquette and director of The English Manner.
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Hosts

Nick Leighton
Host and co-creator with Emmy-winning journalism background; leads questions and provides historical/contextual etiquette insights.
Leah Bonnema
Co-host and comedian, provides perspectives, reactions, and practical etiquette guidance with warmth and humor.

Reviews

4.7 out of 5 stars from 2.3k ratings
  • Don’t pass up this fun podcast

    I have listened to all 388 episodes and they just keep getting better. The interactions between Nick and Leah are the best and usually have me laughing every week. I’m secretly happy that all the etiquette problems of the world have not been solved yet. Otherwise we wouldn’t have any episode every week.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Heykristen
    United Statesa month ago
  • My favorite podcast

    I get so excited when there’s a new episode of WYRBW! Every week I listen to the new one plus one or two from back when I hadn’t yet found Nick and Leah, and was still stumbling around in the darkness. Seriously, they are on a very short list of famous people I would actually like to meet one day.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Wofhrbxi
    United States2 months ago
  • Thanks so much!

    Historically, I’ve found driving a drag, but since a friend put me onto Were You Raised by Wolves, I sometimes find myself leaving home early so I can get in a whole episode or three. Nick and Leah offer the perfect blend of light and funny with genuine substance, and I’ve found my personal boundaries improving by absorption - last week I legit responded to a request with “Thanks so much but that won’t be possible,” with ne’er a second thought. Brilliant, thanks so much!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    JRcats888
    Canada2 months ago
  • This show is a delight!

    I don’t know how I stumbled across this show, but I’m so thrilled that I did! Leah and Nick have such great repartee—witty, warm, genuine (and occasionally a bit catty, which I also adore)! The show makes me laugh, gasp, and occasionally tear up. Since I just recently discovered it, I’m currently bingeing the back catalogue, and it’s bringing me such joy! It’s like having out with a couple of friends.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    JaimeJaimeBoBaime
    United States2 months ago
  • Love yall!

    This is the best podcast I love there nouns episodes and ther enerygyyy

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Camicupcake2738
    United States3 months ago

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Key themes from listener reviews, highlighting what works and what could be improved about the show.

Praises for approachable take on complex social situations; some criticisms note occasional humor can skew toward lightness over depth.
Listeners appreciate cross-cultural and global etiquette references that expand everyday manners.
Many fans highlight consistency and a sense of community around etiquette discussions.
Listeners praise the hosts' warmth and humor paired with practical etiquette tips.
Audience notes the show improves real-life interactions and boundaries.

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Second Helpings: Dodging In-Law Requests, Melting Candy Bars in Diapers, Hiding Coffee Truths, and More
Q: How should you proceed when friends over-promise to host a baby shower but then may back out?
Politely loop back to confirm interest, propose a plan (e.g., 'Would you still like to move forward this way?'), and if necessary, distribute responsibilities among more people or split into smaller tasks so one person isn't bearing the full burden.
Second Helpings: Dodging In-Law Requests, Melting Candy Bars in Diapers, Hiding Coffee Truths, and More
Q: What is the right way to respond when a mother-in-law offers to host a big dinner and the respondent does not want it?
Use a short, polite refusal (e.g., 'Thank you for the generous offer, but that won't work for us'), then calmly explain that they will not be hosting, and involve the spouse to back up the boundary if needed.
Using Knife Rests, Spamming Everyone You Know, Pocketing Hotel Slippers, and More
Q: Can I take hotel slippers home, or should I leave them?
Single-use slippers are fine to take; better to travel with your own slippers to reduce waste, but if offered, take them to prevent waste and to discourage future use by the hotel.
Using Knife Rests, Spamming Everyone You Know, Pocketing Hotel Slippers, and More
Q: I take one or two weeks of annual leave and travel for six hours by train in each direction to reach them. I look after the children, the house and the pets. I feel hurt by the lack of thanks; what should I say or do?
Acknowledge the hurt but keep it constructive: consider setting boundaries, ask for appreciation or reimbursement, and propose a reasonable plan to continue helping only if it works for you; avoid guilt and offer a direct, simple heads-up communication.
Turning Tables, Finding Lost Wallets, Boxing Up Free Desserts, and More
Q: What should you do if you find a wallet or personal item in public spaces?
Turn it in to the nearest obvious authority (gym desk, airport lost and found, etc.), try to contact the owner using available clues, and avoid keeping the item or invading the owner's privacy. If you reach out, be transparent about where you found it and offer to return it.

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What is Were You Raised By Wolves? about and what kind of topics does it cover?

A practical, empathetic show tackling everyday social situations with humor and clear guidance. Hosts Nick Leighton and Leah Bonnema field audience questions on etiquette, manners, and social friction, blending actionable tips with relatable stories. Episodes consistently emphasize consent, boundaries, and respectful communication, often weaving historical context and cross-cultural examples to illuminate modern courtesy. The duo's warmth and banter create a friendly, nonjudgmental space—appealing to listeners who want to navigate social life more thoughtfully without feeling lectured. Noteworthy is the consistent weekly cadence, audience participation, and sponsor interludes that keep content fresh while staying focused on practical decenc... more

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