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Since You Asked with Lori Gottlieb and Gretchen Rubin

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Communication
Friendship
Parenting
Family Dynamics
Grief
Trust In Relationships
Family Relationships
Advice
Communication In Relationships
Relationship Dilemmas
Valentine's Day
Family Traditions
Secrets and Privacy
Grandparents
Relationships
Infidelity
IVF
Loss
AI In Relationships
Money

Who doesn’t need advice—and who doesn’t love giving advice? Since you asked, we’re happy to answer. Each week, two friends—Gretchen Rubin, a happiness researcher, and Lori Gottlieb, a therapist—tackle the daily problems of living with all of you. Whether it’s the pet peeve that’s annoyed you for years, the question you’re too embarrassed to ask, or the dilemma you can’t solve, we’ll address it all... more

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We share listener responses to Dan Harris’s anxiety dilemma and a question about parents bragging about adult kids online. We respond to a listener who let her close friend’s adult son stay on her property and is trying to support him without getting... more

We hear an update from the mother whose adult son was struggling with his difficult relationship with his father, and what changed after he talked it through with his dad. We respond to a listener whose boyfriend wants her to delete old photos with h... more

We share listener responses on new baby boundaries and how to support friends dealing with family estrangement. We respond to a listener who wants a fresh start socially and professionally without making a major life change. Plus, Since You Askers we... more

We share more listener responses to the question of what to do with a secret a dying father is asking his daughter to keep. We respond to a parent who found their 16-year-old vaping and is trying to decide how to respond. Plus, Since You Askers weigh... more

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Recent Guests

Dan Harris
Former ABC News broadcaster; host of 10% Happier podcast
10% Happier (podcast)
Episode: How Do You Support a Friend Dealing with Family Estrangement? Plus: Dan Harris Wants Our Advice!
Carl Radke
Summer House star, author of Cake Eater, host of More Life; activist in the non-alcoholic movement
Soft Bar (non-alcoholic bar venture)
Episode: Is It Okay to Admit You’re Less Attracted to Your Partner? Plus: Carl Radke Wants our Advice!
David Duchovny
Actor and host of the podcast Fail Better
Podcast host
Episode: What If Your Father Is Having a Baby With Someone Your Age? Plus: David Duchovny Gives US Advice!

Hosts

Lori Gottlieb
Therapist and author; host of the show; NYT columnist
Gretchen Rubin
Happiness researcher and author; co-host of multiple segments

Reviews

4.5 out of 5 stars from 366 ratings
  • Really enjoying this podcast

    I’ve been listening since this podcast started and continue to enjoy it. The topics are interesting each episode, and I always feel that I get something useful from each episode. Gretchen and Lori are good about giving thoughtful responses.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    lee44!
    United Statesa month ago
  • Always addresses relatable issues and discusses them in interesting and meaningful ways. I love this podcast and Lori's other one Dear Therapists (currently on hiatus)!

    Podcast Addict
    5
    ashle527
    3 months ago
  • Thought provoking real life dilemmas

    This show has got me thinking about real life dilemmas and I appreciate both Lori and Gretchen’s advice, which is non-judgmental, practical and understanding of a range of people. It’s always s really interesting to listen and I can always relate. Well done guys!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    MissAlice82
    Australia3 months ago
  • Too. Many commercials

    Love the show but commercials are taking over. Also, why start a podcast that you can’t maintain? You took a long break at Christmas, and now another two months??

    Apple Podcasts
    3
    can-do-lady
    United States4 months ago
  • Wise women with a sense of fun

    There is so much thoughtful and useful advice in this podcast, much of it research based but also connected to peoples experiences. The presenters deal with some serious issues but always with a light touch. I learn something every time I listen, thank you both

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    walk in the waves
    United Kingdom4 months ago

Listeners Say

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Engaging discussions on relationships and family dynamics resonate with fans seeking real-world guidance.
Many enjoy the hosts' non-judgmental, empathetic style and audience participation.
The show sometimes draws criticism for frequent ads and pacing, impacting flow for some listeners.
Listeners appreciate the thoughtful, practical approach to everyday dilemmas.
Guest selections and format changes split some listeners, but the core duo remains a draw.

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#220
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How Do You Support a Friend Dealing with Family Estrangement? Plus: Dan Harris Wants Our Advice!
Q: How can a listener best support a friend dealing with a family estrangement on an ongoing basis?
Be a steady, nonjudgmental presence, reflect their feelings back to them, and allow them to steer conversations about their situation. Offer practical support only when asked, and be mindful of the friend's social circle and how conversations about their situation could affect them.
How Do You Support a Friend Dealing with Family Estrangement? Plus: Dan Harris Wants Our Advice!
Q: What is our advice for supporting friends who have been estranged from their adult children?
Lead with listening and emotional presence, validate their experience, avoid pressuring them to disclose details, and acknowledge the ongoing nature of their grief. Encourage them to set boundaries and consider gentle ways to stay connected, such as acknowledging holidays and being available without imposing solutions.
Is It Okay to Admit You’re Less Attracted to Your Partner? Plus: Carl Radke Wants our Advice!
Q: Hey, it's Carl Radke. Here's my question for you. I opened my new business, Soft Bar, which is a bar and cafe in Brooklyn, New York. It's alcohol free. How do I navigate feeling like an imposter while receiving praise in early success?
Reframe imposter syndrome as a normal part of stepping into a new role. Acknowledge that visibility and praise often come from peers and supporters who are excited about the change, not necessarily because you've proven you're flawless. Focus on identity integration—what you're learning, what you need to grow, and how your mission aligns with your actions—rather than chasing an elusive sense of being 'the expert,' which may always feel just out of reach.
What If Your Father Is Having a Baby With Someone Your Age? Plus: David Duchovny Gives US Advice!
Q: How do you tell a friend their Botox and fillers look excessive?
Consider the friend's feelings; if they are generally happy, it may be best to say nothing, but if they express dissatisfaction with their appearance, you might gently ask how they feel about their cosmetic choices.
What If Your Father Is Having a Baby With Someone Your Age? Plus: David Duchovny Gives US Advice!
Q: Am I a bad person for wanting space and for setting boundaries with my father?
You're not a bad person for your feelings, but it's essential to explore and understand those feelings without needing to confront your father harshly.

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What is Since You Asked about and what kind of topics does it cover?

Two longtime friends provide a mix of practical psychology, relationship guidance, and everyday life problem solving. Each episode centers on listener questions or dilemmas, with the hosts offering empathy, structured advice, and real-world strategies, often including audience input and light, segmented formats. The dynamic blends Lori Gottlieb's clinical perspective with Gretchen Rubin's happiness and habit framework to cover topics like relationships, parenting, privacy, money, grief, and boundary setting, all with a focus on practical, non-technical guidance. Noteworthy is the rotating segment approach and a clear disclaimer that the content is entertainment and not a substitute for professional services, which can help brands align spon... more

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