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To Be A Boy

To Be A Boy
Masculinity
Misogyny
Male Privilege
Parenting
Adolescence
Mental Health
Andrew Tate
Men's Mental Health
Friendship
2024
Toxic Masculinity
Boys
Emotional Vulnerability
Mental Health Advocacy
Child Independence
Free-Range Kids
Fatherhood
Pornography
Gender Equality
Child Development

Ever wondered how to navigate raising boys in this bonkers world? Enter To Be A Boy', where hosts Joeli Brearley and Elliott Rae tackle the murky waters of masculinity and boyhood. From societal stereotypes to the influence of porn, they provide a candid take on raising well-rounded boys. Expect personal anecdotes, belly laughs, and deep dives as they dismantle harmful clichés and champion honest ... more

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Ever wondered why blokes these days seem lonelier than a post-laundry sock? Join Elliott and Joeli for this episode tackling the growing issue of male loneliness and the curious case of the disappearing close friendship. We'll also touch on the joys ... more

Welcome back to the "To Be a Boy" podcast! We are sharing a heartfelt thanks to our listeners for their overwhelmingly positive responses and thoughtful messages following the Adolescence special. Elliott opens up about parents feeling confused and a... more

In this FOUR PARTER (you’re welcome) episode of To Be A Boy, Joeli and Elliott are debriefing us: bringing their unique voices and perspectives to the table as they delve into the international conversation happening around the Netflix show ‘Adolesce... more

In episode three of To Be A Boy, Elliott Rae and Joeli Brearley are joined by author and award-winning podcast host, Alex Holmes to explore the complex issues surrounding men’s mental health. And before that, they look at how 2025's International Wom... more

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Recent Guests

Lenore Skenazy
Author of Free-Range Kids and president of Let Grow
Let Grow
Episode: To Be A Boy, episode 5: How to Raise Safe, Self Reliant Boys with Lenore Skenazy, and… are you skibidi?
Sarah Clark
Child and adolescent psychotherapist with 30 years of experience.
Private practice in the Northeast
Episode: To Be A Boy, episode 4: The Adolescence episode
Ineke Houghtonbos
Senior Safeguarding Training Consultant for NSPCC.
NSPCC
Episode: To Be A Boy, episode 4: The Adolescence episode
Alex Holmes
Renowned writer, mental health advocate, and award-winning podcaster
Author of 'Time to Talk'
Episode: To Be A Boy, episode 3: IWD 2025 and men's mental health with Alex Holmes
Ruth Whippman
Author of Boy Mum: Raising Boys in the Age of Toxic Masculinity
Episode: To Be A Boy, episode 2: Exploring Boyhood with Ruth Whippman

Hosts

Joeli Brearley
Co-host of To Be A Boy podcast.
Elliott Rae
Co-host of To Be A Boy podcast.

Reviews

4.5 out of 5 stars from 64 ratings
  • Love most of the content, frustratingly heteronormative

    I love the premise of this podcast and thoroughly enjoyed the first episode.

    The second I struggled to engage with.

    The descriptions of relationship dynamics particularly in the intro were exclusively about hetro cis couples. It felt exclusive and not really good enough for 2025

    Apple Podcasts
    3
    LouLaabelle
    United Kingdom2 months ago
  • Awesome

    OMG I cant wait for this podcast. Great first episode. As a dad of a four yr old boy I’m acutely aware of the lack of male role models I had growing up and how building that ‘village’ of good men around me now is something I’m struggling with already. Can’t wait to listen in bi-weekly. Thank you for launching this. 😊

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Richard_Hat
    United Kingdom2 months ago
  • Disappointing

    This needs to be half as long, there’s so much waffle chat and hard to follow. Really wanted to give it a try but it’s constantly going off on tangents. Also very strange partnership with an app that’s essentially Uber for childcare. Concerning! So much info on men’s problems but thought this was a feminist take on parenting/raising men? Seems more like a masculinity podcast than anything. Don’t really understand the pivot from campaigning on women’s issues to this podcast. Very disappointed!

    Apple Podcasts
    1
    .-:;?4@3’w
    United Kingdom2 months ago
  • YES! Finally …

    Such an important discussion to be having as parents worry and do their best to navigate this… serious, passionate engagement and yet kept lighthearted. Really enjoyed episode 1 and looking forward to hearing more insightful thoughts from these two.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    £&@8/£)
    United Kingdom2 months ago
  • Excited for this to get going!

    Great intro episode, looking forward to getting into this and hearing from the amazing guests lined up. Thank you Joeli and Elliott

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    samlisternorgate
    United Kingdom2 months ago

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Some critiques mention a need for more inclusivity in discussing gender dynamics beyond conventional binaries.
Listeners appreciate the candid and humorous approach to tough topics surrounding masculinity and parenting.
Many find the discussions to be insightful, highlighting the emotional struggles boys face.

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To Be A Boy, episode 4: The Adolescence episode
Q: What should parents do if they notice a change in their child's behavior related to online content exposure?
Stay calm and engage in conversations to understand their child's experience, while also providing support and resources.
To Be A Boy, episode 4: The Adolescence episode
Q: How can they go about safeguarding their kids?
Creating an environment where they talk about difficult topics and modeling behavior around problems for their children.
To Be A Boy, episode 3: IWD 2025 and men's mental health with Alex Holmes
Q: Why are so many men struggling to find connection and friendship in today's world?
Many men struggle with intimacy and trust, often prioritizing work and competition over building friendships.
To Be A Boy, episode 2: Exploring Boyhood with Ruth Whippman
Q: What suggestions do you have for parents about raising boys?
Focus on critical thinking, curiosity, and care. Engage with boys to help them articulate their feelings, validate their experiences, and provide nurturing support.
To Be A Boy, episode 2: Exploring Boyhood with Ruth Whippman
Q: Can you tell us a bit more about the research you uncovered in relation to hormones and their impact?
Hormones play a role in behavior as baby boys receive a testosterone influx in utero that influences their later activities and social interactions, leading to more rambunctious play compared to baby girls.

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Focused on the complexities of raising boys in today's world, content highlights several themes surrounding masculinity, parenting, and mental health. The hosts share personal experiences and insights from experts to explore societal expectations, the emotional challenges boys face, and the importance of nurturing open dialogues about masculinity. Episodes cover a range of pertinent issues, such as the impact of pornography, the effects of toxic masculinity, and the need for supportive male friendships, aiming to create a safe space for discussing these topics among parents and caregivers. The podcast utilizes humor and heartfelt stories to engage listeners and advocate for healthier relationships with boys.

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2. Sarah Clark
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5. Ruth Whippman

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