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To Be A Boy

To Be A Boy
Mental Health
Masculinity
Parenting
Friendship
Loneliness
Andrew Tate
Misogyny
Male Identity
Male Privilege
Manosphere
Adolescence
Pornography
Toxic Masculinity
Gender Roles
Feminism
Men's Mental Health
Boys
2024
Child Development
Gen Z

Ever wondered how to navigate raising boys in this bonkers world? Enter To Be A Boy', where hosts Joeli Brearley and Elliott Rae tackle the murky waters of masculinity and boyhood. From societal stereotypes to the influence of porn, they provide a candid take on raising well-rounded boys. Expect personal anecdotes, belly laughs, and deep dives as they dismantle harmful clichés and champion honest ... more

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We start the podcast’s year off with a super special guest: it’s only the Prime Minister in the chair! This episode of To Be A Boy was recorded in IKEA Croydon, among meatballs and Billy bookcases, where Elliott Rae and Joeli Brearley grilled Sir Kei... more

We’re back in the studio (and yes, the chairs are dangerously comfy) to celebrate nearly a year of To Be A Boy. From Ruth Whippman’s eye-opening research on raising boys, to Lenore Skenazy convincing us to let kids roam free, to John Amaechi’s powerf... more

What does it take to raise a brilliant boy with autism in a world full of stigma, systemic hurdles, and cultural misconceptions? In this episode, childcare lawyer and super-mum Deborah Otubambo shares her 21-year journey of advocacy, resilience, and ... more

What does it mean to grow up as a boy today? Spoiler: It’s not all football and moonwalks anymore.

In this episode of To Be A Boy, Joeli and Elliott sit down with Lee Chambers, psychologist, and founder of Male Allies UK, and all-around champion fo... more

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Recent Guests

Keir Starmer
Prime Minister of the UK, former director of Public Prosecutions, a father, and a knight of the realm.
UK Government
Episode: To Be A Prime Minister: Keir Starmer and the Employment Rights Act
Ruth Whipman
Author focused on raising boys and the associated challenges.
None given
Episode: The Conversations That Changed Us
Lenore Skenazy
Advocate for children's independence and author.
None given
Episode: The Conversations That Changed Us
Deborah Otubambo
Mother of three, childcare lawyer and advocate for children with autism
Episode: Raising a Boy with Autism: A Journey Through Stigma and Strength
Joe Hall
Media professional from Channel 4
Channel 4
Episode: Mirror, Mirror on Masculinity: Are We Getting It Right?
Fergus Navaratnam-Blair
Representative from the National Research Group
National Research Group
Episode: Mirror, Mirror on Masculinity: Are We Getting It Right?
Cindy Gallop
Entrepreneur, speaker, and cultural firestarter known for her initiative Make Love Not Porn.
Make Love Not Porn
Episode: Make Love Not Porn: a guide for men, boys and the real world with Cindy Gallop
John Amaechi
Organizational psychologist, New York Times bestselling author and former NBA player
Episode: THE John Amaechi on men, masculinity and monsters.
Richard Reeves
Writer, scholar, and former policy advisor
American Institute for Boys and Men
Episode: The Don of Boys and Men: Richard Reeves

Hosts

Joeli Brearley
Joeli Brearley is a co-host known for her expertise in parenting and her focus on the positive development of boys. She brings personal anecdotes and insights, shaping discussions around masculinity and healthy emotional expression.
Elliott Rae
Elliott Rae is a co-host with a background in education and child development, contributing to a compassionate perspective on raising boys. He emphasizes emotional intelligence and the importance of challenging traditional stereotypes around masculinity.

Reviews

4.7 out of 5 stars from 156 ratings
  • Finding their voice

    I think they are finding their voice as a new podcast, and have found episodes to improve over time. Format struggles a bit, and doesn’t always flow smoothly. Overall a worthy listen as a new mother to a boy and feel like this content is much needed. I look forward to seeing how they evolve and grow over time!

    Apple Podcasts
    4
    ewalk7198
    United States10 months ago
  • Great guests, discussing important issues

    Elliott and Joeli are a great combination, I like the banter between them. But it’s the guests so far that have made this a great listen. The four-parter on Adolescence in particular is really good. Looking forward to more!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Tallcmp172
    United Kingdom10 months ago
  • Thank you

    Thank you so much for creating this podcast!! I am a mum of 3 boys and I am determined to raise the next generation of happy, grounded, kind and connected boys. For the world to be a better place for all boys and girls and future adults! We need this so much! So very excited to follow this! 🔥🙏🙏🙏

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Popcast_for_kids
    United Kingdom10 months ago
  • Hoping you go deeper

    I’m 1.5 episodes in and it all feels a bit Blue Peter so far. Planning to persevere because the topic is so important to me but really hoping you both go on a steep learning curve as the series progresses. Ep 1 you say the idea partly came from MeToo and basically wanting to avoid bringing up a predator. Hmmm. Ep2 you show dismay at the global DEI climbdown - policies which are literally about assuming males have ‘privilege’ and must be deprioritised. As things stand I am not convinced you’re th... more

    Apple Podcasts
    2
    Bonbonbons585
    United Kingdom10 months ago
  • Love most of the content, frustratingly heteronormative

    I love the premise of this podcast and thoroughly enjoyed the first episode.

    The second I struggled to engage with.

    The descriptions of relationship dynamics particularly in the intro were exclusively about hetro cis couples. It felt exclusive and not really good enough for 2025

    Apple Podcasts
    3
    LouLaabelle
    United Kingdoma year ago

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Listeners appreciate the engaging and thought-provoking conversations about parenting boys in a modern context.
The hosts are praised for their balance of humor and seriousness while tackling sensitive topics like masculinity and emotional wellbeing.
Some feedback indicates a desire for deeper exploration of certain subjects, particularly those related to gender dynamics and inclusivity.
Overall, there is enthusiasm for the informative nature of the discussions and the supportive community fostered among listeners.

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To Be A Prime Minister: Keir Starmer and the Employment Rights Act
Q: Will you be doing anything else to ensure women can access justice in these circumstances?
Yes, we need to put the rights in place and make them enforceable, and encourage joining a trade union.
To Be A Prime Minister: Keir Starmer and the Employment Rights Act
Q: Do you think it's time we also increase maternity pay?
We need to constantly look at this and get the balance right, acknowledging maternity pay's real terms have fallen.
To Be A Prime Minister: Keir Starmer and the Employment Rights Act
Q: What are your views on paternity leave and how far are you willing to go?
I'm a very strong believer in paternity leave and had time off with both my children, which made a massive difference to my relationship with them.
To Be A Prime Minister: Keir Starmer and the Employment Rights Act
Q: Will you commit to tracking that data to see if this act does reduce pregnancy and maternity discrimination?
Yes, we will, and it's really important that we do.
To Be A Prime Minister: Keir Starmer and the Employment Rights Act
Q: Do you expect pregnancy and maternity discrimination to decrease as a direct result of this bill?
Yes, because we should have better protection for mums both before birth and after birth, and better protection for dads.

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Centered on the intricacies of parenting boys, this show discusses the evolving perceptions of masculinity and the challenges faced by boys in contemporary society. Hosts provide a candid platform for exploring various themes, including societal stereotypes, the influence of pornography, emotional intelligence, and the educational gaps affecting boys. Personal anecdotes and engaging dialogues highlight the importance of nurturing well-rounded boys who can navigate their identities in a complex world. The approach combines humor with serious discussions, making it appealing for parents seeking insights and support in raising boys.

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1. Keir Starmer
2. Ruth Whipman
3. Lenore Skenazy
4. Deborah Otubambo
5. Joe Hall
6. Fergus Navaratnam-Blair
7. Cindy Gallop
8. John Amaechi

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