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To Be A Boy

To Be A Boy
Mental Health
Masculinity
Parenting
Friendship
Loneliness
Andrew Tate
Misogyny
Male Identity
Male Privilege
Manosphere
Adolescence
Pornography
Toxic Masculinity
Gender Roles
Feminism
Men's Mental Health
Boys
2024
Child Development
Gen Z

Ever wondered how to navigate raising boys in this bonkers world? Enter To Be A Boy', where hosts Joeli Brearley and Elliott Rae tackle the murky waters of masculinity and boyhood. From societal stereotypes to the influence of porn, they provide a candid take on raising well-rounded boys. Expect personal anecdotes, belly laughs, and deep dives as they dismantle harmful clichés and champion honest ... more

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In this episode, Elliott Rae and Joeli Brearley are joinedby their favourite guest-slash-interrogator, producer Kaley Botting, for a freewheeling chat spanning everything from International Men’s Day to the emotional fallout of the John Lewis Christm... more

Joeli and Elliott sit down with, yes you heard us right, John Amaechi to talk all things sports, identity and masculinity, emphasizing the importance of emotional intelligence and intimacy among men. John reflects on his experiences as a latecomer to... more

In this episode of To Be A Boy, Elliott Rae and Joeli Brearley sit down with Richard Reeves—author of Of Boys and Men and chair of the UK’s Centre for Policy Research on Boys and Men—for a candid, compassionate conversation about the challenges facin... more

In this episode, Joeli, Elliott, and Producer Kaley havetheir first ‘Questions with Kaley’ session.

The TBAB team explore the concept of 'the ick' in dating, the importance of emotional support in relationships, and the impact of paternity leave on ... more

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Recent Guests

John Amaechi
Organizational psychologist, New York Times bestselling author and former NBA player
Episode: THE John Amaechi on men, masculinity and monsters.
Richard Reeves
Writer, scholar, and former policy advisor
American Institute for Boys and Men
Episode: The Don of Boys and Men: Richard Reeves
Sarah Ockwell-Smith
A mother of four and a bestselling author specializing in gentle parenting methods.
Author
Episode: (Gentle) Parenting with Sarah Ockwell-Smith
Dr. Alex Blower
Author of Lost Boys and founder of Boys Impact
Episode: Class, Culture, and the Classroom: A New Vision for Boys’ Education
Tosha Schore
Founder of Parenting Boys Peacefully, advocate for raising emotionally intelligent boys
Parenting Boys Peacefully
Episode: Out with Aggression: Raising Sweet Boys with Tosha Schore
Christopher Pepper
Best-selling author and health educator in San Francisco schools
San Francisco Unified School District
Episode: From Grunts to Growth: Talking Boys with Christopher Pepper
Uju Asika
Multi-award nominated vlogger, author of 'Raising Boys Who Do Better'
Episode: Raising Better Boys with Uju Asika
Chris Stein
Co-founder of Future Men, focused on supporting boys and men
Future Men
Episode: Breaking the Mold: Masculinity, Mentorship & Future Men
Owen Thomas
Co-founder of Future Men, working on mental health and well-being for boys and men
Future Men
Episode: Breaking the Mold: Masculinity, Mentorship & Future Men

Hosts

Elliott Rae
Co-host with a background in education and advocacy, often sharing personal anecdotes related to parenting and boyhood issues.
Joeli Brearley
Co-host and creative consultant with a focus on parenting boys, often providing insights into emotional and mental health aspects.

Reviews

4.7 out of 5 stars from 153 ratings
  • Finding their voice

    I think they are finding their voice as a new podcast, and have found episodes to improve over time. Format struggles a bit, and doesn’t always flow smoothly. Overall a worthy listen as a new mother to a boy and feel like this content is much needed. I look forward to seeing how they evolve and grow over time!

    Apple Podcasts
    4
    ewalk7198
    United States8 months ago
  • Great guests, discussing important issues

    Elliott and Joeli are a great combination, I like the banter between them. But it’s the guests so far that have made this a great listen. The four-parter on Adolescence in particular is really good. Looking forward to more!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Tallcmp172
    United Kingdom8 months ago
  • Thank you

    Thank you so much for creating this podcast!! I am a mum of 3 boys and I am determined to raise the next generation of happy, grounded, kind and connected boys. For the world to be a better place for all boys and girls and future adults! We need this so much! So very excited to follow this! 🔥🙏🙏🙏

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Popcast_for_kids
    United Kingdom8 months ago
  • Hoping you go deeper

    I’m 1.5 episodes in and it all feels a bit Blue Peter so far. Planning to persevere because the topic is so important to me but really hoping you both go on a steep learning curve as the series progresses. Ep 1 you say the idea partly came from MeToo and basically wanting to avoid bringing up a predator. Hmmm. Ep2 you show dismay at the global DEI climbdown - policies which are literally about assuming males have ‘privilege’ and must be deprioritised. As things stand I am not convinced you’re th... more

    Apple Podcasts
    2
    Bonbonbons585
    United Kingdom8 months ago
  • Love most of the content, frustratingly heteronormative

    I love the premise of this podcast and thoroughly enjoyed the first episode.

    The second I struggled to engage with.

    The descriptions of relationship dynamics particularly in the intro were exclusively about hetro cis couples. It felt exclusive and not really good enough for 2025

    Apple Podcasts
    3
    LouLaabelle
    United Kingdom9 months ago

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Some critiques mention occasional disjointedness in episode flow and highlight a desire for deeper exploration of topics.
Positively highlights the importance of raising boys with emotional intelligence and understanding identity issues.
Listeners appreciate the mix of humor and serious discussions surrounding sensitive topics. They see the value in the show's goal to create supportive dialogue around boyhood.

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LIVE! from The Working Dads’ Summit
Q: How can we encourage dads to parent out loud without reinforcing the idea that they need to be praised for it?
Dads often face suspicion when asking for flexible working, but using their leave doesn't make them less competent; they should feel encouraged without needing extra praise.
LIVE! from The Working Dads’ Summit
Q: What impacts does dads' parenting out loud have on the lives of moms?
When dads take time out to care for their kids, it reduces negative bias in workplaces, changing perceptions and making it easier for working mothers.
LIVE! from The Working Dads’ Summit
Q: What does the picture look like for working moms in the UK when it comes to the motherhood penalty?
It's quite grim; pregnancy and maternity discrimination has increased, with 74,000 women being pushed out of their jobs each year.
Redefining Roles and Relationships with Beyond Equality
Q: What would you say to parents listening who have sons?
Keep communication open and engage with your sons about their internal world actively, encouraging discussion about social media and their experiences.
Redefining Roles and Relationships with Beyond Equality
Q: What do you think healthy masculinity looks like?
Healthy masculinity involves causing no harm to yourself or others and allowing individuals space to define their own identities away from societal expectations.

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Addresses the often challenging yet crucial journey of raising boys in today's society, this series offers a refreshing perspective on masculinity and boyhood. Through candid discussions, the hosts navigate a variety of relevant issues, including societal stereotypes, emotional well-being, and the challenges faced by boys as they transition into adulthood. Each episode features expert guests and personal anecdotes that reveal the complexities of modern parenting, striving to create a supportive and open environment for parents and boys alike. Audiences can expect humor, heartfelt moments, and invaluable insights into fostering healthy development and positive masculinity for the next generation.

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2. Richard Reeves
3. Sarah Ockwell-Smith
4. Dr. Alex Blower
5. Tosha Schore
6. Christopher Pepper
7. Uju Asika
8. Chris Stein

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