
Welcome to Second Best to Seen, the podcast for Gay Men ready to stop playing a supporting role in their own lives. I’m your host, David Allison. As a coach who's walked this road, I know the fear that says if you speak up, you will end up alone. I learned the hard way that treating yourself like second best just guarantees not being 'seen'. This is a space for practical wisdom to help you move fr... more
| Publishes | Weekly | Episodes | 11 | Founded | 4 months ago |
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| Number of Listeners | Categories | Self-ImprovementEducation | |||

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How long have you known what needs to change and been living alongside that knowledge? For a lot of men, the honest answer is a long time. And in that gap, a story starts to build about who you are and what you are capab... more
You've been saving your best self for someone who hasn't arrived yet. The good cooking, the full wardrobe, the warmth, the devotion, all of it held in reserve like a guest room waiting for a booking that keeps not coming.
In this session, David unpa... more
You know exactly where your boundaries are. Intellectually, you’ve done the work. But when the moment arrives to express that truth, you might find a gap between your intention and your action. This episode is for gay men who are ready to bridge that... more
You've been waiting a long time for someone to confirm what you already sense is true about you. Whether it's a date, a job, a friendship, each time you're passed over, that old familiar feeling surfaces. The one that whispers you're not quite enough... more
Have you ever laughed at dinner and saw someone flinch? Or been told your emotions were "making a scene"?
So you learned to edit. You learned to read the room. You became a watered-down version of yourself just to keep everyone else comfortable.
He... more
Have you ever been told you are "too much"? Or maybe you have been called "high maintenance" just because you deserve basic consistency?
In this episode, we are looking at the trap of the "Cool Guy."
You know the one. He pretends he doesn't care. H... more
You know that friendship...
The one that has been running on autopilot for years. Maybe you grew up together. Maybe you survived something hard together. But now? You leave every catch-up feeling drained instead of lifted.
Yet you stay.
But here i... more
Kind or Just People-Pleasing? How to Tell the Difference
Someone asks you for something and you feel that familiar pressure building. One part of you knows this doesn't work, but the other part says "good people help, caring people sacrifice." So yo... more
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