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Playing With Fire

Joli Hamilton
Non-Monogamy
Communication
Relationships
Conflict Resolution
Attachment Theory
Jealousy
Polyamory
Compersion
Betrayal Trauma
Co-Dependence
Enmeshment
Metamors
Emotional Regulation
Differentiation
Intentional Breaks
Relationship Dynamics
Limerence
Trust
Communication Skills
Relationship Agreements

Welcome to Playing With Fire, the podcast for people who are ready to custom-build their love. We’re talking about non-monogamy–however you design it–as an individuation opportunity. Want to leave the default and make your life spectacularly you? You’re in the right place.

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Latest Episodes

Navigating shared spaces as a polycule can feel like stepping into uncharted territory. Whether you're attending a community event, family gathering, or social outing with multiple partners, the absence of cultural scripts can leave us feeling uncert... more

Most of us have been conditioned to follow relationship "escalators," those predetermined paths that dictate how our connections should progress. But what happens when we step off these escalators and design our relationships according to our own val... more

Purity culture can often shape our sexuality in ways we don't even realize. Whether you grew up deeply immersed in it or just caught the edges, cultural messages about sexual "purity" impact how we view ourselves, our bodies, and our relationships. B... more

Have you ever felt totally torn between two seemingly incompatible desires? Like part of you wants the freedom of non-monogamy while another part longs for that "one and only" Disney story? You're not alone, and this inner conflict isn't something to... more

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Recent Guests

Lauren Elise Rogers
Certified holistic sexuality educator and embodied intimacy and relationship coach
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Episode: 223 Recovering From Purity Culture with Lauren Elise Barnes
Marla Schreiber
A white, queer, gender-defiant therapist and advocate for non-monogamous relationships.
Episode: 214 Defying Mononormativity with @Polyamarla
Dr. Nicole Thompson
Queer, non-monogamous sex and relationship psychotherapist with training in psychedelic integration therapy, founder of The Pleasure Practice.
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Episode: 213 Psychedelics and Non-Monogamy with Dr. Nicole Thompson
Annie Undone
Non-binary queer writer and advocate for relationship anarchy
Episode: 208 Relationship Anarchy: Tailor-Making ALL Your Relationships with Annie Undone
Mollena Lee Williams-Haas
Multi-hyphenate wonder, storyteller, writer, performer, kink educator, and activist.
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Episode: 192 [Replay] What would you do with your full power? A conversation about kink, power exchange, and everyday life with Mollena Williams-Haas
Sunny Megatron
Award-winning clinical sexologist, BDSM and sexuality educator, and media personality.
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Episode: 191 [Replay] Turn your Toxic Attractions into Psychological Growth with Sunny Megatron
Kathy Labriola
Nurse, counselor, and hypnotherapist specializing in consensual non-monogamy
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Episode: 186 Polyamory in the Second Half of Adulthood with Kathy Labriola
Dr. Ariana Cesare
Pelvic and obstetric physical therapist
Owner of a woman-owned business focusing on pregnancy and postpartum fitness
Episode: 183 Pelvic and Sexual Health for Every Body with Dr. Ariana Cesare
Eve Rickert
Co-author of 'More Than Two', curator of the non-monogamy resource site morethantwo.ca.
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Episode: 168 Ethics, Responsibility, and the Changing Landscape of Non-Monogamy with Eve Rickert and Andrea Zanin

Hosts

Ken Hamilton
Co-host focusing on relational dynamics and supporting discussions around non-monogamy and intimacy.
Jolie Hamilton
Co-host and expert on non-monogamous relationships, emphasizing emotional awareness and communication.

Reviews

4.8 out of 5 stars from 143 ratings
  • My favorite podcast!

    Honestly this podcast is fabulous for ENM but also ANY relationship. I love the dialogue, education and the deep dives. I find myself constantly digging deeper and learning more every episode. Thank you for making this podcast!!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Miss Lissa1
    United Statesa year ago
  • Awesome!

    Great! But Ken’s name is missing from the title image of this podcast. Having you two there, Juli and Ken, makes a big difference so I’d love to see his name on the title!

    Awesome job, guys!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Katharina0312
    United Statesa year ago
  • Constantly blown away - this podcast is for all people who want to live meaningful lives

    This podcast has more vulnerable and profound insight in a single episode than (I imagine) exist in the entirely of some people’s lives. I am constantly blown away by how much generosity and meaning-making dialogue Jolie, Ken and their guests offer up. In a world that rife with chaos, violence, and grief, this podcast provides me weekly place to receive nourishing thought and encouragement. Ken and Jolie model for me what it can look like to lead an intentional life; one that is complex, messy, ... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    okaylenaeps
    United Statesa year ago
  • Needing to Grow While Opening Up? Listen to this podcast.

    If you want to be open, but you’re also looking for emotional maturity, stability, and intimacy this will help. This podcast will help you walk through the internal processes to move towards YOUR path to YOUR best capacity to that maturity, stability, and connection.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Zerf1
    United Statesa year ago
  • Ken and Joli and path breakers

    They share their vulnerability and are authentic, it gives me hope and sustains my optimism.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Charly358
    United Kingdom2 years ago

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Listeners praise the podcast for its rich insights into relationships, particularly around non-monogamy and emotional intelligence.
The content is often described as both educational and entertaining, with guests that offer a wealth of knowledge in relationship dynamics.
Many appreciate the hosts' vulnerability and relatability, noting how they foster a supportive environment for complex discussions.
Some reviews mention that the topics extend beyond non-monogamy, addressing universal relationship themes that resonate with a wide audience.

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223 Recovering From Purity Culture with Lauren Elise Barnes
Q: What would you say to somebody just beginning to question their upbringing around purity and sexuality?
I'd invite them to do a little exercise: think of yourself at the following ages—seven, fourteen, and twenty-one—and answer questions about sex, relationships, and pleasure to see how your beliefs have evolved.
223 Recovering From Purity Culture with Lauren Elise Barnes
Q: What is purity culture? What does it mean?
Purity culture is defined as the belief that one's worth and value are attached to sexual purity, often characterized by expectations to remain abstinent until marriage and the framing of gender roles in relationships.
206 The Grief of Jealousy
Q: Can you describe what ambiguous grief means?
Ambiguous grief refers to a type of grief that arises from uncertain or unclear loss, such as when someone is missing or in circumstances that do not allow for closure.
191 [Replay] Turn your Toxic Attractions into Psychological Growth with Sunny Megatron
Q: Sunny, what are some of the red flags that you'd like people to be aware of when they're entering into these kinds of scenes?
Some red flags include a partner not listening to you or respecting your boundaries, and recognizing that the line between play and real-life disrespect can become blurry. It's important to have an internal checklist to identify these situations.
186 Polyamory in the Second Half of Adulthood with Kathy Labriola
Q: What drew you and what has drawn other elders into polyamory through their lives and into their olderhood?
Many were drawn for sex and excitement, but as they aged, they found polyamory to be a resilient model for companionship and care.

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Focused on the nuances of non-monogamous relationships, this series invites listeners to rethink traditional dynamics through open discussions about intimacy, emotional awareness, and personal growth. With personal anecdotes, expert interviews, and practical strategies, episodes explore diverse themes such as jealousy, the importance of communication, and the dynamics of established relationship energy. Unique in its approach, the content emphasizes not just the mechanics of non-monogamy but also the emotional and psychological aspects, making it a valuable resource for those seeking deeper connections in their relationships, regardless of their relationship structure.

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1. Lauren Elise Rogers
2. Marla Schreiber
3. Dr. Nicole Thompson
4. Annie Undone
5. Mollena Lee Williams-Haas
6. Sunny Megatron
7. Kathy Labriola
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