
Welcome to Playing With Fire, the podcast for people who are ready to custom-build their love. We’re talking about non-monogamy–however you design it–as an individuation opportunity. Want to leave the default and make your life spectacularly you? You’re in the right place.
| Publishes | Weekly | Episodes | 227 | Founded | 5 years ago |
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| Number of Listeners | Categories | RelationshipsSociety & Culture | |||

Ever feel like your journey into non-monogamy is all about hard work? You're not alone. Many people reach a point where they wonder if all the emotional regulation, self-reflection, and relationship meetings are worth it. This feeling is incredibly c... more
We all carry shame—it's part of the human experience. But what if there was a way to transform that shame into something more nurturing and supportive? In this episode, we welcome back Jessica Fern and David Cooley to discuss their groundbreaking new... more
We all experience transitions in our relationships. And, they can actually be even more frequent in non-monogamous relationships, like when our attention shifts from one partner to another, when we leave for a date, or when we return home. These seem... more
Navigating shared spaces as a polycule can feel like stepping into uncharted territory. Whether you're attending a community event, family gathering, or social outing with multiple partners, the absence of cultural scripts can leave us feeling uncert... more
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Honestly this podcast is fabulous for ENM but also ANY relationship. I love the dialogue, education and the deep dives. I find myself constantly digging deeper and learning more every episode. Thank you for making this podcast!!
Great! But Ken’s name is missing from the title image of this podcast. Having you two there, Juli and Ken, makes a big difference so I’d love to see his name on the title!
Awesome job, guys!
This podcast has more vulnerable and profound insight in a single episode than (I imagine) exist in the entirely of some people’s lives. I am constantly blown away by how much generosity and meaning-making dialogue Jolie, Ken and their guests offer up. In a world that rife with chaos, violence, and grief, this podcast provides me weekly place to receive nourishing thought and encouragement. Ken and Jolie model for me what it can look like to lead an intentional life; one that is complex, messy, ... more
If you want to be open, but you’re also looking for emotional maturity, stability, and intimacy this will help. This podcast will help you walk through the internal processes to move towards YOUR path to YOUR best capacity to that maturity, stability, and connection.
They share their vulnerability and are authentic, it gives me hope and sustains my optimism.
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Focused on the nuances of non-monogamous relationships, this series invites listeners to rethink traditional dynamics through open discussions about intimacy, emotional awareness, and personal growth. With personal anecdotes, expert interviews, and practical strategies, episodes explore diverse themes such as jealousy, the importance of communication, and the dynamics of established relationship energy. Unique in its approach, the content emphasizes not just the mechanics of non-monogamy but also the emotional and psychological aspects, making it a valuable resource for those seeking deeper connections in their relationships, regardless of their relationship structure.
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Playing With Fire launched 5 years ago and published 227 episodes to date. You can find more information about this podcast including rankings, audience demographics and engagement in our podcast database.
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Recent guests on Playing With Fire include:
1. Jessica Fern
2. David Cooley
3. Dr. Nicole Thompson
4. Lauren Elise Rogers
5. Marla Schreiber
6. Annie Undone
7. Mollena Lee Williams-Haas
8. Sunny Megatron
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