
Welcome to Playing With Fire, the podcast for people who are ready to custom-build their love. We’re talking about non-monogamy–however you design it–as an individuation opportunity. Want to leave the default and make your life spectacularly you? You’re in the right place.
| Publishes | Weekly | Episodes | 245 | Founded | 5 years ago |
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| Number of Listeners | Categories | Society & CultureRelationships | |||

Betrayal isn’t a fun topic for anyone. But when it comes to non-monogamy, betrayal can actually be really hard to identify, because we often don’t have clear cultural scripts and shared assumptions about what’s okay and what’s not. This can open us u... more
Have you ever felt totally torn between two seemingly incompatible desires? Like part of you wants the freedom of non-monogamy while another part longs for that "one and only" Disney story? You're not alone, and this inner conflict isn't something to... more
If you’ve ever been turned on by feelings of jealousy, you are so not alone. Dr. Marie Thouin wrote the book on compersion, so she’s the perfect person to join us to get real about erotic jealousy, humiliation, being “the unchosen one,” and why some ... more
Secrets, privacy, and the journey to authentic relationships can be a complex terrain to navigate. When one partner keeps secrets—whether consciously or unconsciously—it creates ripples that affect trust, consent, and the very foundation of connectio... more
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Another overhyped podcast about topics that apply to people who don’t actually exist or are impossible to find.
Honestly this podcast is fabulous for ENM but also ANY relationship. I love the dialogue, education and the deep dives. I find myself constantly digging deeper and learning more every episode. Thank you for making this podcast!!
Great! But Ken’s name is missing from the title image of this podcast. Having you two there, Juli and Ken, makes a big difference so I’d love to see his name on the title!
Awesome job, guys!
This podcast has more vulnerable and profound insight in a single episode than (I imagine) exist in the entirely of some people’s lives. I am constantly blown away by how much generosity and meaning-making dialogue Jolie, Ken and their guests offer up. In a world that rife with chaos, violence, and grief, this podcast provides me weekly place to receive nourishing thought and encouragement. Ken and Jolie model for me what it can look like to lead an intentional life; one that is complex, messy, ... more
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Focused on non-monogamy and fostering deeper relationships, this podcast offers a unique blend of personal stories, expert insights, and transformative discussions. Topics range from jealousy and compersion to shadow work and emotional maturity within relationships, creating an open dialogue about navigating complex feelings and societal norms. The hosts encourage listeners to explore their personal relational dynamics in a non-judgmental space, inviting them to confront their desires, boundaries, and expectations while sharing practical advice to build meaningful connections.
Through reflective conversations, the podcast seeks to empower individuals to embrace their authentic selves and redefine love, offering a fresh perspective on what ... more
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Recent guests on Playing With Fire include:
1. Eve Rickert
2. Mel Cassidy
3. Jessica Fern
4. David Cooley
5. Lauren Elise Rogers
6. Marla Schreiber
7. Dr. Nicole Thompson
8. Annie Undone
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