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As parents, we know raising kids is the opposite of neat and tidy. Pardon the Mess is a podcast for Christian moms who love Jesus, love their kids, and still feel behind on most days. Each week, host Scarlet takes one real parenting mess (morning meltdowns, discipline guilt, raising kind kids in a world that doesn't feel kind) and untangles it with honesty and grace, one small, faithful step at a ... more

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Latest Episodes

Motherhood can make us believe some pretty convincing lies.

I’m messing up my kids.

Everyone else is doing this better than I am.

If my child is struggling, I must be failing.

I need to be a better mom before I can feel okay about myself.

In thi... more

In this episode, Scarlet Hiltibidal (and her sister, Aubrey Fuhrman) talk about the tension many moms feel between loving sacrificially and setting healthy boundaries. Through an honest conversation about motherhood, family, and faith, they explore h... more

Motherhood is beautiful, but it can also feel isolating. In this episode, Scarlet Hiltibidal shares why moms need gospel-centered community and how God often works through the people He places around us. Through personal stories of seasons when she p... more

What if my anxiety is affecting my kids?

It’s a question many moms quietly ask themselves. In this episode, Scarlet Hiltibidal shares a personal story from her own motherhood journey and the fear that she might pass her anxiety on to her children.

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Recent Guests

Lacey Garner
Friend from small group who shares a testimony about God's activity in life
Not specified
Episode: I Don’t Want to Do Motherhood Alone
Brandon Hiltibidal
Pastor, husband of Scarlet Hiltibidal
Pastor / Local Church Ministry
Episode: I Don’t Know How to Help My Kids Love Church
Katie Hinson
Bosom friend of the host and guest on the episode
Friend; guest on the show
Episode: I Feel Like I’m Losing Myself in Motherhood
Ever Grace Hiltibidal
Teen guest sharing schooling history and perspective
Family guest on the show
Episode: Homeschool, Public, or Private...How Do I Choose?
Anna Van Dyke
Friend and guest on the episode who shares family rhythms and service-oriented examples
Friend of the host; community and family advocate
Episode: Summer is Long…What Do I Do With My Kids?
Vanessa Dolberry
Friend of the host and parenting guest, mother of two and pastor's wife
Independent / Friend of the host
Episode: I Don't Know How to Help My Child Through Friendship Drama
Jennifer Sieber
Friend of the host, new friend featured in Messy Mom Moment segment
[not explicitly stated in transcript]
Episode: A Bad Diagnosis & Letting Kids See Hard Things
Caroline Downen
Friend of the host, guest who moved to Japan and back
Family of six, lived in Yokohama, Japan
Episode: I Don't Know How to Help My Kids Feel at Home When Home Keeps Changing
Michelle Glass
Testimony-sharing guest who speaks about surrender and motherhood
Unspecified (guest from church testimony)
Episode: I Keep Feeling Like I’m Failing My Kids

Hosts

Scarlet Hiltibidal
Host of Pardon the Mess; author and speaker; leads Christian parenting discussions and shares authentic storytelling
Courtney DeFeo
Host of Pardon the Mess; Christian Parenting Podcast Network contributor; guides conversations on faith-filled parenting and community

Reviews

4.8 out of 5 stars from 966 ratings
  • Disappointed

    I have loved this podcast for the past seven years. Since the latest host changed I’ve felt a disconnected and the latest “how do I choose” episode sealed the deal. I’m grateful for the community and will continue to pray for the show but have to find something else to fill my Christian mom heart.

    Apple Podcasts
    2
    mytlea23
    United Statesa month ago
  • Love this podcast!

    The podcast every Mom needs. Thank you, Scarlet!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    HomeschoolMamaBearof4
    United States2 months ago
  • Way to go Courtney

    So proud of the hard work you’ve put in this podcast. You’ve carried the torch well and I can’t wait to see how God leads you next. You’re one in a million! Thanks for serving so many well. CY

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Mom2ManyKids
    United States4 months ago
  • Thankful for prayer journal

    Thank you for continuing prayer journal & Monday prayer

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Hle—
    United States7 months ago
  • Fav podcast

    I really appreciate the diversity of guests on this podcast, and the subjects are applicable for all stages of parenting. Sound biblically and enjoyable!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    marian e o
    United States8 months ago

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Can Moms Love Like Jesus and Still Have Boundaries?
Q: How does the gospel free you from needing to please everyone?
The gospel roots worth in Christ, not in others' approval, which frees you to love sacrificially and discipline boundaries without guilt.
Can Moms Love Like Jesus and Still Have Boundaries?
Q: What should others do to support a new mom who needs boundaries?
Honor and respect the boundaries, pray for guidance, and be understanding when plans shift; showing support rather than pressure reinforces love.
Can Moms Love Like Jesus and Still Have Boundaries?
Q: How can new moms protect their peace while making family feel loved?
Trust Jesus, involve Him in decisions, and set practical boundaries that protect the family unit while still showing love and hospitality; communication and wisdom from trusted friends help.
I Feel Like I’m Losing Myself in Motherhood
Q: What advice would you give to moms who feel exhausted, invisible, or unsure of who they are anymore?
Find a gospel-centered community, be real with friends, and let others remind you of your identity in Jesus. Have people in your life who can lovingly tell you when you're off and who can celebrate the truth of who you are as God's child.
I Feel Like I’m Losing Myself in Motherhood
Q: Can you tell us about a time when you felt like you lost yourself in motherhood and what you learned from it?
Katie describes a season with three kids under three, where the daily routine felt like washing dirty underwear and she felt depleted and robotic. She learned that community and honesty with a close friend helped her realize her identity in Christ wasn't tied to her tasks or how other people perceived her, but to God's truth about who she is.

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The show centers on Christian motherhood, practical faith, and imperfect parenting. Episodes frequently explore gospel-centered parenting, community, and real-life stories around topics like anxiety, adoption, church involvement, education choices, and navigating difficult conversations with kids. A distinctive thread is balancing faith with daily parenting messes, often featuring personal testimonies, guest perspectives from fellow moms, pastors, and friends, and actionable faith-forward takeaways without over-engineered systems. Noteworthy is the emphasis on grace, authenticity, and tangible steps listeners can apply with their families.

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2. Brandon Hiltibidal
3. Katie Hinson
4. Ever Grace Hiltibidal
5. Anna Van Dyke
6. Vanessa Dolberry
7. Jennifer Sieber
8. Caroline Downen

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