Not For Everyone

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Not for Everyone is a podcast hosted by a hater (Caroline Winkler) and a lover (Jess DeBakey). We're just two sweet kooks getting carried away being ourselves, waxing poetic on every topic we care too much about. Come for the humor, stay for the honesty. We know we’re not for everyone, but we bet we are for you. __ Subscribe on Youtube and follow on Instagram: @not4everyonepod

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Publishes	Weekly	Episodes	142	Founded	3 years ago
Number of Listeners		Categories	Health & FitnessMental Health

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142. Not for Hard Work + Parasocial Relationships and the Perception of Authenticity

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What’s up, kooks? Ever had a parasocial relationship? Us, too. Jess and Caroline discuss the creators they relate to, why those r... more

9 Oct 2025 • 1 hr 25 min

141. Not for Surprises + Why Your Impulse to Help Is Not Helping

Hi there, kooks! This week, Caroline and Jess have a surprise party to debrief on. C was shocked to discover friends and family—including J—at her parent’s house, and is honestly still recovering. J tells her side of events and then the two discuss f... more

2 Oct 2025 • 1 hr 19 min

140. WHATADO: When Passion Can't Fix a Job (and Coworkers) You Hate

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25 Sep 2025 • 1 hr 28 min

139. Not for the Multiverse + Proof That Your Gut Is Always Right in the End

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Welcome to the N4E megachurch, kooks! Today, Jess and Caroline navigate the multiverse, exploring how reading and horror movies make them think... more

18 Sep 2025 • 55 min

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Recent Guests

Carter Umhau

Licensed therapist and artist specializing in creative therapies and attachment styles

Episode: 110. Ask A Therapist: Attachment Styles, Manifestation, and Friend Drama | Featuring Carter Umhau

Alexandra Anele

Talented makeup artist and social media influencer with a substantial following on YouTube.

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Episode: 73. Beauty Hot Takes + Reframing Your Professional Path with YouTuber Alexandra Anele

Hosts

Caroline Winkler

Co-host known as the hater, she offers candid reflections and humorous critiques on emotional themes and relationships, embracing a playful yet honest approach to life's complexities.

Jess DeBakey

Co-host known as the lover, she provides thoughtful insights on dating dynamics, emotional well-being, and personal growth, fostering a sense of connection and empathy among listeners.

Reviews

4.9 out of 5 stars from 4k ratings

Thanks for defending Baltimore, Jess
Sad that Caroline has never experienced it. Go Ravens! Come up and see us when you can, Caroline!
Apple Podcasts
4
lezleekay
United Statesa month ago
The best
I'm so in love with this podcast and these women. I don't know what my week would be without these impossibly goofy and grounded girls that make me laugh and give me so many insights and just make me feel less alone. It's the realness and the vulnerabilities that you both share I think, that make you stand out so much. You guys really are making an impact on people, please never forget that, you're amazing, thank you from one of the kooks.
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5
sparkle-heart
Canada2 months ago
Maybe your dad said
it’s a podcast about women’s wellbeing?
Apple Podcasts
5
Pleasegobacktotransloc
United States2 months ago
Love the show!
Girls, you are my constant companions and always energise me and make me feel better even when I have been navigating the most stressful time. You are wise beyond your years, but also silly and lovely. The perfect cocktail! Thank you and love you! ❤️
Apple Podcasts
5
vanners101
United Kingdom2 months ago
Love but…
I find myself constantly adjusting my volume to account for Caroline’s shouting. Please stop shouting. Other than that, I am loving the podcast! Please keep it up, but normal speaking voices for my eardrums’ sake :)
Apple Podcasts
4
MyLastNicknameWasTaken
United States5 months ago

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Listeners appreciate the humor and authenticity of the conversations, often mentioning how relatable and comforting the discussions are.

A number of listeners feel that the content provides valuable insights during challenging periods in their lives, emphasizing the supportive nature of the discussions.

Positive feedback highlights how the podcast addresses serious issues with a light-hearted approach, making tough conversations more accessible.

Many find the dynamic between the hosts refreshing, with their contrasting viewpoints adding depth and humor to the topics.

Some concerns were raised about volume levels and audio quality, suggesting areas where improvements could enhance the listening experience.

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Apple Podcasts	#165	United States/Health & Fitness/Mental Health
Apple Podcasts	#164	United Kingdom/Health & Fitness/Mental Health
Apple Podcasts	#198	Canada/Health & Fitness/Mental Health
Apple Podcasts	#125	Germany/Health & Fitness/Mental Health
Apple Podcasts	#139	France/Health & Fitness/Mental Health
Apple Podcasts	#200	Australia/Health & Fitness/Mental Health

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140. WHATADO: When Passion Can't Fix a Job (and Coworkers) You Hate

Q: How can I feel confident starting a new job when it feels like work I'm capable of keeps getting given to other people instead of me?

You need to advocate for yourself and make sure your supervisors realize your interest and capability to take on projects. Build relationships in the company to ensure you're top of mind for new opportunities.

140. WHATADO: When Passion Can't Fix a Job (and Coworkers) You Hate

Q: Would you stay in a job where you love the work but don't click with the people?

While liking your team generally matters, the experience's quality significantly varies based on the team's productivity and respect for one another.

140. WHATADO: When Passion Can't Fix a Job (and Coworkers) You Hate

Q: How do I actually find my passion work?

Identify what truly fulfills you, as passion may not derive from the tasks themselves but from their alignment with your personal growth and values.

129. Not for Laundry + Work Stress is a Scam, and Emails are Not Emergencies

Q: How are you with taking breaks through the workday?

Not great at it, but I should step away more often.

110. Ask A Therapist: Attachment Styles, Manifestation, and Friend Drama | Featuring Carter Umhau

Q: What to do when I feel that I'm not truly honest in therapy and not really progressing?

Be honest with your therapist about how you feel; this is essential for growth. It might help reveal areas you need to address more directly in your therapy sessions.

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