
Ellecia Paine is a non-monogamy relationship coach who helps people navigate ENM (Enthusiastic non-monogamy), polyamory, open relating, swinging, kink, tantra and life in general. Listen in to the candid conversations that give you a peek into the inner lives of other non-monogamous folks. Hear how they've overcome challenges like jealousy, insecurity, and social scrutiny. And celebrate with them ... more
| Publishes | Weekly | Episodes | 153 | Founded | 5 years ago |
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Jealousy in non-monogamy doesn’t always look dramatic.
Sometimes it’s not a big blow-up or obvious conflict. Sometimes it’s the slow build.
A little comparison. A little overthinking. That subtle drop in your stomach when your partner mentions some... more
There’s a very specific kind of loneliness that can happen when you’re dating someone who’s already partnered.
The connection can be real. The feelings can be real.
And still… something feels off.
If you’re navigating non-monogamy as a solo person... more
Have you ever found yourself holding feelings about a relationship… that technically isn’t even yours?
Like your partner shares something about their other partner…and suddenly you f eel protective… or tense… or a little off around someone you didn’... more
What if the thing you thought made you “too much”… was actually the doorway to deeper connection, more honest relationships, and a whole lot more pleasure?
In this episode of Nope! We’re Not Monogamous, I’m joined by writer and poet Kate Heskett, wh... more
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As someone who is new to the polyamory community this podcast has really helped me learn way of how to cope with my emotions and be more open about my partner having other relationships outside of the relationship we have.
Really appreciate the depth of information shared on this podcast. Very educational and helpful!
You will love this Podcast , especially if you are interested in learning about non monogamy.
Ellecia Paine always has great information to share and brings in awesome guests. I particularly loved the episode about Ashley Madison. It was fascinating!!
Hello, I really enjoyed the show today regarding Ashley Madison, I’ve been a member a few times and I learned a bunch of stuff that I didn’t know …was very good. And he’s right, people change, I had no idea there was an option to be non monogamous?!! If I’d known 30 years ago, life could have been much different…
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Explores relationship dynamics outside traditional monogamy, with a focus on boundaries, communication, and emotional safety in ENM, polyamory, swinging, and kink. Recent episodes emphasize distinguishing between boundaries and agreements, navigating jealousy, and maintaining personal autonomy while supporting partners. Guests range from therapists to authors and coaches who share practical tools for healthier, more conscious non-monogamous living, including dating separately, managing needs versus wants, and integrating sexual wellness topics like pelvic health into relationship life. The show is notable for its warm, candid tone, practical frameworks, and emphasis on self-trust and compassionate dialogue as foundations for thriving non-tr... more
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