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Nope! We're Not Monogamous

Ellecia Paine
Non-Monogamy
Jealousy
Polyamory
Communication
Relationships
Boundaries
Emotional Safety
Non-Monogamous Relationships
Relationship Coaching
Trust
Self-Love
Kink
Communication Skills
Open Relationships
Connection
Personal Growth
BDSM
Emotional Intelligence
Consent
Emotional Growth

Ellecia Paine is a non-monogamy relationship coach who helps people navigate ENM (Enthusiastic non-monogamy), polyamory, open relating, swinging, kink, tantra and life in general. Listen in to the candid conversations that give you a peek into the inner lives of other non-monogamous folks. Hear how they've overcome challenges like jealousy, insecurity, and social scrutiny. And celebrate with them ... more

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Have you ever rehearsed a hard conversation in your head… and then the second you try to have it, everything comes out wrong?

Maybe you shut down.

Maybe you get defensive.

Maybe you try so hard not to sound “too much” that you stop saying what you a... more

Have you ever noticed how jealousy can completely hijack your body?

Your thoughts race. Your chest tightens, You start looking for signs something is wrong.

And suddenly you’re spiraling before your logical brain can even catch up.

In this episode... more

Jealousy can feel overwhelming, shame-filled, and honestly… kind of brutal.

A delayed text, a shift in energy, hearing your partner mention someone else, and suddenly your body is spiraling before your brain can catch up.

If you’ve ever felt jealou... more

Have you ever felt jealous… but underneath it was resentment?

Maybe you said you were fine. Tried to be chill. Tried to be supportive. Tried not to be “too much.”

But deep down, something didn’t feel good, and instead of naming it, asking for what ... more

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Recent Guests

Kate Heskett
Poet, writer, canoe guide; contributor to Pillow Talk
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Episode: Showing Up Alone to a Swingers Event Changed Everything - Ep. 150 with Kate Heskett
Candace Sogren
A lawyer, entrepreneur, and author of Polyagony who advocates for normalizing non-monogamy conversations.
Episode: Poly Agony: The Mistakes, Repair, and Reality of Raising Kids While Open with Candace Sogren
Dr. Joy Berkheimer
Therapist and clinical sexologist
Episode: The Real Glow-Up: Self-Love, Desire, and Ethical Non-Monogamy with Dr. Joy Berkheimer, EP. 144
Natalie Davis
Editor of Polyamory Today and author of a new book, Saying Yes, My Adventures in Non-Monogamy
Episode: Saying Yes to Non-Monogamy with Natalie Davis, EP. 143
Sharon Marie Scott
Erotic Mystic, author, and spiritual innovator
Episode: The Taboo Side of Non-Monogamy: Pleasure, Healing, and Desire with Sharon Marie Scott
Dr. Dan Sneider
Couples therapist specializing in non-monogamous relationships
Episode: The Relationship Skills That Actually Matter in Non-Monogamy with Dr. Dan Sneider Ep. 136
Jessica Morgenthaler
Therapist and coach specializing in ethical non-monogamy
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Episode: Rethinking “Success” in Polyamory with Jessica Morgenthaler Ep. 134
Jana Danielson
Central health and pelvic floor wellness expert, founder of Bloom Better and creator of the Cooch Ball
Bloom Better
Episode: Pelvic Floors, Orgasms, and Why We Don’t Discriminate Against the Monogamous with Jana Danielson
Carla Wainwright
Holistic wellness coach and sexual awakening facilitator
Episode: Midlife, Menopause & Non-Monogamy: Reclaiming Pleasure, Power & Desire with Carla Wainwright EP. 126

Host

Ellecia Paine
Non-monogamy relationship coach and host, frequently leads conversations with expert guests.

Reviews

4.7 out of 5 stars from 118 ratings
  • Just what I needed. Seriously.

    I love the way your episodes give such practical advice. No hot air, just truth!!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    ginagaebl
    United States13 days ago
  • New to poly

    As someone who is new to the polyamory community this podcast has really helped me learn way of how to cope with my emotions and be more open about my partner having other relationships outside of the relationship we have.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Andy122378
    United States8 months ago
  • Informative and helpful!

    Really appreciate the depth of information shared on this podcast. Very educational and helpful!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Dan13386
    United States8 months ago
  • Well oiled Podcast

    You will love this Podcast , especially if you are interested in learning about non monogamy.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    travisXR1200
    United States10 months ago
  • Awesome Host!!

    Ellecia Paine always has great information to share and brings in awesome guests. I particularly loved the episode about Ashley Madison. It was fascinating!!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    XanetP
    United Statesa year ago

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Common mistakes include a lack of clarity on why they are exploring non-monogamy, leading to poorly defined agreements and boundaries.
Poly Agony: The Mistakes, Repair, and Reality of Raising Kids While Open with Candace Sogren
Q: What is your relationship with non-monogamy?
I've been ethically non-monogamous for the last 20 years and I didn't want to be limited to loving one person.
The Real Glow-Up: Self-Love, Desire, and Ethical Non-Monogamy with Dr. Joy Berkheimer, EP. 144
Q: What advice would you give to someone wanting to explore their desires?
Consider going to spaces like swingers clubs, which can provide high consent and respect, and allow for exploration in a safe environment.
The Real Glow-Up: Self-Love, Desire, and Ethical Non-Monogamy with Dr. Joy Berkheimer, EP. 144
Q: What are some common struggles people face when transitioning to non-monogamy?
People often know what they don't want but struggle to identify what they do want, and the process can feel reckless but is necessary for exploration.
The Real Glow-Up: Self-Love, Desire, and Ethical Non-Monogamy with Dr. Joy Berkheimer, EP. 144
Q: How did non-monogamy become a part of your world?
Dr. Joy shares her journey into non-monogamy, starting with her realization after her second marriage that she wanted to embrace being non-monogamous and her experiences with swinging and polyamory.

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What is Nope! We're Not Monogamous about and what kind of topics does it cover?

Explores relationship dynamics outside traditional monogamy, with a focus on boundaries, communication, and emotional safety in ENM, polyamory, swinging, and kink. Recent episodes emphasize distinguishing between boundaries and agreements, navigating jealousy, and maintaining personal autonomy while supporting partners. Guests range from therapists to authors and coaches who share practical tools for healthier, more conscious non-monogamous living, including dating separately, managing needs versus wants, and integrating sexual wellness topics like pelvic health into relationship life. The show is notable for its warm, candid tone, practical frameworks, and emphasis on self-trust and compassionate dialogue as foundations for thriving non-tr... more

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