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Nope! We're Not Monogamous

Ellecia Paine
Polyamory
Non-Monogamy
Jealousy
Self-Discovery
Communication
Communication Skills
Dating
Ethical Non-Monogamy
Relationships
Intimacy
Emotional Intelligence
Sexual Fantasies
BDSM
Sexual Health
STARS Framework
Kink
Boundaries
Self-Expression
Trauma Healing
Non-Monogamous Relationships

Ellecia Paine is a non-monogamy relationship coach who helps people navigate ENM (Enthusiastic non-monogamy), polyamory, open relating, swinging, kink, tantra and life in general. Listen in to the candid conversations that give you a peek into the inner lives of other non-monogamous folks. Hear how they've overcome challenges like jealousy, insecurity, and social scrutiny. And celebrate with them ... more

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Jealousy isn’t a flaw. It’s not a failure.

And it’s almost never about your partner.

In this episode of Nope! We’re Not Monogamous, Ellecia unpacks a powerful realization sparked by reading Financial Feminist:

the way we experience jealousy is str... more

We talk a lot about honesty in open relationships and non-monogamy.

Tell the truth. Name the jealousy. Share your feelings.

But what happens when you open up and your partner tries to fix it, explain it away, or tells you you shouldn’t feel that way... more

Opening a relationship can feel exciting and urgent, especially once the idea of non-monogamy is on the table. A lot of couples hear advice like “date separately” and assume that’s the next step they’re supposed to take.

In this episode of Nope! We’... more

What do you do when your partner says they are open to non monogamy, but only under very specific rules?

Only dating women.

Only forming a triad.

Only dating together as a couple.

In this episode of Nope! We’re Not Monogamous, non monogamous rela... more

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Sharon Marie Scott
Erotic Mystic, author, and spiritual innovator
Episode: The Taboo Side of Non-Monogamy: Pleasure, Healing, and Desire with Sharon Marie Scott
Dr. Dan Sneider
Couples therapist specializing in non-monogamous relationships
Episode: The Relationship Skills That Actually Matter in Non-Monogamy with Dr. Dan Sneider Ep. 136
Jessica Morgenthaler
Therapist and coach specializing in ethical non-monogamy
ICU Transformative Consulting
Episode: Rethinking “Success” in Polyamory with Jessica Morgenthaler Ep. 134
Jana Danielson
Central health and pelvic floor wellness expert, founder of Bloom Better and creator of the Cooch Ball
Bloom Better
Episode: Pelvic Floors, Orgasms, and Why We Don’t Discriminate Against the Monogamous with Jana Danielson
Carla Wainwright
Holistic wellness coach and sexual awakening facilitator
Episode: Midlife, Menopause & Non-Monogamy: Reclaiming Pleasure, Power & Desire with Carla Wainwright EP. 126
Xanet Pailet
Former health care lawyer turned sex and intimacy educator and coach.
Episode: Tantra, Throuples, and the Best Sex of Her Life at 65 with Xanet Pailet
Jeff Hudson
A six-time Emmy nominated TV producer and author
Episode: Love Beyond Boundaries: Jeff Hudson on Throuples, Jealousy & Non-Monogamy
Dr. Emma Smith
Licensed professional counselor and certified sex therapist practicing in Nashville, Tennessee
Episode: Reframing Jealousy as a Powerful Tool in Open Relationships with Dr. Emma Smith
Ally Iseman
Certified relationship coach, kink-aware professional, and founder of passporttopleasure.com
passporttopleasure.com
Episode: Jealousy to Compersion: Communicating Through Emotions in Open Relationships with Ally Iseman

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Ellecia Paine
Host and non-monogamy coach, Ellecia Paine specializes in guiding individuals through the complexities of ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, and relationship dynamics while sharing personal insights and fostering candid discussions around love and connection.

Reviews

4.8 out of 5 stars from 109 ratings
  • New to poly

    As someone who is new to the polyamory community this podcast has really helped me learn way of how to cope with my emotions and be more open about my partner having other relationships outside of the relationship we have.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Andy122378
    United States3 months ago
  • Informative and helpful!

    Really appreciate the depth of information shared on this podcast. Very educational and helpful!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Dan13386
    United States3 months ago
  • Well oiled Podcast

    You will love this Podcast , especially if you are interested in learning about non monogamy.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    travisXR1200
    United States6 months ago
  • Awesome Host!!

    Ellecia Paine always has great information to share and brings in awesome guests. I particularly loved the episode about Ashley Madison. It was fascinating!!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    XanetP
    United States8 months ago
  • Great podcast

    Hello, I really enjoyed the show today regarding Ashley Madison, I’ve been a member a few times and I learned a bunch of stuff that I didn’t know …was very good. And he’s right, people change, I had no idea there was an option to be non monogamous?!! If I’d known 30 years ago, life could have been much different…

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Jetjamie
    Canada10 months ago

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Reviews consistently highlight the educational value and support offered for those exploring non-monogamy.
The host is commended for her engaging style and ability to foster open conversations about challenging topics.
Many find the discussions transformative and empowering regarding their relationship choices.
Listeners appreciate the candidness and depth of information shared.

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The Taboo Side of Non-Monogamy: Pleasure, Healing, and Desire with Sharon Marie Scott
Q: When a person turns towards the things that they are afraid of wanting or the things that they are afraid of in their erotic lives, what happens on the other side of that?
On the other side of addressing taboos is often a deep sense of self-acceptance and the realization that these previously hidden aspects of ourselves can lead to profound personal growth and freedom.
The Taboo Side of Non-Monogamy: Pleasure, Healing, and Desire with Sharon Marie Scott
Q: What does it look like to use pleasure for healing in a way that feels like people can do it?
Using pleasure involves learning your body as a console and recognizing how pleasure serves as a guide to finding your desires and fulfilling your purpose.
Rethinking “Success” in Polyamory with Jessica Morgenthaler Ep. 134
Q: How do I talk about the annoying things that start to show up when NRE fades?
It's important to look at why something is annoying and determine if it's a personal insecurity or an issue that needs to be addressed with your partner.
Rethinking “Success” in Polyamory with Jessica Morgenthaler Ep. 134
Q: What would you say makes a non-monogamous or polyamorous relationship successful?
Success is not about the outcome but the effort and authenticity we put into our relationships, recognizing the impermanence of each connection.
Why You Can’t Just Talk Your Way Out of Jealousy in Polyamory (And What Actually Helps) Ep. 131
Q: Can I be polyamorous if I'm not good at dealing with my jealousy?
Yes, you can be jealous and polyamorous; safety and clarity matter far more than perfection.

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