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Nope! We're Not Monogamous

Ellecia Paine
Polyamory
Non-Monogamy
Jealousy
Ethical Non-Monogamy
Self-Discovery
Communication
Communication Skills
Dating
Relationships
Emotional Intelligence
Intimacy
Sexual Fantasies
BDSM
Sexual Health
STARS Framework
Kink
Boundaries
Self-Expression
Self-Love
Non-Monogamous Relationships

Ellecia Paine is a non-monogamy relationship coach who helps people navigate ENM (Enthusiastic non-monogamy), polyamory, open relating, swinging, kink, tantra and life in general. Listen in to the candid conversations that give you a peek into the inner lives of other non-monogamous folks. Hear how they've overcome challenges like jealousy, insecurity, and social scrutiny. And celebrate with them ... more

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If you’ve ever wondered which relationship skills actually make non-monogamy easier, healthier, and less chaotic, this episode is your new favorite deep dive.

Today I’m talking with couples therapist Dr. Dan Sneider, who works with both monogamous a... more

Ever tried to think your way out of a feeling?

You read the books, have the talks, highlight every chapter on jealousy and self-regulation… and your nervous system just shrugs and says, “That’s cute, I’m still panicking.”

This week on Nope! We’re N... more

Ever been told that a relationship only “counts” if you stay in it forever?

Yeah… hard pass.

In this episode of Nope! We’re Not Monogamous, I sit down with therapist, coach, and relationship anarchist Jessica Morgenthaler to talk about what it actu... more

What if the secret to better sex, stronger orgasms, and more confidence isn’t another relationship hack—but your pelvic floor?

This week, I’m joined by Jana Danielson, sensual health and pelvic floor wellness expert, Pilates master instructor, and c... more

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Recent Guests

Jessica Morgenthaler
Therapist and coach specializing in ethical non-monogamy
ICU Transformative Consulting
Episode: Rethinking “Success” in Polyamory with Jessica Morgenthaler Ep. 134
Jana Danielson
Central health and pelvic floor wellness expert, founder of Bloom Better and creator of the Cooch Ball
Bloom Better
Episode: Pelvic Floors, Orgasms, and Why We Don’t Discriminate Against the Monogamous with Jana Danielson
Carla Wainwright
Holistic wellness coach and sexual awakening facilitator
Episode: Midlife, Menopause & Non-Monogamy: Reclaiming Pleasure, Power & Desire with Carla Wainwright EP. 126
Xanet Pailet
Former health care lawyer turned sex and intimacy educator and coach.
Episode: Tantra, Throuples, and the Best Sex of Her Life at 65 with Xanet Pailet
Jeff Hudson
A six-time Emmy nominated TV producer and author
Episode: Love Beyond Boundaries: Jeff Hudson on Throuples, Jealousy & Non-Monogamy
Dr. Emma Smith
Licensed professional counselor and certified sex therapist practicing in Nashville, Tennessee
Episode: Reframing Jealousy as a Powerful Tool in Open Relationships with Dr. Emma Smith
Ally Iseman
Certified relationship coach, kink-aware professional, and founder of passporttopleasure.com
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Episode: Jealousy to Compersion: Communicating Through Emotions in Open Relationships with Ally Iseman
Dr. Tammy Nelson
Board certified sexologist, licensed therapist, and author of Open Monogamy
Episode: Open Monogamy, Jealousy & Mismatched Desires | Dr. Tammy Nelson on Rethinking Relationship Agreements
Paul Keable
Chief Strategy Officer at Ashley Madison
Ashley Madison
Episode: Unmasking Ashley Madison: Why People Cheat & What It Reveals About Modern Relationships, Ep. 105

Host

Ellecia Paine
Non-monogamous relationship coach who specializes in navigating ENM (Enthusiastic non-monogamy), polyamory, open relating, and issues surrounding jealousy and emotional complexities.

Reviews

4.8 out of 5 stars from 106 ratings
  • New to poly

    As someone who is new to the polyamory community this podcast has really helped me learn way of how to cope with my emotions and be more open about my partner having other relationships outside of the relationship we have.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Andy122378
    United States2 months ago
  • Informative and helpful!

    Really appreciate the depth of information shared on this podcast. Very educational and helpful!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Dan13386
    United States2 months ago
  • Well oiled Podcast

    You will love this Podcast , especially if you are interested in learning about non monogamy.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    travisXR1200
    United States4 months ago
  • Awesome Host!!

    Ellecia Paine always has great information to share and brings in awesome guests. I particularly loved the episode about Ashley Madison. It was fascinating!!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    XanetP
    United States7 months ago
  • Great podcast

    Hello, I really enjoyed the show today regarding Ashley Madison, I’ve been a member a few times and I learned a bunch of stuff that I didn’t know …was very good. And he’s right, people change, I had no idea there was an option to be non monogamous?!! If I’d known 30 years ago, life could have been much different…

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Jetjamie
    Canada8 months ago

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Listeners appreciate the warm and candid discussions about non-monogamy, highlighting the podcast's approach to breaking down societal stigmas surrounding alternative relationships.
Feedback often mentions the informative nature of the content, praising how it addresses real-life challenges in non-monogamous dynamics with empathy and understanding.
Many express gratitude for the insights shared by guests, noting the ability to learn from their experiences and apply these lessons in their own lives.
The host is frequently commended for her engaging style and ability to create a safe space for sensitive conversations, making listeners feel accepted and understood.

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Rethinking “Success” in Polyamory with Jessica Morgenthaler Ep. 134
Q: How do I talk about the annoying things that start to show up when NRE fades?
It's important to look at why something is annoying and determine if it's a personal insecurity or an issue that needs to be addressed with your partner.
Rethinking “Success” in Polyamory with Jessica Morgenthaler Ep. 134
Q: What would you say makes a non-monogamous or polyamorous relationship successful?
Success is not about the outcome but the effort and authenticity we put into our relationships, recognizing the impermanence of each connection.
Why You Can’t Just Talk Your Way Out of Jealousy in Polyamory (And What Actually Helps) Ep. 131
Q: Can I be polyamorous if I'm not good at dealing with my jealousy?
Yes, you can be jealous and polyamorous; safety and clarity matter far more than perfection.
Why You Can’t Just Talk Your Way Out of Jealousy in Polyamory (And What Actually Helps) Ep. 131
Q: What's the difference between jealousy and insecurity?
Jealousy is an emotional cocktail, where insecurity is just one ingredient; both are part of the human experience.
Why You Can’t Just Talk Your Way Out of Jealousy in Polyamory (And What Actually Helps) Ep. 131
Q: I've done all the work. Why is this still happening?
Knowing something in your brain and feeling it in your body are two different things, and there's often a big disconnect.

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2. Jana Danielson
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4. Xanet Pailet
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