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Nope! We're Not Monogamous

Ellecia Paine
Polyamory
Non-Monogamy
Jealousy
Self-Discovery
Communication
Intimacy
Communication Skills
Dating
Ethical Non-Monogamy
Emotional Intelligence
Relationships
Sexual Fantasies
BDSM
Sexual Health
STARS Framework
Kink
Boundaries
Self-Expression
Trauma Healing
Non-Monogamous Relationships

Ellecia Paine is a non-monogamy relationship coach who helps people navigate ENM (Enthusiastic non-monogamy), polyamory, open relating, swinging, kink, tantra and life in general. Listen in to the candid conversations that give you a peek into the inner lives of other non-monogamous folks. Hear how they've overcome challenges like jealousy, insecurity, and social scrutiny. And celebrate with them ... more

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If you’ve ever struggled with mismatched desires, defining commitment with a partner, or navigating the messier side of non-monogamy — this episode is for you.

In this candid conversation, I talk with Dr. Tammy Nelson, sexologist, th... more

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When I was invited to interview someone from Ashley Madison, I hesitated. My first instinct was judgment — but then I realized, that’s the same kind of stigma people apply to non-monogamy all the time.

This powerful conversation with... more

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Struggling to feel deeply connected in your non-monogamous relationships? Whether you're navigating polyamory, open relationships, or casual connections, meaningful intimacy doesn’t have to take hours of deep conversations or elaborat... more

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The dinner party where your partner's other partner shows up. The wedding where you're trying to explain your relationship structure to curious relatives. The community gathering where you're juggling attention between multiple partne... more

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Recent Guests

Paul Keable
Chief Strategy Officer at Ashley Madison
Ashley Madison
Episode: Unmasking Ashley Madison: Why People Cheat & What It Reveals About Modern Relationships, Ep. 105
Aly Moon
Leader in the Pacific Northwest polyamory community and organizer of poly events
Episode: Building Polyamorous Community and Connections with Aly Moon
Lola Phoenix
Author of 'The Anxious Person's Guide to Non-Monogamy' and host of 'Non-Monogamy Help'
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Episode: The Anxious Person's Toolkit for Successful Non-Monogamous Connections with Lola Phoenix
Julie Krafchik
Co-host of Dateable Podcast and co-author of How to Be Dateable
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Episode: Reignite Your Dating Life: Overcoming App Burnout and Finding Your People
Annie Undone
Writer, artist, and relationship anarchist with experience in monogamy, swinging, polyamory, and open relationships.
Episode: The Unexpected Paths of Non-Monogamy: A Conversation with Annie Undone, EP. 94
Rozie Erlewine
Compassionate matchmaker and relationship nerd, founder of Seattle Inclusive Matchmaking
Seattle Inclusive Matchmaking
Episode: Beyond Swiping Finding Authentic Connections in Seattle
Maeve McBride
Kink and E&M educator, erotic coach, executive director of Kinkfest 2025
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Episode: Beyond Vanilla The Intersection of Polyamory and Kink with Maeve McBride
Ann Russo
Licensed clinical social worker and therapist specializing in non-monogamous relationships
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Episode: Managing Jealousy in Open Relationships with Therapist Ann Russo
Susan Bratton
Sexual wellness expert and author, known for her work in enhancing sexual pleasure and health.
CEO of multiple companies related to sexual wellness
Episode: Fluid Bonding and STI Awareness Navigating Sexual Health in Ethical Non-Monogamy with Susan Bratton

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Ellecia Paine
Ellecia Paine is a relationship coach specializing in non-monogamous dynamics and emotional intelligence, offering insights into navigating complex relationship structures. She engages listeners with candid conversations and expert guests to explore the realities of non-monogamous living.

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4.7 out of 5 stars from 84 ratings
  • This podcast is so good! If you're considering non-monagamy or want to understand your ENM friends and family better, you definitely need to listen to this.

    Podchaser
    5
    BTFrasier
    2 months ago
  • This podcast is life changing!!

    I have been binging this pod and it’s seriously been life changing! I’ve learned so much about myself, relationship dynamics, conversations I need to have with partners, what I do and don’t want in a poly relationship, and so much more. Ellecia’s voice is like honey and so easy to listen to and she has the best guests on. I recommend this to anyone who wants to learn more about relationships beyond monogamy so they can have more of the sex and relationships they want.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    TravelingWildWoman
    United States5 months ago
  • I've listened to a number of ENM/Swinger/Poly podcasts and I don't remember how I stumbled onto this podcast but I honestly thought it was going to be another lame podcast.

    Not the case! Very up front that Ellecia and Co. are non-monogamous (hence the name) but that world view permeates with the guests she hosts and discusses various topics and aspects of ENM. The good, the bad, the pitfalls, and the possibilities of any flavor of lifestyle you want to pursue or claim.

    Check it out!

    Podcast Addict
    5
    Lord Gotham
    a year ago
  • Fantastic Wise and Fun Resource

    This podcast is an absolute gem for relationship experts and curious explorers of non monogamy alike. So much candid wisdom shared in such an approachable way! Ellecia Paine is such a warm insightful host, making all the tricky questions seem surmountable.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Artemisia de Vine
    Australiaa year ago
  • Not about convincing you but sharing info

    I love the candor and openness of Ellecia and her guests. Everyone brings their own approaches to ways of relating and I love that there is space to have these conversations.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    CJ@noshamewithcj
    United States2 years ago

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Listeners praise the podcast for its candid exploration of non-monogamous relationships and emotional intelligence.
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The podcast is seen as a crucial resource for those navigating complex relationship dynamics and personal growth in the context of non-monogamy.

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Unmasking Ashley Madison: Why People Cheat & What It Reveals About Modern Relationships, Ep. 105
Q: What is the most common misconception about Ashley Madison?
The biggest misconception is that there are no women on the site, whereas many women actively seek connections on the platform.
Unmasking Ashley Madison: Why People Cheat & What It Reveals About Modern Relationships, Ep. 105
Q: How would you describe Ashley Madison?
Ashley Madison is a platform for people seeking connections outside their monogamous relationships, mainly catering to those who desire discretion regarding their affairs.
The Anxious Person's Toolkit for Successful Non-Monogamous Connections with Lola Phoenix
Q: Do you have a most memorable or standout or awkward or weird question or piece of advice someone has looked for?
Some situations have made me really sad, especially when people are being mistreated in their non-monogamous relationships.
Reignite Your Dating Life: Overcoming App Burnout and Finding Your People
Q: What is the most universal piece of advice that applies to both monogamous and non-monogamous dating?
DIY your own relationship; it's about finding a relationship that works for you, not just following the norms.
Beyond Swiping Finding Authentic Connections in Seattle
Q: What is the most misunderstood aspect of polyamorous relationships?
A common misconception is that polyamorous individuals cannot engage in serious or lifelong commitments.

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What is Nope! We're Not Monogamous about and what kind of topics does it cover?

This podcast explores the intricacies of non-monogamous relationships, providing a space for open discussions and personal stories. The host, a non-monogamous relationship coach, engages with a variety of topics including the navigation of feelings like jealousy, the dynamics of polyamory, and the importance of communication and boundaries within these relationships. By featuring diverse guests from various backgrounds, the episodes offer listeners insights into the emotional and practical challenges faced in non-traditional relationship structures, celebrating the richness and complexity of love beyond monogamy. Unique for its candid and educational approach, this podcast is likely to resonate strongly with those seeking a deeper understan... more

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