
Ellecia Paine is a non-monogamy relationship coach who helps people navigate ENM (Enthusiastic non-monogamy), polyamory, open relating, swinging, kink, tantra and life in general. Listen in to the candid conversations that give you a peek into the inner lives of other non-monogamous folks. Hear how they've overcome challenges like jealousy, insecurity, and social scrutiny. And celebrate with them ... more
| Publishes | Weekly | Episodes | 142 | Founded | 5 years ago |
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| Number of Listeners | Categories | Health & FitnessSociety & CultureRelationshipsSexuality | |||

Jealousy isn’t a flaw. It’s not a failure.
And it’s almost never about your partner.
In this episode of Nope! We’re Not Monogamous, Ellecia unpacks a powerful realization sparked by reading Financial Feminist:
the way we experience jealousy is str... more
We talk a lot about honesty in open relationships and non-monogamy.
Tell the truth. Name the jealousy. Share your feelings.
But what happens when you open up and your partner tries to fix it, explain it away, or tells you you shouldn’t feel that way... more
Opening a relationship can feel exciting and urgent, especially once the idea of non-monogamy is on the table. A lot of couples hear advice like “date separately” and assume that’s the next step they’re supposed to take.
In this episode of Nope! We’... more
What do you do when your partner says they are open to non monogamy, but only under very specific rules?
Only dating women.
Only forming a triad.
Only dating together as a couple.
In this episode of Nope! We’re Not Monogamous, non monogamous rela... more
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As someone who is new to the polyamory community this podcast has really helped me learn way of how to cope with my emotions and be more open about my partner having other relationships outside of the relationship we have.
Really appreciate the depth of information shared on this podcast. Very educational and helpful!
You will love this Podcast , especially if you are interested in learning about non monogamy.
Ellecia Paine always has great information to share and brings in awesome guests. I particularly loved the episode about Ashley Madison. It was fascinating!!
Hello, I really enjoyed the show today regarding Ashley Madison, I’ve been a member a few times and I learned a bunch of stuff that I didn’t know …was very good. And he’s right, people change, I had no idea there was an option to be non monogamous?!! If I’d known 30 years ago, life could have been much different…
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Candid conversations regarding non-monogamous relationships form the core of the content, focusing on topics such as polyamory, open relating, and ethical non-monogamy. Various episodes explore significant themes like jealousy, emotional safety, communication skills, and the challenges faced by individuals in non-traditional relationships. Guests range from therapists to wellness coaches, sharing insights and strategies for navigating the complexities of desire, intimacy, and personal growth. This podcast is noteworthy for its refreshing honesty, inviting individuals to embrace their authentic selves while discussing the nuances of love and connection beyond conventional norms.
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