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Nope! We're Not Monogamous

Ellecia Paine
Polyamory
Non-Monogamy
Jealousy
Self-Discovery
Communication
Communication Skills
Intimacy
Dating
Ethical Non-Monogamy
Emotional Intelligence
Relationships
Sexual Fantasies
BDSM
Sexual Health
STARS Framework
Kink
Boundaries
Self-Expression
Somatic Healing
Trauma Healing

Ellecia Paine is a non-monogamy relationship coach who helps people navigate ENM (Enthusiastic non-monogamy), polyamory, open relating, swinging, kink, tantra and life in general. Listen in to the candid conversations that give you a peek into the inner lives of other non-monogamous folks. Hear how they've overcome challenges like jealousy, insecurity, and social scrutiny. And celebrate with them ... more

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Jealousy in non-monogamy doesn’t always look dramatic.

Sometimes it’s not a big blow-up or obvious conflict. Sometimes it’s the slow build.

A little comparison. A little overthinking. That subtle drop in your stomach when your partner mentions some... more

There’s a very specific kind of loneliness that can happen when you’re dating someone who’s already partnered.

The connection can be real. The feelings can be real.

 And still… something feels off.

If you’re navigating non-monogamy as a solo person... more

Have you ever found yourself holding feelings about a relationship… that technically isn’t even yours?

Like your partner shares something about their other partner…and suddenly you f eel protective… or tense… or a little off around someone you didn’... more

What if the thing you thought made you “too much”… was actually the doorway to deeper connection, more honest relationships, and a whole lot more pleasure?

In this episode of Nope! We’re Not Monogamous, I’m joined by writer and poet Kate Heskett, wh... more

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Recent Guests

Kate Heskett
Poet, writer, canoe guide; contributor to Pillow Talk
Pillow Talk anthology
Episode: Showing Up Alone to a Swingers Event Changed Everything - Ep. 150 with Kate Heskett
Candace Sogren
A lawyer, entrepreneur, and author of Polyagony who advocates for normalizing non-monogamy conversations.
Episode: Poly Agony: The Mistakes, Repair, and Reality of Raising Kids While Open with Candace Sogren
Dr. Joy Berkheimer
Therapist and clinical sexologist
Episode: The Real Glow-Up: Self-Love, Desire, and Ethical Non-Monogamy with Dr. Joy Berkheimer, EP. 144
Natalie Davis
Editor of Polyamory Today and author of a new book, Saying Yes, My Adventures in Non-Monogamy
Episode: Saying Yes to Non-Monogamy with Natalie Davis, EP. 143
Sharon Marie Scott
Erotic Mystic, author, and spiritual innovator
Episode: The Taboo Side of Non-Monogamy: Pleasure, Healing, and Desire with Sharon Marie Scott
Dr. Dan Sneider
Couples therapist specializing in non-monogamous relationships
Episode: The Relationship Skills That Actually Matter in Non-Monogamy with Dr. Dan Sneider Ep. 136
Jessica Morgenthaler
Therapist and coach specializing in ethical non-monogamy
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Episode: Rethinking “Success” in Polyamory with Jessica Morgenthaler Ep. 134
Jana Danielson
Central health and pelvic floor wellness expert, founder of Bloom Better and creator of the Cooch Ball
Bloom Better
Episode: Pelvic Floors, Orgasms, and Why We Don’t Discriminate Against the Monogamous with Jana Danielson
Carla Wainwright
Holistic wellness coach and sexual awakening facilitator
Episode: Midlife, Menopause & Non-Monogamy: Reclaiming Pleasure, Power & Desire with Carla Wainwright EP. 126

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Ellecia Paine
Non-monogamy relationship coach and host, frequently leads conversations with expert guests.

Reviews

4.8 out of 5 stars from 115 ratings
  • New to poly

    As someone who is new to the polyamory community this podcast has really helped me learn way of how to cope with my emotions and be more open about my partner having other relationships outside of the relationship we have.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Andy122378
    United States6 months ago
  • Informative and helpful!

    Really appreciate the depth of information shared on this podcast. Very educational and helpful!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Dan13386
    United States6 months ago
  • Well oiled Podcast

    You will love this Podcast , especially if you are interested in learning about non monogamy.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    travisXR1200
    United States9 months ago
  • Awesome Host!!

    Ellecia Paine always has great information to share and brings in awesome guests. I particularly loved the episode about Ashley Madison. It was fascinating!!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    XanetP
    United Statesa year ago
  • Great podcast

    Hello, I really enjoyed the show today regarding Ashley Madison, I’ve been a member a few times and I learned a bunch of stuff that I didn’t know …was very good. And he’s right, people change, I had no idea there was an option to be non monogamous?!! If I’d known 30 years ago, life could have been much different…

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Jetjamie
    Canadaa year ago

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Q: What are some common mistakes people make when they first choose to open up in non-monogamous relationships?
Common mistakes include a lack of clarity on why they are exploring non-monogamy, leading to poorly defined agreements and boundaries.
Poly Agony: The Mistakes, Repair, and Reality of Raising Kids While Open with Candace Sogren
Q: What is your relationship with non-monogamy?
I've been ethically non-monogamous for the last 20 years and I didn't want to be limited to loving one person.
The Real Glow-Up: Self-Love, Desire, and Ethical Non-Monogamy with Dr. Joy Berkheimer, EP. 144
Q: What advice would you give to someone wanting to explore their desires?
Consider going to spaces like swingers clubs, which can provide high consent and respect, and allow for exploration in a safe environment.
The Real Glow-Up: Self-Love, Desire, and Ethical Non-Monogamy with Dr. Joy Berkheimer, EP. 144
Q: What are some common struggles people face when transitioning to non-monogamy?
People often know what they don't want but struggle to identify what they do want, and the process can feel reckless but is necessary for exploration.
The Real Glow-Up: Self-Love, Desire, and Ethical Non-Monogamy with Dr. Joy Berkheimer, EP. 144
Q: How did non-monogamy become a part of your world?
Dr. Joy shares her journey into non-monogamy, starting with her realization after her second marriage that she wanted to embrace being non-monogamous and her experiences with swinging and polyamory.

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Explores relationship dynamics outside traditional monogamy, with a focus on boundaries, communication, and emotional safety in ENM, polyamory, swinging, and kink. Recent episodes emphasize distinguishing between boundaries and agreements, navigating jealousy, and maintaining personal autonomy while supporting partners. Guests range from therapists to authors and coaches who share practical tools for healthier, more conscious non-monogamous living, including dating separately, managing needs versus wants, and integrating sexual wellness topics like pelvic health into relationship life. The show is notable for its warm, candid tone, practical frameworks, and emphasis on self-trust and compassionate dialogue as foundations for thriving non-tr... more

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