Not As We Planned
Tash Gershfield & Carly HarrisNew episodes every Thursday, with exclusive bonus episodes every Monday on Patreon.
Welcome to Not As We Planned, the honest podcast about relationships, dating, marriage, divorce and motherhood, and all the things no one really talks about.
From becoming a mum and navigating divorce, to rebuilding life as a single mum and dating again in your 30s, we’re sharing the real, messy and unexpected side... more
| Publishes | Weekly | Episodes | 153 | Founded | 3 years ago |
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| Number of Listeners | Categories | ParentingKids & FamilyRelationshipsSociety & Culture | |||
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Three weeks after giving birth, one Bestie woke in the middle of the night panicking that she’d missed an alarm to feed her newborn. She couldn’t find her own phone, so she picked up her husband’s to check the time… and messages from another woman ap... more
Carly thought she’d finally met someone who ticked all the boxes: great chemistry, great dates, hours spent talking on the phone and seemingly all the right things to say. Then she discovered he was sleeping with multiple women. But this week, the st... more
Eight months into their relationship, Charlotte found out she was pregnant at just 20 years old. From becoming young parents and figuring out their relationship along the way, to building a life online with an audience of over 3 million, this week we... more
She discovered her husband was having an affair, chose to forgive him and spent the next 10 years rebuilding their marriage… only to find herself right back where she started. This week, we hear from a woman questioning whether she wasted a decade af... more
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- Amazing podcast
Happily married but just love listening to this podcast! I find myself laughing out loud with the stories from Tash and Carly , feel proud to be a woman with the amazing women that write in with their stories! X
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United Kingdom3 months ago - Love
Happily married but I’m really enjoying this new find ❤️
Apple Podcasts5NJD2018United Kingdom7 months ago - BEST POD EVER
Honestly 10/10
So much love from Australia
Apple Podcasts5Mishashipp
Australia9 months ago - Everything I Needed
Going through a separation / divorce myself recently I found myself searching high and low for other women’s stories and support in the form of similar situations so that I could feel “normal”. This podcast is incredible. Love these two ladies and every episode is brilliant! Thank you so much for the comfort, tears and knowing that its ok if things don’t work out as we planned.
Apple Podcasts5RebirthofawomanAustralia9 months ago - Amazing find!
Loved finding these two ladies, they are so relatable to my current life! They make me laugh, cry and it’s inspirational to keep going. Thank you ladies!!!
Apple Podcasts5E_BoothUnited Kingdoma year ago
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Apple Podcasts | #138 |  United States/Kids & Family/Parenting |
Spotify | #128 | United Kingdom/Trending |
Apple Podcasts | #2 | United Kingdom/Kids & Family/Parenting |
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Apple Podcasts | #49 |  Canada/Kids & Family/Parenting |
Apple Podcasts | #194 | Canada/Kids & Family |
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Notable themes across recent episodes center on relationship dynamics, dating after separation or divorce, single motherhood, and rebuilding life with honesty and actionable guidance. Listeners hear from hosts and guest contributors about real-life challenges—co-parenting, healing from toxic or abusive relationships, setting boundaries, and prioritizing self-worth—often paired with practical resources, community support, and candid humor. The format blends listener stories, therapist-like guidance, and actionable steps, making it a supportive space for women navigating upheaval in love, family, and personal growth. A standout is the emphasis on community-building and transparency, with frequent calls to action around safety, self-care, and ... more
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Not As We Planned launched 3 years ago and published 153 episodes to date. You can find more information about this podcast including rankings, audience demographics and engagement in our podcast database.
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1. Connor Kern
2. Charlotte Kern
3. Hollie Dowding
4. Aaron Dale
5. Sabrina Zohar
6. Shelley J Whitehead
7. Jessica Miller
8. Jessica May
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