老己客厅
所见读书欢迎来自老己客厅，这里没有答案，只有真诚的自我对话。 我们聊回避与焦虑、聊爱情里的恐惧与勇敢、聊如何守护底线又不失温柔、聊为什么我们总想被爱却忘了爱自己。每一期都围绕那些我们共同经历却无人细说的情绪——在复杂的关系与自我中，陪你清醒而温柔地前行。 “老己”是一个朋友般的自称。当我们说“爱你老己”，是在练习把自己当作朋友：不苛责、不逃避，在疲惫时依然看见自己。这里不教你坚强，只陪你面对真实。 成长不必成为别人，爱不必等待拯救。欢迎入座，老己客厅陪你好好爱自己。 收听：各大平台搜索「老己客厅」 文稿与互动：公众号「所见读书」 加群：添加微信 suojiandushu （备注：老己客厅） 爱你老己，这里永远有张沙发，为你留好。
| Publishes | Daily | Episodes | 110 | Founded | 2 months ago |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Language |  ZH-CN | Number of Listeners | Categories | LeisureReligion & Spirituality |
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INFJ在爱里的核心需求，可以用两句话概括：
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