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Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert

Lola Jean & Stephen Penta

In the age of porn on our phones and vibrators around our necks, is the future of love doomed? Sex Educator & Olympian Squirter Lola Jean and Reluctant Sexpert Stephen Penta (former producer of Guys We F**ked Podcast) tow both sides of the line. They are the vigilante sex educators no one asked for, creating the next gen Kama Sutra you deserve.

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3.6 out of 5 stars from 95 ratings
  • Don’t waste your time

    Cringey

    Apple Podcasts
    1
    monikadunton
    United States3 years ago
  • Excellent

    One of my absolute favourite pods. I’m working my way through all the past episodes. Love the format, the guests, subjects, theme song and the hosts insights and interactions with guests and each other. Open, curious, normalising.Love it!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Drookitnim
    United Kingdom4 years ago
  • Best sex podcast of many I’ve heard

    Like what NPR's This American Life would be like if they talked about dommes, squirting and consent.

    Great podcast.

    Smart hosts, interesting guests, cool subjects. Funny!

    Highly recommended.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Brian5911
    United States5 years ago
  • Reluctant sexpert

    Who calls themselves that? What a douche

    Apple Podcasts
    1
    Mielke48473883
    United States5 years ago
  • Bravo

    I first listened to this Pod after seeing that AdreenaAngela was a guest. Lola and Stephen are just wonderful wonderful people. I was captured by their sensitivity, honesty and empathy. They are exactly the kind of people I would dream of inviting to dinner. The hour or so I spent listening to this pod was the best time I spent today. Subscribe now!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    MrFadedGlory
    United Kingdom5 years ago
  • i like it

    the co-hosts have good vibes together and clearly arent here just for cheap laughs

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    dopesitedude
    United States5 years ago
  • Lame

    That’s cute that you’re copying Krystyna in every way.

    Apple Podcasts
    1
    animalicia
    United States5 years ago
  • Dontbestupid

    It’s lame that this podcast has bad reviews because of Stephan’s affiliations with another podcast. Give the pod a try. Lola and Stephan are smart and hilarious, good job!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    madeupname0
    United States5 years ago
  • Very Intruiging - Would Recommend!!!

    I had a wonderful time listening to this podcast and Lola Jean. I not only feel like I have found an irreplaceable experience, but have also improved my life drastically with Lola's advice. I highly recommend listening to this podcast, no regrets here :)

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Marzapano
    United States5 years ago
  • LOVE

    Lolas competence and knowledge is amazing, highly recommdable, my favorit podcast

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    elaf1
    United Kingdom6 years ago
  • lovely

    so great, i really enjoyed there conversations and it never to boring ( i’m not a big fan of podcast) this one is really recommendable! Much Love for Lola she is so inspiring

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Aristoboi
    United States6 years ago
  • love that

    very pleasant conversations with creative, mindful guests. love it

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Kxxaxxmi
    Germany6 years ago
  • Smart and funny

    There are A LOT of sex podcasts out there, but this is one of the best. The hosts are smart, funny, and accessible, and the guests have a lot of great information to share. It's more than sex-ed -- it feels like you're accessing diverse lifestyles and desires. Highly recommended.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Ali292
    United States6 years ago
  • Listened for 30min and still not got to topic

    I downloaded 1 episode to try it out - 30min in they still haven’t gotten to the subject matter - just bantering about their parents and lives

    Apple Podcasts
    1
    DKKFYG
    United States6 years ago
  • Accessible & funny & real

    I adore this pod. Stephen is hilarious and I always feel like I’m listening to two friends have a chat on the subway next to me, only these friends are just really really educated about sex and love, which is better than what real friends on the subway chat about next to me.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    RebelAllies
    United States6 years ago

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