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Pillow Talks

Vanessa & Xander Marin
Health & FitnessSexualitySociety & Culture

Meet Vanessa and Xander Marin, your new BFF couple friends! She’s a sex therapist with 20 years of experience and he’s a regular dude. Together they’re the shockingly open, slightly nerdy, and seriously funny couple you want to grab sushi with. They share the ups and downs in their relationship while giving you step-by-step techniques for improving yours. Subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally do-able sex tips, practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind closed bedroom doors, and so much more. It’s the sex education you WISH you’d had!


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4.9 out of 5 stars from 1.8k ratings
  • I came for the sex advice, stayed for Xander

    I’ve been listening to this couple for a year now. At first, I came for the sex advice. Now I feel like they’re friends who can help with all aspects of my life. They are by far my favorite podcast. Of all them! I wish I could know these people, especially Xander. His goofiness makes me feel comfortable with my own! #NormalizeGoofs

    Apple Podcasts
    United Statesa month ago
  • A must-listen

    An inclusive and insightful view into topics that hit home to so many of us. Vanessa has the clinical and female view and Xander brings in the down to earth and male point of view. It’s a really great balance between them both, not only that, they are funny, in love, educational and helpful. Listen to the podcast, follow their Instagram, you won’t be disappointed!

    Apple Podcasts
    United Kingdoma month ago
  • Thank you!

    Recently connected to your podcast and social media out of chance. My husband shared an IG video that inspired the bristle reaction podcast, which I then tuned into first. I’m still going through your episodes, but wanted to say that I’m thank for your content. So many points that makes me feel seen 🙌🏼 more

    Apple Podcasts
    United Statesa month ago
  • Realistic and Practical

    I appreciate what Vanessa and Xander are putting out there as it relates to relationships, sexual health, etc.. The way they talk about and explain things is very practical and helps communicate that things are normal - whatever you and your partner are going through. And on top of that, they offer ways to improve, ways to communicate with your partner, and offer a general sense of things to think about if you're working on yourself. So thank you!!!!!

    Apple Podcasts
    United Statesa month ago
  • I feel like the bristle reaction episode was made for me and my boyfriend!

    This is EXACTLY what happens in our relationship and I’m so ecstatic to have found a resource with information and real life examples and ways to deal with it!! The cherry on top for me would be an episode for the other side of the story, for partners who initiate touch and are consistently faced with a bristle reaction, because being on the other side has its own implications for the health of the relationship 🙏🏻 loved this one a lot though!

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    Canadaa month ago

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