Pillow Talks
Vanessa & Xander MarinMeet Vanessa and Xander Marin, your new BFF couple friends! She’s a sex therapist with 20 years of experience and he’s a regular dude. Together they’re the shockingly open, slightly nerdy, and seriously funny couple you want to grab sushi with. They share the ups and downs in their relationship while giving you step-by-step techniques for improving yours. Subscribe for your weekly double date full... more
| Publishes | Weekly | Episodes | 264 | Founded | 5 years ago |
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| Number of Listeners | Categories | SexualityHealth & Fitness | |||
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So we're back with Part 3 of What Do Women Really Think About…?, giving you the honest answers women don't always say out loud.
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- Relationship must have!
Have enjoyed listening over the last 6 months-has helped understand my wife better and what she needs from our relationship.
Apple Podcasts5MN review
United States14 days ago - Helped me feel less anxious sexually
This podcast is very informative and fun. It took me a long time before I felt comfortable sexually and while I’m still working on that, this has alleviated some of my stress. I definitely grew up feeling ashamed of sexual things/purity culture. Thank you!
Apple Podcasts5NolachirunUnited States20 days ago - the sex education I wish I’d had earlier!
I love this podcast! I first discovered Vanessa while listening to the Mel Robbins podcast, and then again when she was interviewed on the Voices of your Village podcast. By this time I knew I wanted to learn more from Vanessa! I have listened to many episodes now and I feel so grateful to be able to listen to these types of conversations and bring the things I learn into my own relationship. My journey with sex has been rocky - from growing up in a family where sex was not talked about openly o... more
Apple Podcasts5CJfarmmama
Canada25 days ago - Disappointed that Feedback Comments get users blocked!
I’ve been listening for a few months and have enjoyed the series and it’s benefited my relationship. Engaged in Instagram to follow content. In the recent Ask us Anything episode 174 and again in 259, you talk about having integrity and not having the perspective of parents due to not having kids. I made a very similar comment on an IG post about steering away from teaching people how to talk to their kids about relationships. Instead of being genuine, you or your team just blocked me. Doesn’t s... more
Apple Podcasts1J.T. MurphUnited Statesa month ago - Conversation starters abound
This podcast has sparked so many conversations between my husband and me! It’s a great addition to our regular couples therapy and has helped us sort out so many deep-seated issues. I have also spent a lot of time introspectively after listening to many episodes. I love the place this has helped me get to in my own personal journey, as well as in my marriage. Thanks, V and X!
Apple Podcasts5xcdancerUnited Statesa month ago
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Apple Podcasts | #6 | United States/Health & Fitness/Sexuality |
Apple Podcasts | #107 | United States/Health & Fitness |
Apple Podcasts | #5 |  United Kingdom/Health & Fitness/Sexuality |
Apple Podcasts | #5 | Canada/Health & Fitness/Sexuality |
Apple Podcasts | #58 | Canada/Health & Fitness |
Apple Podcasts | #162 | United Kingdom/Health & Fitness |
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What is Pillow Talks about and what kind of topics does it cover?
Two hosts—Vanessa Marin, a seasoned sex therapist, and Xander Marin, a male perspective who keeps conversations approachable—offer open, humorous, and practical guidance on sex, relationships, and parenting. Episodes blend personal stories, science-backed advice, and actionable techniques, often promoting their own courses and resources. The format is a candid, relationship-education style with a strong emphasis on communication, experimentation, and mutual pleasure, making complex topics accessible and entertaining for couples and curious individuals alike. Notable strengths include a rare balance of expert insight and relatable banter, plus a consistent expansion into practical tools (courses, cards, guides) that listeners can apply in re... more
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