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Meet Vanessa and Xander Marin, your new BFF couple friends! She’s a sex therapist with 20 years of experience and he’s a regular dude. Together they’re the shockingly open, slightly nerdy, and seriously funny couple you want to grab sushi with. They share the ups and downs in their relationship while giving you step-by-step techniques for improving yours. Subscribe for your weekly double date full... more

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Hosts

Vanessa Marin
Co-host and sex therapist with over 20 years of experience, Vanessa shares her expertise and personal anecdotes on sexual intimacy, communication, and relationship dynamics.
Xander Marin
Co-host and regular dude, Xander provides a relatable and humorous perspective to discussions about intimacy, relationships, and communication.

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4.8 out of 5 stars from 5.3k ratings
  • Love this podcast for me and for clients!

    I recommend this podcast all the time and absolutely love listening. Such a fun, yet evidence-based, approach to a deeply human topic.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Alyssawarmlandthetherapist
    Canadaa month ago
  • Information is great but just no

    Used to enjoy this podcast but unsubscribed after a few years. The information in this podcast is great but there are way too many ads. It’s especially jarring when the topic is a more intense one and then they do an ad for a meal kit mid-sentence. I don’t understand how they can have so much money from selling sex guides and doing podcasts.

    I’m glad Vanessa finds Xander so funny but it can get too silly and excessive, and I just can’t get past him giving advice as if he is a licensed therapist... more

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    1
    CiarraiV
    Canada3 months ago
  • Taking my marriage next level! Thanks!

    Found this podcast on instagram and decided to give it a listen. Ive been married to my wife 20 years and we are from 2 very different backgrounds. Communication in the bedroom can be a little difficult at times which have led to ruts and such. I decided to give this show a listen as I would love to be able to have better communication, dating life and sec life with my wife.

    Let me tell you it has helped tremendously! I listen 4-5x a week on my morning walks, I even went out and bought the sex ... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Quacker42
    United States4 months ago
  • He talks way way way too often

    I love the topics in this podcast and I love the fact that she is an actual sex therapist. I want to hear so much more from her, but he talks so much and most of what he says I feel is just opinions and I am not here for his casual opinions. I want her educated insight. I don’t understand why he overtakes so often and so much. I can’t even listen anymore because he just interjects constantly as if he knows as much as she does.

    Apple Podcasts
    2
    Tierra99
    United States4 months ago
  • So thankful for you two

    Thank you for doing all that you do! …love the podcast, your IG posts, courses, book, etc…so much helpful advice! I’ve learned so much.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    ARHJAW
    United States4 months ago

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Listeners appreciate the candid conversations and helpful advice about intimacy and communication in relationships.
The hosts are praised for their genuine, relatable dynamic and the effective blend of personal experiences with expert advice.
Many find the mix of humor and professional insights beneficial for their relationships and personal growth.
Some listeners express concerns about the episode structure, particularly regarding ad placements and conversation flow.

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E258: Weed, Alcohol, and Sex: What's Actually Happening to Your Body and Desire
Q: What can be done if one partner only touches when drunk?
This often requires couples therapy to explore underlying issues such as shame or attachment, and to establish healthier patterns that don't rely on intoxication.
E258: Weed, Alcohol, and Sex: What's Actually Happening to Your Body and Desire
Q: How should you start a conversation about not having sex under the influence?
Speak from your own experience, avoid blaming, propose mutually sober sex as a goal, and frame it around closeness and presence rather than policing your partner's behavior.
E258: Weed, Alcohol, and Sex: What's Actually Happening to Your Body and Desire
Q: Does weed increase libido?
They explain there is no robust evidence that cannabis reliably increases libido; any perceived boost is more likely placebo. If anything, dependence on substances for sexual arousal can be problematic.
E258: Weed, Alcohol, and Sex: What's Actually Happening to Your Body and Desire
Q: Is sober sex awkward at first?
Yes, it is a real concern for many, and it tends to be awkward at the start. The hosts advise acknowledging the awkwardness, discussing concerns with your partner, and leaning into the experience to build connection rather than expecting instant comfort.
E256: Doggy Style: Tips, Tricks, and Techniques for Maximum Pleasure
Q: What can help when the first entry is challenging due to height differences?
Adjusting leg and hip alignment, standing threedimensional positioning, using pillows, changing surfaces, and sometimes having one partner stand while the other lies down to customize height.

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The content centers on sexual relationships and communication, addressing various topics such as orgasm difficulties, sexual exploration, body confidence, and the intricacies of navigating intimacy in today's society. Vanessa, a seasoned sex therapist, shares her expertise alongside her partner Xander, whose relatable and humorous approach balances professional advice with everyday experiences. This combination resonates with listeners seeking guidance on improving their relationships while enjoying candid discussions on often-taboo subjects. The podcast creates an inclusive space where both serious and light-hearted conversations flourish, empowering listeners to explore their sexual relationships more openly.

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