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Meet Vanessa and Xander Marin, your new BFF couple friends! She’s a sex therapist with 20 years of experience and he’s a regular dude. Together they’re the shockingly open, slightly nerdy, and seriously funny couple you want to grab sushi with. They share the ups and downs in their relationship while giving you step-by-step techniques for improving yours. Subscribe for your weekly double date full... more

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Latest Episodes

Every week on Instagram, we host “Ask Us Anything” sessions. And honestly? We get way more questions than we could ever answer in stories.

So today, we’re bringing some of those unanswered Qs straight to the podcast to give you deeper answers, real ... more

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You’ve been there: the dreaded text fight.

One message gets misread, emotions spike, and suddenly you’re both typing paragraphs instead of actually talking.

In this episode, we’re breaking down a real-life text fight between a couple navigating mis... more

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Hot take: when you finally get initiation right, your entire sex life opens up.

Think about it. No more awkward “was that supposed to be a signal?” moments. No more pressure on just one person to get things started. And no more cycle of rejection an... more

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Did you know that 64% of people say they want more foreplay than they currently get? And most people say they wish it was part of every sexual experience.

No wonder foreplay frustrations are so common. Maybe it feels too short, too routine, or like ... more

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Host of the Liz Moody podcast and a longtime journalist
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Vanessa Marin
Co-host of a podcast, sex therapist with over 20 years of experience, providing insights into sexual health and relationships.

Reviews

4.9 out of 5 stars from 5.2k ratings
  • Love this podcast

    Found this podcast though the “we are childfree” podcast episode with Vanessa and Xander. After listening to that episode, Pillow talks has become one of my new favourite and most listened to podcasts.

    I’ve even purchased their book “Sex Talks” I love the content they’re producing so much. Keep it coming!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    pnewman1
    United Statesa month ago
  • Love this podcast

    I listen to your podcast every morning. My partner and I sake turns picking an episode to listen to during our morning workout and then we discuss it afterward. We love your vulnerability and appreciate the conversations we have based around what you discuss. Thank you!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Vic and Ryder
    United Statesa month ago
  • Xander the great 💪

    Xander’s ability to be inclusive and understanding is so inspiring. He also brings a compassionate and supportive mens perspective. Thank you Xander!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    SBCoachM
    United States2 months ago
  • Ep 209

    Just listened to episode 209 and don’t feel you gave the guys point of view a good shake, you assumed the woman’s position in every situation. The only guy’s response you showed was from some sexist jerk. Try talking to some real husbands and fathers about how no matter what they did around the house or with the kids it was never enough to allow her to relax. When a husband/ father removes a “task” the woman will pick up 3 more and not prioritize her relationship with her husband. It is more of ... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Hkeller
    United States2 months ago
  • Very very helpful

    I have listened to all the episodes and it has opened my eyes to to a whole new way of looking at everything 🕣😚😛🍒🍑🍆🌮🥵🥵🥵💦💦💦💦💦

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Yogurt908
    Australia2 months ago

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Many reviews highlight the informative nature of the content, particularly regarding sexual health and communication in intimacy, while urging for more nuanced discussions.
Listeners appreciate the humor and relatability of the hosts, often describing them as trustworthy friends in navigating relationship challenges.
Feedback suggests a desire for more inclusive perspectives, particularly regarding diverse sexual identities and experiences.
Some listeners express frustrations about the balance of conversation, wanting more input from the female co-host, given her expertise.

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E229: Ask A Sex Therapist: Swallowing, Fetishes, + Exes
Q: How do I reassure my partner that he satisfies me just fine even though he has ED?
It's important to consistently affirm satisfaction in your relationship, while also ensuring that both partners' needs and desires are addressed; confidence-building for the partner with ED can be beneficial.
E229: Ask A Sex Therapist: Swallowing, Fetishes, + Exes
Q: How do I bring up things I liked in the bedroom that my ex used to do to my new partner?
Don't directly compare your new partner to your ex; instead, frame your desires in a positive, lighthearted way, using techniques like stating you had a dream about certain activities that excited you.
E226: Foreplay Frustrations: How to Get More (and Better) Foreplay
Q: I don't even know how to talk to my partner about the kinds of foreplay I would be interested in. How can I do that?
Start with this episode, discuss the various techniques covered and explore what both partners enjoy.
E226: Foreplay Frustrations: How to Get More (and Better) Foreplay
Q: How can I teach my partner about the importance of foreplay?
Use this episode as a guide, share the insights from it together to open up a conversation about the significance of foreplay.
E225: The Truth About Sex and Aging: Menopause, Erectile Dysfunction, and Libido
Q: What can we do to maintain intimacy when a man starts having difficulty with getting an erection?
Have open conversations about the partner's feelings regarding the situation and explore alternative forms of intimacy.

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Frequently Asked Questions About Pillow Talks

What is Pillow Talks about and what kind of topics does it cover?

This podcast offers a unique blend of humor and expert advice on intimacy and relationships, facilitated by a seasoned sex therapist and her husband, who brings a relatable, down-to-earth perspective. The hosts tackle a wide array of topics, from navigating postpartum intimacy to the complexities of sexual health and the nuances of kinks, making it accessible for anyone looking to enhance their romantic life. Listeners can expect friendly discussions filled with personal anecdotes, practical tips, and a focus on open communication, ensuring engaging content that resonates with couples and individuals alike. With a fun and witty tone, this podcast stands out in its mission to destigmatize conversations around sex and improve relationships th... more

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