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Husband Material

Drew Boa
Pornography
Christianity
Porn Addiction
Pornography Addiction
Mental Health
Healing
Vulnerability
Emotional Healing
Recovery
Sexuality
Marriage
Trauma
Shame
Husband Material Academy
Betrayal Trauma
Purity Culture
Same-Sex Attraction
Sexual Addiction
Community Support
Childhood Trauma

So you want to outgrow porn. But how? How do you change your brain, heal your heart, and save your relationship? Welcome to Husband Material with Drew Boa, where we answer all these questions and more! Each episode makes it easier for you to achieve lasting freedom from porn—without fighting an exhausting battle. Porn is a pacifier. This podcast will help you outgrow it and become a sexually matur... more

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Shawn Bonneteau
Coach and Husband Material coach, former cult survivor turned wellness coach
Secret Habit; DeepClean; Sathya Sam
Episode: How To Meet Your Unmet Needs (with Shawn Bonneteau)
Aundi Kolber
Therapist and author of Try Softer and Strong Like Water
Author and Therapist
Episode: Try Softer, Not Harder (with Aundi Kolber)
Patrick Cagle
IFS expert, licensed professional counselor, pastoral sex addiction professional
IFS Institute / Private practice
Episode: How To Outgrow Porn Through IFS (with Patrick Cagle)
Jenna Riemersma
Author and licensed counselor specializing in IFS and betrayal trauma
Move Toward, Altogether You
Episode: How To Stop Fighting Yourself (with Jenna Riemersma)
Dr. Joshua Straub
Author and speaker; expert on reviving the soul of the family
Author of Famous at Home
Episode: How To Be A Great Husband & Father (with Dr. Joshua Straub)
Adam Nisenson
Licensed marriage and family therapist, The Betrayal Shrink
betrayalshrink.com
Episode: Healing For Sexually Betrayed Men (with Adam Nisenson)
Davey Blackburn
Founder and director of Nothing is Wasted Ministries
Nothing is Wasted Ministries
Episode: Run Toward The Roar (with Davey Blackburn)
Jay Stringer
Licensed mental health counselor, researcher, and author of Unwanted and Desire
Author at large; speaker
Episode: Why Your Desires Matter (with Jay Stringer)
Tom Zuniga
Director of Your Other Brothers
Your Other Brothers
Episode: Why Men Need Men (with Tom Zuniga)

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Drew Boa
Host of Husband Material

Reviews

4.8 out of 5 stars from 467 ratings
  • A Beacon of Hope in Dark Places

    I don’t know what I would have done without this podcast.

    Drew Boa and this podcast helped me survive the roughest parts of my recovery journey — directly after first disclosure with my wife.

    This podcast has also helped me through the dog days of recovery, when I have just needed some encouragement or a reminder of the truth that I am God’s beloved son and somehow, in me He is well pleased.

    Both the interview episodes and solo episodes that Drew hosts are absolutely solid. Biblically base... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Foxy Fung
    United States10 months ago
  • Life safer

    In HM I found a safe place where all that I’ve been struggling with, trauma, anxiety, panic attacks etc., and realized that a lot of men also struggle with these issues. Sexual addictions, sexual behaviors are a big issue also, as it is very hard to talk to anyone about them. It has been a life saver for me joining Husband Material. And Drew is not just the facilitator but also walks alongside with us and shares his struggles as well. This helps a lot because you see others striving and moving ... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    rdt-69
    United Statesa year ago
  • Going beyond white knuckling to freedom

    The Husband Material podcast is an excellent resource for all men, single or married looking to outgrow pornography and other unwanted sexual behaviours or those looking to help a man who is struggling. Drew Boa explores a wide variety of topics, often with leading experts , related to addiction, recovery, and betrayal trauma. There have been many moments when I gained insight into my struggle with pornography and other behaviours. Often I will listen to episodes multiple times. It is no exag... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Warren Qc
    Canadaa year ago
  • One of the best podcasts I’ve ever listened to!!!

    This podcast discusses, teaches and explores what life can be when we are completely free from pornography & sexual brokenness. From Drew Boa the founder of Husband Material, Drew interviews & conducts live episodes with many amazing guests, professors, and other trained professionals that educate listeners on a topic that isn’t talked about enough. You can gain healing, health, and freedom along this journey. Check it out! You’ll be so glad you did.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Mattie Tay Tay
    United States2 years ago
  • Best podcast and community on sensitive subject

    I found this podcast from a rec from a book on Male Sexual Abuse. The host shows great compassion and insight on dissecting such a rampant issue in our society today. Each of his guest bring a level of knowledge and healing to make you wanna take action steps in ending such unwanted sexual addictions. Truly grateful I came across this podcast. It truly is life changing.

    Apple Podcasts
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    Blockbusterboy
    United States2 years ago

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Listeners praise compassionate, non-shaming approach to recovery.
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How To Meet Your Unmet Needs (with Shawn Bonneteau)
Q: What is the role of community and faith in sustaining recovery long-term?
Community helps provide safety, accountability, and shared experience; faith anchors healing by reframing needs through the Gospel and reminding individuals they are loved and valued, which fills the heart more deeply than temporary distractions.
How To Meet Your Unmet Needs (with Shawn Bonneteau)
Q: How do you practically address the heart hunger in daily life without falling back into old patterns?
He describes a framework of red zone (verbalizing and naming emotions), green zone (planning concrete actions to fill hungers), and inner-child work, plus five-second checks to keep the heart fed with reassurance through relationships, Scripture, and purposeful activities.
How To Meet Your Unmet Needs (with Shawn Bonneteau)
Q: What is your favorite thing about freedom from porn and healing and meeting these needs?
Shawn says his favorite part is realizing his gifting is to help others with the very thing he struggled with, turning personal breakthrough into a calling and joy that fuels his coaching work.
How To Outgrow Porn Through IFS (with Patrick Cagle)
Q: How do you handle triggered moments when a firefighter wants to go back to porn?
First check in with your parts, acknowledge the firefighter, invite it to sit with you, and engage all parts at the table to hear concerns, while the self remains the guiding, compassionate presence.
How To Outgrow Porn Through IFS (with Patrick Cagle)
Q: What is renaming a part and why is it helpful?
Renaming a part helps reframe its role from an extreme, protective behavior to a redemptive function, reflecting its positive intent and making it easier to relate to and heal the underlying wound.

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This show centers on helping men outgrow porn and build healthier relationships through faith, science-backed approaches, and practical exercises. Episodes frequently explore trauma, desire, and recovery with experts in psychology, spirituality, and coaching, often framing healing as a compassionate journey rather than a punitive battle. Notable traits include an integration of Christian faith with therapeutic frameworks (like IFS and polyvagal concepts), a strong emphasis on accountability, community, and practical next steps that listeners can apply in daily life and in relationships. The program stands out for its candid discussions, interview-led format with clinicians and coaches, and a commitment to gender-specific growth within a fai... more

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1. Shawn Bonneteau
2. Aundi Kolber
3. Patrick Cagle
4. Jenna Riemersma
5. Dr. Joshua Straub
6. Adam Nisenson
7. Davey Blackburn
8. Jay Stringer

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