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How to Find (& Keep) a Gay Man

Matt Bays

Matt Bays & Matt Heincker do a deep dive into what it takes to find (& keep) a gay man. While compassionate and sincere, these two gay besties provide bitchy wisdom for the gay man looking for love.

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This week on How to Find & Keep a Gay Man, the Matts are getting intimate—with the five love languages, that is. You know the ones: words, touch, quality time, gifts, and doing the damn dishes (aka acts of service). We break down how each style shows... more

In a world dominated by DMs, double taps, and endless scrolling, meaningful face-to-face conversations can feel like a lost art—especially in dating. Inspired by a chat with one of our listeners, this episode dives into the challenges and nuances of ... more

In this episode of How to Find and Keep a Gay Man, we’re tackling the “checklist syndrome” that might be keeping you from finding love. Do you have a laundry list of must-haves for your perfect partner—hot, rich, smart, fit, kind, and dog-loving (but... more

In this episode of How to Find and Keep a Gay Man, the Matts dive deep into the bittersweet journey of finding and losing GOOD gay men. They explore the complex reasons behind breakups—whether initiated by us or by our partners. By identifying and di... more

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4.9 out of 5 stars from 29 ratings
  • Blessing

    This podcast has blessed my life beyond measure! My cup is filling up and looking to run over.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    lashilashman
    United Statesa year ago
  • Deep and Humerous

    So many queer podcasts are either funny or have good content. This is the rarity that contains both. These 2 guys give so much vision for queer ppl who want something more in life and in love. The only time I’m disappointed when listening to this podcast is when I’m at the end and have to wait another week for the next episode. Good stuff guys! Keep going!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Walls Down Ministry
    United Statesa year ago
  • 10/10

    Honest and heartfelt, thoughtful and authentic. Can’t recommend enough! Binged all the episodes in a week! If you’re a gay man who is serious and ready for love, this is for you. Thank you for sharing your experiences!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    JF$89
    United States2 years ago
  • Yaz!

    Oh my!!! Just what is needed! Such a powerful podcast delivered by these gooowwwgus men…thank you for your wisdom, kindness and love

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    JS----
    United Kingdom2 years ago
  • Thank you

    I found your podcast because I searched gay break up and now I am hooked. You’re exactly what I need at this time and I think your advice and your banter is spot on for someone looking for a healthy gay relationship. Thank you so much for not making this about hooking up but about actual loving relationships. Five stars all the way.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    BrokenBilly
    United States3 years ago

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