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Getting Close

Aidan Wharton
Connection
Loneliness Epidemic
LGBTQ Community
Non-Monogamy
Relationships
New York City
Grindr
Pridefit
Epstein Files
Communication
Anxiety
Fitness Goals
Independent Journalism
Open Relationships
Kink
Health
Community
Digital World
Nutrition
Mental Health

Getting Close is an intimate exploration of how we connect, love, and build relationships in the modern world. Each week, host Aidan Wharton sits down with culture-shaping voices to give you practical insights from honest conversations about relationships, Queerness, sex, connection, and community. gettingclosepod.substack.com

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Recent Guests

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Finance author and editor based in Long Beach, California
Out Magazine (finance columnist); Financialicious (newsletter)
Episode: Gay Money Expert — How the Gays Afford Their Trips, Surprising Side Hustles, and Shame Spending
Rachel Karp
Writer and producer, author of The Lesbian Bar Chronicles
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Episode: Lesbian Bar Historian — on Windows as Protest, Queer Bar Gentrification, and How You Can Save Them
Chris Bustamante
Aesthetic Nurse Practitioner
Lushful Aesthetics
Episode: Gay Bulge Expert (on Performance Anxiety, Holetox, & Sexting Pitfalls)
John Paul Brammer
Award-winning writer and artist; author of Hola Papi
Writer, Hola Papi
Episode: 3 Lessons To Make You Happier with JP Brammer
Zachary Zane
Brooklyn-based sex columnist and author; editor-in-chief of Boyslut Zine
Boyslut Zine; Men's Health; Cosmo (various columns)
Episode: Bi Sex Columnist: How Rejection Leads to Sexual Shame
Brian Derrick
Co-founder of Oath, a platform that identifies high-impact elections and where donor dollars can have the greatest effect
Oath
Episode: Gay Political Strategist: How to Talk Politics At Brunch
Keanu Jackson
Brooklyn-based sex therapist, content creator, founder of Homebody Psychotherapy
Homebody Psychotherapy
Episode: Sexual Liberation Therapist (on Reconnecting with Your Body and Desire)
Casey Garvey
Husband of the host and Broadway performer
Broadway
Episode: My Husband & Broadway Star: How to Break the Patterns Holding You Back
Eric Williams
Host of That's A Gay Ass Podcast
That's A Gay Ass Podcast
Episode: Gay Ass Podcast Host: The Gay Ass Art of A Good Question

Host

Aidan Wharton
Host of Getting Close

Reviews

5.0 out of 5 stars from 129 ratings
  • 5 stars

    so grateful for this podcast and for what aidan has created. it’s such rich conversations and so thoughtful.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    ben_______g
    United States3 months ago
  • Aidan is a good host.

    This podcast is so fresh. Aidan brings on guest that help us understand the world as queer people. He explores so many different topics that help us understand who we are and how to connect with one another. Face your fears and be brave with Aidan. You’ll thank me later!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    J. Kenneth Anthony
    United States3 months ago
  • Human and Queer

    ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

    One of the most genuinely human podcasts out there

    Getting Close is exactly what it promises — an intimate, honest exploration of how we connect in a world that keeps pulling us apart. Aidan Wharton is a natural host: curious, warm, and completely unpretentious. He actually listens, and it shows. What sets this show apart is how it’s both thought-provoking and practical. Whether the topic is relationships, queerness, community, or technology’s quiet toll on our presence with one another, A... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    PNWRS
    United States3 months ago
  • BFF

    So raw and honest, with a charming host who immediately feels like a BFF. Highly recommended.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    ❤️BWAY
    Canada3 months ago
  • A good guide for gays

    Aidan’s honest and frank discussions about the sexual realities of modern gay life are something every gay man should listen to. Even if you don’t agree with everything he or his guests say, you’ll come away from each episode thinking.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Ken Carson
    United States3 months ago

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The host is described as curious, warm, and unpretentious, with a space-holding presence.
Listeners praise intimate, honest conversations and thoughtful, practical insights.
Guests and topics are cited as fresh, relatable, and deeply meaningful to LGBTQ+ communities.

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#239
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Talking Points

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Gay Bulge Expert (on Performance Anxiety, Holetox, & Sexting Pitfalls)
Q: What is the main difference between performance anxiety and physiological ED?
Physiological ED is about the body's physical ability to achieve and maintain an erection, often tied to hormonal, cardiovascular, or metabolic factors, while performance anxiety is more about mental, situational, and psychological factors influencing sexual performance.
Gay Bulge Expert (on Performance Anxiety, Holetox, & Sexting Pitfalls)
Q: What is the most pressing issue gay men are facing in terms of sexual shame?
The episode highlights that shame is multifactorial, with external stressors from work, relationships, and cultural expectations seeping into intimate moments, making sex feel fraught even when there is desire.
Lesbian Bar Historian — on Windows as Protest, Queer Bar Gentrification, and How You Can Save Them
Q: What makes queer third spaces so important for community, beyond their function as bars?
They serve as essential pillars for connection, safety, and identity exploration, offering in-person spaces where queerness can be lived openly, shared, and celebrated beyond digital forums.
Bi Sex Columnist: How Rejection Leads to Sexual Shame
Q: So to start us off, how might their views about rejection change after listening to this conversation?
The host aims to shift the listener toward seeing rejection as non-final and to develop an abundance mentality, recognizing that rejection is temporary and less defining as data points accumulate.
Sexual Liberation Therapist (on Reconnecting with Your Body and Desire)
Q: How should someone start learning to say no and set boundaries without feeling guilty?
Keanu emphasizes honest self-awareness, clear communication, and practice in environments where one can safely exercise boundaries, noting that it's acceptable to take time and use simple, direct statements like 'no, thank you' to protect one's comfort.

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The show centers on intimate conversations about relationships, queerness, sex, and community, featuring culture-shaping voices who share practical, stigma-free insights. Episodes blend personal narrative with expert perspectives—from therapists and educators to performers and researchers—to explore how we connect, navigate boundaries, and build meaningful lives in a modern landscape. Noteworthy strengths include a transparent, warm host approach, a willingness to tackle sensitive topics with nuance, and a consistent focus on real-world applications for healthier relationships and inclusive communities.

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1. Dads And Daddies
2. That's A Gay Ass Podcast
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4. Gay Men Going Deeper
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Getting Close launched 6 months ago and published 25 episodes to date. You can find more information about this podcast including rankings, audience demographics and engagement in our podcast database.

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1. Nick Wolny
2. Rachel Karp
3. Chris Bustamante
4. John Paul Brammer
5. Zachary Zane
6. Brian Derrick
7. Keanu Jackson
8. Casey Garvey

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