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Getting Close

Aidan Wharton
Connection
Loneliness Epidemic
LGBTQ Community
Non-Monogamy
Relationships
New York City
Grindr
Pridefit
Epstein Files
Communication
Anxiety
Fitness Goals
Independent Journalism
Open Relationships
Kink
Health
Community
Digital World
Nutrition
Mental Health

Getting Close is an intimate exploration of how we connect, love, and build relationships in the modern world. Each week, host Aidan Wharton sits down with culture-shaping voices to give you practical insights from honest conversations about relationships, Queerness, sex, connection, and community. gettingclosepod.substack.com

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Recent Guests

Brian Derrick
Co-founder of Oath, a platform that identifies high-impact elections and where donor dollars can have the greatest effect
Oath
Episode: Gay Political Strategist: How to Talk Politics At Brunch
Keanu Jackson
Brooklyn-based sex therapist, content creator, founder of Homebody Psychotherapy
Homebody Psychotherapy
Episode: Sexual Liberation Therapist (on Reconnecting with Your Body and Desire)
Casey Garvey
Husband of the host and Broadway performer
Broadway
Episode: My Husband & Broadway Star: How to Break the Patterns Holding You Back
Eric Williams
Host of That's A Gay Ass Podcast
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Episode: Gay Ass Podcast Host: The Gay Ass Art of A Good Question
Sandy Gooen
Trans-experience queer man, writer and organizer behind Tempo
Tempo
Episode: Trans Thought Leader: The Complex Politics of Being a Man
Andrew Restieri
PhD candidate at Cornell researching gay men's digital intimacy
Cornell University
Episode: Gay Intimacy Researcher: The Hidden Rules of Hookup Culture
Rachel Wright
Distinguished psychotherapist specializing in modern relationships, mental health, and sex
New York City-based therapist
Episode: Poly-Queer Therapist: How Your Discomfort is Key to Happier Relationships
Andrew Keenan-Bolger
Actor, director, author, filmmaker; author of Limelight
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Episode: Queer Broadway Author: How Queer Storytelling Can Change You
Trevor Kuhn
Love and relationship coach and matchmaker for gay and queer men, founder of Love Daddy
Love Daddy
Episode: Gay Relationship Coach: If You're Feeling Stuck with Dating, Listen to This!

Host

Aidan Wharton
Host of Getting Close

Reviews

5.0 out of 5 stars from 121 ratings
  • 5 stars

    so grateful for this podcast and for what aidan has created. it’s such rich conversations and so thoughtful.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    ben_______g
    United Statesa month ago
  • Aidan is a good host.

    This podcast is so fresh. Aidan brings on guest that help us understand the world as queer people. He explores so many different topics that help us understand who we are and how to connect with one another. Face your fears and be brave with Aidan. You’ll thank me later!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    J. Kenneth Anthony
    United Statesa month ago
  • Human and Queer

    ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

    One of the most genuinely human podcasts out there

    Getting Close is exactly what it promises — an intimate, honest exploration of how we connect in a world that keeps pulling us apart. Aidan Wharton is a natural host: curious, warm, and completely unpretentious. He actually listens, and it shows. What sets this show apart is how it’s both thought-provoking and practical. Whether the topic is relationships, queerness, community, or technology’s quiet toll on our presence with one another, A... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    PNWRS
    United Statesa month ago
  • BFF

    So raw and honest, with a charming host who immediately feels like a BFF. Highly recommended.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    ❤️BWAY
    Canadaa month ago
  • A good guide for gays

    Aidan’s honest and frank discussions about the sexual realities of modern gay life are something every gay man should listen to. Even if you don’t agree with everything he or his guests say, you’ll come away from each episode thinking.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Ken Carson
    United States2 months ago

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The host is described as curious, warm, and unpretentious, with a space-holding presence.
Listeners praise intimate, honest conversations and thoughtful, practical insights.
Guests and topics are cited as fresh, relatable, and deeply meaningful to LGBTQ+ communities.

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Sexual Liberation Therapist (on Reconnecting with Your Body and Desire)
Q: How should someone start learning to say no and set boundaries without feeling guilty?
Keanu emphasizes honest self-awareness, clear communication, and practice in environments where one can safely exercise boundaries, noting that it's acceptable to take time and use simple, direct statements like 'no, thank you' to protect one's comfort.
Sexual Liberation Therapist (on Reconnecting with Your Body and Desire)
Q: What does being a sexual person in 2026 mean to you, and how are you navigating sexuality in a digital age?
He discusses consent, body autonomy, and the tension between online visibility and genuine self-expression, stressing that power and responsibility come with being open about sexuality while prioritizing safety and mutual respect.
Sexual Liberation Therapist (on Reconnecting with Your Body and Desire)
Q: What was one of the biggest turning points in your life and how did it shape your career?
Keanu describes the passing of his maternal grandmother as a pivotal moment that reframed his priorities toward relationships and community, ultimately guiding him toward therapy and helping others access care in ways that honor lived experiences.
Gay Political Strategist: How to Talk Politics At Brunch
Q: What advice would you give to someone who has turned off the news and feels guilty about it?
Don't feel guilty; instead, establish a healthy consumption habit and take one concrete action related to a topic you care about.
Gay Political Strategist: How to Talk Politics At Brunch
Q: Should gay men be talking about politics on Grindr?
Yes, but with transparency; avoid bait-and-switch tricks, and allow for a candid four-year-cycle view on political engagement.

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The show centers on intimate conversations about relationships, queerness, sex, and community, featuring culture-shaping voices who share practical, stigma-free insights. Episodes blend personal narrative with expert perspectives—from therapists and educators to performers and researchers—to explore how we connect, navigate boundaries, and build meaningful lives in a modern landscape. Noteworthy strengths include a transparent, warm host approach, a willingness to tackle sensitive topics with nuance, and a consistent focus on real-world applications for healthier relationships and inclusive communities.

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1. Dads And Daddies
2. That's A Gay Ass Podcast
3. Good Sod Pod
4. Gay Men Going Deeper
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Getting Close launched 4 months ago and published 18 episodes to date. You can find more information about this podcast including rankings, audience demographics and engagement in our podcast database.

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Recent guests on Getting Close include:

1. Brian Derrick
2. Keanu Jackson
3. Casey Garvey
4. Eric Williams
5. Sandy Gooen
6. Andrew Restieri
7. Rachel Wright
8. Andrew Keenan-Bolger

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