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Friend Crush with Amber Akilla

Amber Akilla
Friendship
Relationships
Mental Health
Quarter Life Crisis
Situationship
Dating
Self-Care
Pole Dance
Personal Growth
Self-Worth
Growth
Career Path
High-Value Woman
Full-Time Work
Freelance Work
Yoga
Community
Self-Awareness
Cheating
Jealousy

Subscriber episodes also available on Patreon! patreon.com/amberakilla

Welcome to Friend Crush with Amber Akilla! I am an Australian Chinese multi-hyphenate working in music and the creative industry. I am currently based in Shanghai, China. This is a space where I share my cute, chaotic and critical thoughts around friendship, love, relationships, dating, memes, pop culture, politics, se... more

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this week’s video is a deeper dive into the first pillar of self-esteem - the practice of living consciously!

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very delayed upload of the last baddie book club discussion session!!!

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Amber Akilla
Host and creator of the show, based in Shanghai, with a focus on friendship, dating, self-empowerment, and pop culture.

Reviews

4.9 out of 5 stars from 452 ratings
  • Best podcast

    Amber is my Plato

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    exmanhater
    United Statesa month ago
  • Amazing tidbits of knowledge that are not extreme (rare these days)

    I love Amber's way of contextualizing things in a way that doesn't shoehorn nuanced situations or people into tight boxes: that just leads to bigotry and further hate down the line. I feel uplifted without needing to put others down. The ONE thing I think would be so helpful for the podcast would be to raise the audio volume to match the decibels of the ads because i often have to crank up the audio to hear Amber and I keep getting jumpscared when the loud ads come on. Other than that, the conte... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    jessicakim07
    United States9 months ago
  • Amazing podcast, episode after episode

    I followed Amber on Tik Tok then decided to check her podcast since I enjoyed her videos on Tik Tok so much. Also just because I’m an astrology girly, she’s a sag I’m pretty sure and I tend to mesh pretty well with sags (I’m a Pisces) and I like their insight about life. Every episode always gives me a lot to things to think about and how I can become a better human and stand in who I am.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    tinker1115nkr
    United States2 years ago
  • On Rotation Mhm!!

    I love the nuisance Amber gives and how she weaves her own personal experiences into it. Also love how the over vibe is chill jeje

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Miyamonrreal
    United States2 years ago
  • insightful

    i always look forward to new episodes! amber is the voice of a generation

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    supernaturallyaddicted
    United States3 years ago

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Listeners appreciate the warm, encouraging vibe and insightful perspectives on relationships and friendships.
Positive feedback highlights motivation and confidence-building themes, with occasional notes on audio quality and production.
Fans praise the host's candid, relatable approach and practical takeaways for self-improvement.

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decentering men while dating, first loves, envy, work crushes, casual hook ups
Q: Why are casual hookups so unfulfilling?
Casual hookups are not meant to be fulfilling; if they leave you feeling empty, it's important to explore other avenues of fulfillment.
decentering men while dating, first loves, envy, work crushes, casual hook ups
Q: Is it possible to be in a relationship with a man while also decentering men?
Decentering men involves placing them appropriately in your life and ensuring mutual respect and growth in the relationship.
decentering men while dating, first loves, envy, work crushes, casual hook ups
Q: How can I ensure that I maintain being hot and having fun even with a man around now?
Maintain pillars in your life that connect you to yourself and prioritize your own interests alongside the relationship.
decentering men while dating, first loves, envy, work crushes, casual hook ups
Q: How have you/should we come to navigate female friendships when learning to descend to romance and relationships?
Friendships may shift during romantic relationships, and it's important to maintain your own needs and redirect focus if necessary.
97 - girl confessions: visa marriage, divorce, celibacy, living with men
Q: Was there an age gap? Like, was he older than you or?
He is four years older than me.

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This show centers on friendship, relationships, dating, self-empowerment, and pop culture through a candid, personal lens. Conversations blend practical guidance with reflections on self-worth, boundaries, and energy management, often framed around everyday experiences, humor, and cultural context. Listeners can expect frank takes on modern dating, friendships evolving over time, and tips for staying authentic while navigating social dynamics. Its unique appeal lies in a warm, breezy delivery from a creator who blends personal storytelling with actionable mindset shifts, empowering listeners to pursue “being hot and having fun” while doing the inner work that underpins healthy connections.

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