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Friend Crush with Amber Akilla

Amber Akilla
Mental Health
Relationships
Friendship
Personal Growth
Authenticity
Self-Love
Social Media
Personal Development
Meditation
Self-Awareness
Self-Empowerment
Confidence
Imposter Syndrome
Boundaries
Community
Self-Care
Creativity
Self-Validation
Self-Esteem
People-Pleasing Dynamics

Subscriber episodes also available on Patreon! patreon.com/amberakilla

Welcome to Friend Crush with Amber Akilla! I am an Australian Chinese multi-hyphenate working in music and the creative industry. I am currently based in Shanghai, China. This is a space where I share my cute, chaotic, creative and critical thoughts around friendship, love, relationships, dating, memes, pop culture, pol... more

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Amber Akilla
Host of Friend Crush with Amber Akilla; creator and primary voice, often leading solo episodes and book-club style discussions.

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4.9 out of 5 stars from 468 ratings
  • Best podcast

    Amber is my Plato

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    exmanhater
    United States5 months ago
  • Amazing tidbits of knowledge that are not extreme (rare these days)

    I love Amber's way of contextualizing things in a way that doesn't shoehorn nuanced situations or people into tight boxes: that just leads to bigotry and further hate down the line. I feel uplifted without needing to put others down. The ONE thing I think would be so helpful for the podcast would be to raise the audio volume to match the decibels of the ads because i often have to crank up the audio to hear Amber and I keep getting jumpscared when the loud ads come on. Other than that, the conte... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    jessicakim07
    United Statesa year ago
  • Amazing podcast, episode after episode

    I followed Amber on Tik Tok then decided to check her podcast since I enjoyed her videos on Tik Tok so much. Also just because I’m an astrology girly, she’s a sag I’m pretty sure and I tend to mesh pretty well with sags (I’m a Pisces) and I like their insight about life. Every episode always gives me a lot to things to think about and how I can become a better human and stand in who I am.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    tinker1115nkr
    United States2 years ago
  • On Rotation Mhm!!

    I love the nuisance Amber gives and how she weaves her own personal experiences into it. Also love how the over vibe is chill jeje

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Miyamonrreal
    United States2 years ago
  • insightful

    i always look forward to new episodes! amber is the voice of a generation

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    supernaturallyaddicted
    United States4 years ago

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decentering men while dating, first loves, envy, work crushes, casual hook ups
Q: Why are casual hookups so unfulfilling?
Casual hookups are not meant to be fulfilling; if they leave you feeling empty, it's important to explore other avenues of fulfillment.
decentering men while dating, first loves, envy, work crushes, casual hook ups
Q: Is it possible to be in a relationship with a man while also decentering men?
Decentering men involves placing them appropriately in your life and ensuring mutual respect and growth in the relationship.
decentering men while dating, first loves, envy, work crushes, casual hook ups
Q: How can I ensure that I maintain being hot and having fun even with a man around now?
Maintain pillars in your life that connect you to yourself and prioritize your own interests alongside the relationship.
decentering men while dating, first loves, envy, work crushes, casual hook ups
Q: How have you/should we come to navigate female friendships when learning to descend to romance and relationships?
Friendships may shift during romantic relationships, and it's important to maintain your own needs and redirect focus if necessary.
97 - girl confessions: visa marriage, divorce, celibacy, living with men
Q: Was there an age gap? Like, was he older than you or?
He is four years older than me.

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What is Friend Crush about and what kind of topics does it cover?

A candid, self-help–leaning show from an Australian-Chinese host based in Shanghai, blending personal stories with practical mindset strategies around friendship, dating, self-empowerment, and pop culture. Episodes center on reframing daily life as a holistic path to “being hot and having fun,” exploring topics from self-esteem and conscious living to boundaries, dating dynamics, and the attention economy. The host's warmth, personal anecdotes, and willingness to tackle societal pressures make this a relatable resource for listeners seeking growth through authentic, imperfect self-expression. Notable touches include integrating book-club style discussions, mindful practices, and a strong stance on living consciously while navigating culture... more

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