次要人生｜Flip Your Mind
倪贝儿这是一档深度心理播客节目。我是贝儿，一位心理咨询师、人生教练，也是一个一直在学习如何成为自己的人。在咨询、教练和创作里，我和很多人一起靠近情绪、关系、自我价值与人生选择；也在自己的生命里，经历过崩塌、重建和重新出发。 《次要人生 Flip Your Mind》不是一档教你“变好”的节目，而是我想用心理学、人本存在取向和真实经验，和你一起换一个角度理解自己。当你不再把自己当成需要被修理的人，当你不再和自己对抗，你就找到了解决当下问题的解法。 如果你也在和自己拉扯——欢迎你来这儿歇一会儿。
| Publishes | Weekly | Episodes | 33 | Founded | 6 months ago |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Language |  ZH-CN | Number of Listeners | Category | Society & Culture |
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🔖 本期主题 「 混合型依恋&不安全感 」
这一期，我想和你聊聊亲密关系里一种很矛盾的状态：我们渴望和一个人亲密，又因为害怕在关系中受伤而撤回。很多人会把自己归类成焦虑型依恋，或者回避型。但在真实的关系里，更常见的可能是两套求生程序同时启动。一个部分在说：你别走，你可不可以永远爱我。另一个部分说：别太需要他，小心掉下悬崖。
这可能是因为，在更早的生命经验里，爱从来不是单独出现的。爱后面可能跟着不可预测、控制、羞耻、责任，甚至恐惧本身。于是，当爱靠近的时候，你的身体同时把它识别成安全，也识别成危... more
🔖 本期主题 「 痛苦与臣服 」
痛苦真的是我们自己创造的吗？我相信痛是不可避免的，但很多时候，真正让我们反复受苦的，是痛发生以后，我们的大脑开始不断解释、预演和对抗。
这一期，借由《当下的力量》和《臣服实验》，我想和你分享：大脑是怎么样骗我们给我们制造出痛苦的？我们总是想要掌控，害怕不确定性到底在保护我们还是在折磨我们？以及，如果不去掌控，那臣服到底是什么意思，他和认命的区别在哪里？
臣服不是放弃自己，而是你决定暂时放下那个一直要掌控剧情走向的执念，然后真正地看看眼前在发生什么。生命之河到底... more
🔖 本期主题 「 真实 」
我们都戴着面具生活。有些面具让我们更稳定、更擅长照顾别人，也曾经帮助我们安全地留在关系里。可当面具戴得太久，我们会慢慢忘记：如果不再从别人的目光里看自己，我到底是谁？
真实不是拒绝改变，也不是把所有情绪毫无保留地交出去。真实更像是：我允许自己被生活打磨，但不再因为羞耻，急着抹掉过去的痕迹。
我们曾经讨好过、脆弱过、笨拙地努力过，也一次次摔倒，又重新站起来。那些痕迹不是失败的证据，而是我们真实存在过的证明。
⏱️ 你会听到：
01:47｜你敢诚实地面对自己吗？
02:... more
🔖 本期主题 「 羞耻感 」
羞耻很少以本身的样子出现。它藏在我们不敢表达的愤怒里，藏在无法表达的需要里。甚至是对自己存在的否定里。
但羞耻感并不是一个需要被彻底消灭的敌人。最羞耻的地方，往往藏着我们最深的渴望。羞耻感就像一床厚棉被，重重盖在了我们最有生命力的地方。
这一期，我想和你聊聊：健康羞耻和毒性羞耻有什么区别？为什么讨好、完美主义、自我攻击和拖延背后，常常藏着同一种羞耻？
我想邀请你去感受呼吸时你的胸腔扩张的感觉。那是你的身体，在教你如何尽情地去感受你的存在。你的存在本身就和你的呼吸一... more
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