次要人生｜Flip Your Mind
倪贝儿这是一档深度心理播客节目。我是贝儿，一位心理咨询师、人生教练，也是一个一直在学习如何成为自己的人。在咨询、教练和创作里，我和很多人一起靠近情绪、关系、自我价值与人生选择；也在自己的生命里，经历过崩塌、重建和重新出发。 《次要人生 Flip Your Mind》不是一档教你“变好”的节目，而是我想用心理学、人本存在取向和真实经验，和你一起换一个角度理解自己。当你不再把自己当成需要被修理的人，当你不再和自己对抗，你就找到了解决当下问题的解法。 如果你也在和自己拉扯——欢迎你来这儿歇一会儿。
| Publishes | Weekly | Episodes | 36 | Founded | 6 months ago |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Language |  ZH-CN | Number of Listeners | Category | Society & Culture |
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🔖 本期主题 「整合能力」
我越来越觉得，很多不同的问题——焦虑、亲密关系、自我价值感、完美主义...走到最后，都会碰到同一个地方：当我们心里出现两种甚至更多真实的感受，而它们彼此冲突的时候，我们能不能允许它们同时存在？
很多时候，让我们痛苦的并不是矛盾本身，而是我们太想在矛盾里立刻选出一个正确答案，然后消灭另一个自己。所以，整合不是看开、接纳、凡事都有两面性。而是：我终于有一个更大的心理空间，能够放得下复杂的自己、复杂的关系、复杂的世界。
这一期，我们会聊：整合能力到底是什么？为什么人在心理... more
🔖 本期主题 「主体性」
这一期，我想和你聊聊全网疯狂传播的「主体性」。我不觉得这个世界上会有人没有主体性。就算我们在贫瘠的土壤里成长，我们依然有主体性，只不过它是一种“以他人为中心”的主体性。而如果我们把它变成了一个新的自我成长 KPI，你就会失去它真正的力量。
我想从哲学和心理学的视角，和你一起重新理解：真正的主体性到底是什么？为什么创伤不会消灭主体性，而是改变了主体性的用途？以及一个成熟的主体性该如何发展？在本质上，主体性是一个动态的过程，是你在不断地参与：「我如何理解我，如何回应我，如... more
🔖 本期主题 「 行动力 」
这一期，我想带你用系统化的视角来看看行动力。当你感觉到停滞、被卡住的时候，并不是懒或者拖延。其实是这个行动还没有被你的内在系统允许发生。
通过内在渴望、内在冲突、身心能量状态、自我证明和习得性无助这五层系统，你也许会获得一个新的视角来重新理解自己的停滞。
当你看懂被卡住背后的逻辑，停滞就不再是失败。它反而是你的生命为你创造的一个绝佳的成长机会。它通过给你制造阻力的方式告诉你：Hey，请诚实的面对你的内心。请不要再继续浪费时间去做那些你根本不想要的事情。
⏱️ 你会... more
🔖 本期主题 「 混合型依恋&不安全感 」
这一期，我想和你聊聊亲密关系里一种很矛盾的状态：我们渴望和一个人亲密，又因为害怕在关系中受伤而撤回。很多人会把自己归类成焦虑型依恋，或者回避型。但在真实的关系里，更常见的可能是两套求生程序同时启动。一个部分在说：你别走，你可不可以永远爱我。另一个部分说：别太需要他，小心掉下悬崖。
这可能是因为，在更早的生命经验里，爱从来不是单独出现的。爱后面可能跟着不可预测、控制、羞耻、责任，甚至恐惧本身。于是，当爱靠近的时候，你的身体同时把它识别成安全，也识别成危... more
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