
Beyond the Facade explores authenticity, healing, and recovery from betrayal trauma, sexual addiction, and infidelity. Host Luke Gordon, cofounder of Choose Recovery Services, and his guests share tools for addiction recovery, relationship repair, and emotional healing. Learn to rebuild trust, live with integrity, and create authentic connections as you heal from pain and go Beyond the Facade.
| Publishes | Weekly | Episodes | 105 | Founded | 3 years ago |
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| Number of Listeners | Categories | RelationshipsSociety & Culture | |||

Recovery isn't won in the moment you resist temptation—it begins long before the urge ever appears.
This week Luke Gordon explores why relapse is rarely an isolated event. Instead, acting outside your values is often the final step in a much longer ... more
Many people spend years reading books, listening to podcasts, attending therapy, and understanding addiction. Yet they still feel stuck.
This week Luke and Alana explain why information alone never creates transformation—and what actually does.
You... more
Most men were never taught how to identify their emotions—and that missing skill can quietly fuel addiction, disconnection, and destructive coping patterns.
This week Luke explores why emotional awareness is one of the most important foundations of ... more
You've read the books. Gone to therapy. Joined groups. Learned the language of recovery. And yet, you're still stuck.
In this episode, we explore a painful question many men quietly carry:
"Why am I still struggling?"
This week we unpack why recov... more
What happens when the acting out stops—but everything still feels broken?
This week Luke and Scott Blundo (fellow Choose Recovery Services coach) explore the difference between sobriety and recovery.
Many betrayed partners expect life to improve on... more
Why does an emotionally shut down man struggle to change—even when he genuinely wants to?
In this follow-up episode, Luke and Alana respond to listener questions about emotional shutdown, nervous system healing, and what recovery actually looks like... more
What actually makes a good CSAT therapist?
In this episode, Luke Gordon and Jacob Fletcher (CSAT and fellow Choose Recovery Services coach), unpack the major differences between recovery approaches in pornography addiction and compulsive sexual beha... more
When betrayal enters a family, children often carry invisible pain. This week Luke joins Amie and Alana on their podcast (Choose To Be) to talk about his personal experience with how to repair after betrayal.
Listen in as he shares what his experien... more
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This show centers on healing from betrayal trauma, sexual addiction, and infidelity, with a practical focus on turning insights into action. Across episodes, hosts and guest experts share tools for emotional regulation, somatic healing, and relationship repair, often tying recovery practices to real-world programs and structured groups. The conversations blend clinical perspectives, personal journeys, and program details to help listeners move from awareness to durable change, with happening emphasis on safety, accountability, and embodied practice. A notable strength is the consistent integration of somatic modalities (breathwork, nervous-system regulation) alongside traditional therapeutic approaches, plus clear invitations to participate... more
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Recent guests on this podcast include:
1. Scott Blundo
2. Ryan Collins
3. Steven Roccazzella
4. Hallie Roderick
5. Michelle Mays
6. Izzy Williams
7. Sy Bee
8. Stephen Thomas
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