
Choose to Be is about healing, growth, and choosing recovery after betrayal trauma, sexual addiction, and infidelity. Hosts share insights on emotional healing, authentic relationships, and the journey of rebuilding trust. Learn tools for self-compassion, integrity, and trust-building as you heal from pain and reclaim hope, peace, and connection. Alana Gordon-LMFT, CCPS, CSAT candidate, Betrayal C... more
| Publishes | Weekly | Episodes | 308 | Founded | 6 years ago |
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| Number of Listeners | Categories | Health & FitnessMental Health | |||

What does an emotionally shut down man actually look like?
Spoiler:Usually not what people think.
In this powerful conversation, Luke and Alana explore the hidden reality of emotional shutdown in men—especially the high-performing, successful men w... more
What if you're not healing wrong?
After betrayal, many people compare their recovery journey to others and wonder if they're making the right decisions. Whether it's disclosure, separation, therapy, support groups, or boundaries, it's easy to get ca... more
You’ve done therapy. Communication is improving. The triggers aren’t as constant anymore. So why does emotional connection still feel difficult?
This week, Alana explores the hidden layers of betrayal trauma that continue impacting intimacy long aft... more
Even after trust is rebuilt, many couples still struggle to feel deeply connected.
In this episode, Alana and Hali, Choose Recovery Services coach, explore the hidden barriers to intimacy after betrayal trauma — including nervous system dysregulatio... more
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This is one of THE best podcasts on affair recovery. Especially with their Christian background. I have had so many lightbulb moments and tearful reactions. Thank you for ALL you do to help ❤️🩹
Wonderful Podcast full of truth and empowering information. I’ve received alot of hope from this podcast.
This podcast has been such a source of comfort to me. Knowing that there are strong, wise women out there who’ve been down this road is so valuable. Amy and Alana truly get the pain, they validate the feelings, and they provide context for wherever you are on this journey. I have listened and listened again… THANK YOU!!
I typed in healing after divorce and came across your channel. Listening to women share their stories from the other side of the season I am in right now has been so empowering. I am so broken and needed this 🙌🏼
I am so grateful I found this podcast! So real and honest.. this is beneficial for healing in all areas of addiction and recovery!! Thank you both for your knowledge and dedication to sharing your experiences to help others see hope in their pain.
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This show centers on healing from betrayal, infidelity, and sexual addiction, offering practical tools for self-compassion, boundaries, and trust-building. Across episodes, listeners hear from clinicians, coaches, and survivors who share evidence-based approaches, personal journeys, and actionable strategies for navigating trauma, repairing relationships, and supporting children through turmoil. A standout strength is the integration of somatic practices and experiential programs (retreats and intensives) that emphasize nervous-system regulation, group support, and real-world application. The format blends expert guidance with relatable storytelling, making complex healing concepts accessible to betrayed partners, families, and professional... more
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1. Betrayal Recovery Radio: The Official Podcast of APSATS
2. Helping Couples Heal Podcast
3. Beyond the Facade with Choose Recovery Services
4. Porn, Betrayal, Sex and the Experts — PBSE
5. Heal from Infidelity: Reclaiming Your Peace, Power, and Self-Trust After Betrayal
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Recent guests on Choose To Be include:
1. Hali Roderick
2. Terri Cole
3. Sarah McDugal
4. Morgan Ellsworth
5. Hannah Gordon
6. Ellia Marcum
7. Hallie Roderick
8. Kim Brown
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