
Chris and Lisa of BeenThereGotOut.com both survived toxic marriages with narcissistic partners and the legal and co-parenting nightmares that go hand-in-hand with all of that.If you are struggling in a high-conflict relationship, divorce, custody battle, or co-parenting hell which requires PERSONALIZED attention, let us HOLD YOUR HAND along the way, while providing EXPERT, STRATEGIC guidance based... more
| Publishes | Twice weekly | Episodes | 390 | Founded | 4 years ago |
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| Number of Listeners | Categories | Self-ImprovementEducationHealth & FitnessMental Health | |||

You've been out of the relationship for years. So why does your ex's voice still feel like it's squatting between your ears?
If you replay old arguments at 2 a.m., wonder what you did wrong, or feel like you're always one mistake away from getting i... more
This conversation discusses domestic violence and the deaths of two children. Please take care of yourself as you watch, and pause whenever you need to.
On June 22, 2026, Arizona's domestic violence custody law changed, and it changed because of a m... more
Why do smart, successful, accomplished women stay in abusive relationships? And why does the shame feel even heavier when everyone thinks you have the perfect life?
In this honest conversation, Lisa talks with Machan Taylor, a professional singer wh... more
"Your life is in my hands" is the worst thing a client can say to their lawyer, according to family law attorney James Lea. And after 45 years in courtrooms, he has heard it plenty.
If you're facing a high-conflict divorce or custody battle, the att... more
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Lisa is a fabulous host. She asked thoughtful questions that elicited insights pertinent to her audience, and guided the conversation with skill and empathy.
Warning avoid SD Family Services and Premela Deck (MA)
Just because she goes by Dr. Deck does not make her qualified to speak on the topic of reunification. Premela Deck is a family law attorney first and foremost. While working with my family, she stepped way outside of her scope and court appointment creating a much bigger mess than was initially presented to her.
Her prices are exorbitant and they are constantly trying to upsell services. Premela has "contracts" she asks each new parent pa... more
I had a wonderful experience with Lisa and Chris exploring the machinations of narcissistic abuse in the realm of spiritual and religious frameworks. They are organized, sincere, welcoming and insightful. There platform is a source of respite for trauma survivors of narcissistic abuse who are navigating recovery and family litigation. I'm looking forward to listening to the interview when its released!
I was so infuriated by episode 286 I almost didn’t get through it. No wonder Lisa stepped away. “Women kill the men they’ve attracted, metaphorically” ARE YOU KIDDING ME…. My ex obviously got this guys book, and he’s excellent at those accusation(admissions). I found this guest way beyond disappointing, and only confirms the games we all know are being played in front of court… simply inflammatory. Please do better.
Love the support Lisa and Chris’ podcast provides!!! So helpful!
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High-scarcity conflict topics anchor this show: hosts draw on personal experience surviving narcissistic partnerships and messy custody battles to help others navigate high-conflict relationships, divorce, and co-parenting. Episodes consistently feature experts from law, therapy, and child-focused advocacy, offering practical strategies around mediation, reunification therapy, parenting plans, and trauma-informed care. Noteworthy is the emphasis on compassionate, evidence-based approaches and a preference for actionable tools—ranging from negotiation tactics to somatic techniques—that listeners can apply in real-world separations and court processes. The show frequently centers child welfare, safe co-parenting, and reducing litigation throu... more
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