
Welcome to the only podcast exploring the messiness, awesomeness, of masculinity of being a gay man over 40. Each episode is about sparking idea, addressing challenges, and diving deep into what it looks like to be a vulnerable gay guy. We talk about the stuff us gay guys have a hard time talking about, man-to-man: masculinity, sex, careers, our bodies, parenting, sexuality, failures, success, and... more
| Publishes | Weekly | Episodes | 300 | Founded | 7 years ago |
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| Number of Listeners | Categories | SexualityHealth & FitnessSociety & Culture | |||

Most gay men do not have a conflict problem. They have a conversation problem. Joshua Johnson spent 25 years in journalism learning why people cannot talk to each other, then turned it into a TED Talk. The former NPR and MSNBC anchor joins Rick to br... more
David Lauterstein co-founded Nasty Pig, one of the most unapologetically sex-positive brands in queer history. Everyone expected his first book to be about that. Instead he wrote Sodomy Gods, a love story about meeting his husband Fred in the 1990s, ... more
Gay men over 40 have been running from shame their entire lives. Frank Spinelli says that is exactly the wrong move. As a physician, survivor, and author of The Shame Compass, Frank has spent decades watching gay men mistake shame for the enemy when ... more
Dr. Myron Krys calls himself and loneliness bedfellows. He knows it from the inside, and he sees it every day in his therapy practice with gay men who look like they have it all.
Krys explains why open relationships, packed calendars, and career win... more
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Thank you so much, Rick, for having me on your podcast. I genuinely enjoyed our conversation and appreciated the thoughtful, open space you created to explore these topics!!
Your questions made for a meaningful conversation and I hope listeners walk away feeling less ashamed and better equipped to understand what their bodies have been trying to tell them :-)
Thank you again for the invitation. It was truly a pleasure & I'd love the opportunity to join you again in the future.
Rick,
As a gay elder who has spent a career in education and mental health I was hoping to fall in love with this podcast. Instead I find myself irritated and annoyed with your self promoting. Each time you interview a guest you continue to take over the conversation with your own personal experiences and stories. Ex. “I did this wonderful thing with a client, I give 10% of my trip costs to LGBTQ advocacy, etc.”
It becomes more about you than the podcast subject matter or the guests and informa... more
Rick creates a space where you can be honest about things that aren’t always easy to talk about. He asks thoughtful questions and helps you see things from a new perspective. If you’re navigating identity, relationships, or major life changes later in life, he’s a great person to have in your corner.
Rick makes his guests feel at ease and knows how to guide a solid interview
Such a wonderful podcast. Rick brings real conversations, real experiences, and a refreshing honesty that hits exactly what so many men are thinking about. Insightful, relatable, and always worth the listen.
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This show centers on men's experiences as gay adults aged 40 and up, tackling topics from sexuality, intimacy, and aging to careers, masculinity, and relationships. Conversations are intimate, often vulnerable, and grounded in real-world experiences, with guests ranging from authors and activists to therapists and educators who bring practical wisdom to living authentically. A standout pattern is the mix of personal storytelling with actionable guidance, plus a consistently supportive host who guides meaningful, no-nonsense dialogue. The format tends to be topic-focused and accessible, making it a solid fit for listeners seeking frank discussions about navigating life as a gay man over 40 and for brands seeking empathetic, relationship-forw... more
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