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40 Plus: Gay Men. Gay Talk.

Rick Clemons
Mental Health
Coming Out
Aging
LGBTQ Community
Masculinity
Authenticity
Sexuality
Gay Community
Self-Acceptance
LGBTQ+ Community
Sexual Health
Personal Growth
Loneliness
Intimacy
AIDS Crisis
Relationships
LGBTQ Rights
Community Support
HIV
Mindfulness

Welcome to the only podcast exploring the messiness, awesomeness, of masculinity of being a gay man over 40. Each episode is about sparking idea, addressing challenges, and diving deep into what it looks like to be a vulnerable gay guy. We talk about the stuff us gay guys have a hard time talking about, man-to-man: masculinity, sex, careers, our bodies, parenting, sexuality, failures, success, and... more

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Latest Episodes

Most gay men do not have a conflict problem. They have a conversation problem. Joshua Johnson spent 25 years in journalism learning why people cannot talk to each other, then turned it into a TED Talk. The former NPR and MSNBC anchor joins Rick to br... more

David Lauterstein co-founded Nasty Pig, one of the most unapologetically sex-positive brands in queer history. Everyone expected his first book to be about that. Instead he wrote Sodomy Gods, a love story about meeting his husband Fred in the 1990s, ... more

Gay men over 40 have been running from shame their entire lives. Frank Spinelli says that is exactly the wrong move. As a physician, survivor, and author of The Shame Compass, Frank has spent decades watching gay men mistake shame for the enemy when ... more

Dr. Myron Krys calls himself and loneliness bedfellows. He knows it from the inside, and he sees it every day in his therapy practice with gay men who look like they have it all.

Krys explains why open relationships, packed calendars, and career win... more

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Recent Guests

Frank Spinelli
MD, author of The Shame Compass and Pee-Shy, advocate for men's health
Author/Physician
Episode: Frank Spinelli on Shame, Trauma, and Why Gay Men Over 40 Are Reading the Wrong Map
Dr. Myron Krys
Psychotherapist specializing in LGBTQ+, open relationships, and neurodivergence
Private practice / Dr. MK
Episode: Dr. Myron Krys: Successful, Wanted, And Still Alone
Colin Belcourt
Author of The Blue Hour Gospel; queer writer based in Canada
Author
Episode: Colin Belcourt: Queer Shame, Self-Erasure, and Stop Cleaning Up Your Story
Brad Ryan
Author, conservationist, veterinarian, LGBTQ community member
Conservationist; Grandmother Joy book author
Episode: Brad Ryan: 63 National Parks, One Grandmother, and the Healing Gay Men Stop Believing In
Skip Sams
Founder/leader of the Gay Men of Integrity Leadership Summit
Gay Men of Integrity Leadership Summit
Episode: Stop Negotiating Which Version of You Shows Up – Skip Sams
Fran Frye
Mental health advocate, sex educator, counselor
Episode: Your Body Is Lying to You About Sex: Fran Frye Breaks Down What’s Really Happening For Gay Men
Huck Smith
Author of Boys, Bars, and Becoming
Author, Writer
Episode: The Quiet Parts Out Loud: Huck Smith on Gay Dating, Bar Culture, and Becoming Real
Dr. Nas Mohamed
Medical doctor and LGBT civil rights activist; President of Alwan Foundation
Alwan Foundation
Episode: The Warning Signs Are Here: Dr. Nas Mohamed on LGBTQ Rights, Authoritarianism, and Gay Complacency
Steven C. Law
Massachusetts resident with a story to tell; author of The Story of Bob; long-time partner of Donald
Artist and author
Episode: Steven C. Law Spent 45 Years Loving the Same Man. Here Is What He Wants Gay Men Over 40 to Know.

Host

Rick Clemens
Host of the show who welcomes guests and steers the conversation

Reviews

4.5 out of 5 stars from 242 ratings
  • Thank you for having me!

    Thank you so much, Rick, for having me on your podcast. I genuinely enjoyed our conversation and appreciated the thoughtful, open space you created to explore these topics!!

    Your questions made for a meaningful conversation and I hope listeners walk away feeling less ashamed and better equipped to understand what their bodies have been trying to tell them :-)

    Thank you again for the invitation. It was truly a pleasure & I'd love the opportunity to join you again in the future.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Fran Frye
    United States2 months ago
  • Let your guests shine

    Rick,

    As a gay elder who has spent a career in education and mental health I was hoping to fall in love with this podcast. Instead I find myself irritated and annoyed with your self promoting. Each time you interview a guest you continue to take over the conversation with your own personal experiences and stories. Ex. “I did this wonderful thing with a client, I give 10% of my trip costs to LGBTQ advocacy, etc.”

    It becomes more about you than the podcast subject matter or the guests and informa... more

    Apple Podcasts
    1
    NickW1968
    United States3 months ago
  • Great coach for navigating big life changes

    Rick creates a space where you can be honest about things that aren’t always easy to talk about. He asks thoughtful questions and helps you see things from a new perspective. If you’re navigating identity, relationships, or major life changes later in life, he’s a great person to have in your corner.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Steve Rossillo(Ro-sil-O)
    United States6 months ago
  • Awesome interviewer

    Rick makes his guests feel at ease and knows how to guide a solid interview

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Ridleyk
    United States7 months ago
  • Amazing Host & Great Content!

    Such a wonderful podcast. Rick brings real conversations, real experiences, and a refreshing honesty that hits exactly what so many men are thinking about. Insightful, relatable, and always worth the listen.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    BraedenT98
    United States10 months ago

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Some criticism notes the host can dominate conversations, though many reviews highlight strong interview quality and meaningful content.
Listeners praise the host for thoughtful, honest conversations and practical takeaways.
Guests and topics are described as relatable and valuable for navigating life as a gay man over 40.

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Colin Belcourt: Queer Shame, Self-Erasure, and Stop Cleaning Up Your Story
Q: How did you handle intimate or traumatic material in the book, and what made you push through the emotional labor?
He describes two particularly traumatic experiences, the first of which was emotionally overwhelming; he chose to persist because sharing the full spectrum was essential to conveying truth and fostering understanding.
Colin Belcourt: Queer Shame, Self-Erasure, and Stop Cleaning Up Your Story
Q: What inspired you to write The Blue Hour Gospel and present each chapter in a different medium?
Colin explains that the project emerged from a desire to honor pre-digital storytelling forms and to reflect how diverse mediums can capture different facets of a queer life, while staying rooted in his personal experiences and traumas.
Your Body Is Lying to You About Sex: Fran Frye Breaks Down What’s Really Happening For Gay Men
Q: What would you like the guys to feel that you could really bring to the table?
Fran emphasizes creating a safe space for talking about sexuality, shame, and trauma, and offering practical tools through coaching to develop emotional literacy and healthier sexual dynamics.
Your Body Is Lying to You About Sex: Fran Frye Breaks Down What’s Really Happening For Gay Men
Q: So what was the spark for you Fran?
Fran describes a calling rooted in helping people, overcoming her own trauma as a rape survivor, and finding meaning in toxic patriarchal norms by advocating for emotional and sexual health, especially for men.
The Quiet Parts Out Loud: Huck Smith on Gay Dating, Bar Culture, and Becoming Real
Q: How did Huck's book come together and what was the process like?
Huck describes an evolution from hospital experiences and essays to a cohesive collection; editing and ordering the essays shaped a true story arc, with a forthcoming second book continuing that format.

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What is 40 Plus: Gay Men. Gay Talk. about and what kind of topics does it cover?

This show centers on men's experiences as gay adults aged 40 and up, tackling topics from sexuality, intimacy, and aging to careers, masculinity, and relationships. Conversations are intimate, often vulnerable, and grounded in real-world experiences, with guests ranging from authors and activists to therapists and educators who bring practical wisdom to living authentically. A standout pattern is the mix of personal storytelling with actionable guidance, plus a consistently supportive host who guides meaningful, no-nonsense dialogue. The format tends to be topic-focused and accessible, making it a solid fit for listeners seeking frank discussions about navigating life as a gay man over 40 and for brands seeking empathetic, relationship-forw... more

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Recent guests on 40 Plus: Gay Men. Gay Talk. include:

1. Frank Spinelli
2. Dr. Myron Krys
3. Colin Belcourt
4. Brad Ryan
5. Skip Sams
6. Fran Frye
7. Huck Smith
8. Dr. Nas Mohamed

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