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A "must-listen-to" podcast on dating abuse and domestic violence, also known as intimate partner violence. . Hosted by Bill Mitchell, author of the memoir, WHEN DATING HURTS (Amazon), this book is about the murder of his daughter by her ex-boyfriend. Bill and his wife, Michele, lost Kristin to dating violence. She was brutally murdered in June 2005, just 20 days after her college graduation. FACT:... more

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We are bringing back one of our most educational episodes. It was recorded a few years back soon after we met Nurse Laura Clary at the Greater Baltimore Medical Center. Listen to Ms.Clary and see domestic violence from her point of view as a professi... more

In this episode, you will hear what the world says about WHEN DATING HURTS heading into 2026.

An open-ended search underscored what we have been trying to accomplish is being achieved. We could not be happier. You should listen.

We gathered a lot o... more

Has it ended? Not yet. Not in the mind of Marcus.

We are re-releasing this episode because it is so strong showing the warning signs we mention so often on WHEN DATING HURTS.

Jill began dating Marcus when she was 16. He was a few years older but se... more

On our "End of 2025" episode, it's just me answering your questions. I hope this is the kind of information you would like to hear.

The questions are ones I hear most often from listeners.

I hope you have a healthy and happy holiday season. This ti... more

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Anne Wintemute
Co-founder and CEO of Aimee Says, passionate about transforming conversations around intimate partner violence
Aimee Says
Episode: 294. Anne Wintemute - Pt 1 of 2 Pts - Co-Founder and CEO of "Aimee Says"
Michael Clark
An abuser turned author and advocate for change in the narrative around dating abuse, he heads the Ananias Foundation and has written books on the subject.
Ananias Foundation
Episode: 290. Michael Clark - Pt 2 of 2 - More about His Transformation from a DV Offender
Hannah Hembree Bell
Divorce lawyer who learned the hard way and now helps others navigate the divorce process.
Hembree Bell Law
Episode: 280. Hannah Hembree Bell - Lessons from a Divorce Lawyer Who Learned the Hard Way
Sean Johnson
Host of Control the Freak Podcast, speaks on control and dominance in relationships
Control the Freak
Episode: 265. Sean Johnson, Host of the "ControltheFreak" Podcast (London)
Bruce Bieber
Father who lost his daughter to murder at the hands of her boyfriend
Episode: 267. Bruce Bieber - Lost His Daughter to OIDV (Officer-Involved Domestic Violence)
Caroline Orman
Domestic violence survivor and author of The Other Side Of Fear.
Episode: 266. Caroline Orman - Domestic Violence Survivor and Author of "The Other Side of Fear"
Michele Locke
Lawyer, former judge, and domestic violence survivor.
Episode: 261. Michele Locke - Her Return Interview - Lawyer, Judge, Mother and DV Survivor
Cait Alexander
A survivor of intimate partner violence and advocate for reform in the justice system following her trauma and abusive relationship.
Episode: 256. Cait Alexander - Pt 1 of 2 Pts - Almost Murdered by Her Ex but Case Never Saw Justice
Anna Astwood
Dating violence survivor and co-founder of Love Doesn't Hurt
Love Doesn't Hurt
Episode: 219. Anna Astwood - Pt 2 of 2 - Once a Dating Violence Victim. Today, an Active Survivor.

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Bill Mitchell
Host of a podcast focused on raising awareness about dating abuse and domestic violence, drawing from personal experience after the tragic loss of his daughter.

Reviews

4.7 out of 5 stars from 697 ratings
  • Love the content, but….

    So glad you removed the three episodes about the “reformed” domestic abuser - I wouldn’t even listen to them because we KNOW they don’t change.

    Also, you need a better editor!!! There are so many parts repeated or out of order, on so many episodes, that it makes it hard to follow. The most recent episode just ends abruptly, mid sentence!!

    So annoying - but I do love the content and can relate to a lot of these survivor’s stories.

    Apple Podcasts
    4
    LTMFBH
    United Statesa month ago
  • Oddly Comforting and Very Important to Educate All of Us

    I can’t remember how I found this podcast, but it’s been healing for me to hear so many others’ stories. I think I find a bit (or more than a bit) of myself in every episode. It is such a worthy project. Super job.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    O. My. Words
    United States3 months ago
  • Healing

    This podcast has been very healing for me as a survivor myself. Even after being out for 3 years I still question if it was abusive and man listening to these stories makes me realize 100% that it was. It’s important for victims to know they are not alone. Thanks❤️

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Meegs73
    United States3 months ago
  • The laughter

    I’m two episodes in (starting from newer episodes) and all of the laughter from the guests when describing this is distracting. Maybe it’s nervous laughter, or embarrassing recounting these memories.

    Apple Podcasts
    2
    ms_tlc
    United States5 months ago
  • Eye opening

    I heard your story on “what was that like.” I’d like to say that I’ve never been in an abusive relationship but I do not believe that is the case. I was raised by my dad, throwing hay bales, steer wrestling and being the son he never had. Thus far, I’ve been able to stand toe to toe with anyone I’ve ever dated if I had to. I believe because of my upbringing my chapter ended way different than most. That doesn’t negate the fact that I did, in fact, physically fight my way out of it. I never once... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    HollyDMcD
    United States5 months ago

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Listeners find the survivor stories both healing and empowering, emphasizing the importance of shared experiences in recognizing the reality of dating abuse.
The podcast is praised for being educational and essential, shedding light on the intricacies of abusive relationships and the support systems available.

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302. Re-Releasing "Jill" - An Abusive Relationship That Ended 31 Years Ago. Or Did It?
Q: What would you advise someone in similar circumstances?
Try to find someone you can trust and remember it's not as simple as just leaving.
302. Re-Releasing "Jill" - An Abusive Relationship That Ended 31 Years Ago. Or Did It?
Q: Did you ever contact a domestic violence agency and just kind of say, what can you do for me?
Jill explained that there weren't a lot of resources at the time and most were focused on women and children in living situations.
299. End of 2025 Wrap-Up with WDH Host, Bill Mitchell
Q: How much longer will you stay podcasting When Dating Hurts?
I have no end point in mind at all. Podcast continues to grow, and I'll continue to be the host as long as there is an audience out there listening to us.
299. End of 2025 Wrap-Up with WDH Host, Bill Mitchell
Q: Where are you when you do the interviews?
I'm in my office at home while my guests could be anywhere around the world.
299. End of 2025 Wrap-Up with WDH Host, Bill Mitchell
Q: Why are there so few male survivors on the podcast?
Domestic violence is embarrassing to begin with for a lot of people who are suffering from it, and many men find it too shameful to talk publicly about their experiences.

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Focusing on the urgent issues of dating abuse and domestic violence, this podcast aims to raise awareness surrounding intimate partner violence by sharing powerful survivor stories and expert insights. The content spans a variety of themes related to the traumatic effects of abuse, the psychological and emotional impacts on victims, and the societal challenges in recognizing and addressing this pervasive issue. Unique episodes feature in-depth discussions with survivors, advocates, law enforcement officials, and mental health professionals, creating a diverse platform for education and understanding where listeners can gain invaluable support and knowledge about the experiences often hidden from public view. In a compassionate and engaging ... more

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1. Anne Wintemute
2. Michael Clark
3. Hannah Hembree Bell
4. Sean Johnson
5. Bruce Bieber
6. Caroline Orman
7. Michele Locke
8. Cait Alexander

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