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A "must-listen-to" podcast on dating abuse and domestic violence, also known as intimate partner violence. .

Hosted by Bill Mitchell, author of the memoir, WHEN DATING HURTS (Amazon), this book is about the murder of his daughter by her ex-boyfriend.

Bill and his wife, Michele, lost Kristin to dating violence. She was brutally murdered in June 2005, just 20 days after her college graduation.

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This is a short overview about psychological abuse.

It is for the person who is still deciding whether the behavior of a partner is just bothersome or some kind of abuse. It is also information for friends who are worried that someone they know migh... more

CAUTION: This episode of WHEN DATING HURTS comes with a list of trigger warnings. There is adult language, several sexual situations and descriptions. There are several occurrences describing suicidal ideation. There is also a description of over dri... more

Tara Shuler managed to survive a dangerous marriage that nearly killed her.

What she learned she put into a book she calls, "Exit Strategy: The Conversations That Got Me Out Alive."

Her years as a sales trainer helped her survive abuse. And now she... more

This episode comes with a long list of warning signs. The graphic descriptions of domestic violence in this survivor story can be triggering to some. There are instances of "adult language", as well. But the scenes depicted needed to be included so l... more

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Recent Guests

Tara Shuler
Sales trainer and author of Exit Strategy: The Conversations That Got Me Out Alive
Episode: 394. Tara Shuler - She Negotiated Her Way Out of Dangerous Marriage Conversations
Chynna Ratner
Survivor of abuse by Daniel Leyden and advocate who shared her experience publicly
Episode: 378. Re-Release - Bruce Lost His Daughter to Officer-Involved Domestic Violence
Bruce Bieber
Father of Abby Bieber and advocate for policies addressing officer-involved domestic violence
Episode: 378. Re-Release - Bruce Lost His Daughter to Officer-Involved Domestic Violence
Michele Locke
Survivor, lawyer, and former judge in Texas
Episode: 399. Michele Locke interviews Bill Mitchell for the "LoveLustLaw" Podcast
Callie O'Reilly
Author of Let Me Down: Reflections on Abuse and Love
Author, Let Me Down
Episode: 395. Callie O’Reilly – A University Student’s Story of Love, Manipulation, Consent & Shame
Patricia Gordon Stevens
Survivor of dating violence and author
Madness in Memphis (novel)
Episode: 393. Patricia Gordon Stevens - Leaving: The Fear, Shame & Coercive Control Follow After You Escape
Sunshine Faye
survivor and author featured on the episode
The Manipulation Whisperer / Sunshine Faye's Podcast
Episode: 390. Sunshine Faye - Pt 2 of 2 Pts - She Owned Her Mistakes, Danced With the Devil, and Became The Manipulation Whisperer
Lisa Ortiz
Author, survivor advocate, founder and executive director of She Wore Scars Foundation
Self-identified through interview
Episode: 379. Lisa Ortiz - Survivor Story of Hitting Rock Bottom and Choosing to Live
Rebecca Lazzelle
Author, retreat host, and energy healing practitioner
What the F*** Was That? memoir; energy healing practice
Episode: 382. Rebecca Lazzelle - Pt 2 of 2 Pts - Surviving Financial Abuse, Emotional Betrayal & Near-Fatal Violence

Host

Bill Mitchell
Author and advocate for dating abuse and domestic violence awareness

Reviews

4.7 out of 5 stars from 753 ratings
  • Thoughtful and sensitive

    I have a lot of respect for Bill’s commitment to honouring survivors and spreading awareness on intimate partner abuse. Having listened to a lot of episodes it’s really helpful to hear those emerging patterns that typify these dynamics, regardless of the abuser or type of abuse being perpetrated. Bill handles these thoughtfully and I’m grateful for his work in this sphere.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    diminutiveaurochs
    United Kingdom4 months ago
  • Love it! (Volume issues tho)

    I love the details and information! Bill is kind and down to earth dSD who just wants to find out and help others learn the signs of potential violence/red flags. Only concern is the volume on the podcast is quiet and the commercials are DEAFENING 🤪 I am only in 2024 episodes so maybe it gets better?

    Thanks!

    Apple Podcasts
    4
    AlexSchmit Review
    United States7 months ago
  • Love the content, but….

    So glad you removed the three episodes about the “reformed” domestic abuser - I wouldn’t even listen to them because we KNOW they don’t change.

    Also, you need a better editor!!! There are so many parts repeated or out of order, on so many episodes, that it makes it hard to follow. The most recent episode just ends abruptly, mid sentence!!

    So annoying - but I do love the content and can relate to a lot of these survivor’s stories.

    Apple Podcasts
    4
    LTMFBH
    United Statesa year ago
  • Oddly Comforting and Very Important to Educate All of Us

    I can’t remember how I found this podcast, but it’s been healing for me to hear so many others’ stories. I think I find a bit (or more than a bit) of myself in every episode. It is such a worthy project. Super job.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    O. My. Words
    United Statesa year ago
  • Healing

    This podcast has been very healing for me as a survivor myself. Even after being out for 3 years I still question if it was abusive and man listening to these stories makes me realize 100% that it was. It’s important for victims to know they are not alone. Thanks❤️

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Meegs73
    United Statesa year ago

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Many describe the candid accounts and host's commitment to awareness as compassionate, important and healing.
Some listeners find the host's interruptions and follow-up style distracting or insensitive, despite recognizing his dedication to the subject.
Audio levels and editing draw recurring criticism, especially when guests are hard to hear or commercial breaks are much louder.
Listeners value the survivor stories and practical education on warning signs, abuse dynamics and how to support someone safely.

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394. Tara Shuler - She Negotiated Her Way Out of Dangerous Marriage Conversations
Q: Do you think if someone came to you with one of these situations? You know, they're in the midst of this abusive relationship and their minds racing, they want out, but they're stuck.
Shuler would ask what the person wants and what their end goal is, then help identify the biggest obstacle and consider what they need to do to get past it.
378. Re-Release - Bruce Lost His Daughter to Officer-Involved Domestic Violence
Q: What are the warning signs of a dating relationship that could turn abusive?
Bieber describes relationships that accelerate too quickly, love bombing, attempts to isolate a partner, and escalating coercion and control as warning signs.
378. Re-Release - Bruce Lost His Daughter to Officer-Involved Domestic Violence
Q: What do you propose we do about officer-involved domestic violence?
Bieber wants Florida to update and revive its model policy and training program for law enforcement, with funding and mandatory adoption to improve response and accountability.
399. Michele Locke interviews Bill Mitchell for the "LoveLustLaw" Podcast
Q: How can we help them see? How can we help them take the rose-colored glasses off?
Locke recommends framing the conversation through a loved one's perspective, such as asking what they would want for their child in a similar relationship, while listening without blame and offering support.
399. Michele Locke interviews Bill Mitchell for the "LoveLustLaw" Podcast
Q: When you share their story, what is your intent behind being the platform for these survivors to share their story?
Mitchell sees himself as a conduit for survivors who want to tell their stories. Sharing can be cathartic for survivors and can help listeners recognize danger and feel less alone.

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What is WHEN DATING HURTS about and what kind of topics does it cover?

Interviews with survivors, family members, advocates and professionals examine dating abuse and domestic violence, with a focus on how coercive control develops and how people can recognize warning signs. Host Bill Mitchell, whose daughter was killed by an abusive partner, brings personal experience to conversations about survivor stories, prevention, accountability and recovery. Solo educational episodes complement guest interviews with practical guidance on safety planning, supporting someone in an abusive relationship, and finding professional resources.

The subject matter is often intense and includes firsthand accounts of violence, trauma and loss. The distinctive emphasis is on the gradual patterns of abuse, the risks involved in lea... more

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1. Tara Shuler
2. Chynna Ratner
3. Bruce Bieber
4. Michele Locke
5. Callie O'Reilly
6. Patricia Gordon Stevens
7. Sunshine Faye
8. Lisa Ortiz

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