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WHEN DATING HURTS

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A "must-listen-to" podcast on dating abuse and domestic violence, also known as intimate partner violence. . Hosted by Bill Mitchell, author of the memoir, WHEN DATING HURTS (Amazon), this book is about the murder of his daughter by her ex-boyfriend. Bill and his wife, Michele, lost Kristin to dating violence. She was brutally murdered in June 2005, just 20 days after her college graduation. FACT:... more

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This story comes with many warnings. There are descriptions of cruel violence, rape, and trauma bonding.

If listening to this episode becomes too intense, stop and do what is best for you.

This is part two of a two-part interview.

Rebecca Lazzelle... more

This story comes with many warnings. There are descriptions of cruel violence, rape, and trauma bonding.

If listening to this episode becomes too intense, stop and do what is best for you.

This is part one of a two-part interview.

Rebecca Lazzelle... more

This is a blend of survivor-centered education, psychology, and clear red-flag guidance. And it's all grounded in research.

We call this: Spyware - Detection and Removal.

This is not an interview with a survivor. It is not red flags wrapped into a ... more

This is part two of a two-part story with Katie. Be sure you are ready to hear this story. As it proceeds, you will be hearing about horribly abusive physical violence and actual torture... Trigger warnings need to be expressed due to both the conten... more

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Rebecca Lazzelle
Author, retreat host, and energy healing practitioner
What the F*** Was That? memoir; energy healing practice
Episode: 382. Rebecca Lazzelle - Pt 2 of 2 Pts - Surviving Financial Abuse, Emotional Betrayal & Near-Fatal Violence
Jen Lee
Survivor, author of Why I Survived; host of I Need Blue podcast
I Need Blue / The Healing in Sharing
Episode: 375. Re-Release - Jen Lee - A Survivor’s Story of Dating Abuse, Emotional Trauma, and Recovery
Shael Norris
Founding Executive Director of SafeBAE
SafeBAE
Episode: 368. Shael Norris - Exec. Dir. "SafeBAE" - Youth-led Nonprofit Stopping Sexual Violence
Jena Jake
Licensed therapist, certified coach, author, and compatibility strategist
Self-employed/Clinical practice
Episode: 363. Jena Jake - Understanding Attraction Patterns & Warning Signs in Abusive Relationships
Megan Margherio
Author of Everwoven, survivor of childhood abuse and abusive marriage
Author, Everwoven
Episode: 361. Megan Margherio - Pt 1 of 2 Pts - "Everwoven": Overcoming Stepbrother Abuse & Abusive Marriage
Bill Mitchell
Author of WHEN DATING HURTS memoir and host of WHEN DATING HURTS Podcast
Self/WHEN DATING HURTS
Episode: 360. Bill Mitchell's Appearance on "This Is Actually Happening" Podcast
Julia Strong
Survivor of domestic abuse and author
Self/Author
Episode: 345. Julia - Pt 2 of 2 Pts. - Love Bombing to Gaslighting: A Canadian Survivor’s Toxic Ex-Husband Story
Tricia Gray
Author of A Lotus Legacy; survivor and advocate
Author, Advocate
Episode: 343. Tricia Gray: From Trauma to Triumph – The Inspiring Story Behind "The Lotus Legacy" Memoir
Anna Astwood
Survivor of teen dating violence; founder of Love Doesn't Hurt
Love Doesn't Hurt
Episode: Rereleasing - 218. Anna Astwood - Pt 1 of 2 - Once a Dating Violence Victim. Today, an Active Survivor.

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Bill Mitchell
Host of the show; author of a memoir about the murder of his daughter related to dating violence; frequently interviews survivors, clinicians, and advocates.
Whit Missildine
Host on related survivor-focused program; contributes to interview style and survivor storytelling.

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4.7 out of 5 stars from 744 ratings
  • Thoughtful and sensitive

    I have a lot of respect for Bill’s commitment to honouring survivors and spreading awareness on intimate partner abuse. Having listened to a lot of episodes it’s really helpful to hear those emerging patterns that typify these dynamics, regardless of the abuser or type of abuse being perpetrated. Bill handles these thoughtfully and I’m grateful for his work in this sphere.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    diminutiveaurochs
    United Kingdoma month ago
  • Love it! (Volume issues tho)

    I love the details and information! Bill is kind and down to earth dSD who just wants to find out and help others learn the signs of potential violence/red flags. Only concern is the volume on the podcast is quiet and the commercials are DEAFENING 🤪 I am only in 2024 episodes so maybe it gets better?

    Thanks!

    Apple Podcasts
    4
    AlexSchmit Review
    United States5 months ago
  • Love the content, but….

    So glad you removed the three episodes about the “reformed” domestic abuser - I wouldn’t even listen to them because we KNOW they don’t change.

    Also, you need a better editor!!! There are so many parts repeated or out of order, on so many episodes, that it makes it hard to follow. The most recent episode just ends abruptly, mid sentence!!

    So annoying - but I do love the content and can relate to a lot of these survivor’s stories.

    Apple Podcasts
    4
    LTMFBH
    United States9 months ago
  • Oddly Comforting and Very Important to Educate All of Us

    I can’t remember how I found this podcast, but it’s been healing for me to hear so many others’ stories. I think I find a bit (or more than a bit) of myself in every episode. It is such a worthy project. Super job.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    O. My. Words
    United States10 months ago
  • Healing

    This podcast has been very healing for me as a survivor myself. Even after being out for 3 years I still question if it was abusive and man listening to these stories makes me realize 100% that it was. It’s important for victims to know they are not alone. Thanks❤️

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Meegs73
    United Statesa year ago

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377. Re-Release - Katie - Pt 2 of 2 - Escalation to Emotional, Physical, and Near‑Fatal Violence
Q: What is Mark doing at this moment, do you think?
Katie describes seeing him running after her and then being separated; she explains that he avoided entering the pizza shop when pursued and that law enforcement later found him in the apartment.
361. Megan Margherio - Pt 1 of 2 Pts - "Everwoven": Overcoming Stepbrother Abuse & Abusive Marriage
Q: Where do you want to start?
Megan explains that the starting point is to provide context for how she ended up in the situation, emphasizing the contrast between her idyllic upbringing and the real dangers she faced, which sets the stage for the rest of her story.
354. Anna Astwood Speaks about Her New Book, "But He Said He Loved Me"
Q: What were your intentions when you began writing your manuscript?
Anna explains that writing was a process of processing her experiences, healing, and ultimately reaching out to help others recognize warning signs and seek safety, turning personal trauma into a resource for survivors and educators.
344. Julia - Pt 1 of 2 Pts. - Love Bombing to Gaslighting: A Canadian Survivor’s Toxic Ex-Husband Story
Q: Tell me more about the voice and how he used it to manipulate you.
He would switch between a deep, seductive voice and a normal tone, using that constant shift to assert dominance and throw people off balance, making the relationship feel intimate and predestined while masking true intentions.
356. Rereleasing Erin's Story - Pt 2 of 2 Pts - The Nightmare of Escaping Charlie's Demands & Total Control
Q: Do you reach out to a domestic violence agency, or are you reaching out for help in any possible way, or you just don't have time to access opportunities for that?
Erin explains she initially felt paralyzed by fear and guilt, but eventually understood she needed official help and a formal plan, including police and shelter support, to protect herself and her child.

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A focusing point for dating violence and intimate partner violence, this show centers survivor stories, expert insights, and practical guidance on recognizing red flags, seeking safety, and healing. Across episodes, listeners hear first-person accounts of grooming, stalking, coercive control, ghosting, and trauma bonding, paired with guidance from clinicians, advocates, and law-enforcement perspectives. The host frequently weaves in resources, safety planning, and calls to action for prevention, education, and survivor empowerment, making it useful for professionals assembling outreach, sponsorship, or collaboration opportunities around DV awareness and prevention.

Noteworthy is the emphasis on real-world prevention education (e.g., youth-... more

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1. Rebecca Lazzelle
2. Jen Lee
3. Shael Norris
4. Jena Jake
5. Megan Margherio
6. Bill Mitchell
7. Julia Strong
8. Tricia Gray

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