
A "must-listen-to" podcast on dating abuse and domestic violence, also known as intimate partner violence. . Hosted by Bill Mitchell, author of the memoir, WHEN DATING HURTS (Amazon), this book is about the murder of his daughter by her ex-boyfriend. Bill and his wife, Michele, lost Kristin to dating violence. She was brutally murdered in June 2005, just 20 days after her college graduation. FACT:... more
| Publishes | Twice weekly | Episodes | 335 | Founded | 5 years ago |
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| Number of Listeners | Categories | RelationshipsSociety & CultureParentingKids & Family | |||

Coercive Control.
This episode is a blend of survivor-centered education, psychology, and clear red-flag guidance. And it's all grounded in research.
We call this: What You Need to Know About Coercive Control.
This is not an interview with a survi... more
Escalation.
This episode is me talking with you.
It is a blend of survivor-centered education, psychology, and clear red-flag guidance. And it's all grounded in research.
Let's call this: What You Need to Know About Escalation.
This is not an int... more
Content Warning & Disclaimer
Please proceed with caution. This episode may be highly triggering for survivors of abuse and trauma. Listener discretion is strongly advised.
Anne offered to tell her story to us.
An army veteran, Anne found herself f... more
Content Warning & Disclaimer
These stories contain detailed accounts of emotional abuse, psychological abuse, and narcissistic abuse. They include descriptions of alcohol and drug misuse.
Please proceed with caution. This episode may be highly trig... more
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I love the details and information! Bill is kind and down to earth dSD who just wants to find out and help others learn the signs of potential violence/red flags. Only concern is the volume on the podcast is quiet and the commercials are DEAFENING 🤪 I am only in 2024 episodes so maybe it gets better?
Thanks!
So glad you removed the three episodes about the “reformed” domestic abuser - I wouldn’t even listen to them because we KNOW they don’t change.
Also, you need a better editor!!! There are so many parts repeated or out of order, on so many episodes, that it makes it hard to follow. The most recent episode just ends abruptly, mid sentence!!
So annoying - but I do love the content and can relate to a lot of these survivor’s stories.
I can’t remember how I found this podcast, but it’s been healing for me to hear so many others’ stories. I think I find a bit (or more than a bit) of myself in every episode. It is such a worthy project. Super job.
This podcast has been very healing for me as a survivor myself. Even after being out for 3 years I still question if it was abusive and man listening to these stories makes me realize 100% that it was. It’s important for victims to know they are not alone. Thanks❤️
I’m two episodes in (starting from newer episodes) and all of the laughter from the guests when describing this is distracting. Maybe it’s nervous laughter, or embarrassing recounting these memories.
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The show centers on dating violence and intimate partner violence, featuring survivor stories, expert insights, and practical guidance for safety, healing, and advocacy. Episodes weave personal narratives with analysis from clinicians, law enforcement, and victim advocates, highlighting coercive control, gaslighting, red flags, legal hurdles, and pathways to resilience. A standout aspect is the consistent focus on education and empowerment, turning deeply traumatic experiences into actionable takeaways for listeners who want to recognize abuse, support others, or pursue safety and justice. The series frequently spotlights survivors who become advocates, therapists, or authors, offering a hopeful lens on recovery and accountability while add... more
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