Doing It Together: Making Sense of Low Libido, Sex, and Intimacy in Marriage.
Janna Denton-Howes: Marriage Coach | Sex Educator | Low Libido ExpertDoing It Together is about empowering women and men to heal from cultural messages so that they can discover true pleasure and connection in their sexual relationship and marriage. This podcast addresses the common dynamic in a heterosexual relationship in which the wife doesn’t want and enjoy sex and the husband does.Too often, the focus is placed on labels like “low libido” and “low sex drive” w... more
| Publishes | Weekly | Episodes | 176 | Founded | 4 years ago |
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| Number of Listeners | Categories | RelationshipsHealth & FitnessSociety & CultureSexuality | |||
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When a couple can meet each other with non-judgmental empathy, it draws you closer to each other. Nobody is shamed, questioned or put down and it leads to a deeper intimacy.
This is the power of mutual vulnerability and it’s one of the bedrocks of a... more
In my work, I highlight the terrible things that gender inequality does to a couple’s sexual relationship but it extends far beyond the bedroom impacting connection, financial health, individual happiness, physical health, and, ultimately, relationsh... more
After decades of quiet frustration in their sex life, DeeDee and her husband made a bold decision: they would burn their “traditional” sex life to the ground and rebuild something that actually worked for them.
For most of her life, DeeDee struggled... more
This episode provides an update on what Janna and her husband are working on in their sex life. Both talk about how anxiety affects their sexual experience in different ways.
Janna shares her anxieties about:
• trying to have an orgasm and it not p... more
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- Learning so much!
This is a podcast I’ve listened to for a long time and never knew how to discuss it with others. It sounded like it was all about S€X and I didn’t know where to go with that. Now I’m in Janna’s course and I see that it is SO MUCH MORE! Learning about communication, equity and equality in the relationship, vulnerability, etc etc. at the risk of sounding hyperbolic, this podcast has changed my life.
Apple Podcasts5joannacicc
United States18 days ago - Listening, Learning, and Truly Understanding Wife’s Desire,19 yr relationship
This podcast does an incredible job of breaking down women’s sexual desire in a way that’s honest, respectful, and easy to understand. It explains how desire isn’t just physical, but deeply connected to emotions, safety, stress levels, and feeling seen and valued. Listening to this helped me understand why desire can fluctuate and how important patience, communication, and trust really are. It changed the way I listen, respond, and show up for my partner, and that understanding has made our conn... more
Apple Podcasts5craig*sUnited States2 months ago - Divorce? Janna is a fraud!
Janna is a fraud!
My wife and I took her class 3 years ago, didn’t help at all. We are now with a certified therapist and this is helping.
We had a men’s group that we created a text group. We have tracked our group of about 50 couples and after taking Janna’s course 75% of the couples are now divorced? Janna should survey her past participants and I wonder if this is common, 75% divorce rates after taking her course.
She withheld information on her divorce for 2 years, and continues to do hat... more
Apple Podcasts1Just_Glad_To_Be_HereUnited States4 months ago - Amazing
It’s amazing to me the difference between a Godly marriage podcast and one that is not. Women- do better. I’m a woman. We need to do better. I listened to the Lisa episodes incredulously. How can we justify hurting our men this way? I just don’t know. But this is NOT where it’s at for me. I’ve been married for 27 years and I broke my man with a sexless marriage and I hate myself for it. Women, search your heart. Our men our hurting. They are working in a thankless world to make a life for them a... more
Apple Podcasts1NoThankYouImDoneUnited States5 months ago - Where “Do the work” finally clicked
This podcast sparked me on a journey to become a better husband, a better father, and better man.
This podcast is for any man who has peeked into Reddit’s deadbedrooms or various redpill subs, any man who has found their marriage unrecognizable after an adult ADHD diagnosis, any man who uses porn as a substitute for marital intimacy, or any man who simply thinks “why are other men’s wives giving them sex all the time and I don’t get any?”
This podcast is for that man’s wife, too.
Your wife is... more
Apple Podcasts5reese_785United States8 months ago
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Apple Podcasts | #105 | United States/Health & Fitness/Sexuality |
Apple Podcasts | #55 |  Canada/Health & Fitness/Sexuality |
Apple Podcasts | #175 |  United Kingdom/Health & Fitness/Sexuality |
Apple Podcasts | #137 |  Australia/Health & Fitness/Sexuality |
Apple Podcasts | #15 |  United Arab Emirates/Health & Fitness/Sexuality |
Apple Podcasts | #116 |  New Zealand/Health & Fitness/Sexuality |
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What is This Podcast about and what kind of topics does it cover?
Doing It Together explores practical, evidence-informed guidance for improving intimacy, communication, and equity within heterosexual marriages. Episodes frequently center on how gender norms, emotional safety, and mutual care shape sexual desire and everyday partnership, offering tools to reduce pressure, expand cognitive and emotional labor sharing, and foster genuine connection. Noteworthy is the program's willingness to address sensitive topics—such as porn use, consent, and cultural expectations—through expert guests, personal testimonies, and actionable frameworks, including structured conversations and intimacy-reset approaches that aim to empower both partners without guilt or obligation. This mix of research-backed concepts, real-... more
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