Relationship Renovation: Why Couples Get Stuck & How They Find Their Way Back
EJ and Tarah KerwinWhy do couples who love each other keep getting pulled into the same painful patterns?
Why does a simple conversation suddenly become a fight? Why does one partner pursue while the other pulls away? Why can an argument be over and yet somehow you still don’t feel okay with each other?
For nearly a decade, married couple and licensed therapists Tarah and E.J. Kerwin have been exploring those questi... more
| Publishes | Weekly | Episodes | 296 | Founded | 8 years ago |
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| Number of Listeners | Categories | RelationshipsHealth & FitnessMental HealthSociety & Culture | |||
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You talked it through. You didn’t blow up. You actually reached a resolution.
So why does it still feel weird between you?
This week, we had a difficult conversation after our kids left for school. And honestly, we handled it pretty well. We stayed... more
“Why are we STILL dealing with this?”
If you've ever had the same argument with your partner for what feels like the hundredth time, you may have wondered whether all the work you're doing is actually making a difference.
We had one of those moment... more
What happens when reaching for your partner no longer feels safe?
There was a period in our marriage when EJ stopped initiating sex completely.
It wasn't punishment. It wasn't giving up. We made the decision together because our sexual relationship... more
What if staying connected didn’t require another thing on your calendar?
For busy couples, “date night” can start to feel like one more responsibility—find a babysitter, make a reservation, figure out what to do, and somehow find the energy to actua... more
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I would highly recommend for anyone looking to improve their relationship. Podcasts are insightful, educational, and relatable. They also provide a wealth of knowledge to be gained.
Apple Podcasts5B_RealMadrid
United States16 days ago - The support your marriage needs!
You don’t have to feel like you’re a team on your own. EJ and Tarah are helping partnerships find better ways to communicate through both the hard and hilarious parts of life. So grateful for these conversations!
Apple Podcasts5MZKelly1107United States2 months ago - Thank You
Thank you to ALL your amazing comments and reviews, we feel so grateful to be able to help couples globally learn the skills necessary to thrive in relationships. We know from our own experience that building emotional safety during difficult times is extreme difficult and we are here to support you the whole way
Apple Podcasts5Relationship Renovation TarahUnited States5 months ago - Hopeful, encouraging, relatable!!
Thank you both. I found your podcast a month ago at a very dark time in our relationship. I was so lost, confused and hurting. This has given me tools, helpful insights and hope for a better future with my wife of 23 years. We are still working to rebuild, together. A light in the darkness. Keep up the great work! You are helping us find a way.
Apple Podcasts5Better husband 2.0United States6 months ago - Hopeful and uplifting approach
I end up sharing almost every episode I listen to because I want everyone to be able to cultivate the kind of intentional, trusting, and joyful relationships that this podcast is bound to inspire. I’m so grateful for such an honest and uplifting resource among all my daily news podcast listens that make me feel like a roomba in a dumpster
Apple Podcasts5Brooklyn11111United States7 months ago
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A relationship-focused show led by two licensed therapists who are a real-life couple. Episodes center on improving communication, rebuilding trust, and expanding both emotional and physical intimacy, often weaving personal anecdotes with practical exercises and actionable strategies. Recurring themes include emotional safety, handling conflict without defensiveness, managing stress related to parenting or life transitions, and navigating intimacy with curiosity and care. A standout aspect is the integration of therapy tools into everyday life, plus destination-style retreats and ongoing coaching that offer deeper, structured guidance for couples seeking lasting connection.
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5. Relationships Made Easy
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1. EJ Kerwin
2. Dr. Lee Baucom
3. Dr. Ariana Sholes-Douglas
4. Arianna Sholes-Douglas
5. Dr. Dan Peters
6. Dr. Stan Tatkin
7. Dan Purcell
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