
You love each other. So why does the same fight keep happening?
Married therapists Tarah and EJ Kerwin help couples understand the patterns behind recurring arguments, emotional distance, and struggles with intimacy—and explore how to respond differently.
Drawing on their own marriage, their work with couples, and relationship science, they bring honest conversations and practical tools to communi... more
| Publishes | Twice weekly | Episodes | 308 | Founded | 8 years ago |
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| Number of Listeners | Categories | RelationshipsHealth & FitnessMental HealthSociety & Culture | |||

What if the way you protect yourself during conflict is actually pushing your partner away? In this episode, EJ and Tarah Kerwin explore how childhood experiences shape our reactions in adult relationships, why old coping strategies can create emotio... more
What if anxiety isn't the enemy, but your body's way of telling you something needs attention? In this episode, EJ and Tarah sit down with Dr. Nicole Cain, author of Panic Proof, to explore how anxiety affects relationships, why it can show up as ang... more
What happens when you finally make time for each other, only to walk away feeling more disconnected than before? In this episode, EJ and Tarah Kerwin share a date night that went sideways and explore how unspoken expectations and different emotional ... more
What if real strength isn't about having everything figured out, but about being honest, accountable, and willing to grow? In this episode, Tarah sits down with EJ Kerwin to explore the heart behind Men Who Do the Work, a community helping men build ... more
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At 40 years of marriage I can only say it would have been a vastly different 40 years if we had the skills we learned from Tarah and EJ from the start. I highly recommend their at home course for all couples before marriage. If your partner is not willing or interested in doing it - I would say that is a good sign of what is ahead for your relationship. Good relationships start with love and attraction but are built and grow with the skills taught here. Don’t wait until you need them to save a... more
I would highly recommend for anyone looking to improve their relationship. Podcasts are insightful, educational, and relatable. They also provide a wealth of knowledge to be gained.
You don’t have to feel like you’re a team on your own. EJ and Tarah are helping partnerships find better ways to communicate through both the hard and hilarious parts of life. So grateful for these conversations!
Thank you to ALL your amazing comments and reviews, we feel so grateful to be able to help couples globally learn the skills necessary to thrive in relationships. We know from our own experience that building emotional safety during difficult times is extreme difficult and we are here to support you the whole way
Thank you both. I found your podcast a month ago at a very dark time in our relationship. I was so lost, confused and hurting. This has given me tools, helpful insights and hope for a better future with my wife of 23 years. We are still working to rebuild, together. A light in the darkness. Keep up the great work! You are helping us find a way.
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Married therapists Tarah and EJ Kerwin combine relationship science, couples-work experience, and candid accounts of their own marriage to explain why partners get stuck in recurring conflict and how they can reconnect. Their conversations focus on emotional safety, communication, trust, intimacy, stress, anxiety, and the family patterns that shape how people respond to one another. They translate these themes into practical tools, reflection prompts, and repair strategies, often using specific situations from their relationship to show how the ideas work in everyday life.
Episodes alternate between conversations led by the couple and interviews with specialists, including therapists and authors. The approach is distinctive for treating re... more
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Recent guests on this podcast include:
1. Nicole Cain
2. Brooke Bralove
3. EJ Kerwin
4. Dr. Lee Baucom
5. Dr. Ariana Sholes-Douglas
6. Arianna Sholes-Douglas
7. Dr. Dan Peters
8. Dr. Stan Tatkin
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