望山与函初
望山与函初持续、诚实的对话，是关系和自我共同成长的一部分。记录1000次夫妻对话冒险中。
| Publishes | Daily | Episodes | 78 | Founded | 5 months ago |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Language |  ZH-CN | Number of Listeners | Category | Leisure |
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函初叫望山的堂哥"您"，望山觉得别扭。她改口说"你"，自己又心虚得不行。一个字的事，两个人各自不舒服，谁也说服不了谁。这集从这个微妙的家庭称谓困境出发，一路聊到"您"字背后那层你以为是礼貌、实际是权力关系的底色——北京人的本能、东北人的不适、以及我们所有人从小被塞进去的那个尊卑结构。
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01:46 跟望山堂哥说"你"，我居然心虚了
02:44 用"您"的时候，大部分时候是在展现某种权力关系
03:00 "您"这个字，就是把"你"放在"我"的心上面
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朋友圈一夜之间被SBTI刷屏，函初测了，望山连点都不想点。她想聊的其实不是测试结果，是一个一直以来的困惑——为什么他对这一整类东西都无感？这一集没有结论，倒是聊出了一个更有意思的夹角：当你身边大多数人都乐于用某个新符号定义自己，那个坚持不被定义的人，到底是清醒，还是扫兴。
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00:49 她说要不你也测一下，他哼了一声
02:26 你会take it seriously吗
07:55 看荣格原著比测出自己是谁更有用
08:34 大部分人其实并不需要真的认... more
这集夫妻对话的起点是一部电影——《挽救计划》，Project Hail Mary。但聊着聊着我们发现，真正让我们俩都被打动的，不是它讲了一个拯救地球的故事，而是它讲这个故事的方式不苦大仇深。一个不太想去的主角，一只石头虫子，两艘在宇宙深处相遇的飞船，先交换了一罐小礼物，然后才开始说话。看完之后我们一直在想：什么时候开始，"轻"变成了一种稀缺品质。
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00:56 挽救计划这名字，起得不太好
05:22 书的前三分之一有点读不进去，还好坚持了
09:17 它不是英雄片，是一部科... more
小时候推开门一句"走，出去玩"，就能玩一下午——可你现在回头想，到底在玩啥？说不上来。这一集我们从录播间窗外小孩的喊叫声开始，一路聊回各自的童年：寄宿长大、没怎么"野"过的函初，和东北雪地里匍匐前进的望山。聊着聊着发现一件事——长大以后，那句"走，出去玩"，我们已经喊不出来了。
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00:50 那帮小孩到底在玩啥，谁也说不清
02:13 我一直觉得自己是个不太会玩的人
03:17 暴露一下，望山其实也怕虫子
05:18 望山的隐藏技能：跟女生跳皮筋
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函初在法国住过三年，望山没去过欧洲。这集像两个人重新谈了一次恋爱——一个人问，一个人答，把"想象中的法国"和"真正生活过的法国"一层层摆到一起看。脏乱和浪漫贴得极近，最精细的语言长在最随性的人身上，落差里留下的东西，比任何一种滤镜都更有质地。
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01:40｜香榭丽舍其实并没有落叶
02:53｜美的那面和脏乱的那面贴得极近
05:26｜学生证免费逛卢浮宫的那几年
08:23｜前两天录着录着，就吵崩了
09:46｜Chanel只有法国老太太穿才好看
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怕自恋，所以不发自拍——但望山说，这个担忧本身，可能才是更深的自恋。
从一张没敢拍的大脸，聊到精神自拍、性情与性格、以及一套藏在"我得先有价值才配展示自己"背后的功利性人生逻辑。这集没有结论，但有几句话可能会刺到你。
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02:34 播客做了七十三集，他从没转发给朋友圈的朋友们看过
03:49 警惕自恋这件事本身，是不是一种更深的自恋
09:23 他发文字不羞耻，发大脸会——他想通了为什么
16:32 罗振宇的厉害不在内容，在用生命持续做一件事
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有意思的问题不是"法国好还是美国好"，而是：为什么两个人回忆自己的留学岁月，一个说"梦幻"，一个说"感觉自己很胖"？更有意思的是，聊到最后你会发现，我们其实都没在怀念那个地方——怀念的是那几年，那个世界还没有这么多纷争与龃龉的时候。一档关于留学的琐碎闲聊，聊着聊着聊成了时代感。
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01:47 一个前法国留子，一个前美国留子
02:18 我说梦幻，不是因为法国梦幻
05:34 我在那边的感受，只能用"胖"来形容
12:03 给我留了门，我却尴尬地跑起来了... more
我们最近看完了美剧《怒呛人生》（BEEF），一部用荒诞喜剧包裹着锐利内核的作品——两个在美国挣扎求存的亚裔，一次路怒擦枪走火，逐渐演变成两个人命运的相互缠绕与毁损。
看这剧的感受很复杂：有时觉得太抓马、有时觉得太真实，有时会生气，有时又会被某句台词击中，想了很久。
这集，我们聊的不只是这部剧，更是它背后那个说不清、摸不着、但又压在很多人身上的东西——那种"empty but solid"的文化之壳，以及在那壳里生长出来的愤恨、委屈、和那口总是找不到地方出的气。
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