望山与函初
望山与函初持续、诚实的对话，是关系和自我共同成长的一部分。记录1000次夫妻对话冒险中。
| Publishes | Daily | Episodes | 90 | Founded | 7 months ago |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Language |  ZH-CN | Number of Listeners | Category | Leisure |
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看完《给阿嬷的情书》，开车回家的路上函初就开始说不满意的地方，望山就开始往波士顿Chinatown的记忆里走。两个人各自被不同的东西击中，但都不想先睡觉。到家衣服没脱就录了这一集。
00:48 望山给出的第一个定性：它是"好东西的范围"
02:10 函初对巧合设定的不满意——印度人放火、邮递员落水，她觉得太刻意了
05:42 函初说她想要的那个故事：两个阿嬷在清醒时相认
08:13 很多人在讨论女性主义，但望山觉得导演想说的是情义——不涉及性别
09:15 这部电影... more
函初在儿童节前问了望山一个问题：你希望孩子是个痛苦的天才，还是幸福的傻蛋？两个人各选一边，意料之中。但意料之外的是，望山在回答的过程中把自己聊进去了——他分享自己对痛苦有某种迷恋，自己的二元思维一直在自我限制，名字"望山"本身就是这个困境的隐喻。最后他给出的答案，已经不在原来那个二选一的框里了。
00:08 函初的灵魂提问：痛苦的天才还是幸福的傻蛋？
01:28 "天将降大任于斯人也"——古代鸡汤还是因果倒置？
03:21 不够天才的天赋其实是一种诅咒
05:20 如果左右都痛苦，那我希... more
函初下载了一款语音输入法，看到"需要开放所有系统权限"的那一刻犹豫了。一个关于效率的小决定，聊着聊着变成了一个关于表达的大问题：当说话比打字快，当工具替你简化，那些在打字时被迫停下来想一想的瞬间，是被解放了，还是被省略了？
00:07 函初的犹豫：语音输入法要开放所有权限，到底该不该给
02:12 智能ABC、五笔字型——一波古早输入法的代际回忆杀
03:28 "它有点像算盘的存在——很难学，但学会了就哗啦哗啦"
05:13 望山的安全观：上亿人用的产品，厂商比你更怕出事
08:33 ... more
写给你，但其实写给自己——望山在这集里坦白了这件事。写了二三十首之后写不下去，不是因为爱得不够，而是幸福的爱情本身没有多少可写的张力。他花了好几年才发现，那个收信人叫"你"的诗集，里面真正的读者一直是他自己。
望山一边自嘲"自恋"和"矫情"，一边其实在做一次十年创作历程的坦诚自我暴露。而函初在这一集里的角色也很有意思——她早就知道那首《星尘》"不是专门写给我"，却一直没说破。
00:53 《星尘》朗读：2021年8月，在存在主义的状态里，写给还没在一起的函初
02:14 《树叶》朗读：20... more
两年前溢价2000元买了一台"智商税"相机理光GR3x，两年后发现定义错了问题。不是这台相机不够专业，是"追求专业"本身就是个伪命题——真正重要的从来不是参数，而是你愿不愿意随时掏出来按下快门。望山承认了自己的狭隘，函初用6万次快门给出了自己的回答。
这集的核心不是产品测评，也不是消费主义辩论。真正有意思的地方在于：望山用两年时间发现自己当初的判断框架本身就是问题——他不是"判断错了一个产品"，而是"用错了判断的维度"。他以为自己在理性评估一台相机的性价比，其实他在用自己的工具化逻辑去框定函初... more
这期聊了将近四十分钟，但最后让望山停住的不是函初的任何一个反驳，是他自己说出来的那句话——"我追求那种真的东西，是不是也带着某种傲慢呢？" 求真的姿态和傲慢之间，原来只有一条他自己也说不清楚的线。
00:22 每次更新节目，最难的部分是起标题
02:21 "审美是流量的敌人"——函初的经验
05:20 这个播客不是罐头，连我们自己都不知道会聊出什么
06:50 我希望标题能找到真正跟我们合拍的人
09:06 算法已经不是中介了，它是某种真正意义上的代理人
12:42 这叫起标题的内卷... more
机场传送带上有个人挡了路，函初会说"劳驾借过"，望山会站在后面等三十秒。这个微小的分歧打开了一个不小的话题：你在社会里是先放低姿态释放善意，还是先亮出边界展现力量？望山在这集里做了一次少见的自我解剖——承认自己那套"先成全别人"的方式可能并不健康，而函初用结果说话：边界清晰的人，活得更轻松，想要的也没少得到。
01:25 机场传送带上的三十秒——函初说"借过"，望山选择等
03:50 函初的一个特点：我要让社会适应我
06:40 打一开始就把对方当弱者照料——这是不健康... more
一声"阿姨"说出口，对方的脸色变了。望山当年在波士顿苹果店里想表达的是善意，结果却是错位。称谓这件事难就难在，双方都怀着好意，但各自生活的语言体系、文化坐标、自我认知并不对齐。这一集从几个具体的故事出发——当年波士顿的“阿姨”、胡同里的邻居刘叔彭阿姨、搬家货拉拉工人的那句"你不用老说谢谢"——一路聊到一个望山自己也没完全想通的问题：到底用谁的语言去尊重，用谁的标准去衡量合适？
00:55 当年波士顿苹果店，一声"阿姨"让对方变了脸
03:41 函初：女性从来都没有那么喜欢变老，这不是近些年的... more
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